ednut1:
Sometimes you cannot tell your partner everything about your finances to avoid trouble and problems. The 50k may be for savings towards a project or to take care of some family issues. Your husband or wife may frown at you doing that but when they dont know the wahala is not there. Marriage and relationship in its simplest form is transactional

Scamupdates:
well it depend on the type of partner you have. i use to date a girl about a year ago, she must never know i have any amonth on me everyday is billing. honestly if i know you as a lady and there is nothing between us if u ask me for funds i will give but trying to use the word relationship as a way to get funds from me i woun't give. but that do not mean not to be honest with your partner.

Islandlady:

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Hm but I still think in a marriage partners should have mutual understandings about their earnings, projects and all instead of keeping most issues like a secret which could lead to breach of Trust!

Islandlady:

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But I feel trust and honesty is Paramount in a relationship or marriage, you have to be plain and honest just like your @ bolded statement

Ready100:
As a man, the day you mistakenly tell your woman your income rate,,,,,, you are finished

Starz825:
Fear woman....

Islandlady:
Oh I think you are exaggerating, while will you be finished?

Scamupdates:
i know a man just like a friend but way older than me. his problem started when he married this lady, i met the kid at home a day and i ask him why is he not in school and he said school fee. i had to call the man how far, the man explained. you will all feel sorry for him. his wife had the money but refuse to pay for almost 1week. the future of the son does not bother her

Islandlady:
Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on.

Islandlady:

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But I feel trust and honesty is Paramount in a relationship or marriage, you have to be plain and honest just like your @ bolded statement

Scamupdates:
i know a man just like a friend but way older than me. his problem started when he married this lady, i met the kid at home a day and i ask him why is he not in school and he said school fee. i had to call the man how far, the man explained. you will all feel sorry for him. his wife had the money but refuse to pay for almost 1week. the future of the son does not bother her

Scamupdates:
yeah trust and honesty are no longer part of merit in relationship. my own brother bankroll this lady that claim he go her pregnate for 6 years. only to find out the kid is not for him during a dna text that is required during the kids visa to canada. now he said he his no longer resposible for the kid, poor boy that his dream is to study in canada. to him it look like my bro ambandon him halfway

ednut1:
easy to say

Islandlady:
Hm okay, Are you the tunde ednut on IG?

anochuko01:
You really can't trust women when it comes to knowing your salary. My sisters and mom ask me this question and I'm never comfortable about it. Why would you like to know?! Whereas, my dad would only ask "hope the pay is okay", but women?! They'll want to know how much, so they can help you calculate how much you'll be giving them.

Btw, I believe spouses should know how much they earn. I'll never marry anyone who I'm not gonna feel comfortable telling how much I earn.

Islandlady:
Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on.

Islandlady:
Actually most people are guilty of lying to their Lovers and partners about the actual amount they earn from their salary.

I believe most partners especially the Men have a reason for doing it, I think this can cause disunity and lack of trust if the other partner finds out about the actual amount you earn! What are the reasons behind this lie?

I came across the screenshot below from my IG story while scrolling about this lady asking for advice on this issue!
Experienced Nairalanders should share reason for this secret abeg!