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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Dchampion65: 5:23pm On Aug 13, 2022

You are sending invitation to untimely death to visit you.

What is your take that you kept reminding your guy each time you had contact about his 'donated sperm.'

I pity your old parents whom I pray will not mourn you.

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by thorpido(m): 5:24pm On Aug 13, 2022

IbadeHQ:
My guy, fear that gender called women.

Let me tell a short story that happened in Oworonshoki few years ago.

Don't mind my English o, I no Sabi write.

My guy, e be like film for my eye!

A married lady rented a shop in front of her husband's shop. There both fashion designer. The husband's sows Male dress while the wife sows female dress. Both happily married from the look of things.

They comes to shop and goes home together, I mean everyday. Except when she goes to the market to buy materials needed to sow cloth.

They already had two kids before moving to that environment. After some years in that environment, this lady got pregnant, at least common sense should tell anybody that the pregnancy belongs to her husband.

Fast forward, She gave birth. They had naming ceremony. Around 7pm that same day of naming ceremony, boom! About 7 bikemen with 3 occupants on each of the bike straight to the resident of the celebrants.

One of the guys came down and told the lady to tell her husband the truth, omo! Everybody shock. This guy told everybody sitting there that the new born baby belongs to him. This lady remain silent all through the bantering and arguments.

At the end of the day, this guy took the baby away. Till I date, I'm still trying to figure out what played out that day each time I remember.

Omo, fear women ooo.

Chai,this one choke o.......though it takes just one 'chicken romp' for this to happen.

Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by nedekid: 5:24pm On Aug 13, 2022*

ume1000:
same way someone told me Nigeria would heal itself

Don't arrest cultist , yahoo boys the country would get better on its own

The greatest crime to humanity is to do nothing in a situation where u can do something

I can't fathom how I'd feel if I found out a friend kept something like this from me,a murderous rage would be child's play

Hmm, ok
But note 90% of folks that write on this forum are young people with little life experience. So don't use all the comments you see here as a bench mark.
Painful as it is, there are issues you don't put mouth in, even with your best friend. Ones of them is wife and husband matter. It will only turn out bad for you.
I have seen a mother blame her little daughter all the years till she became a grown woman bitterly. In fact till the woman died. She blamed and hated the lady for destroying her marriage to the ladies father.
Watin happen, when this girl was below 10 or so, she caught the father with a woman in a compromising way. She told the mother. Mother fought the man and he took off. Na so marriage end. This woman tried to make up the marriage, but oga don move on. Do you know that woman is dead today, the father has new family and does not want to see his kids from the first wife, imagine a 23 year old beautiful lady having to carry the weight of 2 siblings, school, feeding etc.
Was she wrong to have told her mother?

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by yeldey: 5:24pm On Aug 13, 2022

Jefferyhi86:
When the simp is ready to do PR in Canada that requires DNA test, him eye go open

Who told you Canada PR application requires a DNA test?

Asshoo.le

Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by amodujames(m): 5:25pm On Aug 13, 2022

The simp signed the birth certificate and has been paying for child support since day one so he's automatically the father nothing can change that

Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Action102(m): 5:26pm On Aug 13, 2022

Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.

I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.

When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..

Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.

It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.

I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...

My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..

Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.

Young Man if this is True you are a Fool
You better mind your Business and face front.

You want to put sadness in an Happy Home God will not forgive you

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by abfelicity91: 5:26pm On Aug 13, 2022

OP, you better stop everything you are doing and leave the woman alone to enjoy her marriage. At times life pays in a better way even after so many mistakes.
.
Please tell your guy you couldn't trace her and leave the matter to die. Don't destroy anyone's home..
Of what good it is to you to destroy her happiness??

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by IbadeHQ: 5:26pm On Aug 13, 2022

thorpido:
Chai,this one choke o.......though it takes just one 'chicken romp' for this to happen.

I don't know how they can move it to front page, I just want everybody to learn from it.

Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Buffalo2(m): 5:27pm On Aug 13, 2022

Truvelisback:
By mere looking at his long and boring epistle, u will know the dude is only looking for Front Page. Na fake story or a copy and paste story.

You gorrit. The guy no well

Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by CaptainFM1: 5:27pm On Aug 13, 2022

In the third Paragraph, you said the new guy accepted her and was already buying baby's stuff. Now my question is...Was the baby pinned on the guy? Or the new guy too dived in after she was already pregnant?

And talking about Facial look, the baby may resembles the Yahoo guy and still carry the DNA of the rich dude. That's how funny DNA can be! A lady had twins and each of the child carry DNA of two different men.

Before your guy start laying claims, he need to do a DNA because the child might still not be his.

But here's the real question:
What do you gain by pouring sand for the girl garri? Your friend already left her for years. And she has moved on. Mind you, who takes care of a child is the father morally.

It's a big problem you will be creating if you dive into their issues further. My advice for you is to stay neutral. Let the girl be. Just tell your friend, you couldn't reach her again.
Unless the lady really want the guy to be responsible for the child...just let the status quo be. Let your friend carry this stress/burden himself.

Be very careful how you handle/get involve this situation. If it's the lady that came to you, it's very much easy, especially now that your friend hasn't moved on.

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by fablani(m): 5:28pm On Aug 13, 2022

Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.

I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.

When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..

Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.

It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.

I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...

My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..

Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.

Bros for the sake of that soft innocent little girl, let the sleeping dog lie. There are whole lots of hidden secrets all over the world.

As for the woman, no reason her cos all of us don Bleep up and hers is not different.

Advice your guy to move on with his life and get himself another woman to give him children

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by austinofo(m): 5:34pm On Aug 13, 2022

Homeboiy:
Use this thing cash out

If your guy offer better money
Spill it to him

If the woman offer better money
Lock up the matter.

Bro run from this advice. This advice will get it messier and will put your life in a big mess when the truth eventually gets revealed and your friend find out you betrayed him.

Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by thorpido(m): 5:34pm On Aug 13, 2022

CSTRR:
Can you blame him?

Person wey go hustle since morning, then reach home from work, pour inside his own wife and then go hustle again the next day.

When will he have time to be counting when he last ejaculated in his own wife to be?
There are better things that occupy a man's mind na.

Though personally for me, I will do the calculation in my head just to be sure.

I have seen too much not to.

And besides, the woman can even have sex twice in one day or in close proximity.

Except this and i have seen such cases.

Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Oceanjagaban: 5:36pm On Aug 13, 2022

Mr talk talk man....who told you your father is really your biological father.na another person matter ona eye dey enter everytime

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by spinna: 5:37pm On Aug 13, 2022

Regardless:
Hey guys,
Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.

Bro better let sleeping dogs lie.. even you and me wey dey talk were we there when we were being conceived. Hope u never tell the guy you found her.. this post sef is dangerous cos he might read it.

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by slickbak(m): 5:38pm On Aug 13, 2022

FuckSilly:
Some of you are just very wicked, heartless and senseless.

IF YOU WERE THE MUMU HUSBAND, WOULD YOU LIKE THIS INFORMATION NOT TO BE REVEALED TO YOU?

YOU ARE NOT A HUMAN BEING I SWEAR.

You’re a fool

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by CSTRR: 5:38pm On Aug 13, 2022

thorpido:
Except this and i have seen such cases.

Infact, that is what smart married whorees do.

Once dem bang any illegal dickkk, they would make sure they dilute it with their husband semen in the same day or at most the next day.

And if they are lucky, it is their husband sperm that will do the job if they got pregnant.

And if it is not their husband that fertilized their egg, the husband will never know.

Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Chibyike(m): 5:42pm On Aug 13, 2022

Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.

I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.

When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..

Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.

It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.

I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...

My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..

Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.
Bia guy.....no scatter another person life, because if you do, you life will be scatter 100%.
Tell the ur useless friend to go and marry that he should forget everything about that lady...... Don't say I no warn you��, werey!!

Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by zakkxx: 5:42pm On Aug 13, 2022

If you don’t say the truth u are on your way to hell fire! What if u die now! Where will u go to? Heaven or hell? Find for the guy number, look for a sim nobody can dictate u and send him a message! Advice the husband to do a DNA! Call him with that same number after some months to confirm if he has done the DNA! Most women will burn in Hell because of cheating and giving a child to a wrong father!!

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Shedrill(m): 5:44pm On Aug 13, 2022

slickbak:
Very Dread.

Seems like you should mind your business really.

Guy you just stand in between a double barrel pump action and a machine gun

Bro if yawa gas, you too go collect.

Take the advice above

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Ngozi123(f): 5:46pm On Aug 13, 2022

Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.

I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.

When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..

Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.

It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.

I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...

My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..

Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.

You should tell both the husband and the child's real father what you know. Some women can kill to protect such a secret. Also, you should not let any of them know where you live.

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by drdeath: 5:47pm On Aug 13, 2022

Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.

I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.

When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..

Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.

It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.

I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...

My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..

Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.

Bro,please do not try it.it is none of your business.

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by FireUpNow(m): 5:50pm On Aug 13, 2022

Oo, his friend, the how and her husband together with how's mother are all compound punks

Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by dododawa1: 5:51pm On Aug 13, 2022

It happened to my friend too,but my friend has forgotten the baby girl to the baby mama husband,till kingdom come.

Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Nobody: 5:53pm On Aug 13, 2022

Homeboiy:
Use this thing cash out

If your guy offer better money
Spill it to him

If the woman offer better money
Lock up the matter.

. Lol baddest

Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by AdeMoss: 5:53pm On Aug 13, 2022

We all know the right thing to do but we need justification not to.

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Karemarealty288(m): 5:54pm On Aug 13, 2022

You are the devil in all this you cock and bull story.......mind your business, hustle for your life. You just dey remind me of this man below for Nollywood.

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by jeromestarks: 6:00pm On Aug 13, 2022

BATified2023:
so the irresponsible dude is the innocent man?
The op even confessed that he’s sure his guy can’t take care of the girl

Shut up!
The oil guy is the innocent guy.

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by jeromestarks: 6:02pm On Aug 13, 2022

NehemiahReturns:
boss you just took this words out of my mouth.
the idiot get luck say na faceless forum be this cos na hard spanking e for collect
@ Blackdeewhy you're a Bastard

Hahaha....
Na bastard you carry dash am like this. grin

Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by FuckSilly: 6:04pm On Aug 13, 2022

slickbak:
You’re a fool

Are you mistaken me for your father

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Rhozabeth(m): 6:05pm On Aug 13, 2022

My piece of advice: pls let the sleeping dog lie! If ur guy want to find out things for himself let him do that. Am not proud of what the girl has done and am sure she is not too. But for the sake of the girl, let things be.
My reason is this, if u blow things out, u will shatter the woman's life, the girl's life and even the small girls siblings will not understand what has happened and to be honest none of them will pray for you. So let the sleeping dog lie moreso because of what u have said about ur friend. If by the time ur friend find the woman at the center of the whole storm, the small girl would probably have grown enough to understand the issues but for now let peace reign!

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by FuckSilly: 6:08pm On Aug 13, 2022

AmazingELixir:
don't you have a life of your own, why continuously poking your nose into other people's affairs....why will you be traumatizing a married couple like that....youngman leave that woman and her family alone....else na Ogun go locate you.

Or deh
May your story be like this too.
You'll be with a DIRTY loose LovePeddler whom has FUCKĒD her good youthful years away, you would marry her and she's bring home a Bastard for you to raise and your friends that will be aware would keep you in the dark until your old age ...

And if Na girl you be, Karma will definitely catch up with you with all your dirty past too.

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