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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by zabimaru: 11:42pm On May 22, 2022
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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by juman(m): 2:38am On May 23, 2022
Most do it for monetary gain.
I remember I had a pen friend in uk, the guy said he was gay.
If I was desperate to travel, I would have forced myself to be gay.

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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by juman(m): 2:40am On May 23, 2022
I believe most of them see it as business.
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 5:07am On May 23, 2022
FreeSpirited:
I couldn't believe my world after this shocker that a place can agglomerate an unbelievable numbers of gays in Nigeria, a very religious country.
At a point I became both teary and angry.

Let me give you how I found out. If you need evidence, I can present.

I came to Abj recently and most time when I travel to a new place, I usually download Tinder to try and meet one or two babes and see if we connect, we might hangout when I'm bored before getting familiar with such area.

So for about over a week, I was only able to match with about 5 girls, exhausting my swipes on daily basis. You know how matching can be funny on Tinder; and how hard getting connection with people u match with especially if you are not the type that's up for paying for runs-girl on Tinder..cos na olosho many pass for Tinder.

So today, because some of the matches I got dint inspire me enough, out of intuition, I decided to check out how the Men on Tinder in my vicinity looks, that is Abuja Tinder guys.
So I switched my setting from "show only women" to "show only Men"
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At first I was swiping left since I had no interest in matching a guy. I began to swipe left to get idea of the average physical look, or dressing, or the style of the guys on Tinder.
All of a sudden, something told me to swipe right....OMG...couldn't believe why but It matched!....I was schocked
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Though I thought it was a mistake, then I swipe right, and right, right and right.. my world they were matching in sequence!

My jaw dropped and my mouth went ajar that I couldnt close it the entire time.
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What this means for people who don't understand Tinder is that, these guys were on Tinder to meet guys, because their setting must have been set to see only guys, and they have been actively swiping guys pics to the right so that other guys like them swiping right will match with them.
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In less than 3 minutes, I matched an unbelievable numbers of 12 gays...Like wtf!
In 10 fvxking days I matched less than 6 gals in Abj, But in 3 mins I matched 12 motherfvcking ass rimming gaybriels. It's finished.
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So gay is so rife in Abuja, and Tinder is their hotbed. You have to try this experiment if you doubt me.
I think the reason women are not getting husband is as a result of astronomical numbers of gays in Nigeria. Times have really changed and things are really happening.
I'm so confused. Is this your first time using dating apps? All dating apps are inclusive of all genders and sexual orientations depending on your preference so why on earth are you surprised? Are straight people the only ones that need love?

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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 5:14am On May 23, 2022
FreeSpirited:

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Tinder is traditionally supposed to be a dating site where men meet women....that's why on the settings u can either set it to "show men" or "show women"....
How can such site make u match 12 gays in 3 mins....while matching less than 10 women in 10 fucking days! and u don't expect that to be a shocker for a straight guy?
No it's not, it's for all genders and sexualities, there's no dating app just for straight people,it will be stupid for programmers and app developers to create that sort of thing because money is to be made from everywhere. The "show men" and "show women" preference is for genders not sexualities besides you decided to change your settings to men, it shouldn't be a culture to you, it's obvious you are new to dating apps or you haven't been to the other side of it
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by FreeSpirited: 5:17am On May 23, 2022
Flamemignon1:

I'm so confused. Is this your first time using dating apps? All dating apps are inclusive of all genders and sexual orientations depending on your preference so why on earth are you surprised? Are straight people the only ones that need love?
Ogbeni...This is Nigeria.
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On Tinder U don't get matches of 20 people in 3 mins even when u are trying to match women no matter how handsome ur profile is set ...Even if ur profile is as handsome as fvck, no one gets matches of 20 matches of ladies in 3 mins.....Here we are 20 fvxking gayyys in 3 mins...the problem I have is the sheer numbers! Why are they so plenty and desperate to match men
That means I can match 50 gays in 15 minutes at that rate.....is that not a problem?
That's potential 50 gayy dates if I was really a gay and interested in that nonsense....and this is Naija a religious country where we deny everything...Guy think.

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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 5:28am On May 23, 2022
Fairmedia:

Mr gay advocate...w[b]hat is the benefit of gays to Nigeria, rather than causing moral decadence and destruction of the family system, that helps nurture kids into becoming responsible[/b].
Please explain how the bolded happens
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 5:30am On May 23, 2022
FreeSpirited:

Ogbeni...This is Nigeria.
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On Tinder U don't get matches of 20 people in 3 mins even when u are trying to match women no matter how handsome ur profile is set ...Even if ur profile is as handsome as fvck, no one gets matches of 20 matches of ladies in 3 mins.....Here we are 20 fvxking gayyys in 3 mins...the problem I have is the sheer numbers! Why are they so plenty and desperate to match men
That means I can match 50 gays in 15 minutes at that rate.....is that not a problem?
That's potential 50 gayy dates if I was really a gay and interested in that nonsense....and this is Naija a religious country where we deny everything...Guy think.
Dude,you are not everyone's speck and women naturally play hard to get with men cheap to get hence the many potential gay dates,so why do you think that dating apps won't mirror reality?
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by FreeSpirited: 5:40am On May 23, 2022
Flamemignon1:

Dude,you are not everyone's speck and women naturally play hard to get with men cheap to get hence the many potential gay dates,so why do you think that dating apps won't mirror reality?
I see gayy like u don't understand shit. It's waste of time arguing with you
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 5:44am On May 23, 2022
FreeSpirited:

I see gayy like u don't understand shit. It's waste of time arguing with you
No dude, it's not waste.....you are literally culture shocked because all your life,you decided to live in your own bubble and now that reality is having it's way,you are loosing your grip. Tinder and dating apps in general was never made for straight people alone,know that and know peace

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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 5:47am On May 23, 2022
ashawopikin:
As una dey swipe right and left for gay for tinder, make una sha know say monkey pox dey outside
And it's not a gay disease, that's just ignorant
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 5:49am On May 23, 2022
JoyousFurnitire:

Ha omo you try o

^^^ Okay

How can you get that as an insight from someone that as never touched a lady undecided

Tell him to have something with a woman first before making that statement permanent undecided
Have something with a man first before saying you are straight?
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 5:50am On May 23, 2022
toujurs:
And you are asking me if i am sure. undecided.

Even on this forum, there are alot of gays. They use female accounts. To pretend as females. I dm'ed a lady thinking i was chatting with a lady unknown to me i was chatting with a guy, i caused the living hell out of the bastard. I doubt he would forget the insults i gave him.

Left for me, i would declare an instant death by hanging on gays in nigeria.
Great,you aren't in a place of power so you can't do a thing
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by FreeSpirited: 5:51am On May 23, 2022
Flamemignon1:

No dude, it's not waste.....you are literally culture shocked because all your life,you decided to live in your own bubble and now that reality is having it's way,you are loosing your grip. Tinder and dating apps in general was never made for straight people alone,know that and know peace
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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 6:06am On May 23, 2022
FreeSpirited:

The number of matches I thought I had has actually increased to 20! In 3 mins....I've not recovered from the shock....so those ones that dint match then was obviously offline. So they came online and match...too bad
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But your assertion that they are many on redpoll thread will be something I won't be able to take... honestly.
Redpoll is not a feminized Philosophy for buggers, it's for iron ice cold men, I mean redpoll at its best.....and I'm also a staunch redpiller, one of the few I can boast was part of the movement on Reddit before the subreddit was expunged from Reddit.
So I can never stomach this statement from u that we have them many on redpill thread. That's a fallacious statement. Pls!
You do realize that the creator of the term "redpill" were transwomen right? Or you just swallow everything you are told like living in your bubble?

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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 6:28am On May 23, 2022
FreeSpirited:

I've never heard of such site....so why can't they go there...why infiltrate a site meant for heterosexual...Why? Why can't they go form their own site..
Why is the black entertainment television (BET) but no White Entertainment television?
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 6:32am On May 23, 2022
Thebadpolitican:



Can you proof they are naturally Born like that
Because you read it somewhere doesn't kske it true
Can you proove they aren't born that way? Because you haven't seen it before doesn't make it true

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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 6:36am On May 23, 2022
juman:
Most do it for monetary gain.
I remember I had a pen friend in uk, the guy said he was gay.
If I was desperate to travel, I would have forced myself to be gay.
You can't force yourself to be gay man. Sexuality isn't a forced straight,even if you slept with that man,you are still straight as an arrow as long as you are not attracted to him, you are straight. Straight men who sleep with men do it because they need to not because they want to,just like how closeted gay men sleeping with women do the same thing. Sex doesn't make you gay, sexuality does

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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Blaqroman0000: 6:56am On May 23, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Keep mute..what's wrong with gays? undecided
You are hateful homophobe..allow them be..if you don't wanna match then don't search and swipe...stick to gals let them stick to themself..stop the hate...they are all over Nigeria and in some years to come gay marriage is gonna be legalized..I wanna know what you are gonna do about it..

No one bothers you for being straight so why disturbing and whining over people's personal choice that doesn't affect you In any way?
is obvious say dey Don burst the biscuit bone wey dey your yansh, that's why most of you can't hold your excrete....
Like how the hell will support this dirty demonic thing... You leave woman promise land dey find man yansh

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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by juman(m): 7:01am On May 23, 2022
Flamemignon1:

You can't force yourself to be gay man. Sexuality isn't a forced straight,even if you slept with that man,you are still straight as an arrow as long as you are not attracted to him, you are straight. Straight men who sleep with men do it because they need to not because they want to,just like how closeted gay men sleeping with women do the same thing. Sex doesn't make you gay, sexuality does

Nobody was created a gay.
It's by choice.
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by FreeSpirited: 7:01am On May 23, 2022
Flamemignon1:

You do realize that the creator of the term "redpill" were transmen right? Or you just swallow everything you are told like living in your bubble?


How does the term relate with the subject matter of epidemics of gay in Nigeria.
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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Bouncing2(m): 7:09am On May 23, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Keep mute..what's wrong with gays? undecided
You are hateful homophobe..allow them be..if you don't wanna match then don't search and swipe...stick to gals let them stick to themself..stop the hate...they are all over Nigeria and in some years to come gay marriage is gonna be legalized..I wanna know what you are gonna do about it..

No one bothers you for being straight so why disturbing and whining over people's personal choice that doesn't affect you In any way?
SHUT UP!!!!!!! angry.

Nobody's legalizing gay marriage here in Naija anytime soon,,ya digg

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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by FERNANDEZISBACK: 7:11am On May 23, 2022
Bouncing2:

SHUT UP!!!!!!! angry.

Nobody's legalizing gay marriage here in Naija anytime soon,,ya digg
Ok..when they do..smash your phone against a rock then...
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 7:23am On May 23, 2022
FreeSpirited:



How does the term relate with the subject matter of epidemics of gay in Nigeria.
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You mentioned the term not me
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 7:24am On May 23, 2022
juman:


Nobody was created a gay.
It's by choice.
Yea right..... coming from you
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Bouncing2(m): 7:35am On May 23, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Ok..when they do..smash your phone against a rock then...
Until then wink..
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by JoyousFurnitire(m): 7:46am On May 23, 2022
Flamemignon1:

Have something with a man first before saying you are straight?

Hello I'm not confused and I mean all straight people aren't.

If the question should be asked again it is to be directed to you gay people.

Anus are not meant be drilled by the P*

Men shouldn't have a V* and women shouldn't have a P*. Those are sexual and reproductive organs.

^^^ it's that simple

Nature/God knew what he was doing undecided

PS: Gays shouldn't quote me. I didn't quote a gay person. I have nothing or words to trade with them.

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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by OKOATA(m): 8:09am On May 23, 2022
I remember while in boarding school in those years, the guy was my classmate, it was after the lights out the maga came and started touching my groin and going towards my prick. This is someone I know well, a bunk mate. I think I was in SS3 then, the fight no be here. I didn't even know the werey strong but he met his match. They had to separate us because I was indeed going insane that night because my aim was to break his gay balls, not knowing the gay-guy has been seducing other guys in the domitary too but they couldn't fight him like I did. They had to suspend the fufu guy from the hostel.
Do your gay shit with other gays but don't bring the dirty thing near me. I saw him on facebook married with kids but I know deep inside he will still be doing his gay shit.

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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by MDK777: 8:26am On May 23, 2022
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Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by Flamemignon1(m): 8:31am On May 23, 2022
JoyousFurnitire:


Hello I'm not confused and I mean all straight people aren't.

If the question should be asked again it is to be directed to you gay people.

Anus are not meant be drilled by the P*

Men shouldn't have a V* and women shouldn't have a P*. Those are sexual and reproductive organs.

^^^ it's that simple

Nature/God knew what he was doing undecided

PS: Gays shouldn't quote me. I didn't quote a gay person. I have nothing or words to trade with them.
Well,not everyone believes in God and queer people are not confused. If you didn't want queer people to quote you,then stop the misinformation and stay out of our business with your bigotry and your hateful ideology that gay man are gay just because they haven't been with a woman is blatantly homophobic and ignorant so I threw those patterns back at ya and your wings are in a bunch
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by siofra(f): 8:39am On May 23, 2022
toujurs:
It's so horrible that most girls are comfortable having gays as besties and its still same them that would cry that their husband is bisexual. Like what the Bleep, that gender is so bleeped up. One of the reasons men see them as sex objects

WTH??!!?!!!?


Okay. This doesn't make sense at all.

WHAT are you even saying?

Because some girls have gay besties they shouldn't complain that their bisexual husbands are cheating on them? And that's the reason men see women as sex objects

Dude, I even tried translating it to my native language and it still didn't make sense angry
Re: I Got The Shock Of My Life Today: Tinder Is The Headquarters Of Gays In Nigeria by siofra(f): 8:41am On May 23, 2022
FreeSpirited:

I've never heard of such site....so why can't they go there...why infiltrate a site meant for heterosexual...Why? Why can't they go form their own site..
Tinder is not only for heterosexuals, it's for everyone regardless of sexuality.

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