Grillbar:


As a man I am disturbed by some of the posts myself. I have trolled her before but not this badly Mercy too should learn to stop bringing her whole life here. I can tell you about her from the countless treads she opened with her plenty monikers. Can she not make one decision on her own without nairaland at 41 years old?

Hypocrite. You are not different from other men who have been trolling her here because you have always insulted her with your numerous monikers, and to think that you have been confirmed to be a bisexual and was charged for impregnating your niece is distastful enough, so you should be hiding your face in shame. Truly, this forum harbors the worst set of human beings.

crackhaus:

Ahh you sef, so you have seen me too?
For where?

See all of you claiming to know a nigga that doesn't know you.
Should I also send you a DM finally so you can be alright?

You have the guts to quote me? You made a mistake,

Do yourself a favor and never quote me again

@Blessedmercy8, don't mind them, look well before you leap. You are a good woman.

Blessedmercy8:


As usual, I'll ignore you. So don't waste your time.

You wish...

Drfernandez:

@Blessedmercy8, don't mind them, you are look before you leap. You are a good woman.

Thanks dear.

They want me to just jump into something without first calculating the cost.

Jovialjune1:



Hopefully this thread will teach her a lesson, because I honestly don't understand how someone will always bring her life problems to this forum, creating threads five times in a week, threads that are so baseless and unnecessary, what type of attention seeking is that? She should better learn from this thread.

She will still open a tread tomorrow. At 41 she behaves like a teenager with a teenage brain.

Drfernandez:



Hypocrite. You are not different from other men who have been trolling her here because you have always insulted her with your numerous monikers, and to think that you have been confirmed to be a bisexual and was charged for impregnating your niece is distastful enough, so you should be hiding your face in shame. Truly, this forum harbors the worst set of human beings.

Hahaha you must be Rozross/Iyaebe or Abosedefalade/RighttoReject. I have two monikers this and my main which is still in ban. I use this one to troll stupid people like you and Abosedefalade. Run along crazy biiitch with stupid head

Jovialjune1:


But they are a catch, these women will continue to be a catch till the end of time, and they will continue to get men who love them and will marry them, same way there are men of terrible behaviour that keeps getting married and keeping a home, and that is because one size doesn't fit all, same way you are a terrible choice to some women out there, it is the basic fact of life that not everyone will conform to your expectations,

And yes every women will continue to see themselves and operate in a position of perfection regardless of their value and body contribution, it is called self love, self respect and dignity, it is no one's fault if you ranters prefer women of low esteem and what not, everyone is allowed to value themselves as they can, because they can


All of you ranting and typing trash all over this thread being butthurt over someone you don't even know from Adam, this lady already said she brings more, she has always been known for her teaching skills here, she even quoted what she earns monthly, but because you all are crass, you mouth off anyhow baselessly calling someone else empty. You ranters that think you've achieved something of worth, while you are also empty to others bigger and better than you, yet you feel you are in the right to mouth off on someone else, judgemental set of tweeps.

On point.

How they turned blind to the part where I mentioned that I also have a bearing is what baffles me and simply shows they're not here to say anything reasonable but to trash talk as usual just to massage their bruised ego.

I've studied them and observed they are being starved of the female attention offline, reason they pitched their tent permanently online, looking for female monikers to vent their frustrations on. I know them.

Grillbar:


Hahaha you must be Rozr oss/Iya ebe or Abosedef alade/Ri ghttoReject. I have two monikers this and my main which is still in ban. I use this one to troll stupid people like you and Abosedefalade. Run along crazy biiitch with stupid head

You need urgent mental evaluation because I wonder how what you wrote here and the monikers you mentioned got to do with me and my observation about you. My advice to you is simple:

1. Stop insulting @Blessedmercy8 and others with your numerous monikers.

2. Stop practicing bixesuality.

3. Stop molesting your niece and other minors, and surrender yourself to the authorities for already impregnating your niece.

4. Learn a skill and find a job instead of stealing and disgracing yourself everywhere.

Have a nice century.

Yes, I know a lot of women who got married to men who earn way below them. And they're both happy together.

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

pansophist:


Honestly I've tried so much for a long time to determine where that mentality comes from. I think about it alot. How lots of women operate from a position of perfection, that showing up with body is contribution and valuable,

My conclusion is that its a feature of weakness, or as the bible put it, a weaker vessel. You know, empty can makes the loudest noise.

Because to be fair, I've seen few women that are hardworking and strife to bring value to the table, that think in terms of contributing not just suffocating others. It's an energy thing. All women have the ability be strong, but most choose to be weak instead and be a burden to others.

A woman that have achieved literally nothing except bad behaviours, entitlements and false sense of worth would feel she is a catch, and a hardworking man that have build himself up front to scratch is not good enough for her.

1. It is an evolutionary instinct. The egg is expensive and sperm is cheap. Recent data still have it that men engage in dangerous affairs just to secure mates. Muscular strength and risky adventures are peculiar to the male gender because they want to secure territories that correlate with having more mates.

2. Men have a slightly lower life expectancy than women. Sperm is produced in millions for a reason. This is the reason why men go extreme in attaining status so that they can take advantage of an expensive ovum because it doesn't wait for any man and will soon expire - menopause.

3. Remember: what every species cares for is survival and reproduction in the genetic pool. If you can't survive today, you will not be around in the next 100 years via your pedigree. Men are simps for a reason.

4. Evolutionary instinct which took millions of years to be ingrained inside the feminine psyche cannot be obliterated within a short window period. It will take millions of years again to undergo another rewiring. Take note: evolution by natural selection is slow, gradual, and only takes place when a species is threatened. If women are comfortable in this contemporary age, that instinct remains.

5. There are a lot of changes in our society today, and we do expect humans to accustom to those changes while neglecting our biological makeup. If we don't study the effects of genes on behaviors we will continue to murmur and push blames. It is not all about genetic code and make up, but it is the king at the top of the ladder. Environmental influences cannot be left behind. Both are allies.

6. What we see in our contemporary age makes the feminine nature expresses itself unrelenting.

A. Woke culture has emasculated men. And women are not after these men but masculine men.

B. Marriage laws and customs cater the feminine propaganda. Women always get what they want from the government/family law.

C. In the global south, Africa to be precise, where poverty reigns and rules, women don't go for men lower than them or even at the same level as them. She doesn't because of her maternal instinct: the egg is expensive. Selling it at a cheap price will be a pain on her nerves when she discovers along the way that there are other higher bidders. This is the economics of sex. And it is while women always filter men in search of the highest bidder, however, her fertility and eggs are at risk.

D. Based on this economics of sex, men don't mind going to the extreme to secure eggs because they know that they too are at a disadvantage if they don't spread their million sperms.

E. Here lies the concept of feminine entitlement mentality, feminine hubris, and belligerence. Since both the highest and lowest bidder of eggs wants children and sex, they don't care for self-development. Same behavior of marketers when they discover that their products are in high demand in the market. Women are good business men.

7. Social media is another tool in the hands of these beautiful creatures called women. They now have leeway to scout for higher bidders on different geographical terrain within the comfort of their bedrooms.

There are 80% men at the bottom, and women will never consider them but gravitate towards the 20% of men at the top of the hierarchy. This sexual market deregulation is a result of the inequality in the economy.

If you find women around this 80% men, it is because they haven't found any higher bidder opportunity despite the economic instability. A woman always wants something higher and better than her.

8. What about the withdrawal of marriage right from traditional laws and religion to the state. These which have acted as a benchmark to checkmate women have been vitiated.

Feminine nature is amoral, but if the bulwark of morality and tradition is stripped away from her in addition to the porous economic and political, and social terrain, they cannot be expected to play calm and reasonable.

9. Women who choose to stay and build with a man from the bottom have already projected into the future and know that their man is prospective. However, at risk of her fertility which will culminate in a successful adventure if her man succeeds.

These women are outliers, they stake their odds on the national kerfuffles that prevail. These are the women who have strong patriarchy surrounding them and have developed themselves in feminity, character, modesty, kindness, humility, and respect.

These women may lose in the reproductive game (nobody can predict the future) but they will win based on personality and character - these are the kind of women men want to deal with. Unlike her inconsiderate counterpart that couldn't place a hold on her hypergamous instinct, she will lose both ends.

10. If men don't value their commitment these narcissistic women will never self-develop. These women will always win anytime or day.

11. If the economic inequality doesn't reduce to a minimum, creating a chance for men to utilize their potential, be creative, powerful, and become successful, women will be contemptuous of 80% of men. Men will simp. And women will never self-develop and still win.

Thanks.

Drfernandez:



You need urgent mental evaluation because I wonder how what you wrote here and the monikers you mentioned got to do with me and my observation about you. My advice to you is simple:

1. Stop insulting @Blessedmercy8 and others with your numerous monikers.

2. Stop practicing bixesuality.

3. Stop molesting your niece and other minors, and surrender yourself to the authorities for already impregnating your niece.

4. Learn a skill and find a job instead of stealing and disgracing yourself everywhere.

Have a nice century.

Tell me my other numerous monikers first. You are lucky I am in a good mood if I change am for you na you go run. Werey biiitch way day disguise

Jovialjune1:



Hopefully this thread will teach her a lesson, because I honestly don't understand how someone will always bring her life problems to this forum, creating threads five times in a week, threads that are so baseless and unnecessary, what type of attention seeking is that? She should better learn from this thread.

My thread, my life. I have the right to choose where and how I share my lifes issues. Please.

This is a faceless forum and I would rather share my problems here with people who don't know me than with people offline who can easily identify me tomorrow with what I shared with them. Ok?

Please, let me do as I want. Ive never dictated to you or anyone how to behave or go about their parole on here.

Why I share my life experiences here is best known to me.

Blessedmercy8:


Yes we are still a big catch to reasonable men outside this forum where you all have a warped mentality about women.
Only here on nairaland do men reason like this
and I'm glad my man is not here and doesn't even know about nairaland.

If u are a big catch, u are suppose to be talking about grand children in few years time not crying over a man that earns 100k.
If u are a big catch, u are suppose to be asking about how Umogwo looks like not d other way round, I'm still thinking why a big catch of 41 plus is still alone

crackhaus:

Mercychen I'm sorry to say this, but you are really NOT a catch.

And this has nothing to do with you as a person, because I actually hold the belief that a "majority" of you ladies are NO catch in anyway, shape, or form.

Just try to keep yourself grounded, Inugo...

Nnam, don't mind that evening newspaper talking about being a big catch when she was suppose to be talking about going her grand children in couple of years to come

Blessedmercy8:


Dirty slap dey hungry you.
Stop mentioning me. You know you and I don't agree. Just go and mind your lane o.

All these old nairalanders are the reason I keep changing my account, yet una go carry una unwanted face dey pursue my post up and down.

Please, I want fresh peeps in my space.

Food for thought aunty.
Ask urself why u were suppose to be talking about omugwo in few years to come rather than getting married at dis ur menopause age?

Grillbar:


She will still open a tread tomorrow. At 41 she behaves like a teenager with a teenage brain.

You, with your being discreet are no better than me. You are also not different from those talking trash, so why should I heed your advice?

Mind your business! Let me do my thing. claiming to be a perfectionist doesn't make you immune to life's issues either. So everyone knows directly or indirectly that you are also passing through one thing or the other even if you don't talk about. So, do you and let me do me.

Blessedmercy8:


You, with your being discreet are no better than me. You are also not different from those talking trash, so why should I heed your advice?

Mind your business! Let me do my thing. claiming to be a perfectionist doesn't make you immune to life's issues either. So everyone knows directly or indirectly that you are also passing through one thing or the other even if you don't talk about. So, do you and let me do me.

Okay madam no worries. Get ready to be collecting better insults it will not be from me anyways cos my brothers in arms are doing a wondaful job of it. The day you talk rubbish and e enter my head you go collect from me too

crackhaus:

The most obvious reason off the top of my head for the bolded text in your first paragraph: MEN

Too many men these days make women feel that way about themselves. I've never imagined myself propositioning a woman for a relationship/friendship more than once – She turns me down or makes it hard for me even if just minutely, she will be ghosted instantly.

But there are other men who go out of their way to move heaven and earth just to impress a woman who's likely coming into their lives just to add more financial responsibilities to him.

@second bolded text;
Na their way – pathologically delusional.

The emboldened right there is exactly the same thing I do. In this world where time is precious, I can never waste it pursuing a woman, especially one who believe it is their God given right to be pursued relentlessly.

Grillbar:


Okay madam no worries. Get ready to be collecting better insults it will not be from me anyways cos my brothers in arms are doing a wondaful job of it. The day you talk rubbish and e enter my head you go collect from me too

You are a shame of a man. Imagine planning for a day to have banters with a woman when your mates are busy securing a better life out there.

God I thank you that my boo is not from/on this forum. So many sissies here.

Don't you ever mention me again.

Jovialjune1:



Emmanuel, with the way you type your english I pity those that take you serious,

At your age you still never get sense, you keep pouring spittle about when it comes to women, it shows how frustrated and depressed your real life is, get a life, a meaningful one, even if it's small, it will help your thinking faculty once in a while.

Well, I never asked for help here before, so telling an elder like me to get a life while i hv an abundant life shows d type of animale u are.
If 41 year old lady could come online to seek opinion about her man that earns 100k in a month shows d type of human being she is in real life.
As for d menopause, I dey into health sector (physiotherapy) so I know waiting I dey always yan bcs in d health sector, one has to read wise

Drfernandez:



Hypocrite. You are not different from other men who have been trolling her here because you have always insulted her with your numerous monikers, and to think that you have been confirmed to be a bisexual and was charged for impregnating your niece is distastful enough, so you should be hiding your face in shame. Truly, this forum harbors the worst set of human beings.

Don't mind evil people claiming to care for humanity meanwhile they are d ones killings humanity.

Blessedmercy8:


Thanks dear.

They want me to just jump into something without first calculating the cost.

Nobody is saying that, aunty u are getting d whole thing wrong and from one angle. Na greed wan finish u like dis. If out of d whole bashing and troll u couldn't get some sensible comments from d sensiless comments it shows that u are d wrong type to be with.
U maybe good to keep as a friend but not as a wife, bcs u too dey greed. U wan dangote pikin but ur papa no bi Otedola and co

Drfernandez:



You need urgent mental evaluation because I wonder how what you wrote here and the monikers you mentioned got to do with me and my observation about you. My advice to you is simple:

1. Stop insulting @Blessedmercy8 and others with your numerous monikers.

2. Stop practicing bixesuality.

3. Stop molesting your niece and other minors, and surrender yourself to the authorities for already impregnating your niece.

4. Learn a skill and find a job instead of stealing and disgracing yourself everywhere.

Have a nice century.

Nice advice, Dr.

@Grillbar, I have said it severally that you cannot amount to anything good. Thank God that I am not the only person that knows about your sordid history, and keep up with your foolishness in making every moniker that called you out for your foolishness as mine.

Omo asan.

Grillbar:


Who be this one?

she is an introvert and heart broken, her ex bleeped and dumped her.

It has rendered her bitter against men .. she is currently into hook up, and has anger issues.

Grillbar:


Okay madam no worries. Get ready to be collecting better insults it will not be from me anyways cos my brothers in arms are doing a wondaful job of it. The day you talk rubbish and e enter my head you go collect from me too

Shey u dun collect ur own woto woto!!!!!!!!!
That aunty no get any atom of manner at all. For a lady of 41+ to come online with this topic shows d type of evening newspaper she is.
Comr sir,I dey meet dem on daily bases bcs of d nature of my hustle,they are too toxic and commanding, they always want things to go their way without considering d other party.

ShaqFu:
The emboldened right there is exactly the same thing I do. In this world where time is precious, I can never waste it pursuing a woman, especially one who believe it is their God given right to be pursued relentlessly.

As if una dey last night wey men dem sit down d jolli, one idiotic guy just dey annoy everybody with his attitudes towards the caused gender. I can't imagine myself having headache over a woman

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

Don't you work too, Or are you looking at depending on him, in this current economical downtime, you want to depend on a man.

How old are you, i hope you are not in your thirties. You will get old in your fathers house o!. It's obvious you don't love him, you are after financial gain.

But trust me, that guy you think is financially stable enough, what makes you think he would settle for you. You can't be empty and expect a full package. Aunty your heart will suffer betrayal o!

Start from somewhere, this is one of the reasons most men are not ready to settle down yet

Blessedmercy8:


You are a shame of a man. Imagine planning for a day to have banters with a woman when your mates are busy securing a better life out there.

God I thank you that my boo is not from/on this forum. So many sissies here.

Don't you ever mention me again.

Aunty zukwanike, u are only thanking God for giving u a simp man that wants to settle for less, an overused woman

emmanuelbrown26:

Aunty zukwanike, u are only thanking God for giving u a simp man that wants to settle for less, an overused woman

I thought I made it clear already that I don't engage empty skulls for long.

Now, run along. I've given you enough attention for what you're worth.

toujurs:
she is an introvert and heart broken, her ex bleeped and dumped her.

It has rendered her bitter against men .. she is currently into hook up, and has anger issues.

Dis is getting vavulence

toujurs:
Don't you work too, Or are you looking at depending on him, in this current economical downtime, you want to depend on a man.

[b]How old are you, i hope you are not in your thirties. [/b]You will get old in your fathers house o!. It's obvious you don't love him, you are after financial gain.

But trust me, that guy you think is financially stable enough, what makes you think he would settle for you. You can't be empty and expect a full package. Aunty your heart will suffer betrayal o!

Start from somewhere, this is one of the reasons most men are not ready to settle down yet

Comr sir, Aunty is 41+