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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Jackbaur88: 12:11pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
New222:You are very rude and stubborn for referring to her parents like that. Every parent wants the best for their children and every parent wants their children to grow in the way of the lord. That is why I advise young girls to stay away from sex when you are not married. |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Mariangeles(f): 12:11pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
New222: If you make her terminate a pregnancy at such an early stage of her life, it'll be the beginning of more that you will make her terminate because you will still keep having unprotected sex with her, in which she's likely to keep getting pregnant. Let's terminate the pregnancy. After all, we've done it before. It's not like it's the first time. Then, when you're done damaging her psychologically, you will conveniently realize later on in your life that she's not good enough for you to marry. Not after countless abortions she might've committed for you, forgetting you were the one who deflowered her. You better not damage that girl if you don't want to be unfortunate in your life! If you know what is good for you, you better do the right thing! 1 Like |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by seanwilliam(m): 12:12pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
If she has good character, and you love her and you have the means to take care of the baby and her , keep the baby ., If the bolded Dey in place , you will never regret it now or later. Good luck |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by pocohantas(f): 12:12pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
baralatie: I don’t understand the relevance of this question to my post. 1 Like |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Mandy1414: 12:12pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
My dear, I believe you are a Christian. Abortion is a grievous sin and God will not take it lightly with you. The deed is done..... Just stay with consequence of your action. The bible says we should keep the bed undifiled Also, our body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. The bible also discourages a man starting anything with a woman when he is not ready. If you loved the girl in question, you would have gone to pay her bride price or abstain from sex until you both are ready. Please do not abort that child because both of you won't be able to live with the aftermath of shedding blood. Go meet her parents and pay her bride price. With that both of you will have peace and plan your future. Marriage no be BEANS God bless you 1 Like |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by UnknownQueen(f): 12:14pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
We4all: I live you to your folly ... Take care and enjoy the consequences the pregnancy brings...... Adieu.... |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by naheem8307(m): 12:15pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Zonefree:hahahah |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by ikechukwu94(m): 12:16pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Welcome to fatherhood.... Daddy Wisdom |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by jrusky(m): 12:16pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Congratulation young man. But when you are having unprotected sex with her you should know the result will arrive one good day. Anyway be man and be ready to be a father, no excuse young man. All thee best. |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by alexvic12: 12:16pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Chatinent, sir. Your attention is urgently needed. I read your response to a similar thread |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
New222:I will go straight to the point, but mind you I don’t endorse terminating the pregnancy. You are both adults and will live with any decisions you take for the rest of your lives so think carefully here. Considering her age, family background and all, if you must terminate the pregnancy even though you detected it early please do it the right way. I’m talking about D&C, those abortion pills can be dangerous. Goto a proper clinic and make sure she is well taken care off. Withdrawal method has a 70% success rate no matter how skilled you are if you keep nacking without protection you will eventually get her pregnant. |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Sirmuel1(m): 12:17pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
New222: Oga, go and abort that thing. Dont mind all these stupid advise here |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Tobylawal14: 12:17pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Guy, keep the baby. Even if her father disown her, he will still accept her back. Ire o |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by MartinsD12(m): 12:18pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
New222:You do not have two choices here , you have one option keep the baby, don't you ever try to abort that baby , hustle marry the mother simple, if she was good enough for you to be bleeping her up and down then be ready to man up and shoulder your responsibility 2 Likes |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Goldbw122(m): 12:18pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
New222:Just be a man and hold on to your responsibility so you start early so you going to going the long way now, God be with you, let her have the child and things will get hard but when you see the child you will smile with joy. |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by cele444: 12:20pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
keep the baby terminating it is not the best option |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Spherical17: 12:21pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Kate06:listen to yourself guy? Stop commenting on public forum to decieve and put your fellow ignorance ones astray You're even looking for someone to get pregnant for you. What a life! To you, once you impregnate a girl then she automatically becomes your wife while you become the husband I dey like people like una to cross my path. You'll not live to see the child. That is if there's a true prophecy not to opt for abortion o. If otherwise, after terminating the pregnancy. Women will automatically become alien to you. |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by emmyileri(m): 12:21pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
New222:What if she died while trying to remove it? You better face the consequences and be at peace. If you kill that baby you become a murderer and that makes you a murderer |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Spherical17: 12:21pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Kate06:listen to yourself guy? Stop commenting on public forum to decieve and put your fellow ignorance ones astray You're even looking for someone to get pregnant for you. What a life! To you, once you impregnate a girl then she automatically becomes your wife while you become the husband I dey like people like una to cross my path. You'll not live to see the child. That is if there's a true prophecy not to opt for abortion o. If otherwise, after terminating the pregnancy. Women will automatically become alien to you. |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Nobody: 12:21pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
If you expect me to tell you to go and abort that child you are mistaken. My advice, find job now and be ready for family life. But no matter what you do, except your parents really help you. If you have to take care of the girl and the pregnant within few months you will understand why Nigeria National Pledge ends with SO HELP ME GOD. |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by elganzar(m): 12:22pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
60% of the people here have aborted a pregnancy, you're not first...if the pregnancy is not up to two months abortion is safe... Don't use pills, go to a good doctor...it's safer that way...everything will cost like 20k You'll also be a murderer niyen sha... Wah state do u reside?? |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by elasticlala: 12:22pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Some people here who are advising you to keep the baby know deep down in their hearts, if they were in your shoe, they wouldn’t keep it. I just have some few things to say & a question to ask u based on what you have written up there… 1. What becomes of that girl if in the end, she keeps the baby and u on the other hand goes for someone else later in life and abandon the one that had a child for u? Probably at that time, she must have long dropped out of school and disown by her parents ….. Do u think if she knows both of u might not end up together, she would ever consider keeping the child ? I’m asking this because from the look of things, u really don’t have any idea of the long term effects of any of the options before u… The girl on the other hand doesn’t have up to 2% of what is before her. If she knows, she probably would have aborted it long before telling u she was pregnant so so so time … The truth about life is beyond what they tell u on social media platforms. Let me tell u a short story… My first girlfriend was one of the daughters of a top redeem pastors in Lagos …she was brilliant and got admitted into the University early . She was 19 while I was 26….don’t try to think I got her pregnant �… she was t pregnant. Her immediate elder sister who came for pre-degree in those days got pregnant for a 300L law student who said he doesn’t want any child …not even in the next 8yrs from that time… but this girl was so obsessed with the guy and decided she won’t abort it even if he forsakes her … the guy actually stopped conversing with her and she didn’t care. She decided to not tell her parents about the pregnancy so that by the time they would get to know, it would not be possible for them to consider abortion again….. Of course it was easy for her because she didn’t go home for a long time. To cut the long story short, she later decided to go home after about 4 months…. Immediately the father saw her that she was pregnant, he didn’t even wait for the mum to return. He immediate took her in the car to a hospital in lagos, that was owned by one of his friends, and removed the 4 months old baby….Baba didn’t even bother asking her who, how, when and why it happened… The pastor removed the child straight away…. I was shocked. Till today, I will never forget that incidence… For your situation, consider several things before u decide on what to do…. I wish u the best in whatever u do. |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by biafranrealson: 12:22pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
When you were naking her raw , did you seek for our advice ? |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by seangy4konji: 12:23pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
This one we dont even know where the country is heading Insane people want a 80 year old man to rule Nigeria with all this mess we are already into... May we not jam agbako....If you have funds to keep it,then keep it but that means robbing that girl of proper education and family wahala.... I hope its not a decision you both later regret....know without money and with money...Nigeria is not easy. |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by JECAE: 12:23pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Keep the child, Never Stain your hand with some one blood through abortion which may result in the death of the lady and your baby, if that happen, it will be a long time blow on your personality. Now, do this... 1. open up to your family, tell your mum, find a way to let your dad know. 2.let them know of your decision to keep the child 3. they will take it up from there. 4. Brace up and be ready for castigation and all manner of insult but it will not last. 5. REPENT OF YOUR SINS AND BE BORN AGAIN, this is actually my sole counsel, as you can see, there no gain in being promiscuous, NO profit in any form of juvenile delinquencies it will destroy you at the end regardless of it present benefits. 6. see to it that you do not fail in life through this distraction BE A RESPONSIBLE MAN, BE A CHILD OF GOD farewell. 1 Like |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by chatinent: 12:24pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
alexvic12: Yeah, chief. I responded here already: https://www.nairaland.com/7169355/just-got-someone-pregnant-advise/3#113630838 |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Apili: 12:24pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
U didn't seek advice when nacking her so do the needful we have alot to worry about in this sinking country |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by ify0000(m): 12:25pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Bro wen u Dey chop her like carrot u no seek for advice ooo but as wetin u plant germinate u begin Dey find advice...(was just pulling ur legs) my advice is dis,what has happened has happened take it as a man!!! There are people our dere looking for dis bundle of blessings will millions of naira,bro I would never advise you to abort,NEVER! |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Daestro3: 12:25pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
DriverX:actually abortion is safer than child birth. |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by juman(m): 12:26pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Discuss with your parents, if they are ready to take care of the responsibilities if her parents send her away then keep the pregnancy. If not terminate it. |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by ufotunang: 12:26pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
baralatie:..ok no problem.. but they also have baby care Vaseline..I have seen it in some shops when I want to buy somethings |
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by mrdino(m): 12:26pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Congratulations! Penisteroy |
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