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Women will create time for the man they're interested in.

If she really wants you, you'll know.

And she'll literally tell you how to seduce her. All you have to do is to listen and learn.


But don't overflex your ego, if she shows interest.

MJBOLT:

no amount of wealth can erase foolishness

Wow. Men no deh hear word. En don do am out of love. But en woman don show am say, love does not exist.

Hmmmmmm

JESHAL:
Hmmmmmm

Nice!

pansophist:
Female rejection is the mirror that men use to properly gauge their rank in the sexual market place, and motivates them to work harder to access top shelves chicks. Conversely, male attention is the formula women used to determine their desirability, and motivates them to be unrealistical. The more attention he dishes out to her, the more unlikely she will reach out to him.

#RandomThoughts

Damn man. You got yourself a follower.
How can we reach out to you privately you deserve some appreciation for real.

I used to be a guy with big heart before, like 3 times when a girl i fvck ask me for a favor,i randomly help her once out of that 3, like assisting her with like 15k when she ask for 30k or 40k or thereabouts. Yes i know 15k is something i can easily afford to lose i even give random males working in eateries and viewing centers more on a normal day.
Ever since i got hooked up with ubuja posts on nl i completely stop giving girls a dime, guess what i have been able to save more than 300k in my piggyvest anytime a girl i lay, or dating randomly ask me for financial aid, i deposit 15k in that piggy account once out of two times.

Only female i help now is my only sis and mom and they dare not even get entitled to my money, these days, I tend to only give out money to my fellow guys. March 2022, i stopped helping female for anything related to finance and guess what, it's been the best financial decision i made this year.

Nairaland has been the biggest influence in my life, damn those girls that year took mad advantage of my very soft nature. I thought i was being a nice guy and the good person, i no just get sense. God forbid i spend my hard earned money on a jobless entitled piece of crap.

NP - Moneybagg Yo & Future - Hard for the next

Just improve yourself, Bleep these no levels IG models and dump them like they are nothing anytime they try to play a fast one on you.
They'll always try.

Always use protection brothers.

ProphetJeroboam:
There’s this ongoing discussion about Nigerian women and their obsession with food dates. Personally I’ve observed the same thing with African American women.

Nigerian girls just want to go on food dates and post monthly photo dumps. It’s a hustle, the main guys fvcking them don’t take them to Radisson Blu to eat Chicken Pasta bolognese. It’s you who wants to impress them that shoulders the responsibility of feeding the less privileged. Your reward will be a side hug while she posts photos of herself with you obviously missing from said photos. A girl that truly loves you will not ask or hint to you that she wants an exotic food date.

This brings me back to my old write-up about demographics and location affecting women’s choice in mates. In a financially unstable community, the women gravitate towards mates who can feed, clothe and take care of their financial needs. In a financially stable community, the young women fvck guys based on appearance, raw feelings , game etc

I have been in both situations and this is facts, not a theory. The white girls in my city will fvck you because they think you’re cute, funny or just straight up sweet and nice. I have never in my interactions with them spoken about food dates nor do they obsess about food dates, you will never hear bullshit like “my love language is food or see I am a foodie“ boldly written on their social pages, you’re dealing with hungry girls in Nigeria and I am not shaming them, it’s the reality, they’re not used to eating good so food becomes luxury.

I quickly noticed that the Nigerian girls in clubs in my city go home with guys who spends the most on drinks in the club and the White girls go home with the guy who dances with her and gives her a good time inside the club.

I am not in anyway glorifying white girls, I am just pointing out some notable differences. I hope y’all get the chance to experience the best of both worlds. I have some friends who got white girls for serious relationships and in a month or two you’ll see the whites girls learning how to prepare Nigerian dishes and trying to communicate in pidgin English, all they care about is making you happy. I’ll mention, just don’t get caught cheating on them

No lies.

Currently on Nairaland's front page there's a thread about a guy who secretly did a DNA test on his first child and discovered that the child isn't his own.

I don't know how true it is but the mofo is saying that he doesn't want to confront his wife about it (despite the fact that he feels hurt and betrayed) because he doesn't want to ruin his marriage.

I have never felt like slapping someone so much in my whole life...

Someone should help post the link to the thread here

AlphaTaikun:
Absolutely @Ubunja.

Most women are not prudes. That's why they are the main consumers of romance novels which they use to recreate they sexual fantasies.

With only words, a woman can be brought to the point where she violently reaches orgasm. Right from the very early 1990s I read an advanced book on female sexual psychology and I never looked at women the same way again. I was blown away.

Even more stunning is the fact that the clitoris is averagely 6 inches long
with the vast length being inside the female body, and the clitoris keeps growing for life! This is one of the reasons women desire more sex as they grow older.

Ubunja, I'm an OG here on NL since 2005, I visit this thread sometimes and YOU as a young man are doing very well to make men understand women! It's very important because the male-dominated society makes females to pretend a lot so as to avoid being called sluts or prostitutes. But if a man is able to hack into the primal female
psychology, she will not leave you alone or ask for a divorce. Worse case, maybe a temporary separation, but she'll always come back because of your advanced sexual imprint on her.


All the best!

This man you must be over 40 and look at the nonsense you are typing like a teenage lazy youth when your mates are sending their kids to uni. Yamayama fall on that your bald head there

ubunja:
WHAT IS THE IMPRINT?
A pattern in sexual preferences that is encoded in us growing up which we'll follow for the rest of our lives.

A girl's first imprint is her father. Or father figures (eg uncles). This is who shapes her tastes in men from an early age. As the girl grows into a young woman she's usually drawn to guys who resemble her father or father figures in one way or the other.

When the young woman starts having sex with men, her first lover - or more accurately, HER FIRST 3 LOVERS - set a pattern in terms of what type of men will forever turn her on. Going forward, the combined traits of these first men is what will trigger her lust and make her pussy wet for the rest of her life. Her mind forever links/locks her sexual tastes to the body type and personality of these first three men. They become her SEXUAL IMPRINT.

Even if a woman doesn't marry her sexual imprint, the sexual imprint will forever remain her weakness and her stumbling block. If she's to cheat she's going to cheat more with the sexual imprint.

Now here is where you come in...
As a man you'll never know a woman's imprint. But what you've to know is that when women choose men, most of the time they're choosing from the imprint. Which is to say, A lot of the times when a woman chooses you, when she gives you green lights or even directly approaches you - you're being selected not because you did anything special or specific, but because you strongly resemble the first guy or guys who fucced her..

Trash coming from a depressed Zimbabwean chronic masturbator that can’t get a decent job and pucci in SA. Yamayama fall on that your bald head there

Adekunlegold9ja:
Good evening guys,

Which is the best approach to get a lady into you. And being in a relationship with you.

Professing your love at first

Or just been close to her and playing the dating game(Hardon)

I have tried both tho and the two ended in absolute shame.

Guy if you know what is good for your life, you better go and hustle and leave woman matter. Lazy youth

Vulcanheph:
Currently on Nairaland's front page there's a thread about a guy who secretly did a DNA test on his first child and discovered that the child isn't his own.

I don't know how true it is but the mofo is saying that he doesn't want to confront his wife about it (despite the fact that he feels hurt and betrayed) because he doesn't want to ruin his marriage.

I have never felt like slapping someone so much in my whole life...

Someone should help post the link to the thread here

https://www.nairaland.com/7401346/aftermath-dna-test-first-child#117869548
There you go.

Fiscus105:
It ended in shame probably because of these reasons.

1. You went for ladies with higher standard
2. You are not ok , both physique and financially as guy.
3.You carried redpil indoctrination and you think it will work for you in reality as they are claiming here.

This!!! All these idiots will just think say na by doing red pill dey catch woman. If you are an attractive, confident and charismatic guy, women will throw themselves at you. Even without you opening your mouth.

If you are not attractive, you will spend your time playing games and getting rejected before you find a woman. Better to use your time wisely to hustle and make something of your life

LutherSanchez:
So i met this new chick at work,she's a young actually,am guessing maybe below 30(initially,i never knew she was married with 2 kids),she came to my workplace for a project like that,was sitting with my colleagues just discussing how to flex during the weekend when she came in and stopped by secretary's desk to check in or something .. One of my guys drew my attention to her,i turned around because i was backing the sec's desk,as soon as I saw her(she was well endowed) the first thing i said was *What that Bleep!!! ,imma tears that ass open* . Immediately i said it,she looked up directly to me,our eyes met but i had to make sure she was the one to break the contact First (never knew she heard what i said), because i was now facing the sec's desk,i noticed her stealing a glance at me every now and then,even the secretary noticed too(she's one of the many Ladies at work i don't give a damn about). So one of my guy was like don't tell me you're already thinking about that,and i was like,you know me,i don't bluff. After a while,she got seated waiting for our Director,so me and my colleagues we went downstairs to get some snacks,spent a little time while getting the snacks,then about going back to the office with my guys,that's when i saw her coming downstairs. Told my boys to wait up so i can talk to her...

Me: Hey, what's up. You're the lady i saw upstairs right..
She: Yeah,and you're going to tear my ass open...
Me: You heard that?? Well,that's the truth and it's not a bad thing,is it
She: Not a bad thing at all... Buh next time try to keep ya voice low,you never know who might be listening...
Me: Copy that... Well my name's..
She: Luther Sanchez,
Me: Expresses Shock how she knew my name...
She: It's on your ID Tag
Me: Okay,right.... So ma'am I gotta run along now(meanwhile the Ladies around our office don begin look her like say they wan use eye kill her)duty calls,but here's my card. Call me....
She: Collects the card..... See you around
Me: Definitely....... And i left ....


That day was Thursday ,so the next day being Friday,got a call from her asking if I'd be free after work hours or am already on schedule,told her am on schedule,asked what's on her mind and she said she wanna hang out,so i told her to pick a place after work. Later,we met. Talked about a lot of things,proved to her am a very open and non judgemental guy and that's when shits started manifesting. I escalated from the normal talks to the Sexual,noticed she was no longer herself, eyes fixed on me without even blinking ,i already know what's happening buh i just calm down,twas then she started telling me that how am making her feel right now,she haven't felt like that in a very very long time,she asked what type of guy i am, whether am type of guy that's down for whatever and whenever, and I replied her saying am the type of guy that she's never met before. So she said that I should wind down with my sexual talks because she's already getting close to the edge and if i continue and she gets to that edge,that the restroom will be our ending point for now,(and I replied for now?.....with a devilish smile....)and i laughed and said that would be very cool though and she said you're a very bad guy. We left around 7pm,each being to their abode,got home thinking about what has happened throughout the outing,then her chat popped on my phone

She: Can you really tear my ass out?
Me: I don't say what i can't do...
She: Send me your address..
Me : What for...
She: Am coming over
Me: Sends Address.......
20 mins....later.... She arrives at my junction. Went to pick her up,2 mins later we arrived at my house. She wore a long red gown,led her inside,backed her to lock the door, turning around,she's around loosen her gown to point it's already showing her cleavage,it's what i wanted anyway so I just sprang into action. To be honest I've never had that kinda bleep before,she turned into this insatiable wild beast,telling me all her fantasies and how she's known all through the day that today was the day she gonna achieve that (guess that's why she didn't find what i said about Tearing her ass out rude or why she had to ask me again before coming over)...
Twas after the deed was done and her fantasies achieved that she started telling me how sex with her husband is very boring and all that.. At first i was shocked that she's married and was putting herself in the firing line,i guess she noticed and ask me what's wrong,but i said nothing and played it cool. She said,one day she wouldn't mind bearing my seed and in my mind am like that day will never happen,i never knew you were married if not today wouldn't have happened.... 1 hour later she left,called me that she's home now and i can hear her kids in the background,kept wondering to myself,what the heck Just happened !!!!!.... It's been three weeks now and she calls me everyday,telling me how my voice turns her on,how she wants to come over buh I always plays the unavailable card, she's always made sure that our chats are sexual too... Kept telling her to calm down,what if her husband finds out,she said he won't Find out. Me i won't bleep her again,first one was out of ignorance,i no go repeat am again.

You watch too many stupid Nollywood movies. Better wake up and go hustle before strong yamayama nack that your coconut head. Lazy youth

Karlifate:
@ubuja, this is the lady you posted her video, few days ago.



@chiraq77, can you see that Blessing Okoro has contents for both males & females.

Only idiots take a hustler like Blessing Okoro seriously. Shows the kind of fools wey dey this thread

Seems like we have another troll... Enjoy your stay Bitch....

E be like say this thing just sub

ubunja:
"Whóríng Enterprise". Lol.

But for real, Some married women will even give you a baby. That's how deep, cold and dark the game is. They'll literally get pregnant for you.

If you speak to a lot of married women get in the habit of jokingly saying,"I wish your next baby was mine!".
If they act shocked say you're just joking. But I assure you, say it to enough of them one day one of them will take you up on it. And you'll lose all your faith in humanity.
The reproductive game is the most cruel of all the games.

Ubunja is bad . He sabi the game wellas.

machote:
Stop spewing trash tonnyray. I thought we were way past this.

Let me share something interesting:
I do attend a Sunday meeting every now and then were we youths gather. After some weeks of attending this meeting, I remember leaving the meeting when a fair woman walked up to me and asked me what was my name. I told her. For some reason, she was just interested in me and we started talking, before I knew it, one thing led to another and we started holding hands, not a big deal I know but this is where things actually gets interesting.

Her close friend literally came right to us and separated us from holding hands.....TWICE lol).
WTF. Maybe her friend wasn't comfortable with us holding hands in a church setting or something. I didn't care and I didn't give a fvck.

But guess what, this particular woman persisted when we got downstairs and found my hands once again. How about that for a greenlight?

Now this is what solidified things for me:

While coming back from a similar meeting this Monday, She ambushed me in front of the church gate and asked for my name again and I told her. I gave her my phone number and asked her what does she want to save it as, She inputed my name and asked me if I should put "boyfriend" or "husband" right next to it.....WTF. I said boyfriend was ok lol. She then told me that she had her birthday coming up and that we should still speak later. I told her whatever.

We met later and spoke a bit then I called her yesterday to specifically ask if she had plans with her friends to celebrate and she told me not really, but that she really wants to spend it with me and spend more time with me too for some reason. I told her I will think about it and get back to her.

Why am I saying all this?, I did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO GET THIS GIRL'S ATTENTION. Contrary to what you proposed tonnyray,I
didn't cold approach, I didn't appear bold, spontaneous or even carry any confident air or whatever.. She just liked me. Please Guys, not matter how tempted you are to go for a woman you want, just wait for a woman that wants you, it makes things a million times easy.

Remember to stay chosen.

You don knack her now?.

Facts

machote:
I thought so too....but these greenlights had been happening so many weeks back....like 2 and a half months back(10 weeks back). I can't be exact though but the truth is I didn't see the signals well at the time.

Well I haven't given her an answer so I could change my mind anytime lol.

Thanks bro.

PS: Being logical and calculating all the time as a man will make one die a virgin haha.

It's imperative for a man to taste that pvssy.

ashewoboy:
Ubunja is bad . He sabi the game wellas.

the game is awesome.

And guys will remember how we've been saying WOMEN WILL NOT BUY THE COW IF THE MILK IS FREE... women know this and they're starting to say it..... if you giving stuff to women for free you're giving the milk for free and the cow won't be bought:

Good morning kings.

Kindly help me with any amount. I am really broke.

MJBOLT:

so i saw this photo(first picture) online,I thought it was a joke then I tried it,screenshots below.

You can try it too.

Welcome to today's world of inequality.

Women cannot be fat but plus sized but a man can be fat.

Good morning house. Pls i have a question.

Is it possible for a man to fully enjoy his hard earned wealth without the company of a woman?

machote:
Boss, like I told palmshots, I been reason this thing too. But these signals have been happening so many weeks back like more than 8 weeks back. U wan tell me say this babe don dey plan this thing for over 2 fvcking months?
She no get work lol??....

Having overdosed on the redpill because of the knowledge on this thread and forum, I can confidently tell you that I can't fall for that format. Like you said, e don cast.

I remember a woman giving me greenlights during Christmas period back in 2020. Because of my redpill knowledge, I was able to decipher if she wanted to use me during that festive period or if she really liked me. And actually, she did like me.

To cut the long story short,we fvkked each other on the first week of 202.

Must the stars align before you know that a woman likes you?
Must a woman tell you explicitly that she wants you before you get that she admires you?
Must she throw her panties at you before you know that she's crazy for you like all those celebs? Fvkk No!
You'll get scared and probably call her a slut. So she'll settle with throwing you a smile, asking you things that no one really cares about (like your grandma's biography lol), holding your hands repeatedly and just generally been interested in you.

Must there be no occasion around the corner before you know that it is safe to work on greenlights? You're being too logical and you'll miss opportunities if you always overthink things as a man. A woman will fukk on her birthday, wedding, people's funeral, award ceremony and any type of occasion as far as her emotions are in line with what she's doing.

You still have a lot to learn.

Ubunja talk say na the best time to phvck any woman.

[quote author=Adeleketj post=117908481]Good morning kings.

Kindly help me with any amount. I am really broke.

Karlifate:
@ubuja, this is the lady you posted her video, few days ago.



@chiraq77, can you see that Blessing Okoro has contents for both males & females.

yeah bro point taken

Labadi69:
Guy if you know what is good for your life, you better go and hustle and leave woman matter. Lazy youth

So, you think I ain't hussling.if life's is all about hussling a lone then no one needs a partner