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Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by emmy4real94(m): 11:38am On May 19, 2022
You mean underpricing? grin
Atimjessy:
He kept over-pricing everything like a stingy man.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by emmy4real94(m): 11:43am On May 19, 2022
grin grin grin grin grin
nurez305:
The first red flag was when she started ignoring my calls.

I went to her house to know what is going on and I met a guy there but he excuse us immediately, later she went to take her bath and drop the phone on the sofa. I was with her phone when the text message from that guy that left enter with only "OK" . then I open the message and I saw the previous conversation between them.

The guy said : when you know your boy-friend is coming to your house today, why did you invite me also to come

My fucking GF replied : he is not my boyfriend, he is only a friend


After reading that, I started sweating inside their house after I have spent on the idiot.

I bought her the phone,
Pay her school fee,
Give her money whenever she ask
When her father died, I paid her trip to and fro and also give her change to hold to her village.


I felt like a loser and was very heartbroken. I summon courage and told her to return back my phone after telling her what I saw in her inbox, she accuse me of checking her messages without her consent and she refuse to give me the phone.

I threten her that if she refuse to return my phone that I won't take it lively with her. She reported me to police and they set a trap for me, she told me to come to somewhere to collect the phone, on getting there, I was arrested and the police force me to write a statement that I will never disturb her because of this phone again. I did and they told me to call one of my relatives to come and bail me and be my witness. I did that and I was granted bail and told us to come the next day.

The next day, the police woman try to settle the issue between us and she said we should not fight each other again and continue our relationship. And the police officer told her to delete all the threat messages I sent to her which he did.


NOW IS MY TURN TO REVENGE
After about 2months that will depart, she taught I have forgotten everything she does to me not knowing that I'm only waiting for the best time to strike her back. I went to area command to hire police, the man charged me 30k and told me not to worried that what she does was very bad. I lead the way to her house and she was shocked to see me again, she quickly call her mum and to tell her, we arrested her in her shop then and the police put an allegation on her that she hire tug to beat me up because I requested for my phone from her. She started crying that is a lie. The police ask for the receipt of the phone from her and she told them that I bought it for her, they collected the phone and detained her until her family show.

grin grin grin grin grin grin ;DI later tell the police to allow her to go but I need to collect the phone. The man said it is important I do that.... After everything, I collected the phone and leave them in the station.


Foolish olosho


Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by emmanuelbrown26: 12:35pm On May 19, 2022
humility33:


It seems you're going through pains and emotional trauma

Won't insult you reason because it is not in my mature to insult you but you know it seems you're so good in playing VICTIMS

You already start call my observation "guilt trip"
Baba u even get time for all these frustrated aunties, very soon shiloh go cum and go yet they won't see result of their shiloh all bcs of their stupidity.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by emmanuelbrown26: 1:03pm On May 19, 2022
BeautyB99:
Mine was a self centered, manipulative, and nassacitic human being that want things to be done his way, everything should be all about him and if I don't do it he will get angry and jump into conclusion that I don't love him, I am cheating on him and he will start calling me names, the worst of it all am always doing everything to make him happy but when I want him to do the same for me he will complain about it and say he don't owe me anything atleast I should be happy that he is doing me a favour to date me, I got angry and talk to him about those words he keeps telling me but he doesn't care he keeps saying it and he doesn't even apologies whenever he says them even when he is at fault he doesn't admit it or apologies, so me I no fit tolerate that attitude na make I end the relationship although we supposed get married last year because he was planning to come and see my people around that June period but with the nonsense I see for e hand I no accept the proposal. But he is financially stable at least he has his own house, cars and planning on getting another car and I don't depend on him for money like that because I have my own business am doing even before I met him I have been taking care of myself so don't think is because of his money that made me stayed with him
Before u even 3nded your sermon on d mountain. I knew vividly well that na en money dey mak u endure and tolerate him. Aunty I know una type jare

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Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Fadafada231(m): 1:05pm On May 19, 2022
nurez305:
The first red flag was when she started ignoring my calls.

I went to her house to know what is going on and I met a guy there but he excuse us immediately, later she went to take her bath and drop the phone on the sofa. I was with her phone when the text message from that guy that left enter with only "OK" . then I open the message and I saw the previous conversation between them.

The guy said : when you know your boy-friend is coming to your house today, why did you invite me also to come

My fucking GF replied : he is not my boyfriend, he is only a friend


After reading that, I started sweating inside their house after I have spent on the idiot.

I bought her the phone,
Pay her school fee,
Give her money whenever she ask
When her father died, I paid her trip to and fro and also give her change to hold to her village.


I felt like a loser and was very heartbroken. I summon courage and told her to return back my phone after telling her what I saw in her inbox, she accuse me of checking her messages without her consent and she refuse to give me the phone.

I threten her that if she refuse to return my phone that I won't take it lively with her. She reported me to police and they set a trap for me, she told me to come to somewhere to collect the phone, on getting there, I was arrested and the police force me to write a statement that I will never disturb her because of this phone again. I did and they told me to call one of my relatives to come and bail me and be my witness. I did that and I was granted bail and told us to come the next day.

The next day, the police woman try to settle the issue between us and she said we should not fight each other again and continue our relationship. And the police officer told her to delete all the threat messages I sent to her which he did.


NOW IS MY TURN TO REVENGE
After about 2months that will depart, she taught I have forgotten everything she does to me not knowing that I'm only waiting for the best time to strike her back. I went to area command to hire police, the man charged me 30k and told me not to worried that what she does was very bad. I lead the way to her house and she was shocked to see me again, she quickly call her mum and to tell her, we arrested her in her shop then and the police put an allegation on her that she hire tug to beat me up because I requested for my phone from her. She started crying that is a lie. The police ask for the receipt of the phone from her and she told them that I bought it for her, they collected the phone and detained her until her family show.

I later tell the police to allow her to go but I need to collect the phone. The man said it is important I do that.... After everything, I collected the phone and leave them in the station.


Foolish olosho



Hmmm some women are really heartless. Tue

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Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by emmanuelbrown26: 1:19pm On May 19, 2022
Blessiing:
Baba started asking me to borrow him money and to loan money from people for him the very next day i agreed to date him,.... He was a very manipulative, self-centered, greedy and a lying ass person.... Since i had known him, he was always hungry or not having money(everyday, min, hour you will hear him say"am hungry, since day before yesterday i never chop, na just water i dey drink then when you ask what he wants to eat, he says turkey, stew and rice with little beans or i go manage 5k,later again he will say hes sick and in the hospital or his father had an accident or his brother is sick" kai Akin my God will judge you heavily, nobody tell me before i off my slippers run leave am..... Lost many opportunities then cos of him but i thank God for where i am now...
Bcs people like u hate to hear truth only lies upon lies, that's why akin was able to manipulate and chop u raw.
D gods are wise
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by humility33(m): 2:26pm On May 19, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

Baba u even get time for all these frustrated aunties, very soon shiloh go cum and go yet they won't see result of their shiloh all bcs of their stupidity.

I tell u bro that day just had time to reply mentions
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by emmanuelbrown26: 4:25pm On May 19, 2022
humility33:


I tell u bro that day just had time to reply mentions

I for say na, frustrated aunties everywhere u go like mtn
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Blessiing(f): 10:03pm On May 19, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

Bcs people like u hate to hear truth only lies upon lies, that's why akin was able to manipulate and chop u raw.
D gods are wise





Okay sir,since you know all who am I to argue??thanks...
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by emmanuelbrown26: 9:25am On May 20, 2022
humility33:


Thanks for this bro

Will take note

I have an issue right now

I am highly sapiosexual. I like I love intelligent discussions in politics, economics, sports, geography, history,animal science and lots more and when I relate with ladies they seems not to fit into this, I swiftly loose interest I just dont know how to manage this
If na naija ladies, baba just forget it. Nothing absolutely nothing dey their coconut head. When dey hv covered their coconut head with different wig and weavon, do u think that something fit come out of d head?
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by emmanuelbrown26: 9:55am On May 20, 2022
Blessiing:






Okay sir,since you know all who am I to argue??thanks...
Never meant to mak u feel less bleble, maybe u didn't understand what I meant
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by PumpumPrince: 9:31am On Jun 24, 2022
dexla:


Even as a lady, I like how this ended. Some women are just so greedy and selfish. Playing with people's emotion like the world revolves around them. I just hope she's learnt her lesson

how much?
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by dexla(f): 11:21am On Jul 29, 2022
PumpumPrince:


how much?

How much be wetin
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Gentlesoul2021(m): 1:29pm On Jul 29, 2022
LambOm:
Lol smiling at phone everytime a message from a specific person comes up


Just in case you suspect your partner is cheating and you like to catch them, check my signature on how to use an app to bust them... it reveals all they do on their phone


Click on profile to see my contact details

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Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by PumpumPrince: 4:11pm On Jul 30, 2022
dexla:


How much be wetin

well this is yor shance to date a Londoner from London
sohow much to chop kiss, get hug, chop extra kiss, get extra hug, service & happy hour please? smiley
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Uptheante(m): 9:34pm On Jul 30, 2022
nurez305:
The first red flag was when she started ignoring my calls.

I went to her house to know what is going on and I met a guy there but he excuse us immediately, later she went to take her bath and drop the phone on the sofa. I was with her phone when the text message from that guy that left enter with only "OK" . then I open the message and I saw the previous conversation between them.

The guy said : when you know your boy-friend is coming to your house today, why did you invite me also to come

My fucking GF replied : he is not my boyfriend, he is only a friend


After reading that, I started sweating inside their house after I have spent on the idiot.

I bought her the phone,
Pay her school fee,
Give her money whenever she ask
When her father died, I paid her trip to and fro and also give her change to hold to her village.


I felt like a loser and was very heartbroken. I summon courage and told her to return back my phone after telling her what I saw in her inbox, she accuse me of checking her messages without her consent and she refuse to give me the phone.

I threten her that if she refuse to return my phone that I won't take it lively with her. She reported me to police and they set a trap for me, she told me to come to somewhere to collect the phone, on getting there, I was arrested and the police force me to write a statement that I will never disturb her because of this phone again. I did and they told me to call one of my relatives to come and bail me and be my witness. I did that and I was granted bail and told us to come the next day.

The next day, the police woman try to settle the issue between us and she said we should not fight each other again and continue our relationship. And the police officer told her to delete all the threat messages I sent to her which he did.


NOW IS MY TURN TO REVENGE
After about 2months that will depart, she taught I have forgotten everything she does to me not knowing that I'm only waiting for the best time to strike her back. I went to area command to hire police, the man charged me 30k and told me not to worried that what she does was very bad. I lead the way to her house and she was shocked to see me again, she quickly call her mum and to tell her, we arrested her in her shop then and the police put an allegation on her that she hire tug to beat me up because I requested for my phone from her. She started crying that is a lie. The police ask for the receipt of the phone from her and she told them that I bought it for her, they collected the phone and detained her until her family show.

I later tell the police to allow her to go but I need to collect the phone. The man said it is important I do that.... After everything, I collected the phone and leave them in the station.


Foolish olosho


That is why the redpill has always advised against falling in love helplessly with a bitch especially a Nigerian bitch cos u will surely regret it with severe pains.

U even spent so much on her & I'm sure the other guys drilling her olosho kpekus mercilessly have never spent one-tenth of what u spent on her.
Finally ur eyes don clear grin
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Uptheante(m): 9:36pm On Jul 30, 2022
FindX:
One round no dey do her.

How person pikin go dey fvck for 3 straight hours?
Pass her to me bro, I can drill her for 6 hours
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Uptheante(m): 9:36pm On Jul 30, 2022
Offpoint1:
She doesn't know who Einstein or Isaac Newton was, couldn't hold any intelligent conversation.
She be science student?
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Uptheante(m): 9:37pm On Jul 30, 2022
mployer:
She knew all the hotels within the vicinity. Even our hangout spot had a lodging acommodation. I didn't know, she told me embarassed
Na real time olosho she be grin

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