Slynation:
Yes please, there are customary laws and would be treated according to the laws and customs of that particular tribe...

Are customary laws knows to Nigeria constitution?
And if yes, does customary laws supersedes the constitution?
I’m asking to learn the legal ways because I have a decision to make when the time is right

KINGinVAHALA:

Does the court of law recognizes tradition?
And with the Igbo law you just mentioned, if with DNA evidence the forth child father’s approach a law court, who do you think the court of law will recognize as the real father of the 4th child?

And according to Nigeria laws, which supersedes each other between tradition and the constitution?

Lol
I hope you know there is a law punishing Adultery by upto 2 years imprisonment. The man will never approach any court and admit to sleeping with a married woman. He will first go to jail, before he gets the child. Ask a lawyer. Thats why he will forever live in pains.

KINGinVAHALA:

Are customary laws knows to Nigeria constitution?
And if yes, does customary laws supersedes the constitution?
I’m asking to learn the legal ways because I have a decision to make when the time is right

For the formal Yes and for the latter, The constitution is supreme and supersedes other laws...

Sweetplum:

I told him to return the child. Read my posts, understand them before quoting me.

Nah...They should rather return the Mother of the kid

go and do DNA of the rest of them so that you can manage the heart break at once

Jashub:
My brother, the deed has been done and for the sake of your sanity and mental health, I suggest you start making plans to relocate and leave that harlot you call wife.

As for those bastards dwelling with you, kindly tell them to go and ask their mother to show them where their father is living . Once you can do this , you will know peace

children don't choose who fathers them . Deal with your wife the way you want but leave the child out of it.

MisterMan123456:
Johnny, it seems you love to eat shit. Get ready to eat more shit from the LovePeddler you call a wife. You never did her wrong by sending money to your sister.
If the money you sent to your sister made you a millionaire, would she have complained? No. But because you were duped temporarily, then she went wild.

For me I can't harbor the thoughts of someone pounding my wife to the point it bore a bastard fruit.

If he doesn't get rid of that woman, that same colleague will continue having sex with her cause most women are senseless. He should also go test for STI

GerogeI:



Lol
I hope you know there is a law punishing Adultery by upto 2 years imprisonment. The man will never approach any court and admit to sleeping with a married woman. He will first go to jail, before he gets the child. Ask a lawyer. Thats why he will forever live in pains.

So what happens if the said child had been born years before the mother of the child got married to another man but the mother of the child and the father of the child were never married ?

justuschi50:
u must be stupid, I am igbo from Enugu state and I won't tolerate that first statement so any child born under my house is my. That is how u pple we keep destroying African culture

Idiot don't not insult me for your poor upbringing grounding. Go ask you parents, who owns a child born by a married woman, irrespective of paternity in Enugu state. Infact go dig into your family genealogy, you might even be a decendant of a child born by another man. The whole village will know, but no one ever references it.

Slynation:
For the formal Yes and for the latter, The constitution is supreme and supersedes other laws...

I just had to go online to read the constitution about this and read the court can order for a dna for the cold if the child hasn’t gotten to 18years

Restructure your marriage by living separately with your alot wife in separate location so that both of you will agree to bring return to the the children

Na wah oo, woman again fear woman oo, after devil na woman.

Slynation:
Nah...They should rather return the Mother of the kid

Your brain has started working upside down again.

Hed0nist:


The only solution is to divorce her and co - parent. He should not have to bear the blame of breaking or keeping the family. She made that decision repeatedly. When she kicked him as he was down then verbally assaulted him to the point of tears, after which she cheated on him (He tried once, he forgave her). As if that was not enough she brought another man’s child for him to raise. Then finally, she keeps lying even in the face of a DNA test result.

The choice is up to the man

He is old enough to make his choice,after all,he is the one to live with the choice he makes

toobusy:
Sorry bro,so many men have trained and some are still training kids that are not there's,things most women do to men are better imagined

Let me tell you something. There's a lady who lives in the next street after mine. But kasala really scatter for this women matter. She think say her husband no go find out. She went for a wedding and because of traffic congestion on the way. She couldn't return back home and she spend the night at her colleague house. But you know. Things always turn around so quick in a tickle of an eye. When they were in her colleague house. They were both obviously drunk after taking a lot of drink's at the ceremony. To cut the story short.. she was given a room to pass the night. Her colleague is married and she lives with her husband. Do you know in the middle of the night. She got out of her room completely naked and I don't know what I'll call this. She was probably sleep walking. She walked in the sitting room and her colleague husband was obviously watching tv. Something led to another and they had sex. Some men can never control their sexual urge. How can you take advantage of your visitor who came to spend the night at your place. The both had sex and she was pregnant o. Just like that sharp shooter lol. She knew something was wrong ever since so she confronted him and he told him. And you know Ladies. She hurriedly maybe had another sexual pleasure with her ownhusband to cover her footprint but after the child was Born. See where matter cast. This man and his 3 kids has small eye's yes I Said eyes. And he was kind of surprised how come his New child come carry Big eyes. If you see this man eyes and that of his kids. You don't need to asked if he's the Father of his children. He did DNA test and the results shows he wasn't the father. So sometimes all this women cheat not because they enjoy cheating. It might occur accidentally just like this. Thanks

Na Ashawo you marry. If you like don’t leave the w!ore. Keep being stupid. She doesn’t even have any respect for you.

Where did you even get money from for paternity? Stupid liars everywhere

Do a secret DNA WITHOUT HER KNOWLEDGE

This is so bad.
I feel your pains.
Too much distraction and expenses

So, tell me how much you spent for the DNA test?

Starz825:
I just went back to read all of your topics...
Very interesting...
You don't even write like one who didn't see the four walls of uni....
I appreciate your writings...

I understood your story and here is my advice...

You mentioned that you don't want divorce..
You are a good man like somebody said up there....
Now....sit your wife down..... explain everything to her....
The father of the child should come and have his daughter.
Now if the father is no where to be found...adopt the girl....

Infact...... Adopt the baby...that's my advice...
Everything will be settled in the future...
Treat the baby as your own...

That's all..
Thanks

This advice na mumu e just be

Johnnyjohnnyman:



She can't return her to her father because she is only 1 year 3 months and she is still nursing her.
I can't never separate the innocent child from her mother to save my marriage. I would prefer that she leaves with the child and continue to take care of her outside of my house.

Better do as u said here,, chase de woman nd de child out,, dnt try 2 mak Ashawo ur Wife,, de bitter truth is dat she will continue fucking dat Guy outside

GerogeI:



Lol
I hope you know there is a law punishing Adultery by upto 2 years imprisonment. The man will never approach any court and admit to sleeping with a married woman. He will first go to jail, before he gets the child. Ask a lawyer. Thats why he will forever live in pains.

This is only if they married under the Act, Court Marriage, and not in all states in Nigeria. This law punishing adultery is only mainly in the northern parts of Nigeria and not common in the south.

And circumstances can make the biological father to come back for his child even with possibility of 2 year imprisonment.

Sweetplum:

Your brain has started working upside down again.

Oya go and read your books, WAEC and Jamb is fast approaching...

Sluacoast:

Let me tell you something. There's a lady who lives in the next street after mine. But kasala really scatter for this women matter. She think say her husband no go find out. She went for a wedding and because of traffic congestion on the way. She couldn't return back home and she spend the night at her colleague house. But you know. Things always turn around so quick in a tickle of an eye. When they were in her colleague house. They were both obviously drunk after taking a lot of drink's at the ceremony. To cut the story short.. she was given a room to pass the night. Her colleague is married and she lives with her husband. Do you know in the middle of the night. She got out of her room completely naked and I don't know what I'll call this. She was probably sleep walking. She walked in the sitting room and her colleague husband was obviously watching tv. Something led to another and they had sex. Some men can never control their sexual urge. How can you take advantage of your visitor who came to spend the night at your place. The both had sex and she was pregnant o. Just like that sharp shooter lol. She knew something was wrong ever since so she confronted him and he told him. And you know Ladies. She hurriedly maybe had another sexual pleasure with her ownhusband to cover her footprint but after the child was Born. See where matter cast. This man and his 3 kids has small eye's yes I Said eyes. And he was kind of surprised how come his New child come carry Big eyes. If you see this man eyes and that of his kids. You don't need to asked if he's the Father of his children. He did DNA test and the results shows he wasn't the father. So sometimes all this women cheat not because they enjoy cheating. It might occur accidentally just like this. Thanks

She sleepwalked naked and went to have sex and she no still wake up .She was being bleeped hard in her sleepwalking and she didn't wake up.Which kind nonsense be this ooh


Which kind nonsense be this

Sweetplum:

Bad decision. Who ll take care of your other kids?
Broken home is one of the major causes of BD kids behaviour out there.
Return the child. Ask if she ll still be with you. Count your loss and appreciate the remaining.

Bitch

KINGinVAHALA:

So what happens if the said child had been born years before the mother of the child got married to another man but the mother of the child and the father of the child were never married ?

The child belongs to the mothers father, and will take his name and have rights in his properties. In Igbo culture, there is no provision for you to claim any child you sired, except you married the mother. There are no bastards, they do not exist because paternity is not by blood. In fact, a common practice in olden times, is that daughters from families with out male children, can decide to get pregnant and give birth to a son that will survive their father. Some will still get married later and leave for their husbsnds house. Leaving the son behind to answer their fathers name. Not done anymore, the trend shifted to such girls marrying a wife for their fathers.

Also, an infertile woman can marry a wife to get pregnant on their behalf. Even a diety can get a wife, thats the Origin of OSU, untouchable children of deities( they were avoided not as second class citizens, but because people feared angering their deity father by mistakenly treating them bad or offending them). Who gets these women pregnant, randy men of the village, who can never claim the children.

Sluacoast:

Let me tell you something. There's a lady who lives in the next street after mine. But kasala really scatter for this women matter. She think say her husband no go find out. She went for a wedding and because of traffic congestion on the way. She couldn't return back home and she spend the night at her colleague house. But you know. Things always turn around so quick in a tickle of an eye. When they were in her colleague house. They were both obviously drunk after taking a lot of drink's at the ceremony. To cut the story short.. she was given a room to pass the night. Her colleague is married and she lives with her husband. Do you know in the middle of the night. She got out of her room completely naked and I don't know what I'll call this. She was probably sleep walking. She walked in the sitting room and her colleague husband was obviously watching tv. Something led to another and they had sex. Some men can never control their sexual urge. How can you take advantage of your visitor who came to spend the night at your place. The both had sex and she was pregnant o. Just like that sharp shooter lol. She knew something was wrong ever since so she confronted him and he told him. And you know Ladies. She hurriedly maybe had another sexual pleasure with her ownhusband to cover her footprint but after the child was Born. See where matter cast. This man and his 3 kids has small eye's yes I Said eyes. And he was kind of surprised how come his New child come carry Big eyes. If you see this man eyes and that of his kids. You don't need to asked if he's the Father of his children. He did DNA test and the results shows he wasn't the father. So sometimes all this women cheat not because they enjoy cheating. It might occur accidentally just like this. Thanks

This is the lie the cheating woman told you guys.

Tirkashi

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UArMCdkynSc


Guess what happened �����

TANID:
please like how much is DNA I just had baby today but I'm not sure if I'm the father of the baby

dis one don enter one chance

Asin pikin go just dey resemble person wife colleague,the matter go come dey do man the more you look the less you see
God Forbid Batin oo.
Send that bitch that loose woman,that Woman with no iota of virtue back to her father's house and do so without any reprove to shame her before the World.