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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Starlino: 6:02am On May 01, 2022
Sadly, good girls are hard to find these days
Most people think it's just a whoring phase but nowadays it never passes not even after menopause

Just keep your eyes peeled for when the right one comes along if you're lucky

I so wanna to learn Crypto tho

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by BusinessPlan22: 6:12am On May 01, 2022
AutoRedux:


Na lie. No where dey safe. The best na to remain single.

U know nothing bro.
The word of God cannot be broken

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by okuta007: 6:29am On May 01, 2022
RickSanchez:
I'd like to start by saying I'm serving, Sorry if the story is all messed up as my mind is F'ed up right now.

I got into a corpers lodge which used to be a lounge. I didn't want to date anyone but this hoe kept disturbing me to. Gave in.

Usually I'm a crypto investor, I have money, I look good, I dress good. I'm not saying all these things to hype myself up but I'm okay.

Sexually I can last hours, I made her cum consistently. The only problem I have is delayed ejaculation. Which she complains about.

Now, I'm not the type to love hard as I'm already used to heartbreaks. So we dated and broke up after 4 months or so. I was okay with the breakup.

Only to find out she's been fucking around the whole time I was loving up, as she(in my mind) opened up to me about the guys that played her and broke her heart.

She goes to church frequently and if you see this girl outside you'd think she's a saint, she doesn't party, she doesn't usually drink and no smoking.

Anyway I found out that she'd be fucking her our fellow corper guys and was getting passed around, while still pretending she still loved me(after the breakup).

When I knew and she came to my side and I told her to go Bleep the guy she usually goes to she said she doesn't care.

This person who I thought had a conscience was probably a covert narcissist who wants male attention from anywhere she'll get it.

To be honest it pains me to say this but I felt foolish for actually loving the girl and started to doubt myself as a man.

I'm usually the one girls cheat on their guys with(when I was in uni) but this time around I got my share(after I became a good guy), it hit hard and it disgusted me how I got to know she was being pounded by other niggas.

Funny thing is now she doesn't hide it, she blows kisses to the nigga openly in everyone's presence.

Don't want to bitch all day about this but honestly it feels evil how someone can switch like the devil cause I had nothing but good intentions for her. And she not only did all that but boldly told people I was the one disturbing her life. Lol. It is well. I know it's the times we shared that's causing me to feel undeserved.

The one thing on my mind I Sha know is that at the end of the day I'm still an awesome dude, no matter how a hoe wants to pay me back I'll still make bank and get back out there. Thanks for reading and if you have things to add, both good or bad I'm willing to read through.

Addition ; wanted to marry her as I had enough money to and we shared(to my understanding) the same values and dreams. I doubt I'll ever fall for words or even actions of love again as I was genuinely convinced she was good.

that’s the problem with these simps

a pretender church gurl have u pvssy

and because u have small change

u want to wife her up so fast

guy - try love urself and see life as a game

Always play to win - never ever forget that

your babe is just a ball in the game

no matter how beautiful it is - u can’t hold on

you have to pass the ball to win the game

if really u are a crypto investor

u just know how to cut losses in bearish

if you were going long

now apply that and man up, let go the olosho

before u go get BP at a tender age

f c ck other girls and enjoy life - don’t be too

hard on yourself- take life easy - peace!!!

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by BusinessPlan22: 6:50am On May 01, 2022
RickSanchez:
I'd like to start by saying I'm serving, Sorry if the story is all messed up as my mind is F'ed up right now.

I got into a corpers lodge which used to be a lounge. I didn't want to date anyone but this hoe kept disturbing me to. Gave in.

Usually I'm a crypto investor, I have money, I look good, I dress good. I'm not saying all these things to hype myself up but I'm okay.

Sexually I can last hours, I made her cum consistently. The only problem I have is delayed ejaculation. Which she complains about.

Now, I'm not the type to love hard as I'm already used to heartbreaks. So we dated and broke up after 4 months or so. I was okay with the breakup.

Only to find out she's been fucking around the whole time I was loving up, as she(in my mind) opened up to me about the guys that played her and broke her heart.

She goes to church frequently and if you see this girl outside you'd think she's a saint, she doesn't party, she doesn't usually drink and no smoking.

Anyway I found out that she'd be fucking her our fellow corper guys and was getting passed around, while still pretending she still loved me(after the breakup).

When I knew and she came to my side and I told her to go Bleep the guy she usually goes to she said she doesn't care.

This person who I thought had a conscience was probably a covert narcissist who wants male attention from anywhere she'll get it.

To be honest it pains me to say this but I felt foolish for actually loving the girl and started to doubt myself as a man.

I'm usually the one girls cheat on their guys with(when I was in uni) but this time around I got my share(after I became a good guy), it hit hard and it disgusted me how I got to know she was being pounded by other niggas.

Funny thing is now she doesn't hide it, she blows kisses to the nigga openly in everyone's presence.

Don't want to bitch all day about this but honestly it feels evil how someone can switch like the devil cause I had nothing but good intentions for her. And she not only did all that but boldly told people I was the one disturbing her life. Lol. It is well. I know it's the times we shared that's causing me to feel undeserved.

The one thing on my mind I Sha know is that at the end of the day I'm still an awesome dude, no matter how a hoe wants to pay me back I'll still make bank and get back out there. Thanks for reading and if you have things to add, both good or bad I'm willing to read through.

Addition ; wanted to marry her as I had enough money to and we shared(to my understanding) the same values and dreams. I doubt I'll ever fall for words or even actions of love again as I was genuinely convinced she was good.

I.diot said he made a church girl cum for hours... U nor get sense, una see God finish... But laslas, na u come finish now.
Ozuor

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Agboconsult1(m): 6:59am On May 01, 2022
RickSanchez:
Thank you so much bro. About the crypto part it's challenging to start now. I'm not in the right head space but I'll try teach you some things. Email me.

Hope you don't mind I email u too.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Sirchiboy: 7:10am On May 01, 2022
RickSanchez:
I'd like to start by saying I'm serving, Sorry if the story is all messed up as my mind is F'ed up right now.

I got into a corpers lodge which used to be a lounge. I didn't want to date anyone but this hoe kept disturbing me to. Gave in.

Usually I'm a crypto investor, I have money, I look good, I dress good. I'm not saying all these things to hype myself up but I'm okay.

Sexually I can last hours, I made her cum consistently. The only problem I have is delayed ejaculation. Which she complains about.

Now, I'm not the type to love hard as I'm already used to heartbreaks. So we dated and broke up after 4 months or so. I was okay with the breakup.

Only to find out she's been fucking around the whole time I was loving up, as she(in my mind) opened up to me about the guys that played her and broke her heart.

She goes to church frequently and if you see this girl outside you'd think she's a saint, she doesn't party, she doesn't usually drink and no smoking.

Anyway I found out that she'd be fucking her our fellow corper guys and was getting passed around, while still pretending she still loved me(after the breakup).

When I knew and she came to my side and I told her to go Bleep the guy she usually goes to she said she doesn't care.

This person who I thought had a conscience was probably a covert narcissist who wants male attention from anywhere she'll get it.

To be honest it pains me to say this but I felt foolish for actually loving the girl and started to doubt myself as a man.

I'm usually the one girls cheat on their guys with(when I was in uni) but this time around I got my share(after I became a good guy), it hit hard and it disgusted me how I got to know she was being pounded by other niggas.

Funny thing is now she doesn't hide it, she blows kisses to the nigga openly in everyone's presence.

Don't want to bitch all day about this but honestly it feels evil how someone can switch like the devil cause I had nothing but good intentions for her. And she not only did all that but boldly told people I was the one disturbing her life. Lol. It is well. I know it's the times we shared that's causing me to feel undeserved.

The one thing on my mind I Sha know is that at the end of the day I'm still an awesome dude, no matter how a hoe wants to pay me back I'll still make bank and get back out there. Thanks for reading and if you have things to add, both good or bad I'm willing to read through.

Addition ; wanted to marry her as I had enough money to and we shared(to my understanding) the same values and dreams. I doubt I'll ever fall for words or even actions of love again as I was genuinely convinced she was good.
...
Take heart bro.
It is well.
Bro bless your boy.
Nothing is too small

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by colp2015: 7:20am On May 01, 2022
Going to church means nothing. Obedience to God's commands is the true mark of Christianity.

Anyone who fornicates with a reckless abandon without remorse or repentance does not have a relationship with Christ.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Blacksavage: 7:21am On May 01, 2022
RickSanchez:
I'd like to start by saying I'm serving, Sorry if the story is all messed up as my mind is F'ed up right now.

I got into a corpers lodge which used to be a lounge. I didn't want to date anyone but this hoe kept disturbing me to. Gave in.

Usually I'm a crypto investor, I have money, I look good, I dress good. I'm not saying all these things to hype myself up but I'm okay.

Sexually I can last hours, I made her cum consistently. The only problem I have is delayed ejaculation. Which she complains about.

Now, I'm not the type to love hard as I'm already used to heartbreaks. So we dated and broke up after 4 months or so. I was okay with the breakup.

Only to find out she's been fucking around the whole time I was loving up, as she(in my mind) opened up to me about the guys that played her and broke her heart.

She goes to church frequently and if you see this girl outside you'd think she's a saint, she doesn't party, she doesn't usually drink and no smoking.

Anyway I found out that she'd be fucking her our fellow corper guys and was getting passed around, while still pretending she still loved me(after the breakup).

When I knew and she came to my side and I told her to go Bleep the guy she usually goes to she said she doesn't care.

This person who I thought had a conscience was probably a covert narcissist who wants male attention from anywhere she'll get it.

To be honest it pains me to say this but I felt foolish for actually loving the girl and started to doubt myself as a man.

I'm usually the one girls cheat on their guys with(when I was in uni) but this time around I got my share(after I became a good guy), it hit hard and it disgusted me how I got to know she was being pounded by other niggas.

Funny thing is now she doesn't hide it, she blows kisses to the nigga openly in everyone's presence.

Don't want to bitch all day about this but honestly it feels evil how someone can switch like the devil cause I had nothing but good intentions for her. And she not only did all that but boldly told people I was the one disturbing her life. Lol. It is well. I know it's the times we shared that's causing me to feel undeserved.

The one thing on my mind I Sha know is that at the end of the day I'm still an awesome dude, no matter how a hoe wants to pay me back I'll still make bank and get back out there. Thanks for reading and if you have things to add, both good or bad I'm willing to read through.

Addition ; wanted to marry her as I had enough money to and we shared(to my understanding) the same values and dreams. I doubt I'll ever fall for words or even actions of love again as I was genuinely convinced she was good.


Bro take heart I had same experience � those hoes ain't loyal....bro abeg teach me crypto boss

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Ebubu: 7:34am On May 01, 2022
Tzar:
Just thank God her wh*re side came out in good time. If you had married the b*tch like you planned ehn, your eye for see pepper!
Just dust yourself up, look your best all day everyday, guard your heart steadfastly and dont give more than the next girl is willing to give you.
Men give too much these days. Be an Odogwu, be a Yul Edochie!
men give too much these days bro

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by biggie73(m): 7:37am On May 01, 2022
First rule, avoid church girls.
2nd rule, remember 1st rule, and judgement will start from the house of the lord.
3rd rule, remember 2nd rule.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by mapist(m): 7:41am On May 01, 2022
depato88:
The the after feeling (after breakup) is understandable after all you are humane, but I tell you you should be more happy, if possible go for thanksgiving for saving you from a hoe. Just imagine if you had married her before discovering all what you discovered

This is what most persons dont know or dont wanna acknowledge. This could mar you for life.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by lomprico(m): 7:41am On May 01, 2022
Op is full of Ego! undecided
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Mekanus(m): 7:41am On May 01, 2022
RickSanchez:
Cool, that's what the girl proved herself to be though. A hoe.
I wan learn this your crypto stuff. Teach me please.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Agugbadin: 8:03am On May 01, 2022
Don't be deceived by church, understand that retired hoes are many in the church looking for victims to hook unto. Don't be surprised if these black girls and women that sleeps with dogs will still go to church to hook innocent men as husband. Be informed that church is is filled with practicing and retired hoes.

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by ginabarry(f): 8:12am On May 01, 2022
It is well
God gives you a better lady

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by kelspinall(m): 8:21am On May 01, 2022
sorry man, I keep saying this"they keep bicching around till the get the will you marry me type".bro thaa one don go,no feel pain.the thing I hate about break up is"the other gender keeps playing the role of victim(they're the good ones) but date them just in 4 weeks or 1 month+ you realize why the last nigga left..we move man

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by canadian7: 8:22am On May 01, 2022
To be honestly speaking girls are fuckly bitches,i don't take their pet talk very serious
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Nobody: 8:25am On May 01, 2022
ginabarry:
It is well
God gives you a better lady

This h'antie fine sha wink ... HNM madmoiselle. smiley
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Nobody: 8:26am On May 01, 2022
Agugbadin:
Don't be deceived by church, understand that retired hoes are many in the church looking for victims to hook unto. Don't be surprised if these black girls and women that sleeps with dogs will still go to church to hook innocent men as husband. Be informed that church is is filled with practicing and retired hoes.
Without womb in most cases. smiley
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Nobody: 8:29am On May 01, 2022
Zane2point4:
Be weary of any girl that makes the first move on you,they’re cheats,they’ll still make the same move with boldness if they see another hot dude!

It's not even a h'issue... Just make her your knacksmate.. h'unku GooodHardDick can relate. smiley

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by tightpussy156: 8:31am On May 01, 2022
MR MAN the funniest truthis that women love bad guys.they dont like good guys.from your story you were forming good guy for the OLOSHO.see i was once in your shoes.the only tin was that i didnt lost i pounded the BITCH PUSSY to RED.BLACK and BLUE.To the extent after breakup she still respected me anytime and anyday.see 99% of church girls are BITCHES Bleep around use church to cover up.Next time be wise and not foolish.

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Nobody: 8:32am On May 01, 2022
Mrsserene:
Say no to premarital sex

Yen yen yen. lipsrsealed
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Nobody: 8:36am On May 01, 2022
Oga you were already fucking this girl, how does she qualify as a church girl?
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Brownshoe: 8:40am On May 01, 2022
placeofallure:
RickSanchez, sorry it just reached your turn.

O de ba Olugbon, o fi s'osun, o fi para. O de ba Aresa, Oun na fi s'osun o fi para. Orangun Ile ila naa o gbe'hin.

Nobody can have it all good!
omo osogbo, i sight you
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Spanki(f): 8:44am On May 01, 2022
RickSanchez:
I'd like to start by saying I'm serving, Sorry if the story is all messed up as my mind is F'ed up right now.

I got into a corpers lodge which used to be a lounge. I didn't want to date anyone but this hoe kept disturbing me to. Gave in.

Usually I'm a crypto investor, I have money, I look good, I dress good. I'm not saying all these things to hype myself up but I'm okay.

Sexually I can last hours, I made her cum consistently. The only problem I have is delayed ejaculation. Which she complains about.

Now, I'm not the type to love hard as I'm already used to heartbreaks. So we dated and broke up after 4 months or so. I was okay with the breakup.

Only to find out she's been fucking around the whole time I was loving up, as she(in my mind) opened up to me about the guys that played her and broke her heart.

She goes to church frequently and if you see this girl outside you'd think she's a saint, she doesn't party, she doesn't usually drink and no smoking.

Anyway I found out that she'd be fucking her our fellow corper guys and was getting passed around, while still pretending she still loved me(after the breakup).

When I knew and she came to my side and I told her to go Bleep the guy she usually goes to she said she doesn't care.

This person who I thought had a conscience was probably a covert narcissist who wants male attention from anywhere she'll get it.

To be honest it pains me to say this but I felt foolish for actually loving the girl and started to doubt myself as a man.

I'm usually the one girls cheat on their guys with(when I was in uni) but this time around I got my share(after I became a good guy), it hit hard and it disgusted me how I got to know she was being pounded by other niggas.

Funny thing is now she doesn't hide it, she blows kisses to the nigga openly in everyone's presence.

Don't want to bitch all day about this but honestly it feels evil how someone can switch like the devil cause I had nothing but good intentions for her. And she not only did all that but boldly told people I was the one disturbing her life. Lol. It is well. I know it's the times we shared that's causing me to feel undeserved.

The one thing on my mind I Sha know is that at the end of the day I'm still an awesome dude, no matter how a hoe wants to pay me back I'll still make bank and get back out there. Thanks for reading and if you have things to add, both good or bad I'm willing to read through.

Addition ; wanted to marry her as I had enough money to and we shared(to my understanding) the same values and dreams. I doubt I'll ever fall for words or even actions of love again as I was genuinely convinced she was good.

Am glad you did not loose your head. Now use it!!!
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Mekanus(m): 8:53am On May 01, 2022
Buje1987:



The only thing I can say is that please can you be of help I need to learn Bitcoin trading and buying and selling . I was just scammed 3.5m from 86FB Football investment platform. My WhatsApp 07026246986. Bro your own woman will come to you soon make more money first
I was scammed 4m in forex also in 2020 I don’t know maybe online investment is not for me.
Hmmm you get money to be dashing this scammers ooo. Ponzi schemes are not investment, so stop referring to them as one. Teach me how to make this millions though.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Ebymyk(m): 8:57am On May 01, 2022
Fear so called church girls... Infact fear anything woman.. That carries ho' under their legs... She's been used many times and dumped, so she's playing the same games on the guys... She can never love.. You just a victim of love.. even though you are the best in bed, she won't still be satisfied, sex does not keep any woman, na testing she dey do... Women are highly incomprehensible, know this and have peace of mind... Cheers..

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by RickSanchez: 8:59am On May 01, 2022
efficiencie:


Dude you played yourself. You call her a church girl but she was the one disturbing you for a sexual relationship until you budged. Real church girls are not like that. Anyone fool can waltz into a church, that does not make that person a church-person. Any fool can look innocuous and harmless that does not make that person a church-person...Why are you loving up a girl that just wants sex. You were running a boyfriend-girlfriend operation and you are loving up, really? Who does that!? There was no commitment, no vows, no responsibility, nothing whatsoever. You two were just banging each other for the fun of it and you are now bringing in "love" and "church", two words that have nothing to do with shit you are running with a hoe in disguise. Dude grow some grey matter abeg. This is 2022. Don't let June 2022 sneak up on you with the kind of mentality you currently have. It would be a tragedy!
Thanks for the reply bro, actually there was a commitment between us to end in marriage or find someone else if we drift too far apart.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by RickSanchez: 9:00am On May 01, 2022
Ebymyk:
Fear so called church girls... Infact fear anything woman.. That carries ho' under their legs... She's been used many times and dumped, so she's playing the same games on the guys... She can never love.. You just a victim of love.. even though you are the best in bed, she won't still be satisfied, sex does not keep any woman, na testing she dey do... Women are highly incomprehensible, know this and have peace of mind... Cheers..
You're right, I think she wanted to hit me where my ego would hurt the most. Thanks.

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by RickSanchez: 9:01am On May 01, 2022
Spanki:


Am glad you did not loose your head. Now use it!!!
One love bro.

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by RickSanchez: 9:03am On May 01, 2022
okuta007:


that’s the problem with these simps

a pretender church gurl have u pvssy

and because u have small change

u want to wife her up so fast

guy - try love urself and see life as a game

Always play to win - never ever forget that

your babe is just a ball in the game

no matter how beautiful it is - u can’t hold on

you have to pass the ball to win the game

if really u are a crypto investor

u just know how to cut losses in bearish

if you were going long

now apply that and man up, let go the olosho

before u go get BP at a tender age

f c ck other girls and enjoy life - don’t be too

hard on yourself- take life easy - peace!!!
You're right, I'm becoming desensitized to feelings for relationship.

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by RickSanchez: 9:04am On May 01, 2022
kayperry:
shocked



What ever happened to you is normal cos thats life, but the impression i want you to correct is that,alway lookout for a person's character to tell his/her religion and not the other way round.
The earlier you let that breakup digest the better cos no matter how much you hole up you're still gonna get served its just a matter of when you are ready to open up again, breakfast is imminent
Would keep that in mind.

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