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Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by delzbaba(m): 3:56pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
You people will travel out to foreign soil and start growing wings and talking like oyinbo people, your eye go clear soon. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by makavalley(m): 3:56pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
This is a man with ego, the way you spoke to him like he's never trying at all, some sort of making him feel the less. so because you're contributing more than he is doing would that make you spit it on his face? this is not right. at this point you've got to throw away pride and reach out by apologizing first, how could you just send him a message after 9weeks of cutting him off without first trashing out the issues that made you guys not communicate that long ? Men will always shoulder responsibilities without a word but the moment you ladies start contributing a penny , hell is let loose . 15 Likes |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by mbeast(m): 3:56pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Topic says: Complex marriage issue. It shud be foolish and stupid wife. that you hung up on him isn't an issue one cud understand it was in the heat of the moment you ignored him for 4 days i,one cud say u were still very pissed. But for Nine weeks?? At nine weeks a child born already know say Naija ne be am. U need slap. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by emerged01(m): 3:57pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Kingzeez10:Any person that abuse the man must be mad. The man is human he cant just let go easily without the woman truly feel remorse. Can you imagine she sent him " unrelated message after 9weeks"? She didnt feel remorse at all. The husband sensed that reason he has been ignoring her texts and calls. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by jaxxy(m): 3:57pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Meteoritey: U ignore ur husband for 9weeks bcis he said smtn about him being more stressed than u? this is equal to divorce in my books. I hate irrational humanbeings and behaviour. Then he went 3months incommunicado so where is the marriage? There no marriage btwn u guys anymore. Move on! Poor communication skills destroys marriage more than infidelity. 9 Likes |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:58pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
iLegendd: bro, a married couple should look at making sure that their family AND children is the most important thing in their lives... mummy and daddy not talking to one another (for months on end) is highly childish. i understand that the husband is repaying back his wife with her own medicine, but at the end of the day, only the family&kids will suffer. sometimes women are very childish, irrational and emotionally incoherent, but you have to accept that this is how this gender is, and live with it. giving the silent treatment to your spouse is ok for a few days, but for weeks and/or months is very immature. sometimes you just have to be the bigger person in the room. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by ednut1(m): 3:58pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
lol This gender ehn 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by romunu(m): 3:58pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
For those nine weeks you ignored him, somebody else have him attention, get your pen ready to sign the divorce papers. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by Simplyfun: 3:59pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
I can see you becoming a single mother if you don't act fast by apologizing to your husband. Even if you are the one feeding your husband the fact remains that he is still the husband and the head of the family. Contact his friends or people you know he can listen to to talk to him. Na this Kain opportunity dey make sidechick to become a wife oh. If you know you know. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by Nobody: 3:59pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Neptunium:It may not be so. So many abroad based men now hate the sight of women. I spend time with Guys both white and black. Some go months without inviting a single woman home. Hence, the reason most abroad ladies purchase dildos. Most abroad based ladies are either single ladies or single mothers. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by na2016: 3:59pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Women and this marriage of a thing. God help men so that they don't die early because of some women they married. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by OkutaNla: 3:59pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Meteoritey: Na wah for this Una abroad lifestyle abi na marriage-style make I call am. How can you deliberately ignore your husband for 9 whole weeks and then expect things to remain normal between you two?? As in, I don't get. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by Princemoneyman(m): 4:00pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Aunty continue ehn... Oga will find one smally to fill the gap. 9 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by Gbengais(m): 4:00pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
LilMissFavvy: So the husband and satan is to be blamed right... wisdom is far from you.. Generally women re not stupid.. but few of them like this one makes me hate the gender... after reading what the OP wrote up there na the husband and devil get blame.. just kill all the whole men in the world na 7 Likes |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by gasparpisciotta: 4:00pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
@Meteroritey Write him an apology letter |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by cedricksly: 4:00pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Meteoritey:the truth is u are not a nice person, minus wife aspect now. How can you foolishly type that you sent him a message after 9weeks of an unrelated issue, and u expect him to swiftly reply you? Are u mad Ma? So after 2months and 1 week was when u sent him a message.... If una just enter that abroad 95% of una go just go mad to know good from bad, left from right, bcoz of the Illusion that the government would always support you women against the men anytime any day.. Some of Y'all Need to learn submission as a wife and mutual respect 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by TheGift: 4:01pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Meteoritey: Lack of communication can only lead to more break down in communication. Because the break in transmission can only leave room for assumptions. What you should do is leave Nairaland and don't come back until you have called your husband, preferably go and see Him, and admit that two of you are destroying your marriage and you were the one who started this round. Explain that you were hurt but you didn't plan for it to take this long. Swallow your pride and help Him swallow His own. Good luck! 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by Boss13: 4:01pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Is this a real situation? � wow. What's wrong with you poster? It was very disrespectful of you to ignore your husband over slight issues and this has escalated to a break down in communication which may lead to a divorce if you don't apologize to him ASAP. There is the stress of long distance marriage and communication which should play a huge role in keeping the marriage intact is now a concern. Madam you are wrong here. Apologize to your husband immediately and get your family together. 1 Like |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by Topmaike007(m): 4:01pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
LilMissFavvy:bia leave Satan and blame your gender Abeg 4 Likes |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by Capernum: 4:01pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
For a man to ignore you successfully for three months It suggests that this is not your fourth time of being insolent and proud. If you wait for the next three months, expect a massive development from his desk. Your marriage is at the brink of a major collapse if you delay your sorries. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by kkins25(m): 4:01pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
abbey621:Finally!!!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by Lamasta(m): 4:02pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
When a lady starts telling you she's the one taking care of the family then just know that the marriage already has k-leg, imagine this one hunging up on her husband and ignoring him for close to 3 months This woman get mind seriously You better start begging otherwise 6 Likes |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by madjune(m): 4:03pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Acidosis: My brother/ sister, abeg help me ask them o. Are they Will Smith and his funny wife? 1 Like |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by Gbengais(m): 4:03pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Ishilove: Gbam |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by cedricksly: 4:03pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
LilMissFavvy:madam it isn't Satan, make una stop to accuse Satan of such mischievous Atitude of the woman.. Ego, is this woman's problem nothing more, u no reply man calls or messages for 9 weeks(2months and 1 week) and u want his opinion on an unrelated issue so he can pretend like nothing happened? Can you see the woman is a user 6 Likes |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by Sureboyy(m): 4:03pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:It's a typical issue of "you go low, I go lower" That woman na something else... Imagine not responding to her husband for 9 weeks (approx 2 months and 1 week) The man wan do him own na... As they say first to do no dae pain, na second to do dae pain pass |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by Blackman101: 4:04pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
This problem is in the fire oh and with care you can bring it out and allow it to cool to its nature temperature. You have a problem here and if not well hand it will boil over; step 1 1. trying call him and apologizing telling him you were stress up/ woman period thing/angry boss at the office and you took it out on him. step 2 2. form sickness (you or the kid) and suggest the children are asking of him step 3 3.pray like no man business best of luck sha |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by deflover(m): 4:04pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
LilMissFavvy: Women always find ways to blame the man Smh 2 Likes |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by OKOATA(m): 4:04pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Pride they say goes before a fall, your marriage is as good as dead. I see a narcissist, vengeful, bitter, malicious, not virtuous, evil woman. You are that type of person that can't forgive easily, you are too toxic. God knows I can never marry an evil being like you. Because of a small issue you cut your husband off for weeks. Like the world revolves around you? Go prepare for a divorce, heartless being, I hope you eat your pride along the way. Getting angry over senseless things. Hope it adds money into your bank account. 6 Likes |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by Makinaki: 4:05pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Just begin date again because you nor get husband again o. Obinrin so iwa nu, o ni ohun o lori oko. 2 Likes |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by seanwilliam(m): 4:05pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Lol. Personally if someone ignores my calls and messages for 4 days without solid reason and I get to know the person intentionally ignores it, I swear on almighty God, I will cut of the relationship between us. In your own case, I will never forgive you and you will only have problem if you keep telling people about me ( just like you did here ) . I’m done with you sis. Ignoring me for 9 weeks means two things 1. You’re comfortable and can live without me 2. You have someone else. There is nothin you or any member of your family can tell me wey I go hear. I will torture you emotionally so tey you will use your hand to file for divorce. My girl purposely ignored my call simultaneously 3 times, I ignored her for 4 days, infact she had to come down to my house to find out. You’re blessed to have such gentleman , not me. You want bread? I will give you oven !! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by Arysexy(m): 4:05pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
You are not matured for marriage. Your husband deserves a public apology from you, spiced with lots of make up sex to calm him down. 99% blame goes to you 1 Like |
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