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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by toprealman: 3:09am On Apr 14, 2022
Osinachi lives on.. she is a martyr.
May her death open the eyes of people ( men and women) in toxic relationships.
Physical or mental beating is not part of any marriage contract.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Lotoflaff: 3:18am On Apr 14, 2022
Its cool
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Desusi: 3:31am On Apr 14, 2022
Hmmm,its a pity you do not have spiritual eyes lady.Something may have pushed you to say yes to this man,peradventure MONEY.As a man with spiritual eyes and godly spirit this man is not having joy in him.He's possessed. Run for your life.Seek the face of God,there are godly men around. The lord will help you out.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by valentinos22(m): 3:33am On Apr 14, 2022
Aonkuuse:
I think this young lady have made the best choice for herself. She called off her wedding that supposed to hold on Saturday over her boyfriend's constant beatings

Read her story below:



https://www.facebook.com/100023344715047/posts/1125662428221904/?app=fbl

Incomplete stories everywhere... The part where u insult him, disrespect him or flirt with other guys are not documented here.
Or are u trying to make us believe he is mentally challenged?
Coz if he beats u without any provocation/offense/disrespect, then na yaba left be that oh..

My 2kobo: No man should lay a finger on any woman no matter the situation.. Just Look for better ways..
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by dasparrow: 3:38am On Apr 14, 2022
You did well Helen. A broken engagement is not a crime. We don't want your life to end like that of Sis Osinachi Nwachukwu. Stay away from narcissists and abusers. So many people grew up seeing their fathers beat up their mothers and hence repeat the same thing. Let's break the cycle of domestic violence.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Asswipemod: 3:43am On Apr 14, 2022
immortalcrown:
Okay. Next...

Leaving him is a good choice because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Good luck in your marriage. But the problem is most humans, especially women, are insatiable. You have left him. If he gets another woman or gets richer, you will begin to regret leaving him.

I like the fact that you publicized this. If you mess up in your marriage, your marriage will remember this publicity and do what will vindicate the man you accuse now.

Broken marriage ke? Abi broken bones or life.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by RosyIsBlessed: 3:48am On Apr 14, 2022
Wise decision.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by ireneidiva(f): 3:58am On Apr 14, 2022
immortalcrown:
Okay. Next...

Leaving him is a good choice because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Good luck in your marriage. But the problem is most humans, especially women, are insatiable. You have left him. If he gets another woman or gets richer, you will begin to regret leaving him.

I like the fact that you publicized this. If you mess up in your marriage, your marriage will remember this publicity and do what will vindicate the man you accuse now.
Your last paragraph is completely unnecessary. What do you mean by mess up in her marriage again?

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Parisian: 3:59am On Apr 14, 2022
Just like you need a little police brutality from SARS right?
cardoso514:
Dear young ladies,
Nigerian statistics,past and current show that young elligible young men shy away from marriage under the guide of harsh times but now with anew trend of toxic relaationships on the way to marriage,its now the turn of ladies to reverse the trend.
Lets pray for a new turn around.Not all men are wife beaters afterall some girls need some little beating to reset their brains

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Parisian: 4:02am On Apr 14, 2022
Go and wake Osinachi up and ask for her side of the story.
Ezebinaugwu:
Better for her, but we still need to hear your ex side of the story. Me no dey conclude with one sided story

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Parisian: 4:05am On Apr 14, 2022
Look at this animal.

Just go and marry your fellow man okay, cuz you don't deserve any woman.
bonnyhope:


And people will always listen to women first and pass judgement against men

Women these cannot even close their mouths

It takes absolute control to be with women at home without hitting them

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Onachiene1995(m): 4:24am On Apr 14, 2022
My God will give you a better man in due course, don't settle for a mediocre...

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Bugomma01: 4:48am On Apr 14, 2022
The best decision you have taken it this,a better one will come your way just keep trusting God.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by backnbeta(f): 4:51am On Apr 14, 2022
Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?? Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women... they wise women will dodge confrontation to avoid violence , the foolish ones will think they can insult men and expect no reaction....

Domestic violence against women has increased since feminists started preaching that a woman should not be hit even if she abuses the man to the point where he is pushed to the wall... just look at the last 2 big brothers... look at how those women insulted those guys to the point that one of the guys started crying... women like that will easily get hit by a man cis men respond with violence when angry....its in a man's nature and women should understand it... this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...
Who says men don't cry? Who says it's in men's nature to hit women? Your mindset is seriously flawed, young man, you need help seriously and fast!
While I agree with you that some women are mouthy and can be provocative, hitting a woman has never been and can never be the solution! It's better to go out in the heat of the moment rather than hit a woman. Men who hit their women also have the tendency to hit their children and other people weaker than them. Been married for over a decade and I can't even imagine my husband hitting me and naturally, I'm sure I've provoked him several times! I have brothers and relatives who will never even consider hitting a woman as part of the available punishments, so where did you get the idea that hitting a woman is part of a man's genetic makeup? Ha ba!

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Tatashi: 4:56am On Apr 14, 2022
immortalcrown:
Okay. Next...

Leaving him is a good choice because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Good luck in your marriage. But the problem is most humans, especially women, are insatiable. You have left him. If he gets another woman or gets richer, you will begin to regret leaving him.

I like the fact that you publicized this. If you mess up in your marriage, your marriage will

remember this publicity and do what will vindicate the man you accuse now.


You are more than Stupid!

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Elidrisy20: 4:59am On Apr 14, 2022
GOD Don save you,why una too like to set date agberos?
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by elonmuskbaby: 5:01am On Apr 14, 2022
TheGift:


She just made the best decision of Her life. She will be fine.

Anyone who wants to beg Her to forgive and forget, because guests have already been invited , canopy has been rented or bride price has already been shared, Should keep their mouths , shut!!!
no.they shouldn't keep their mouths shut.they can go ahead and marry him or give out their sisters or daughters to the man.even the people begging know deep down inside their hearts that they will run if they're the ones but hypocrisy no go gree them get sense.yorubas call them awon elebe ika
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Paretomaster1(m): 5:03am On Apr 14, 2022
Mkpurumiri addicts at it again... Thank God you use your brain..

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by elonmuskbaby: 5:05am On Apr 14, 2022
Tatashi:



You are more than Stupid!
these are things that you should expect.in every thread fools and domestic violence apologists Will always show up to reveal themselves that is why I pity those who dey find husband/wife for NL without doing their background checks
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by caniva(m): 5:06am On Apr 14, 2022
You don't have to be sorry or apologize to anyone for making the right choice, it's your life and you've chosen well.

God bless and guide your new choice of partner. Amen
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 5:08am On Apr 14, 2022
TotoGame:
most men from Ebonyi State Igboland do treat their wives like slaves, they beat up their wives at any slightest provocation, those people don't have any regard for women

I know that there are good men from that state region but about 90% of Ebonyi Igbo guys that lives in ontisha here do abuse and hit their wives ...

No hard feelings! I'm just saying the truth

Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Hotice085: 5:08am On Apr 14, 2022
Lightorder:
that is if she is not the one initiating the beating with toxic verbal abuse. For any animal who tries touching any of my sisters, just go get the best wheelchair of your choice before doing so.

However, Nigerians know how to trend for a moment . Osinachi’s saga is trending now. Ladies whose bad attitude and emotional abuse to their spouses could cause a man to commit suicide are now claiming victims. Before you break your home yourself, check if you are the one bringing in the fuel. Zip your tongue. The best time to correct your angry spouse is not when he or she is angry. The wound of word is far worse than the wound of a sword. I am done talking. For those who would come for my head, it is cladded with bronze
.

Look the earlier you understand and comprehend that the only thing a has is her tongue the earlier you will have peace

There are a thousands and one ways to handle a woman, not buy using your muscles. If you can fight go to the stadium
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by elonmuskbaby: 5:11am On Apr 14, 2022
backnbeta:

Who says men don't cry? Who says it's in men's nature to hit women? Your mindset is seriously flawed, young man, you need help seriously and fast!
While I agree with you that some women are mouthy and can be provocative, hitting a woman has never been and can never be the solution! It's better to go out in the heat of the moment rather than hit a woman. Men who hit their women also have the tendency to hit their children and other people weaker than them. Been married for over a decade and I can't even imagine my husband hitting me and naturally, I'm sure I've provoked him several times! I have brothers and relatives who will never even consider hitting a woman as part of the available punishments, so where did you get the idea that hitting a woman is part of a man's genetic makeup? Ha ba!
he needs rehabilitation and Jesus really fast.no be everybody wey dey type for NL dey ok

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by elonmuskbaby: 5:14am On Apr 14, 2022
ireneidiva:

Your last paragraph is completely unnecessary. What do you mean by mess up in her marriage again?
no be everybody wey dey type for NL dey ok.know this and know peace
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 5:15am On Apr 14, 2022
Hotice085:
.

Look the earlier you understand and comprehend that the only thing a has is her tongue the earlier you will have peace

There are a thousands and one ways to handle a woman, not buy using your muscles. If you can fight go to the stadium
Physical abuse is wrong! Verbal abuse is wrong! Which one is "the only thing a woman has is her tongue"? There is just no way you can justify it. I am happy the lady left though. We can't prove the lady is bad mouthed, but even if she is, chasing her with a cutlsss or beating her with stick is strange.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by BOYS2MEN: 5:40am On Apr 14, 2022
Diz one don drink "OSINACHI Eye opener"... She don smart now but first check whether u never get clusted blood for ur chest..abi na for ur nyansh... wink
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by BRATISLAVA: 5:44am On Apr 14, 2022
RoyalBlu:
Best decision you made girl.
Peace of mind over anything.

*A man that can threaten you with a Cutlass in the presence of his mother... I don't want to imagine what'd he'd do when you both start living alone.


And he's ugly. One of those ugly men who come online to give impossible conditions for a wife. She must be submissive, she must be this and that. They will claim they are the real men. They are ruled by lovelessness and anger at women.

Yet look at him. Spineless, ugly, womanizing, devilish man. He is empty and looking for who will fill him up. Men like this have so many expectations of women, and all that is left is for him to go to a doll factory and get one.

Typical of most men who belong to their indoctrination camps. Young women should grow wise and see through their expectations— these men have nothing good in store for any woman.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by dominique(f): 5:47am On Apr 14, 2022
Kingcalls:


I am married and my wife is not stupid to insult me if she feels offended... my mom wasn't also stupid like most women , she never raised her voice towards my dad...

U women just think u have the leverage to insult men and have no reaction by men, u must be deluded to think u wudnt get hit

I can bet with my last kobo that you're an abusive husband just like your father. You know you offend your wife and she dares not react because you have bullied her into submission like your father did to your mother. Don't worry, eyes have started opening, brains have started resetting. Two women died in the hands of their abusive husbands in the space of 6 days. No less than 5 women have made news for dying in abusive marriages this year alone. It is now dawning on women in abusive marriages how unsafe they are in their marriages and they could be next to die in the hands of the monsters they married.

I agree with you on the second bolded, most women are stupid but they won't be stupid for much longer.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Farfalla(f): 5:53am On Apr 14, 2022
Kingcalls:
Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature ...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women...

.....this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...

Your type should stay away from marriage. You'll be doing women a huge favour by staying single.

Marriage is not for lunatics.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by BrashMan: 6:10am On Apr 14, 2022
A meer look at the bastard's face, u will know he is an animal. You did the right thing.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Blakpot: 6:13am On Apr 14, 2022
Good decision. It your life that matters o.
How a man can raise machete against a woman still baffles me.


The guy has frustration written all 9ver his face sef.

Funny the abusive bfs, husbands are always ugly looking.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by ElijahIme1992(m): 6:25am On Apr 14, 2022
FutureIsFemale:
Nice move.
If I have my way I'd stay single forever.
These animals don't worth it.

He should be arrested and no refund of the bride price unless he has not had sex with you.
looooooooooool Sapphire long time

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