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Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Jeon(f): 8:29pm On Jun 13, 2022
DenreleDave:


Are you satisfied now?

Cheers

Thank God many married men can relate to this... So it is useful atleast

by Anhi..ee's posts to motivate you


See Brain cheesy

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Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Backpedal: 8:42pm On Jun 13, 2022
Chigorkizz:
The fact remains that a woman can die for her children but can never die for her husband.

For men out there.... Your wives don't love u ooo ...they are pretending because of the benefits. Don't be decieved.
Interesting

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Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by DenreleDave(m): 9:02pm On Jun 13, 2022
Jeon:


by Anhi..ee's posts to motivate you[/b]

See Brain cheesy

Brain just like urs wink
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Jeon(f): 9:05pm On Jun 13, 2022
DenreleDave:


Brain just like urs wink

yeah, but I can't find me picking up a married woman words she used on NL to shaded her marriage life with hubby in order to come out with some theories .

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Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Kooldame: 9:07pm On Jun 13, 2022
If a man is nice and loyal to his woman,definetly the woman will be proud of him and the chemistry btw him and his wife will continue to wax stronger
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by AloneTK: 9:22pm On Jun 13, 2022
That couples drift apart and dote more on their kids more isn’t a case of one of them Indulging in infidelity or being a deadbeat.

Getting married to build a family is totally different from jumping into an arrangement to becoming a “Mrs” or a “Mr” to someone.

Keeping up with the demands financially, emotionally and physically goes a long way in not making a spouse feel ignored within the home.


For the numerous comments on posting of pictures, please note that some individuals don’t even like using their own pics as DP, let alone allowing their spouses upload their photos on social media. Besides, knowing what to keep on and offline about your life is key.

That being said, if you feel your wife is focusing more on the kids, rather than sulking or accepting it as fate because some already said mothers are wired to have all the love their kids have to offer, get up and strategize.

Sometimes, you have to play a little politics to earn their love and friendship. Everything is not all about MONEY!
They are from your loins after all grin
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by coputa(m): 9:29pm On Jun 13, 2022
DenreleDave:


CALM DOWN MAGGOT

I AM TALKING ABOUT SOMETHING GENERAL.. HERS WAS JUST A COINCIDENCE
Dave it's okay,apology accepted.lol.please try and reach out to her.
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by DenreleDave(m): 9:29pm On Jun 13, 2022
Jeon:


yeah, but I can't find me picking up a married woman words she used on NL to shaded her marriage life with hubby in order to come out with some theories .

Rest in Jesus name
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by ahnie: 9:30pm On Jun 13, 2022
Hello bitches...sadly I don't give a flying feck,your opinions doesn't bother me one bit
Because it doesn't change the fact that I m still ahnie.

Most of you deadbeats having stffl erection on my mention I m 100 better than your mother's and sisters all pressed together and shaken over.

Una nor reach...to the jobless old miserable cretin asking for my forgiveness...try teach the cursed hands to be busy and tell your sister to stop co-habiting with sperm donors.


You can as well send mention for urgent 2k as that's what you're good at.
Send the mention fast m in a pretty good mood.


Like I said.....I don't give a flying feck.

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Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by DenreleDave(m): 9:31pm On Jun 13, 2022
coputa:
Dave it's okay,apology accepted.lol.please try and reach out to her.

I tried actually by she cursed my family in return.. At a point, I may nt apologize again...

Maybe what has happened has happened..

Anyway I am still her fan...
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by DenreleDave(m): 9:32pm On Jun 13, 2022
ahnie:
Hello bitches...sadly I don't give a flying feck,your opinions doesn't bother me one bit
Because it doesn't change the fact that I m still ahnie.

Most of you deadbeats having stffl erection on my mention I m 100 better than your mother's and sisters all pressed together and shaken over.

Una nor reach...to the jobless old miserable cretin asking for my forgiveness...try teach the cursed hands to be busy and tell your sister to stop co-habiting with sperm donors.


You can as well send mention for urgent 2k as that's what you're good at.
Send the mention fast m in a pretty good mood.


Like I said.....I don't give a flying feck.
Finally ahnie don forgive me... She wan even dash mi 2k


Shey make i send aza? cheesy cheesy cheesy

Ahnie my idol
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by ahnie: 9:32pm On Jun 13, 2022
Jeon:


yeah, but I can't find me picking up a married woman words she used on NL to shaded her marriage life with hubby in order to come out with some theories .
Ignore the jobless oaf....he needs a job.

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Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by DenreleDave(m): 9:35pm On Jun 13, 2022
ahnie:

Ignore the jobless oaf....he needs a job.

When I come delta next week, I will see you in person..

I promise
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Mayeldah(m): 9:36pm On Jun 13, 2022
OP it is not always that way, Children are always close to the parent that understands them and loves them better

Whenever my children hears me coming at the door they runs to wlecome me but if they hear the sound of their mother coming they scamper in fear.

My wife is the mean type, me self I dey para for them o but I hardly beats them.

For the man issue, a man should just love himself. Most women change after having kids, sometimes it is the house chores and other responsibilities that comes with being a mother that drains them out.

If you are not having enough attention from your wife after years of marriage, discuss it. If she is not making adjustments then carry your cross and find a way out.

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Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by DenreleDave(m): 9:36pm On Jun 13, 2022
Jeon:


by Anhi..ee's posts to motivate you[/b]

See Brain cheesy

Aswear ahnie is my idol... She dey motivate me..

She dey give me better inspiration
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by DenreleDave(m): 9:37pm On Jun 13, 2022
Mayeldah:
OP it is not always that way, Children are always close to the parent that understands them and loves them better

Whenever my children hears me coming at the door they runs to wlecome me but if they hear the sound of their mother coming they scamper in fear.

My wife is the mean type, me self I dey para for them o but I hardly beats them.

For the man issue, a man should just love himself. Most women change after having kids, sometimes it is the house chores and other responsibilities that comes with being a mother that drains them out.

If you are not having enough attention from your wife after years of marriage, discuss it. If she is not making adjustments then carry your cross and find a way out.



U said find a way out..

Pls propose the way(s) out
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by coputa(m): 9:38pm On Jun 13, 2022
DenreleDave:


I tried actually by she cursed my family in return.. At a point, I may nt apologize again...

Maybe what has happened has happened..

Anyway I am still her fan...
ok,Dave i respects your humility,she's still hot,i am sure she will forgive n forget.nobody is above mistake.
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by dreu2fine(m): 9:40pm On Jun 13, 2022
DenreleDave:
I still don't get.. Are men built to work and not enjoy?

My first instance: A very popular nairalander loves to show her kids all time which is not bad but she doesn't even mention her husband.....
What baffles me most is this statement; "my money is for me and my kids"...

Does it Mean a wife cannot even treat her husband well too?

I guess this is the main reason some men ignore their wife and kids to enjoy their lives... They know that most kids grow to love their mother..

I don't blame such men.... But I don't hope to have such a wife that have the mentality of my kids and I ALONE?


2ndly, I feel most women are not happy in their marriage which is why all they live for is their kids.. The only reason why most ladies are still under the same roof is because of the kids and their lack of financial resources to stand alone... Most are just having sex, doing mommy and daddy bcoz of the kids but the true essence of marriage between has long dissappeared...

If not, in my own perception, a happily married woman should be proud of her husband. She should happily treat her husband well. She should say wonderful things about her husband.


Marriage dey fear me walahi....
Children are more closely n emotional closest to dea mom
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by DenreleDave(m): 9:40pm On Jun 13, 2022
coputa:
ok,Dave i respects your humility,she's still hot,i am sure she will forgive n forget.nobody is above mistake.

Thank u sir
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by DenreleDave(m): 9:40pm On Jun 13, 2022
dreu2fine:

Children are more closely n emotional closest to dea mom

Then what is the fate of the father?
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by ahnie: 9:40pm On Jun 13, 2022
DenreleDave:

Finally ahnie don forgive me... She wan even dash mi 2k


Shey make i send aza? cheesy cheesy cheesy

Ahnie my idol
Keep up with your foolery.....I m off to get red apples.
By the way i prolly think it would be a good idea to get you some bags of corn to roast for me....at least it would keep you busy and shut your loose.



Stupid shameless bum.
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by DenreleDave(m): 9:41pm On Jun 13, 2022
ahnie:

Keep up with your foolery.....I m off to get red apples.
By the way i prolly think it would be a good idea to get you some bags of corn to roast for me....at least it would keep you busy and shut your loose.



Stupid shameless bum.

Ahnie I am deeply sorry......

I am your fan........

I am truly sorry. Ahnie


BTW, I like red apples.. Pls buy 2 for me out of my 2k cheesy wink

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Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by coputa(m): 9:43pm On Jun 13, 2022
ahnie:

Ignore the jobless oaf....he needs a job.
please calm down,nobody is above mistake,we all learn everyday.He has also apologised,i respect him for that.
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by dreu2fine(m): 9:44pm On Jun 13, 2022
DenreleDave:


Then what is the fate of the father?
Show them love
Take responsibilities n tolerate.
Because they will sometimes gangup against u
But you are the head
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by cherryCola: 9:49pm On Jun 13, 2022
DenreleDave:


Oboy I am bother... There is no way jealously wunt set in..

Some men have vow to. Enjoy their lives irrespective of how their family are.... Bcox most bliv the kids are more wired to their mother than the father even after all..

As a man, e no easy and to top it all...

My husband money is for us while my money is for my children and I alone..



happney69


wow i never knew this post would make front page grin grin grin grin

Anytime i decide to put tribalism apart, my post is always on fire

SHun tribalism No to tribalism

Animals like you're not needed here, go back to crypto thread and continue your scamming.
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by DenreleDave(m): 9:51pm On Jun 13, 2022
cherryCola:


Animals like my father is not needed here, let my father go back to crypto thread and continue his scamming.
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by NeroPapas(m): 9:53pm On Jun 13, 2022
abobote:
My own is the other way round. My wife de vomplain say, I no de send her, say na only the kids I de send

In this case, you're doing well. That's how it should be, not the other way round! What sort sort of a man goes about sulking his wife don't give him attention? Tueh!!!

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Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by cherryCola: 10:02pm On Jun 13, 2022
DenreleDave:
Don't blame me cherryCola, cause my father was a useless troller so am i .

Apology accepted tongue .
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Jeon(f): 10:02pm On Jun 13, 2022
DenreleDave:

Aswear ahnie is my idol... She dey motivate me..
She dey give me better inspiration

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Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Jeon(f): 10:03pm On Jun 13, 2022
DenreleDave:

Rest in Jesus name

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Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by cherryCola: 10:04pm On Jun 13, 2022
Jeon:

Sorry you came late.....cheesy .

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Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Jeon(f): 10:07pm On Jun 13, 2022
cherryCola:

Sorry you came late.....cheesy .
sorry, I'm living very soon.

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