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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by tradepunter: 10:58pm On Aug 11, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
1.If she ain't a virgin...
2.If she's a Nigerian girl...

If the answer to these two questions are YES..

Dont trade your commitment for a used girl, dont pay a bride price for a used girl..

Then I wont advice you, I clearly want you to learn the hardway...
That's the only remedy.....



Happy proposal and marriage..

Hahahahahahahah guy you nu go Kee me grin grin grin
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by virginprincess(f): 11:03pm On Aug 11, 2022
PumpumPrince:


u so rude is unbelivable...do u relice am a londoner, like from london?...why u so rude mennnn? u never bento london yet u rude? why? undecided
pumpumprince aka mrcork,londoner ko american ni grin grin grin,now get the hell out of my mentions .
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by kingsceemark(m): 11:04pm On Aug 11, 2022
virginprincess:
Stop proposing to nigeria women they are all useless-says a broke and frustrated redpiller grin grin cheesy. Op,congratulations in addy,hope she accepts.

I hope you're not typing this at your parents house? Make sure say you don catch one mumu man or ?
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by virginprincess(f): 11:06pm On Aug 11, 2022
kingsceemark:


I hope you're not typing this at your parents house? Make sure say you don catch one mumu man or ?
or what?undecided undecided
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by cho25bc(f): 11:29pm On Aug 11, 2022
ibinaboonline:
I'm ready to pop the question soon. My question is, how do you'all codedly, abi sharply find out your bebe's finger size in order to get her a ring that fits? I'd ask her but I want it to be a surprise. Men and women of experience, help a newbie out

Option 1: steal one of her rings and take it to the ring seller for measurement.

Option 2: Take the picture of her finger and show it to ring sellers. They should know how to gauge her size.

Good luck

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Nobody: 11:31pm On Aug 11, 2022
Dididrumz:


You never marry?
Nope. undecided
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by 0dav2(m): 11:38pm On Aug 11, 2022
I'm pondering on some comments here
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by PumpumPrince: 11:49pm On Aug 11, 2022
virginprincess:
pumpumprince aka mrcork,londoner ko american ni grin grin grin,now get the hell out of my mentions .

welll acordin to my calculator, u now owe me 2 kiss, 1 hug, 2 french kiss plus one extra warm hug including massage wit hot oil....so u muss pay up for the streesss u putin me thru!!! angry
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by MyAmericandream(f): 12:27am On Aug 12, 2022
ibinaboonline:
Why don't you fellas slow the negative vibes and show your brother how to learn a woman's finger size without alerting her

Baba is in love, congrats in advance!

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by grandstar(m): 2:02am On Aug 12, 2022
jeromestarks:
Don't do it. You will regret it.
Your best bet is to impregnate and keep her at home; this way, she won't misbehave.
Quick question, is she a virgin?

I know a guy who ensured his lady got pregnant before marrying. They are now divorced with 3 children.
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by grandstar(m): 2:04am On Aug 12, 2022
ibinaboonline:
I don't have to answer that question. Also, I don't accept your counsel.

Never ever accept that counsel! It is selfish, disgusting and ungodly. I wish you happy married life (Read Hebrews 13:4)

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by grandstar(m): 2:05am On Aug 12, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
1.If she ain't a virgin...
2.If she's a Nigerian girl...

If the answer to these two questions are YES..

Dont trade your commitment for a used girl, dont pay a bride price for a used girl..

Then I wont advice you, I clearly want you to learn the hardway...
That's the only remedy.....



Happy proposal and marriage..

Have you ever used a girl?
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by grandstar(m): 2:12am On Aug 12, 2022
ibinaboonline:
In case you guys are all serious about this Nigerian women thing and virgin thing, have you ever considered that a woman you married as a virgin can still step out on you after you're married? So you'all think women are better overseas or what? Godly people build godly homes, period. The weeping and regrets you'all harp about is in the homes of the ungodly.

I have a Jehovah's Witness brother (I'm sure he was a virgin) who married a 'used lady'. They are happily today with just a child. The marriage should be 15 years now.

Yes, she wasn't a virgin but she changed her ways and chose to serve jehovah God. Once she became a Witness, any brother could marry her. Her past is irrelevant. She has been washed clean (Read Isaiah 1:18, 1 Cor 6:9-11)

Was Rahab not a prostitute? Test, she became an ancestress of Jesus!

We should learn to be merciful just as God is merciful cry cry

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by bepositive11: 2:42am On Aug 12, 2022
Quoting a bible written by men in the olden days. While you still rely on that book for reasoning, the whites who introduced that same bible to you have moved on with their lives.

So it's ok for a man to not be a virgin before marriage but it's not ok for a woman to not be a virgin before marriage? It's ok for a man to sleep with thousands of women but when a woman sleeps with thousands of women, she's a prostitute. You see the double standards? Give me a break!

Only a man who is a virgin has the right to demand a virgin as a wife. Nonsense. I pity the woman who will marry you. It's men like you who abuse their wives.

jeromestarks:


Deuteronomy 22:20-22.
"But if the thing is true, that evidence of virginity was not found in the young woman, then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done an outrageous thing in Israel by whoring in her father's house. So you shall purge the evil from your midst."



Note the bible says "she".
If you're not a virgin, you do not deserve marriage. Just be a baby mama to about 5 men and let men who want to have a peaceful home go for a pure vessel.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by bepositive11: 2:50am On Aug 12, 2022
Don't take my word for it. Google the signs of insecurity and assess yourself.

A virgin woman will be curious to explore what she couldn't explore before marriage. You can't say that she's more likely to be faithful.

You see. Men and women who are insecure cannot have honest and vulnerable conversations. They cannot tolerate constructive criticism. They see it as a personal attack. Those men who take drugs are a good example of this. They'd rather endulge in drugs and alcohol than be vulnerable with their partners. How can you learn to please your woman when you can't communicate openly with her?

Connected1:

Lol

All the time, it's insecurity, that's the emotional manipulative word you all know.

You can never tell if you will satisfy a woman because you don't know the amount of sexual satisfaction she had received before you came, you can't say you are the champion in her sex game. That's why some men take drugs and they end up damaging themselves just to satisfy a woman.

Cheating is not applicable to non virgins only, but with a non-virgin or loose woman, there's a greater risk of being cheated on.

Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by silverkings: 3:09am On Aug 12, 2022
virginprincess:
I said it, they have started coming cheesy cheesy grin.

I wonder where these kind of men were raised. I wonder
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Terror48: 3:26am On Aug 12, 2022
grandstar:


I have a Jehovah's Witness brother (I'm sure he was a virgin) who married a 'used lady'. They are happily today with just a child. The marriage should be 15 years now.

Yes, she wasn't a virgin but she changed her ways and chose to serve jehovah God. Once she became a Witness, any brother could marry her. Her past is irrelevant. She has been washed clean (Read Isaiah 1:18, 1 Cor 6:9-11)

Was Rahab not a prostitute? Test, she became an ancestress of Jesus!

We should learn to be merciful just as God is merciful cry cry

I just pray most of you we be able to see the videos of how your so called wives where banged before you met them.

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by tonididdy(m): 3:34am On Aug 12, 2022
ibinaboonline:
I'm ready to pop the question soon. My question is, how do you'all codedly, abi sharply find out your bebe's finger size in order to get her a ring that fits? I'd ask her but I want it to be a surprise. Men and women of experience, help a newbie out
Ask her to deep it in your anuz grin
You go get idea
#wisdom!
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Connected1: 6:08am On Aug 12, 2022
bepositive11:
Don't take my word for it. Google the signs of insecurity and assess yourself.

A virgin woman will be curious to explore what she couldn't explore before marriage. You can't say that she's more likely to be faithful.

You see. Men and women who are insecure cannot have honest and vulnerable conversations. They cannot tolerate constructive criticism. They see it as a personal attack. Those men who take drugs are a good example of this. They'd rather endulge in drugs and alcohol than be vulnerable with their partners. How can you learn to please your woman when you can't communicate openly with her?

Communicate what?

So you don't know women lie a lot about so many things which sex is one of them, a woman who could reserve herself to get married as a virgin has 85% chance of not cheating and deserves accolades too.

Do you know the dangers of having so many sex partners and how it affects a woman negatively and a man positively, if you don't, please don't qoute me anymore.
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by chukel(m): 6:13am On Aug 12, 2022
marlow1962:
In all you do, don’t go down on your kneels
knees
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by grandstar(m): 6:31am On Aug 12, 2022
Terror48:
I just pray most of you we be able to see the videos of how your so called wives where banged before you met them.

It's a pity you gained nothing from my post.

Even if they were prostitutes or porn stars, if they've repented of their sins, they are worthy to be married. Were the brothers themselves perfect?

If you prefer to chase the wind, you go ahead.

Or the alternative, visit www.jw.org and request a free online bible study. It's the best decision you can ever make (Read John 17:3)

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by lyricalz: 6:36am On Aug 12, 2022
ibinaboonline:
I'm ready to pop the question soon. My question is, how do you'all codedly, abi sharply find out your bebe's finger size in order to get her a ring that fits? I'd ask her but I want it to be a surprise. Men and women of experience, help a newbie out

When she is asleep, use rope or paper to measure it.
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Nobody: 7:27am On Aug 12, 2022
Connected1:

Communicate what?

So you don't know women lie a lot about so many things which sex is one of them, a woman who could reserve herself to get married as a virgin has 85% chance of not cheating and deserves accolades too.

Do you know the dangers of having so many sex partners and how it affects a woman negatively and a man positively, if you don't, please don't qoute me anymore.

I dont know why you're answering a woman on marriage matter...they have no idea of what it takes before a man considers giving her the title of Mrs...why answer her
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by bepositive11: 7:30am On Aug 12, 2022
Why do those women lie? Some women lie because they are scared that their man can't handle the truth. Couples that can be open and honest with each other have the strongest relationships and marriages.

85% chance of not cheating. Where did you get that statistics from?

Lol! Having so many sex partners affect women negatively but affect men positively? You're not serious. Male or female, if you sleep around anyhow, you're a lost cause. Male or female, it will affect you negatively.

Connected1:

Communicate what?

So you don't know women lie a lot about so many things which sex is one of them, a woman who could reserve herself to get married as a virgin has 85% chance of not cheating and deserves accolades too.

Do you know the dangers of having so many sex partners and how it affects a woman negatively and a man positively, if you don't, please don't qoute me anymore.
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Mom007(f): 8:46am On Aug 12, 2022
HltSong:


Op fresh pass you.

Op get money pass you.

Op get sense pass you.

Old papa, go and marry. You don tey for your papa house.

Useless homo drop out.

Lol. See clap back... grin grin grin
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by jeromestarks: 8:54am On Aug 12, 2022
bepositive11:
Quoting a bible written by men in the olden days. While you still rely on that book for reasoning, the whites who introduced that same bible to you have moved on with their lives.

So it's ok for a man to not be a virgin before marriage but it's not ok for a woman to not be a virgin before marriage? It's ok for a man to sleep with thousands of women but when a woman sleeps with thousands of women, she's a prostitute. You see the double standards? Give me a break!

Only a man who is a virgin has the right to demand a virgin as a wife. Nonsense. I pity the woman who will marry you. It's men like you who abuse their wives.

You want to justify your loss of virginity. Shame.
Let me ask you these:
Are you happy with the way you lost your glory?
Do you wish to lose your virginity the way you did?
Do you want your daughter to lose her virginity the way you did?


If your answers to the questions is NO, then loss of virginity to another man other than your husband is bad but if your answer is YES (to the questions), then there is no problem losing virginity.

Finally, I pray your daughters go through what you have been through. (An apple does not fall far from its tree).

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Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by MadamOk(f): 9:26am On Aug 12, 2022
Mai broda this is the right thing to do
If it is what you want, if she is the right one for you and if it is the will of God

Do it

For your question... Since you want it to be surprise get a cheaper ring since you don't know her size, May be thereafter you both we go to the jewelry shop to get her size or complete one for you both

Secondly try to snap her hand may be when you get to the jewelry shop you can express yourself and show them the person finger, they know size of ring for a lady either slim, fat or any finger size

Best of luck and congratulations on the journey you about to start. May God make everything beautiful
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by bepositive11: 10:21am On Aug 12, 2022
It seems like you're not the same person I replied to earlier. Anyway, have a good day.

jeromestarks:

You want to justify your loss of virginity. Shame.
Let me ask you these:
Are you happy with the way you lost your glory?
Do you wish to lose your virginity the way you did?
Do you want your daughter to lose her virginity the way you did?


If your answers to the questions is NO, then loss of virginity to another man other than your husband is bad but if your answer is YES (to the questions), then there is no problem losing virginity.

Finally, I pray your daughters go through what you have been through. (An apple does not fall far from its tree).
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by KingMack(m): 11:18am On Aug 12, 2022
Beebah2000:
where u dey? I no see u ooo cheesy cheesy


I dey were you leave me na..hope you doing great?
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Blunttruth: 11:25am On Aug 12, 2022
ibinaboonline:
I'm ready to pop the question soon. My question is, how do you'all codedly, abi sharply find out your bebe's finger size in order to get her a ring that fits? I'd ask her but I want it to be a surprise. Men and women of experience, help a newbie out
When she is asleep
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by remideboc(m): 12:04pm On Aug 12, 2022
orikoku:
I will not forget all you have written here. Kudos brother.

Thank you..
www.inviteindia.com
Re: I'm Ready To Propose. Need Advice. by Imjustagirl(f): 12:29pm On Aug 12, 2022
Hold her palm in yours. Codedly snap it. Show it to the ring seller. They'll be able to tell her size using yours.

That's if you're say size 11 she might be a size 10 or 10 and a half or 9. Based on the difference in thickness between your fingers.

Hope this helps grin and congrats

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