| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by forerunner022(m): 9:23am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Proceed on medical investigation (DNA test) to ascertain if the child is truly yours.
Sorry to say, but your wife is such a low ass bitch.
I feel sorry for you bro. |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by OtunbaStixx23: 9:23am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Simp pro max |
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| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Nobody: 9:24am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Sorry for what you're going through soulflai, there's a chance those kids are not yours. She is not your wife either. I've spent about 7yrs in kd and kd is the last place I'll marry. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by UptownVibes(m): 9:24am On Aug 17, 2022 |
DNA first ooooooo. The kids might not even be yours. For her to allow her nack her even with baby inside,I doubt if the kids are yours..
Una wen still dey marry,get mind oo..
Imagine, you didn't buy the new phone.. God forbid bad thing. Op you don't have to be broken. You should be happen that you got to know early enough. You can still have your own kids.. Time still dey,so just run go package DNA... If you don't have money,borrow to do it asap.. Very important! Then from there,you will know where you're standing o.. How u take go marry olosho sef? 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Samdafe: 9:24am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Be sure to confirm the paternity of your kids before you take any drastic action. Sorry bro I can understand your pain. |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by IgOga(m): 9:25am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Sorry to hear your story.
You did not marry for the kids you married for yourself. You cannot live the rest of your life unhappy because of the children...it will negatively affect them....you will not be a good role model as you will become a grumpy dad.
Waiting for your wife to commit the next adultery is also not a good strategy.
You are upset and that is understandable. I would advise you to both speak to a wise couple who can help you in this difficult time if you are still interested in saving your marriage. They will need to explore a few things with both you and your wife
1. Do you still want to be married to him/her? Both of you must answer this question honestly
2. They will need to explore the root cause of this drama...e.g. long distance relationship, bad/lack of communication, bad sex, attraction, money issues ( which you mentioned), values and believes
3. Work with both of you to come up with practical solutions to issues from point 2
4. You both would need to become accountable to this wise couple until things get back to normal between you and your wife.
NOTE: The healing process will take some time.....there are no quick fix to a damaged relationship but it can be fixed.
I wish you well 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by kingreign(m): 9:25am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.
I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.
Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.
On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!
I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.
This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.
Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.
If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.
Right now I am just not happy with life afterall. Save the message as evidences, call your family and her family have a meeting, then proceed to court for divorce. DO NOT LOSE YOUR SANITY OVER A CHEATING PARTNER. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Agbekehorla(f): 9:25am On Aug 17, 2022 |
She never loved you bro 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Nobody: 9:25am On Aug 17, 2022 |
you are a silly simp, very stupid type. A woman under your roof is having sex with her ex, several times and you can't just detect? Now she is carrying his child under your roof, you are a bastard. Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.
I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.
Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.
On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!
I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.
This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.
Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.
If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.
Right now I am just not happy with life afterall. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Utanisco(m): 9:25am On Aug 17, 2022 |
That's is why I can never marry
Stupid set of nonsense creature
I just don't understand why God shud take out our ribs to create these monkeys called women
Those people can and will never have conscience
God forbid them
Mind u I detest homosexuality
If in case yur stupid mind drives u there
Unam ikot 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Sunnybabe(m): 9:25am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Lamanii22:
First go and do DNA on that your first baby.... as if u know what I wanted to say. OP should firstly go and confirm maybe he is the father of the child. Coz someone with 5month pregnant and still having sex with her ex, how sure are you that it's not her ex that impregnated her. Most of those gender are just so wicked and manipulative.. chaii... God abeg oo 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Fearyourcreator: 9:26am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai:
just be careful with words you use with me,you don't know what I am passing through That guy is plain stupid... Na their type own dey worse pass... Them go dey claim maturity... Omo I pity the OP ooo... E no easy at all |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by peedeeasobie(m): 9:26am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.
I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.
Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.
On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!
I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.
This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.
Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.
If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.
Right now I am just not happy with life afterall. I think we should look away from your wife and her Ex and focus attention on you. What exactly is wrong with you? What is the problem with you? A woman started cheating on you from the first time you met her till now you are married and you didn't leave? You may think it's love, it is not. You are condoning evil and tolerating it. What she is doing is evil and you are accepting and endorsing it by remaining in the relationship/marriage. I think you have a deep sense of inferiority complex. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Choski78(m): 9:27am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai:
just pray you don't walk my work.Are you blaming me for her promiscuous life?Do you read the story sir?Do you know me real life?Why all this sir? . mofoo is your name, your wife nack back her ex while carrying your child and your seeking advice from naira land, I think you need to get your brains examined! that the first thing u need to do. 4 Likes |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Chibaby87(f): 9:27am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.
I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.
Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.
On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!
I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.
This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.
Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.
If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.
Right now I am just not happy with life afterall. No is bad pls, it can bring bad luck to a man (husband) 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by just2endowed: 9:27am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Go and do a DNA test for all the kids first... Then you can come back and make proper decision. |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by advanceDNA: 9:28am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Ruthymoon:
Forgetting your ex is really not that easy ,cos everybody's got an ex,
So you women know this fact.?? Lol...
... but when guys start preaching its a bad idea to date partner with too many exes...u call it hate and bashing....
People that have tasted too many peñìs and vagina§ can never really settle down.... a ring on the finger does not reset sexual preference and appetite.....
Last last....there will be nothing like marriage
na baby mama and babay daddy arrangement go work....
everyone just fvck whoever you want .. 6 Likes |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by ailenmen: 9:28am On Aug 17, 2022 |
I really pity u bro, but I don't know y women are like DAT !
Well for my sincere advice,is to find out DNA if these children are yours first.
Then move her from Kaduna to your base, for d sake of the children. |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by emmytams(m): 9:29am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Ask the fool. How can you be 5 months pregnant for me and still go ahead to have sex with your ex? Even Jehovah will back me up to divorce her sorry ass. Besuccessful:
5 months pregnant and still having sex with her ex, how are you sure the pregnancy is even yours? |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by SIXTEENTH(m): 9:29am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Truth be told bro, immediately you mentioned Kaduna South I know you are in a deep mess. I dated almost 4 of them from the southern part (madakia and rikawan) precisely that was way back in 2003 believe me almost all of them are into all those behavior you earlier mentioned about your wife, even the lady I intended to marry eventually did same in 2016 though my father usually warn me to stay clear from any lady in that particular region because they are always promiscuous in their matrimonial home not until I began to figure out things happening in my own way right now I'm married and she's married too but early August she tried calling me again but... Let me stop here because there's more to reveal I pray you stay strong and emerged victoriously 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by profmallor: 9:30am On Aug 17, 2022 |
I m certain somewhere along the relationship you were warned about settling with her but you were in love. see, its you who married someone else's wife, she was never yours and would never be. Does anyone in your family know, i hope you still have someone you can call family, cause there is no way, this should make NL if your family are aware, by now she should have left and the whole town should be aware of her atrocities. confirm whose are the kids, make a decision on them and seek to heal, find someone else and be a man |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Moh247: 9:30am On Aug 17, 2022 |
You have one life bro, and you deserve happiness. Kindly document all her cheating and also make her confess while you record her. Play it to her parents, and keep some for future when the kids grow up. Then please move on |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Beautyblogger: 9:31am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.
I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.
Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.
On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!
I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.
This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.
Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.
If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.
Right now I am just not happy with life afterall. She is evil. My ex whom I broke up with since last year hasn't allowed me breathe. You know what I did? I got a restraining order against him even though I've been single. So, imagine what I'd do if I'm married. A woman who loves her man would never entertain any ex. She had to sleep with him while pregnant. So barbaric. You need to end this marriage before things get worse. How are you sure the baby is even yours?? 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by AutoBodyParts(m): 9:31am On Aug 17, 2022 |
If I find out my wife slept with someone else after our marriage. The marriage is over. 8 Likes |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Bboss7(m): 9:31am On Aug 17, 2022 |
First confirm is the pregnancy is urs first |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Born2Breed(f): 9:31am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.
I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.
Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.
On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!
I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.
This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.
Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.
If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.
Right now I am just not happy with life afterall. The kids you are protecting may not even be yours. End it now or suffer forever. |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Honestfrend: 9:32am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.
I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.
Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.
On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!
I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.
This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.
Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.
If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.
Right now I am just not happy with life afterall. Another thing u can do is to post the guy's picture in all social media platforms telling him to stay away from ur family.. I swear d guy go run far.. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Nobody: 9:32am On Aug 17, 2022 |
You want to continue again? well think about it. |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by 02Kebreal(m): 9:32am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Who told you that Baby is yours in the first place? |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by chikason22(m): 9:32am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.
I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.
Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.
On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!
I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.
This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.
Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.
If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.
Right now I am just not happy with life afterall. Did you do a DNA for your kids. If not, start preparing money for it. Also never ever engage a woman who is still very close with her ex. And don't ever snatch a woman from her current boyfriend or ex she still relate with. It always end up like this. Best of luck sir. |
| Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Freshman54(m): 9:32am On Aug 17, 2022 |
You see this Life Ehh,it doesn't have duplicate.kindly take the baby for DNA test,if you have money..if truly you can forgive from the depth of your heart, without using it against her in the future, accept her back..
Please call her family and tell them the situations on ground, don't hide it from them.please be strong,thou Lord is your strength.. |
