Bad bini kid.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Marry a woman that loves me more

To all my real niggarz
If you finally decide to change your mind and marry...then please marry the woman that loves you more....he get why...

When a woman loves....she loves for real

And thier sympathetic and empathy hormones will circulate and increase the more
Any little thing they will easily forgive you..they will never mount pressure on you

You must be a real niggar....you are very correct...right hand on keyboard and left hand on my weed anyday anytime twice on Thursday...key board warrior for a reason

The one that I love that loves me...no time for nonsense love manage

I have read every post .d most important things 4 u as a guy is to face ur hustle and make huge money.banny will surely come then u we find ur true love i swear

The virtue of true love is not finding the perfect person, but loving the imperfect person perfectly .

@op.
I'm in love with this topic.
But I have something to ask, I would have love you to attach to this content so we can also see other people opinion, because I see that majority of people wants to go for who love them more.
Girls want aa guy who love them more, while men wants girls who live them more... Life no balance.
Now my question is

You that want to marry the person who love you more... What if you don't really love the person that much.

WARNING TO BOTH MALE AND FEMALE!U MUST ONLY GET MARRIED TO A PARTNER THAT LOVES U!NOT THE ONE U LOVE!!

Iamajala:
All of the above. If she loves me but I no love her nko?

Very soon you will start falling in love with the person, it is a natural phenomenon.

Toks2008:
Lalasticlala what is your take?

Lalasticlala is still busy looking for snake to eat for breakfast

When a woman loves, she loves for real, with all of her and all her heart. She will respect and cherish you.

kayperry:




Yiimu! I like hearing those words and those ones that say "i don't do shit" ALOL !
Lemme guess, the only hard part of you will be the "high fence" you built ... sha know some men are climbers while some can afford a ladder

I am telling you the truth, you are telling me stories. I may just pretend to make you feel you passed the benchmark, but when I am done with you, so dumping you like a hot pot.

Toks2008:


If i did not lose my first child, he would have been 18 this year.

But i know he is in heaven right now.


Many aged people dey this forum o.

In about 20years from now, many of us who joined nairaland in our 30s or 40s will be in our 60s and we will still be nairalanders lol!

Thank GOD for life.

Comrade, sorry for your loss brother, yes he is in heaven.

Lindajames1010:
The one that love me...


Normally I don't intend to go into marriage becos of love .......

Love is weakness

Just marry who's ready

Then be ready for plenty heartache and headache.

You know why? He/she will never satisfy your longing or expectations.

Amarisco:
Oga go siddan. See how your thumbs are even throbbing

Don't worry. Your prayers will be answered very soon. As long as you are ready to stop following other women's horse-bands.

Menstruation:
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage .

We are most alive when we are in love. The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love.

There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved.

You must truly be on your period (menstration) to possess this wisdom

Nebes:


Your opinion is valid but a mother's love is very much different from the love seen between spouses.
In my experience, I am happy the way my wife loves and protects my children. But what a husband needs is affirmation of his authority in his family.
Because I love her, hurting her is never an option. A woman's love is fraught with inconsistencies--- mood swings amongst others. You can't rely on that.

Something tells me you will go far in Life


E get why..

Munzy14:

When a man is in love, a new mugu is born.

He will channel the energy created for him to use and provide, into foolishly following his woman about and stalking her moves here and there while being unnecessarily insecure.

Men express love with provision/giving..

It is left for the wife to love and pamper him like a king...While maintaining her stand as a queen.

Yes, a man goes for what he needs first and wants secondly...Even the bible made it clear a man will Find his wife..

But on this we are talking about that love and in regards to modern day reality..I swear if your man love you like that, it gets to a point his ways will irritate you..And you will be the one telling him to Man up.. mbanu na.

A man who loves you, will treat you right, that alone is an expression for us men..

Na wify the pamper her hubby...Your hubby is your first son. And men will always be boys atimes...it is so natural..

Check any guy that is your age mate in the place where you were raised as a kid..You will agree with me you look and act more matured and can handle stuffs better than most of the men in your age...Reason because women are trained to be care givers from tender age...

Most men comfortably call their wify mummy.. O wunu love ndi mummy ka ochoro na ahu nwunye ya..

From experience, I will prefer my wife love me more...Onwehu ihe m na agahu emere ya..Obi m di clean..As longer as no manipulation.

In return she gets the best treat I can give..And when a woman is treated well by her man, she is literally blind to other men advancing...

Lastly, a man can tell you he loves you 10times in one minute, but actually he is real with 3 or 4..

But if a woman open her mouth to tell a man she loves him, she is speaking from a deep place mainly..Pure wnd and undiluted...So with these epistles of love I hope I av convinced you and not confuse you..

Women have the bigger heart to love...Her love is the strength she uses to undergo Oga's pounding, nurse the offsprings and release them after 9months, do most of the upbringing work and maintain the hubby care and child care and manage the home till old age..Even while supporting her man with provision..

Unu nwe love biko...

Of course I will love my woman, but she will love me more..For real.

Read the male comments, you will agree we have a thing to have a woman who loves us more.

The rainy days are inevitable...Her love for her man keeps them going.

Epistle according to St Munzy.

Well, as long as you're the one that love and sought after her first, she will respond to your love, and even love you more.

Remember; the question is not about who loves more, but who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you?

UyaiIncomparabl:


I am telling you the truth, you are telling me stories. I may just pretend to make you feel you passed the benchmark, but when I am done with you, so dumping you like a hot pot.

i guess this is the part where i stop arguing with iron ladies, i just play along and smile on sheepily. have a nice day madam

Amarisco:


Shior - packaging plenty

You go like vawulence o

Toks2008:
Let me paraphrase this so that it can make more sense. Would you rather be with someone who wishes to be with another person? Because this is the case if you find yourself married to the one you love who does not love you and YES people marry without really wanting to be with the person they are married to.

This may sound so twisted but it is not at all. It is the dream of many people to be with someone they love who also loves them in return but we all know that this is seldom the case as we usually have the feelings tilted in one direction and as they say, the person who loves less in a relationship holds the power over the other.

I have met ladies who i love and i have met those who love me and i can tell you for a fact that these two categories are not in anyway alike.

When you love someone and they don't feel same way, you usually see yourself having to do more of the work to make it work and in most cases, you are taken for granted because the other person cares less if you stay or leave..

But when you are with someone you don't really desire but the person desires you, you will feel very uncomfortable at the beginning but there will be this serenity in your life with so much inner assurance that you are truly cherished and you will feel so alive and loved so much that you will inevitably start developing strong affection for the other person. (The beauty and the Beast is not just a fiction very realistic)

As a man, if you marry a lady who truly loves you, she will submit to you, cherish you, treat you like a king and will never see any reason to be with another man. And in like manner, if a woman marries a man who truly desires her,. he will treat her like a queen and cherish her all the days of his life.

YES i understand how twisted this sounds cos whether you choose the one you love that does not love you or you choose the one who loves you but you do not feel same way, the bottom line is that there is still an imbalance in the affection.

But be it as it may, you can never know how special you are until you meet someone who genuinely desires you and sometimes it is best to leave the one you love to be with the one who loves you because with time, you will realize you made the right decision.

So let us have your opinion.

The one that loves me is always first choice , so far as it's love and not just toxic obsession ( yes it doesn't just happen in movies) , because I know myself I'll grow to love a person once I can see that what they have for me is real .
I don't want to marry who I love more coz I'm not very good at keeping my fingers to myself and the men we know don't like when you like them too fast , too much , too easily or when you like them first .
I'm also a big sucker for pet pet love and that is more possible when he loves me more , the compliments , the sweet name calling , I love men who love to love , be masculine but don't bring it to me , there's one of my Bff's brother that has been trying to get me and this guy harsh die , he'll be crazy about you but in his crazy attempt to hide it he'll just be insulting you with play , something you will just say I'm fine , he will be like " you try fine today blackie"

But the time I gave this man that loved me q chance to have me , he wan use compliment finish me , just be staring at me and next thing I'll hear is " how do you always smell good ?" " I love this , I love that " I will do more because my bori will be sweering me
Abeg date who love you , it's easy to grow to love someone as a lady , most times the person you think you like is just infatuation and your feelings will exaggerate their appearance in reality they were not fine , it's when it fades that you'll see his real face

membranus:


Then be ready for plenty heartache and headache.

You know why? He/she will never satisfy your longing or expectations.

What are my expectations?
1. Procreation
2. Faithfulness

Medianna:


How you guys get yourselves in a love triangle is what I don't understand.

It's a long time something. We learn everyday.

Lindajames1010:

What are my expectations?
1. Procreation
2. Faithfulness

No. Marital peace and sensible companionship.

membranus:


No. Marital peace and sensible companionship.

Faithfulness is peace.... companionship isn't necessary

Lindajames1010:

Faithfulness is peace.... companionship isn't necessary

Agreed, until you get there. Then we will talk further.

Mariangeles:


Epistle according to St Munzy.

Well, as long as you're the one that love and sought after her first, she will respond to your love, and even love you more.

Remember; the question is not about who loves more, but who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you?

Exactly

I will marry who love me more.. Maka peace of mind mu na ya.

We all make mistakes, but the real mistake is
failure to learn from ones mistakes.











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oga forget your love for her is with a condition she is reserve but come to think if she try to replicate the lifestyle you leav whould you stick with her ......

marriage is not always a two way things most time one party tend to give more compare to other
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We all make mistakes, but the real mistake is
failure to learn from ones mistakes.


It takes two to tango, remember.







uote author=harjay1986 post=111739857]

oga forget your love for her is with a condition she is reserve but come to think if she try to replicate the lifestyle you leav whould you stick with her ......

marriage is not always a two way things most time one party tend to give more compare to other
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membranus:


Agreed, until you get there. Then we will talk further.

u sound like someone that have had bad experience

Tonytonex:
It's a long time something. We learn everyday.

Hmm! Yea

This is my first comment so far.

Remember, its the man who finds a wife that will obtain favour from God. For that reason, its better for the man to marry the woman he loves. As a woman, please marry the man that loves you. You might not love him from the start but with time, you will learn to love him because of his care and attentions because, men always cares for the women they love. But if a woman marries the man she loves, chei! she will always force herself to do things that will please the man and most times, the man will still not be pleased. Yeees! The man will get angry at every little provocation and it will get to a stage, the woman will be minding her choice of words while talking or chatting with the husband. There will be no free flow of thoughts between the man and the woman if the woman marries the man she loves. And most often, while the woman is working hard to please him, the man will be going out to please and care for the one he loves. So man, marry the woman you love and woman, marry the man that loves you. My candid opinion, no sentiments please. Thank you.

None... All na scam

Funny Question... Marry the one you love who also loves you back... It's a mutual thing
Infact, it's what our generation lacks and it's greatly affecting marriages of nowadays