Konjiboii:
If you don't see anything wrong with the girl behavior then you are completely dumber than I thought you were.

KoshCAD:
Shut up, I am sure the mother wouldn't allow her to sweep if she offers to.

But because of lack of respect for her own parents, she carry her attitude outside and she has been chased. Her next boyfriend mother will still chase her too.

We all know most of you are just online feminist.

We never forget Aunty Linda.

Harmony92:
The question should be " who raised your mom? Two of my brothers are married n my mom didn't make their wives go true stress jor.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
My frustrated ugly old hag WHORÈ mother is a big fool and me HARLÒT took over her

SenecaTheYonger:


But I can’t allow my wife do all the chores in the house when I still have hands and legs. Besides, what would I be doing while she’s doing chores? I like to be near her to I’ll join her and make it faster.

Seriously, what would the man be doing when his wife is doing chores? It’s makes me uncomfortable when someone does my chore without me helping

FuckSilly:

My mom is a fool..

CheedyJ:
Even as a guy that I'm , I can't raise my legs up while my friend's Mom is sweeping, e no proper abeg

UyaiIncomparabl:


I don't understand? If you and mom think it is right to sweep when a guest is around, makes me ask myself if she gave you the necessary home training.

Jeon:
LOL..

IF YOU LIKE GO DIVIDE UR HEAD INTO SEVEN PIECES OR ACT LIKE AN ANCIENT BLACK SLAVE, YOU WILL STILL BE HATED FOR BEING A SISTER IN-LAW IN SOME FAMILY .

so no time to please anyone.... just be yourself.

Maverick777:

Aiding an elder is stress to you?
shame!
Anyway, you're most likely a low-budget lesbian, so it's pointless..

UyaiIncomparabl:


I'm a spec.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Dey use old tactics dey judge wife material. Emancipate yourselves from mental backwardness.

ChuksHills:
Do you know if the visit what unannounced to the mother. The girl raising up her legs doesnt mean she is bad oo may be she don't know ethics, but what was expected from the mother of the guy was that as she got to where she is setting she was supposed not to allow her sweep under her legs and not by raising up her legs, by ethics she was supposed to say mama give me the broom let me sweep it then it will be left for the mother to agree or not. So the mother saw it that she is not homely and that she is arrogant. And remember old people see what we can't see. .

Kobojunkie:
Read the OP again. Her own son watched her sweeping and didn't take the broom from her.

Kobojunkie:
Do you not also see anything wrong with the woman's son watching his own mother sweep for him?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Her son will take over from her.

Maverick777:

So its in a man's place to do domestic work when the wife is not incapacitated?
but when the car/generator is faulty, you'd call your husband to fix it?

I'd give you an advise, whatever you do try to make enough money, so you can buy a man who would do your bidding...
Because you can't be broke and still not be a submissive and virtuous wife, it doesn't work that way.

Kobojunkie:
Why didn't the son aide his own mother in Sweeping though? Why expect a stranger to do in your house what you don't do?

Ishilove:
Toh. We have been reduced to maids and cooks. Until you have properly engaged me, I remain a guest in your home and as I do not expect a guest to help with house chores unless I specifically request, don't expect me to go to your house and start forming the girl is good. The girl is not a pretender!

Maverick777:

Madam, this is Africa!
There are certain things a man shouldn't do when a woman is around, and vice-versa.
I'm sure if the lady wasn't there at the time, the boy would have collected the broom from his mum.
but because he thought she had good upbringing and would collect the broom, he laid back.

Maverick777:

she's someone he wanted to marry.
I don't think such a person can pass off as a stranger!

Karleb:
Nigga! You just won't die off easily.

Whenever you see my post, try to avoid it. I don't like communicating with you because you don't make sense.

You're always off the point.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.

GoooodHardDick:

UyaiIncomparabl: stupidity, oloshoism and runz has taken over your sense of reasoning!

Meanwhile Your fellow gender below thinks otherwise!