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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Profayo: 11:08am On Jun 09, 2022
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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by mazizitonene(m): 11:08am On Jun 09, 2022
Congrats.....start buying baby things
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by obuneme: 11:08am On Jun 09, 2022
Congratulations papa ejima grin grin grin
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by OriginalOnyeNne: 11:08am On Jun 09, 2022
Congratulations
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by EmekaMD(m): 11:09am On Jun 09, 2022
congratulations.

my 2cents

start saving for baby formulas and pampers.

country hard now so better start saving early

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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 11:09am On Jun 09, 2022
Welcome To Family Way
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Paypallord1: 11:09am On Jun 09, 2022
Which kind advice do u need again, but you enjoy your 10 minutes alone, we were not there now. Although I didn’t read ur thread anyway.

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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by mactoni91(m): 11:09am On Jun 09, 2022
And Some of us with Average income jobs still dey fear to give woman Belle.

grin

Life can be funny atimes.
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Hamachi(f): 11:10am On Jun 09, 2022
Congratulations PapaNew222

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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Hamachi(f): 11:11am On Jun 09, 2022
Congratulations PapaNew222

Join SafeHavenJoint on telegram, they will help you.
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Okobola146: 11:11am On Jun 09, 2022
Messi, wehdone o
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Acehart: 11:11am On Jun 09, 2022
Let her give birth. Afterwards, you’ll make the right decision.
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by aklion: 11:11am On Jun 09, 2022
Report yourself to her family and start making preparations on being a DAD.
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Judolisco(m): 11:12am On Jun 09, 2022
wen u dey do am...uno tell us....be responsible marry her next month...trad wedding no dey expensive
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by saintkeppy(m): 11:12am On Jun 09, 2022
Start buying baby clothings&other assessories. . .
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Icudkill: 11:12am On Jun 09, 2022
Lol
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by esosuo: 11:13am On Jun 09, 2022
New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.
Congrats man , not many can do what you just admitted you did , you are going to be a father start hustling now
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by xynerise: 11:13am On Jun 09, 2022
Go to the pharmacy and start buying Pampers and other baby drugs
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by UnknownQueen(f): 11:13am On Jun 09, 2022
My friend, abeg I will speak without being biased, my opinion is that you end the fucking pregnancy, I'm a married woman with two children, and just as you did my husband was practicing the withdrawal method with me, but twice it failed, I took in twice and terminated my pregnancy twice because we were not ready for a third and fourth child....

My advice is that you find a good Dr to do DNC for the young girl, don't spoil the future of the girl because of child wey she go still born plenty plenty for u....
I know it would be easy for you to ask her to keep cos u won't be the one affected, but if she were my child , I'll get rid of the foetus almost immediately.......
Nigerians like to attach yeye sentiments to issues like this saying the child is from God, tell me what happens to children that die immediately after delivery?.
What also happens to zygotes growing outside the womb (ectopic pregnancy) and there's a need for an emergency evacuation in order to save the life of the mother...

Abeg count this situation as one of those to protect the future of the girl...Like I said before, she go still born plenty pikin for ubin the nearest future ...

Regards...

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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Hamachi(f): 11:13am On Jun 09, 2022
grin
Jeon:
I HAVE NO ADVICE BUT DON'T ABORT.

ANYWAY CONGRATULATIONS.

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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Branduche: 11:14am On Jun 09, 2022
Start showing responsibility.. register her for antenatal.. And don’t allow her education be paused.
New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by reyscrub(m): 11:14am On Jun 09, 2022
When drilling the hole, you inform me?

Abeg prepare for baby gears and let me know when rice ready for chop ok.
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Ok12345(f): 11:14am On Jun 09, 2022
You know she is 19 and you kept pouring akamu inside her...

Mk una dey get conscience small small oo

You dey school, u wan better your life
But you wan either abort for another man pikin or tie her down with a baby.


NA WA OOI

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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by bigcee(m): 11:14am On Jun 09, 2022
Wtf do you want us to do? undecided

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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by dotun4luv(m): 11:15am On Jun 09, 2022
New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.


You are stupid dude for passing that insult to her parents. She is actually a disgrace to her parents. Cos her parents wanted a decent life for her now made them educated illiterate right? Well, you will soon be in the shoe and someone else might be fortunate to impregnate your beautiful daughter at 19 and you will congratulate her with open hands. Moreso, the western world caused us a lot. You are celebrating someone's virginity at 17 cos you met her as a virgin! Well, I also show sympathy for your lovely parent cos you are adding an additional burden on them. Mark you, you will have to carry the cross... Abeg, no do abortion ooo. Just let the innocent baby be and come when it's time. Don't forget to buy condom next. It's just 150 I think.

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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by BIXYBABE: 11:16am On Jun 09, 2022
New222:
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Though it will be tough, I wouldn't mind keeping the baby. It's the girl I'm worried about. This will end things between her and her family. Her education too. Thanks for this though.
This is strong......pls keep d baby for God's sake, av been in ur situation b4. My handsome boy is now 7months+ Although it will be very hard at d start, infact it will be like d world is coming to an end, but trust God u will laugh last. All d people that rejected me at first are d one calling me time to time just becos of d child. My parents would be like plsss help us bring this child to come and play wit us, it been long we've seen him. Children are gifts from God.......Even something I will look at d child's face and burst into laughter, and say to myself dat wat if I av aborted this child nko....

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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Truvelisback(m): 11:16am On Jun 09, 2022
New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.
Accept the child and bear the responsibility. Don't abort the child.

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