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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by HltSong: 10:42pm On Aug 09, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


A woman you married a virgin can still cheat on you, yea, thats for sure... AWALT.... You dont own her puc.ci. You will never own it..

But, the stup!d!ty comes, when a sane man stay committed to a non virgin..
The stup!d!ty comes, when you pay a bride price for a girl that was probably fvked with 2k or Indomie and egg.. I mean why should you pay a bride price of about 500k addition with wedding programmes and everything which I hope will cost you upto a million naira or 800k...

Her ex boyfriends fvked and dumped her.. Why should you be Ignorant to fvk and keep her.. That's where the stup!d!ty comes..

Mr.man Know your worth..

Females standard has never changed, they will always look for men who can provide for them and their children; why should men standards change from marrying virgns(our fathers) to marrying ex repented h0.e.s


She wasted her BEST years with bad guys, she is giving her REST years to you..


You literally wanna BUY the cow when The Milk is FREE

Go for the best cos you deserve the best...


Shaa your life your choice.. If you wanna settle down with a non virgin...

Then I'll let you learn the consequences of being a SIMP..

Grand pa, you are a failure.

No dey advise people wey get sense pass you.

Go and repent from your homosexuality first.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by newbornmacho(m): 10:42pm On Aug 09, 2022
Edipet:
God's word is superior yes I agree, but experience from people also matters. Have you asked yourself why churches organize marriage seminar for intended couples? And, Do you know God's word focus more on things of the spirit. It's the The light. Before marriage there are certain factor Yu need to consider before outside God's word. God's word will not reveal her past to you. Even gods words sef encourage virginity.

This guy is not interested in being advised. Just allow.him learn from experience

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by SPAMBOX7: 10:44pm On Aug 09, 2022
jeromestarks:
Don't do it. You will regret it.
Your best bet is to impregnate and keep her at home; this way, she won't misbehave.
Quick question, is she a virgin?
Comrade isn't your vawulence way too much? grin

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Blupen(m): 10:44pm On Aug 09, 2022
Beebah2000:
wedding ring don dey sweet u to wear abi?
I go delay ooo, because I no no your finger size. tongue
Na size 92 i be thanos brother

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by ibinaboonline: 10:46pm On Aug 09, 2022
Everything you just write here exposed your level of understanding of said God's word. There's nothing about life, even how to chew your food, that God's word can't teach you. Secrets of life- how to live, how to work, how to be married- are hidden within the pages. Everything. What do you mean God's word focus more on things if the spirit? If you don't realize that the physical is rooted in the spirit then you don't know what I know. Besides, spiritual things are for spiritual people. In short, don't worry about me. You need your advice far more than I do.
Edipet:
God's word is superior yes I agree, but experience from people also matters. Have you asked yourself why churches organize marriage seminar for intended couples? And, Do you know God's word focus more on things of the spirit. It's the The light. Before marriage there are certain factor Yu need to consider before outside God's word. God's word will not reveal her past to you. Even gods words sef encourage virginity.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Templee333(m): 10:46pm On Aug 09, 2022
virginprincess:
Stop proposing to nigeria women they are all useless-says a broke and frustrated redpiller grin grin cheesy. Op,congratulations in addy,hope she accepts.
why do the redpillers call them useless

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by ibinaboonline: 10:48pm On Aug 09, 2022
LOL.
Blupen:
Na size 92 i be thanos brother

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jeromestarks: 10:50pm On Aug 09, 2022
ibinaboonline:
In case you guys are all serious about this Nigerian women thing and virgin thing, have you ever considered that a woman you married as a virgin can still step out on you after you're married? So you'all think women are better overseas or what? Godly people build godly homes, period. The weeping and regrets you'all harp about is in the homes of the ungodly.
If she's not a virgin, God has nothing to do with your marriage. You have to contend with the devil ( and that means, you have to use your head).

Deuteronomy 22:20-22.
But if the thing is true, that evidence of virginity was not found in the young woman, then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done an outrageous thing in Israel by whoring in her father's house. So you shall purge the evil from your midst.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by ibinaboonline: 10:52pm On Aug 09, 2022
Please, men. Don't be cowards. Show wisdom by choosing the right woman and making her a life partner. Most of the time, like attracts like. I'm about to propose to a God -fearing woman but I won't be cajoled into talking about her here. I just asked a simple question.
newbornmacho:


This guy is not interested in being advised. Just allow.him learn from experience

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Templee333(m): 10:52pm On Aug 09, 2022
ibinaboonline:
Everything you just write here exposed your level of understanding of said God's word. There's nothing about life, even how to chew your food, that God's word can't teach you. Secrets of life- how to live, how to work, how to be married- are hidden within the pages. Everything. What do you mean God's word focus more on things if the spirit? If you don't realize that the physical is rooted in the spirit then you don't know what I know. Besides, spiritual things are for spiritual people. In short, don't worry about me. You need your advice far more than I do.
pls sir i have a problem & need God's word 4 solution,can u help?
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by virginprincess(f): 10:54pm On Aug 09, 2022
Templee333:

why do the redpillers call them useless
Are you asking me,you should be asking people like Zonefree,mosdii,Nyascobar1414 etc and not me,i'm only reminding the op what his fellow men usually say about the same nigeria woman he is proposing to.
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by ibinaboonline: 10:54pm On Aug 09, 2022
It's a sad story for any individual that twists scriptures to advance ungodly counsel.
jeromestarks:

If she's not a virgin, God has nothing to do with your marriage. You have to contend with the devil ( and that means, you have to use your head).

Deuteronomy 22:20-22.
But if the thing is true, that evidence of virginity was not found in the young woman, then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done an outrageous thing in Israel by whoring in her father's house. So you shall purge the evil from your midst.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jeromestarks: 10:55pm On Aug 09, 2022
newbornmacho:


This guy is not interested in being advised. Just allow.him learn from experience
I think that's the best thing to do. One should just let him be.
You're right comrade.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by ibinaboonline: 10:57pm On Aug 09, 2022
Okay.
Templee333:

pls sir i have a problem & need God's word 4 solution,can u help?
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Edipet(m): 10:57pm On Aug 09, 2022
ibinaboonline:
Everything you just write here exposed your level of understanding of said God's word. There's nothing about life, even how to chew your food, that God's word can't teach you. Secrets of life- how to live, how to work, how to be married- are hidden within the pages. Everything. What do you mean God's word focus more on things if the spirit? If you don't realize that the physical is rooted in the spirit then you don't know what I know. Besides, spiritual things are for spiritual people. In short, don't worry about me. You need your advice far more than I do.
everything is in God's word I know. What about the wisdom and the instinct God has given to you, how do you make use of it? I know you do pray for wisdom and God's direction everyday. How do you make use of them. ? You need to maximize this wisdom and instinct God has given to you before going to God again when the wisdom is not sufficient. There are many things inside the wisdom God has given to you. This includes marriage and career. Wen choosing a wife you need councel from elders whom God has given wisdom plus experience.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Templee333(m): 10:58pm On Aug 09, 2022
virginprincess:
Are you asking me,you should be asking people like Zonefree,mosdii,Nyascobar1414 etc and not me,i'm only reminding the op what his fellow men usually say about the same nigeria woman he is proposing to.
ok. I just wanted 2 knw
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Templee333(m): 11:02pm On Aug 09, 2022
ibinaboonline:
Okay.
what does God word say about gambling?
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jeromestarks: 11:04pm On Aug 09, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


A woman you married a virgin can still cheat on you, yea, thats for sure... AWALT.... You dont own her puc.ci. You will never own it..

But, the stup!d!ty comes, when a sane man stay committed to a non virgin..
The stup!d!ty comes, when you pay a bride price for a girl that was probably fvked with 2k or Indomie and egg
I mean why should you pay a bride price of about 500k addition with wedding programmes and everything which I hope will cost you upto a million naira or 800k...

Her ex boyfriends fvked and dumped her.. Why should you be Ignorant to fvk and keep her.. That's where the stup!d!ty comes..

Mr.man Know your worth..

Females standard has never changed, they will always look for men who can provide for them and their children; why should men standards change from marrying virgns(our fathers) to marrying ex repented h0.e.s


She wasted her BEST years with bad guys, she is giving her REST years to you..


You literally wanna BUY the cow when The Milk is FREE

Go for the best cos you deserve the best...


Shaa your life your choice.. If you wanna settle down with a non virgin...

Then I'll let you learn the consequences of being a SIMP..
This comrade drop sense here abeg. Three stars for you.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jeromestarks: 11:07pm On Aug 09, 2022
ibinaboonline:
It's a sad story for any individual that twists scriptures to advance ungodly counsel.
It is ESV. That's how I saw it sir.
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Nobody: 11:08pm On Aug 09, 2022
Blupen:
Na size 92 i be thanos brother
na so your hand big reach? undecided
Abeg I no dey marry again ooo. tongue

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by ibinaboonline: 11:09pm On Aug 09, 2022
I hear you, bro. Loud and clear, believe me. I hear you.
But, you spoke a lot about stupidity and yet you sound as if you've met the woman, my woman. You don't know anything about her, how old she is, nothing. Or would you honestly tell yourself that everyone is the same? You're the one speaking of stupidity.

As for never owning my woman's body, you have no idea.

As for not paying or throwing your cloak around a woman because of her past, I have just one answer for that: I hope God doesn't treat you and I the same way.
Nyascobar1414:


A woman you married a virgin can still cheat on you, yea, thats for sure... AWALT.... You dont own her puc.ci. You will never own it..

But, the stup!d!ty comes, when a sane man stay committed to a non virgin..
The stup!d!ty comes, when you pay a bride price for a girl that was probably fvked with 2k or Indomie and egg.. I mean why should you pay a bride price of about 500k addition with wedding programmes and everything which I hope will cost you upto a million naira or 800k...

Her ex boyfriends fvked and dumped her.. Why should you be Ignorant to fvk and keep her.. That's where the stup!d!ty comes..

Mr.man Know your worth..

Females standard has never changed, they will always look for men who can provide for them and their children; why should men standards change from marrying virgns(our fathers) to marrying ex repented h0.e.s


She wasted her BEST years with bad guys, she is giving her REST years to you..


You literally wanna BUY the cow when The Milk is FREE

Go for the best cos you deserve the best...


Shaa your life your choice.. If you wanna settle down with a non virgin...

Then I'll let you learn the consequences of being a SIMP..

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by ibinaboonline: 11:15pm On Aug 09, 2022
But in what context? Should we resort to stoning women caught in sexually sin because you found it in ESV? What did Jesus say when those people tried to pull the same thing you just pulled here when they dragged a woman caught in adultery to Jesus and asked for his permission to stone her just like it was written in the scrolls? Tell me again, what was Jesus' response?
jeromestarks:

It is ESV. That's how I saw it sir.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Mollyrobs123: 11:16pm On Aug 09, 2022
My own bf asked me this question directly � he asked how he would know my finger size when he wants to buy a Ring ���I was just laughing and said this is supposed to be a surprise why hinting me already.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jeromestarks: 11:18pm On Aug 09, 2022
ibinaboonline:
But in what context? Should we resort to stoning women caught in sexually sin because you found it in ESV? What did Jesus say when those people tried to pull the same thing you just pulled here when they dragged a woman caught in adultery to Jesus and asked for his permission to stone her just like it was written in the scrolls? Tell me again, what was Jesus' response?
Adultery is not your case here. Your case is virginity.
After you married her and she cheats on you, come back here and let's talk about adultery.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by ibinaboonline: 11:26pm On Aug 09, 2022
You see, you may not find an exact scripture verse where it says "don't gamble" but remember that Gambling can be just as addictive as drugs and alcohol. So, ask yourself what the Bible says about alcohol abuse? There's your answer. You should know you aren't just gambling with money, you're gambling with your life, your future, your self control, your life. Also, gambling in itself may not be a sin but it is often motivated by sin, the sin of greed. What does the bible say about greed and the love of money? The bible says it is the root of all evil. quote author=Templee333 post=115551070]
what does God word say about gambling?[/quote]

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by ibinaboonline: 11:28pm On Aug 09, 2022
You see what I mean. It's supposed to be a surprise.
Mollyrobs123:
My own bf asked me this question directly � he asked how he would know my finger size when he wants to buy a Ring ���I was just laughing and said this is supposed to be a surprise why hinting me already.
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by ibinaboonline: 11:30pm On Aug 09, 2022
So, we should stone women who aren't virgins? It's that what you understood from that passage you just posted here?
jeromestarks:

Adultery is not your case here. Your case is virginity.
After you married her and she cheats on you, come back here and let's talk about adultery.
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Nyascobar1414: 11:34pm On Aug 09, 2022
ibinaboonline:
I hear you, bro. Loud and clear, believe me. I hear you.
But, you spoke a lot about stupidity and yet you sound as if you've met the woman, my woman. You don't know anything about her, how old she is, nothing. Or would you honestly tell yourself that everyone is the same? You're the one speaking of stupidity.

As for never owning my woman's body, you have no idea.

As for not paying or throwing your cloak around a woman because of her past, I have just one answer for that: I hope God doesn't treat you and I the same way.

You dey bring God for real matter here?
I laff...

Girls will be broke but need rich men to take care of them.. Abi dat time they gad no conscience...

Bro, learning the hardway is the only remedy that can save people like you...

Happy marriage in Advance!

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jeromestarks: 11:36pm On Aug 09, 2022
Templee333:

what does God word say about gambling?
Gambling is away to gather wealth sharply abi? Like playing 2 odds and win 400k.
Here's what the bible says

Proverbs 13:11 - Wealth gained hastily will dwindle, but whoever gathers little by little will increase it.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by HltSong: 11:36pm On Aug 09, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


You dey bring God for real matter here?
I laff...

Girls will be broke but need rich men to take care of them.. Abi dat time they gad no conscience...

Bro, learning the hardway is the only remedy that can save people like you...

Happy marriage in Advance!

Ibinaboonline, no mind this homosexual. Fugly grandpa wey never enter school dey give advice.

Advice am to write jamb next year.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jeromestarks: 11:40pm On Aug 09, 2022
ibinaboonline:
So, we should stone women who aren't virgins? It's that what you understood from that passage you just posted here?
OMG! Who raised this guy sef?
See, oga. Go ahead and marry her.
Whatever you get, you live with it.
Bye.

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