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30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Kewtt: 11:09pm On Oct 14, 2022
Came across this.... It's a real hustle out there

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by captainking(m): 11:15pm On Oct 14, 2022
Kewtt:
undecided
I see what you did there... Had to screenshot oga G's comment abi..bad dude..

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Treasure17(m): 11:19pm On Oct 14, 2022
There's more to life than marriage and kids. Why subjecting yourself to unecessary tears, pressure and sorrow cause you ain't married? Common.

Modified. To those quoting me with unecessary takes. Hope you understand now?

The truth is that most humans find their purpose in what other people are pursuing.

You make your assertions there because you've seen other purposes for living. Some people don't have the capacity to do that. So if they don't get married, have kids and money, they'll never feel fulfilled - Nosayer

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by doggedfighter(f): 11:20pm On Oct 14, 2022
Is that Nairaland's gazzuzz ?




Other than car issues didn't know he helps ladies looking for husbands too.


On the issue, love finds everyone at different times.


While waiting keep busy , if you can and you desire a child so much , birth one or adopt.

It helps and can make one happy !

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by general111(m): 11:54pm On Oct 14, 2022
Hhmm...
God help us

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by OgaTheTop2: 12:17am On Oct 15, 2022
Hehn, the rate our ladies are unmarried... Ha, this is serious o.

Nigeria is hard, we understand. No man want extra responsibilities when there is no job, no security, no hope in Nigeria.

Vote wisely for enabling environments in Nigeria.

Vote wisely for security

Vote wisely for job

Vote wisely for hope

Vote your conscience

Vote Peter Obi.

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by libertyfather(m): 12:20am On Oct 15, 2022
Who marriage help? Go for pikin and regulate your life

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by VeryWickedMan: 12:28am On Oct 15, 2022
Gazzuzz is now a marriage mechanic.

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by GOFRONT(m): 4:37am On Oct 15, 2022
Eiyah!!!!

Their lamentation reminds me of one of NwaAmaikpe's powerful quotes which says "Marriage is the Greatest Laurel of a woman. NwaAmaikpe (2019)

Hmmm......."Lets talk"...... Our Auto Crooner

I hope your "Lets talk" is for talking out Auto business or negotiation and not some "Lets talk" that could mean Negotiation of her honeypot.

Oga G, if the latter is your plan, pls retreat, I repeat Retreat.......

And to think of all the single adult ladies crying to bed at night due to their unmarried status, Gazzuzz chose to "Lets talk" with the Fairest of all of them.......Who nor like fair matured lady?? grin......But why the fair one??

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by GAZZUZZ(m): 5:44am On Oct 15, 2022
It is not me o grin


I had to go check also grin


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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Kewtt: 5:45am On Oct 15, 2022
GAZZUZZ:
It is not me o grin


I had to go check also grin


Mtcheeew there's no shame in helping the sisters out

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by ibechris(m): 6:00am On Oct 15, 2022
Same way u have lazy men in their fathers house at the age of 40 above doing nothing except gambling and doing cults.

I know some people are angry with me for saying this. Go to Lagos and see them loitering the street like bees,no work,no trade just fooling around the area.

Most of them are landlords children...waiting for their fathers to die just to share one room each.

Some of them are here typing rubbish and calling ladies evening newspaper as if they themselves are brand new books.

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Yankee101: 6:10am On Oct 15, 2022
Live your life for Yeheshua, yourself, family and leave the world better


Isaiah 56:5

Even unto them will I give in mine house and within my walls a place and a name better than of sons and of daughters: I will give them an everlasting name, that shall not be cut off.

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nobody: 6:39am On Oct 15, 2022
Those who are married are not 100% Happy. So it's not marriage that gives happiness. In fact, many of them will tell you they lost their happiness after marriage.

Marriage is a whole lot of responsibility that demands a lot from you. It's not like what you see in zeeworld. That is why many get disappointed because they go in with unrealistic expectations.

Just continue living your best life. If marriage comes, fine. if not, life goes on.
For me, I can't be bothered as long as God is taking care of me and I'm comfortable. what more can one possibly ask for in life.?

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by garriAndsugar: 6:47am On Oct 15, 2022
doggedfighter:
Is that Nairaland's gazzuzz ?




Other than car issues didn't know he helps ladies looking for husbands too.


On the issue, love finds everyone at different times.


While waiting keep busy , if you can and you desire a child so much , birth one or adopt.

It helps and can make one happy !
Nice.. sometimes people tend to care about what the society thinks than their own happiness. I don't see anything bad in having children without getting married as long as they can be catered for

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nobody: 6:49am On Oct 15, 2022
garriAndsugar:

Nice.. sometimes people tend to care about what the society thinks than their own happiness. I don't see anything bad in having children without getting married as long as they can be catered for

Will you stop encouraging rubbish here?

What a low way to think..

Mtcheeeeeewwwww

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by fykes(m): 6:50am On Oct 15, 2022
I don't think the marriage thing is a male / responsibility factor...you need to see the level of toxic feminism the average young woman out there has...so entitled, proud and shallow. (No bashing sisters) but if you want to marry in this tough country and times, pls learn the act of being peaceful and making your personal space a comfort zone - No man will devalue a woman who gives him peace not for anything.

Please learn from ur mothers
Being disrespectful doesn't make you woke
Being rude and arrogant doesn't make you woke.
Being woke is being progressively informed.

Sex is not a man's critical need, respect is

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by garriAndsugar: 6:55am On Oct 15, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


Will you stop encouraging rubbish here?

What a low way to think..

Mtcheeeeeewwwww
How did you know I was directing that message to you. The only man that will be okay for you will be the one you will mould for yourself.. so look for the nearest clay and mould your ideal man.
Don't go and get pregnant or adopt a child you think time is running slow.

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by falcon01: 7:16am On Oct 15, 2022
Is that gazzuzz from Nairaland?

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Faber(m): 7:21am On Oct 15, 2022
Follow white people dey flex feminism muscles and "I don't need a man"

Rita Dominic rushing to go marry, Tonto Dike, always shedding tears for leaving Churchill, Mercy Aigbe becoming a 3rd wife to a man, Judy Austin getting married to Yul Edochie, becoming a second wife, Genevieve running into depression and mental issues because of lack of husband should teach you young ladies some lessons...

Guys are going on strike, you will not notice it till it dawns on you.
I got like two ladies in their 30s always frowning at me when they see me with younger girls...one told me, what I am doing with all these indomie girls. For her mind I should come and settle for her battered pussy grin grin who does that

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nobody: 7:37am On Oct 15, 2022
Congregation of Evening Newspapers & Leftovers. Most Humans are programmed to learn the hardest way. This Is Just a Tip of an Ice-berg. The World Powers are emasculating Men and strategically and systematically destroying the Female Gender's heritage without the Female Gender knowing. They thought they were being liberated lol. It's all a game and facade. See the truth Is the way things Is going now, Many women/men will acquire so much material success but they won't be able to experience "True Happiness" It's Just what It Is. And mind you, this development will Hit the Female Gender the most because they are the ones always craving for marriage..

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nicepoker(m): 7:49am On Oct 15, 2022
See how they are weeping looking for husbands. grin

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nobody: 7:50am On Oct 15, 2022
ibechris:
Same way u have lazy men in their fathers house at the age of 40 above doing nothing except gambling and doing cults.

I know some people are angry with me for saying this. Go to Lagos and see them loitering the street like bees,no work,no trade just fooling around the area.

Most of them are landlords children...waiting for their fathers to die just to share one room each.

Some of them are here typing rubbish and calling ladies evening newspaper as if they themselves are brand new books.


a Man can amend his ways work hard and get married anytime, unlike a woman

They are like Flowers.. they have time and seasons.

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nobody: 8:02am On Oct 15, 2022
garriAndsugar:

How did you know I was directing that message to you. The only man that will be okay for you will be the one you will mould for yourself.. so look for the nearest clay and mould your ideal man.
Don't go and get pregnant or adopt a child you think time is running slow.

Nope, you were actually directing it to yourself and your daughters in the future cos no hope. Wait for it.

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by candygist: 8:52am On Oct 15, 2022
Treasure17:
There's more to life than marriage and kids. Why subjecting yourself to unecessary tears, pressure and sorrow cause you ain't married? Common.

You see that kids, it's important o. But don't kill yourself of you don't have any.

Ar old age, you will be thankful to God you have kids, even if you don't have any other thing.

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Wizywiz(m): 9:09am On Oct 15, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
Those who are married are not 100% Happy. So it's not marriage that gives happiness. In fact, many of them will tell you they lost their happiness after marriage.

Marriage is a whole lot of responsibility that demands a lot from you. It's not like what you see in zeeworld. That is why many get disappointed because they go in with unrealistic expectations.

Just continue living your best life. If marriage comes, fine. if not, life goes on.
For me, I can't be bothered as long as God is taking care of me and I'm comfortable. what more can one possibly ask for in life.?
nice one...Dem say who no go no no....Dem think say na by getting married...wen Dem enter Dem fit wish say Dem no enter... giving themselves unnecessary pressure...big sis no join Dem oooo..life no be only by marriage

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by emmanuelbrown26: 9:24am On Oct 15, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
Those who are married are not 100% Happy. So it's not marriage that gives happiness. In fact, many of them will tell you they lost their happiness after marriage.

Marriage is a whole lot of responsibility that demands a lot from you. It's not like what you see in zeeworld. That is why many get disappointed because they go in with unrealistic expectations.

Just continue living your best life. If marriage comes, fine. if not, life goes on.
For me, I can't be bothered as long as God is taking care of me and I'm comfortable. what more can one possibly ask for in life.?
I expected to see u right here. I can help u in managing loneliness bcs I know that loneliness is just ur major problem right now

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Nobody: 9:27am On Oct 15, 2022
Wizywiz:
nice one...Dem say who no go no no....Dem think say na by getting married...wen Dem enter Dem fit wish say Dem no enter... giving themselves unnecessary pressure...big sis no join Dem oooo..life no be only by marriage

My dear, I dey use others experience dey learn and advise myself accordingly.

When the time is right, things will fall in place. No need to rush.

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by emmanuelbrown26: 9:29am On Oct 15, 2022
U can't compare life of a man with a woman. Women expires after 25 down to 29years. U see 30year old lady is so shattered both mentally and emotionally.
I was engaging one sometime ago, d way dis aunty dey fast and pray all bcs of a man I keep wondering if men dun finish for dis kantri.
When a woman start flexing muscle with a man,she tends to remain single for d rest of her life, if u think say na lie go and ask @Blessedmercy8

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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Wizywiz(m): 9:30am On Oct 15, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


My dear, I dey use others experience dey learn and advise myself accordingly.

When the time is right, things will fall in place. No need to rush.

that's it...me wey don Waka d road before I no go fit encourage person to dey desperate for am

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