highchief1:
women cannot watch their kids go hungry.she did what every woman will do,just be open in your dealings.as a guy man too,when u know ur guy is down financially don’t wait for him to ask before pushing him something once once.as the wife make that move u for tell her ok,after a few minutes I just call ur friend to send his Acc details then send to him

I don't see him, he is in lagos while I'm in PH. So I may not know much.

LegalWolf:


I don't know how old you are, but it appears you are slow. Very slow at that. A woman who is your friend's wife called you and you didn't think it fit to hint your friend about it. What if he sees bank alert and notices a transfer from you, how would you explain to him that nothing is going on between his wife and you?

lol if even see his wife without him I may not recognise her. we are in two different state. And his choice of woman and mine is in parallel lane.

BigCowH0rn:



No she isn't. She is a loyal wife doing what the man can't cos it's so necessary.
I have been in your shoes before.

What you should have done is taken the guy out for a drink and asked him how far with things then just droped the cash in his lap and walk.

Guy, use this one buy fuel.
Everyone saves face that way.






Yes.
They were probably sitting down together when she made that call.
If the guy was really offended and ignorant he would have returned the money

Orlando return my money!!! That one na lie.he is capable of retrieving my debt, spend it and feel comfortable telling he has spend it because of our relationship.

deavicky:
Orlando return my money!!! That one na lie.he is capable of retrieving my debt, spend it and feel comfortable telling he has spend it because of our relationship.

If that is the case then he used his wife to con you.

That woman didn't act alone
Giving you her husbands bank account was the sign

ahnie:
She planned it with her husband issa colabo thingy.



No modified...I still insist that it's a colabo remix because,the husband was too ashamed to asked you directly for help(men ego)
So he bowed to pressure from his wife and asked her to call you herself.
So simply put,the husby was in the know that the wife called you for help.

Recuit this Guyman into the army, he has decoding sense.
What will he eat, cassava, agbado, garri, ewa, dodo oo, ehennn....
Add shaki and ogunfe shaa.

nedekid:

Recuit this Guyman into the army, he has decoding sense.
What will he eat, cassava, agbado, garri, ewa, dodo oo, ehennn....
Add shaki and ogunfe shaa.

Thanks hon,m a lady.

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nedekid:

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Thanks for the offer,pls kindly pass the kind gestures to someone offline.
My kids would be going on vacation tomorrow to their Grandma's house and I have already planned a surprising outing for them tomorrow at the mall before heading to the bus terminal.

ahnie:

Thanks for the offer,pls kindly pass the kind gestures to someone offline.
My kids would be going on vacation tomorrow to their Grandma's house and I have already planned a surprising outing for them tomorrow at the mall before heading to the bus terminal.

Nice one. Hope they have a lovely time and you too. Stay blessed.

nedekid:

Nice one. Hope they have a lovely time and you too. Stay blessed.

My pleasure.bye!

This headline and the previous one the husband complain about wife having something with his own friend look suspicious

It might not be planned, a woman can do anything for her child.
She respect your friendship with her husband hence she opted you send the money to your friend account.
Its not surprising that the husand call you and mention that you shouldn't mind his wife, remember she said she adviced the husband to call you herself earlier, seeing the money coming from you should explain to the husband that she has a hand in it.

Bro u did well by sending the money.... But from my own perspective, the husband knew about the call... The wife should have given you her own account number... Why her husband's?? It's just an ego!! He can't withstand begging alm from you...

It is well with you bro, just put it behind you and move on. The key thing there now is that the man has told you to keep away from his wife, practically don't give him or her wife in case of next time. They will still come to ask for more. Take it from me.

Op one good turn deserves another. You have sowed a seed that must surely germinated where you least expected. Who is a friend? A friend is a person who turns to a brother in time of needs. You just need to be extra careful with the woman because any man who feed a woman eventually becomes her husband. Women her foresighted. You are their family friend, if she sees you as somebody not in position to render a needed help she wouldn't have contacted you. You have fulfilled all righteousness by not been a disappointment.More grace to your elbow.

Fiscus105:
U urself u re not totally faithful.

U should free to ur friend far more than his wife.


If it was me, for her to even saying I shouldn't let her husband (my friend), that is main reason I would not send it.

you don't get it. The idea is to make it look like I just sent the money on my own without being ask for it. That's why I sent it to his account.