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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by uchelouis45(m): 6:29pm On Aug 11, 2022
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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by JamieRocks(m): 6:29pm On Aug 11, 2022
ibinaboonline:
I'm ready to pop the question soon. My question is, how do you'all codedly, abi sharply find out your bebe's finger size in order to get her a ring that fits? I'd ask her but I want it to be a surprise. Men and women of experience, help a newbie out
simply ask someone that's very close to her (maybe her sister or female friend) to strategically put a ring on the the finger playfully
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Ingredient88(m): 6:32pm On Aug 11, 2022
ibinaboonline:
I'm ready to pop the question soon. My question is, how do you'all codedly, abi sharply find out your bebe's finger size in order to get her a ring that fits? I'd ask her but I want it to be a surprise. Men and women of experience, help a newbie out
my brother, you see I did mine 3weeKs ago, and this is how it goes, find out maybe she has a ring she's using before, I mean, a normal fashion ring, that she's using, then you picked the ring and in a playful manner you asked her to bring her finger and insert that same ring for you to know maybe it will size her finger or not, Dan I noticed that they ladies's finger is between 7/8 and 9, so anyway, if you want to buy make sure that is between 7/8 and 9, 7 will be a little bit tight so check out maybe it might be between that range....Dan you you can also has some questions like, which kind or types of ring will you prefer, if I want to propose to you? You asked in form of question!, some lady will prefer diamond, why some will prefer gold, you need to know all this before you buy so that, she will appreciate it when you do.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by ivolt: 6:32pm On Aug 11, 2022
ibinaboonline:
In case you guys are all serious about this Nigerian women thing and virgin thing, have you ever considered that a woman you married as a virgin can still step out on you after you're married? So you'all think women are better overseas or what? Godly people build godly homes, period. The weeping and regrets you'all harp about is in the homes of the ungodly.
Stop responding to these toxic boys.
Most are immature teenagers playing alpha online.

As to the ring size.
Does she currently use ring?
Then you can secretly get the size.

You can also ask her friend if she has a close one.

Also, you can take another girl with similar size as your girlfriend
to a jewelery store.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by OutOnBail(m): 6:34pm On Aug 11, 2022
Lol, the irony of not seeing the moronic shit.s you've been typing as gibberish reeks stupidit.y

Hating on women like you've got no other purpose in life. Majority of you have female bosses you do yes ma to, even the ones younger than you are breaking records in life but you come online to claim macho man grin grin

Rayban25:



The gibberish you typed up there shows you're not living in the reality of what is going on now...by the way why am I responding to a cowardly female hiding behind a male account to sound like shes making sense?..abeg shift

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Calibrator: 6:35pm On Aug 11, 2022
Nairaland is too violent nowadays.... Someone cannot even come online to ask how to propose in peace again cheesy

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Hassanmaye(m): 6:36pm On Aug 11, 2022
PerfectStranger:

Violent question. Question that gives Nigerian girls nightmare.
Hahahhahahaha

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Templee333(m): 6:39pm On Aug 11, 2022
jeromestarks:
You no get Google for you phone? Abi, what's with these nonsense questions.
i hope i didn't mention ur nonsense name when i asked the nonsense question.
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Nobody: 6:40pm On Aug 11, 2022
This one everyone is avoiding Nigerian girls, should we go to neighbouring countries like Ghana, Cameroon, Cotonou, etc?
Are they better than our girls?

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Prettygirl200(f): 6:41pm On Aug 11, 2022
Congratulations dear wishing u all the best in your marriage

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by lexy2014: 6:43pm On Aug 11, 2022
ibinaboonline:
I'm ready to pop the question soon. My question is, how do you'all codedly, abi sharply find out your bebe's finger size in order to get her a ring that fits? I'd ask her but I want it to be a surprise. Men and women of experience, help a newbie out

Do you need advice to propose to a woman? Did you ask for advice when you were toasting her?
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jaxxy(m): 6:45pm On Aug 11, 2022
hope u know her in and out? and not just doing things sheepishly make her happy when she's not reciprocating it's is exhausting and even dehumanising.

Pls don't ever propose to a stranger cos u are under some pressure to please anybody.

know ur partner properly like u should. if ure afraid to ask ur partner questions and get satisfactory answers I'm sorry bt u don't know them yet. That person is still a freaking stranger. undecided

wish u the best as u take ur next step.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Fantazy(m): 6:45pm On Aug 11, 2022
I wonder who get time dey propose to Ashawo

Lobish!

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jeromestarks: 6:46pm On Aug 11, 2022
Templee333:

i hope i didn't mention ur nonsense name when i asked the nonsense question.
Calm down.
Simple vawulence, you go carry double barrel.
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jeromestarks: 6:48pm On Aug 11, 2022
OutOnBail:


He sought for advice on ring size and not this gibberish!
Who is talking to this one?
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jeromestarks: 6:49pm On Aug 11, 2022
Fantazy:
I wonder who get time dey propose to Ashawo

Lobish!
Real like lobish... hahahaha.
Don't blame the op, he's a cripple.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by bepositive11: 6:51pm On Aug 11, 2022
Enough already. Stop thinking that everyone will fail in their marriage or relationship like you. Do you even know him?? angry They are happy and healthy relationships out there. Please mind your business.

jeromestarks:

Ok ooo.
Trust me on this. You will try your best to make this marriage work. You will sacrifice a lot. You will give your all in all. But in the end, you will be deeply hurt, you will cry and you will soil yourself in despondency.
I give you two years mate. Just two year! You will wish you didn't.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by okoroemeka(m): 6:51pm On Aug 11, 2022
ibinaboonline:
I'm ready to pop the question soon. My question is, how do you'all codedly, abi sharply find out your bebe's finger size in order to get her a ring that fits? I'd ask her but I want it to be a surprise. Men and women of experience, help a newbie out
congratulations in advance on your decision,it is not an easy decision to make but you did it,for all that are discouraging you let them know that as our faces are different so is our fate and destiny,and for those that still thinks that marrying a virgin will be the solution to infidelity proves they still have a lot to learn about women.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by virginprincess(f): 6:53pm On Aug 11, 2022
Anakazo22:


Stop talking like a fool, but you will want your sister (if you have) or daughters to get married abi. The ladies you are calling useless are people's sisters, daughters, cousins and relations for your information. So keep your sadist to yourself and allow those that want to marry in peace.
Mumu,go back and read my comment again,is like your dumb brain can't comprehend what i wrote.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by JayPeeOham: 6:53pm On Aug 11, 2022
ibinaboonline:
grin What about how to guage her finger size? Any ideas?

Her waist size will give you her ring finger size...most girls between the trouser waist size of 30-34 are size 7&8

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Nobody: 6:54pm On Aug 11, 2022
U are the one even crying. Wat is fucking business in someone else’s decision just because he asked a simple question. I am sure ur Mum was a street prostitute that they didn’t pay her bride price. No wonder u re soo bitter like dis
Rayban25:


No be me chop your noodles oo...go and cry somewhere else
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by niel63(m): 6:54pm On Aug 11, 2022
This is an interesting thread.

Op! Know this. He who finds a good wife, finds a very good thing.

Emphasis on the bolded.

Congratulations on your new life's adventure. I pray God gives you the strength and patience. (You'll need it)

I'll equally do mine someday.

But omo... babes these days no get chills ooo!

I have SEEN, I have heard, and I still saw some more.
E no balance!

Congratulations again bro! We'll be joining you soon.

However, it'd be nice if you could come here in 2years time and either prove those dude wrong, or enlighten us more!.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by bepositive11: 6:56pm On Aug 11, 2022
Thank you!!! Don't mind them!! All these Nairalanders who you see demanding virgins are insecure men! They are worried that they won't be able to perform better than their woman's exes, so they shame those women to make themselves feel better. Women should stay the hell away from such men for their own good!

ibinaboonline:
In case you guys are all serious about this Nigerian women thing and virgin thing, have you ever considered that a woman you married as a virgin can still step out on you after you're married? So you'all think women are better overseas or what? Godly people build godly homes, period. The weeping and regrets you'all harp about is in the homes of the ungodly.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jeromestarks: 6:57pm On Aug 11, 2022
drnoel:


This young men here are pained
Listen boy, I have been married twice; both non virgin (cooperate hoes)
I am ready to have joy and peace now. I deserve it. So, I am going for nothing but the best - VIRGINS!
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Nobody: 6:58pm On Aug 11, 2022
Tamilore11:
U are the one even crying. Wat is fucking business in someone else’s decision just because he asked a simple question. I am sure ur Mum was a street prostitute that they didn’t pay her bride price. No wonder u re soo bitter like dis

Okay you're still crying...when you're done you'll sleep soundly...and stop hiding behind a male account to type rubbish....its a cowardly act
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jeromestarks: 6:59pm On Aug 11, 2022
bepositive11:
Enough already. Stop thinking that everyone will fail in their marriage or relationship like you. Do you even know him?? angry They are happy and healthy relationships out there. Please mind your business.

Happy and healthy with a prostitute? I doubt.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by ukaface(f): 7:02pm On Aug 11, 2022
jeromestarks:
Don't do it. You will regret it.
Your best bet is to impregnate and keep her at home; this way, she won't misbehave.
Quick question, is she a virgin?
wtf! Is he living your life?

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by biggy00000(m): 7:05pm On Aug 11, 2022
Dnt know if you have this tidied yet...

You could use a close friend of hers say months before you pop the question.

Congratulations on your forthcoming marriage man.
There will be challenges but be of good cheer; you shall triumph.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by bepositive11: 7:06pm On Aug 11, 2022
jeromestarks:

Happy and healthy with a prostitute? I doubt.

How do you know that his woman is a prostitute? All Nigerian women are prostitutes abi? Stop thinking that all men are like you and all women are like your exes.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Connected1: 7:10pm On Aug 11, 2022
Whatever you do, just don't kneel down to propose, that's not African.

What does it matter in finding out about her ring size, just propose to her and take her to jewelry shop and buy her a ring.

You should be more worried about the future of your marriage.

I just hope she's a virgin, else I can't see why you should go through this stress, focus on having your kids in a good home, na why guys dae marry now, we just want to raise our kids with fatherly and motherly love.

Else who marriage help?
Ans: Woman.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by BRATISLAVA: 7:12pm On Aug 11, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
1.If she ain't a virgin...
2.If she's a Nigerian girl...

If the answer to these two questions are YES..

Dont trade your commitment for a used girl, dont pay a bride price for a used girl..

Then I wont advice you, I clearly want you to learn the hardway...
That's the only remedy.....



Happy proposal and marriage..

Ok virgin man who can make meaningful connections with women.

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