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Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by RealGandalf: 10:45pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
I will say, do not lose your virginity yet. No need for that at the moment. Wait at least till you are engaged or probably married. It pays. Trust me, it does. Cheers! |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by chris51(f): 10:46pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
FromOuterSpace: Perfect advice. Nothing to add. Good job. I hope the innocent girl will listen. Why can't the 34 year old man look for his mate? 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by chris51(f): 10:46pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
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Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by friendl: 10:50pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Don't know what you waiting for??sex is sweet ,...enjoy yourself |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by jubrilELsudan: 10:51pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
I FOR LIKE FVCK YOU
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Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Kingcalls: 10:51pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Octopusssy: I'm sure u were asking those that celebrated Regina and Nwoko 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by greggng: 10:52pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Bloommax: Make sure he uses a big dick so that you can enjoy it very well ..you are naive..in my ppa I.met a lady of 25 years ...she was still a virgin ..she said she will give me whatever I ask of her cos she can trust me ..but I didn't do it cos there are curses attach to having sex with virgin ..wise men stay away From it . A virgin is suppose to marry the man that deflowered her .cos any man you have sex with is your husband in the spiritual world . Keep your virginity is your dignity . Tell the man you can only give her sex on your wedding day . Pls don't deceive him if you know u are not a virgin . Cos anyway he discovers.. He will Bleep hell of you and dump u where you belong . Face your studies...u ate still young ..dating someone 15 years older than u ..think again |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by beelon1020(m): 10:54pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
OP!.. abeg no fall for that scam that guy dey give you... please stay out of premarital sex, it’s very dangerous, why not wait and give that golden price of dignity for your future hubby?.. in less than 4years you will get there... a big pride for you and your family on your wedding night.. please wait... your hubby will surely respect you a lot for keep it for him... God help you in waiting and resisting all form of temptations... |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Emekaterry: 10:58pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Before u go into sin think well oo.remember that a prayer of a virgin is with a great effect. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Sunshine34(m): 11:00pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Don't trust a long distance relationship. He's only trying to take advantage of you, to hammer your plate. That he has not bleeped for several months is a big lie, don't give in to his sweet words. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Hsurdbespoke: 11:02pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
why buy the cow when you can get the milk free op think very well message from big bro the guy is trying to manipulate you into having sex especially the guy you meet online my 10% advice *tell him to fast to reduce the urge for 20minutes nack or come and marry you from your parent then he continue sponsoring your education my wife is a virgin till after our marriage,this virginity builds trust between us for the past 10years |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Treasuredgift(f): 11:03pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Konjiboii: You are talking in the nonsense, bro!!! I was so disgusted reading this. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Segzy19: 11:04pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Take this advice. This is what you need... You do otherwise, it's at your own risk and damage. Nothing more to say FromOuterSpace: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Blizzfull123: 11:09pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
[left][/left]please don't do it, and also look for a way to quit that relationship,that guy has no good intentions Bloommax: |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Wilddove(m): 11:14pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
The word 'sex' appeared more than ten times in your write-up which indicates that you really want it. @19 You 're still a teen, focus on your studies and forget abt sex. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by litaninja(m): 11:17pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
You're 19. An adult. The clowns screaming pedophilia don't know the meaning. Make your decision as you like. lol Bloommax: |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by tuzle(m): 11:23pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
My own is that if u still plan on losing your virginity after all the advice u got here, just find someone your own age or someone not too older than u and desist from that online 34years old man who just want to use u. I am sure that guys head will spark if his 19year old sister was discussing about sex and marriage with a 34years old man while still in school. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Sweetvie: 11:24pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Smile... @op if you believe that 34 yr old guy will marry you lol you're on your own But, wait o those marriage code still dey work? They've bobo op @19 I don't see any reason why you should give urself to a guy bcoz he is sexually active... He know where to get them. Finally, wo there's nothing like marriage Look for someone around ur age to date and don't easily give out ur virginity... Most guys doesn't worth it. When they get what dey want they'll dump you Anyway, follow your heart. Do what you want or what you think it's the best Cheers! |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
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Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Ade1759: 11:28pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Google "there are two wolves" If you don't have sense at least you want to learn.. 19 yrs Kwa?.... If you held your virginity that long then just wait till 22yrs.... you'll would have conquered all types of temptation by then...and then be illuminated enough moving forward. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Corto: 11:29pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Bloommax: Don't do it with that guy, he won't marry you! Once he taste your puna he'll be gone Send me a dm instead & let me teach you a thing or two about relationship & great sex |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by johnfem321: 11:35pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Lol you expect a 34years old single Man to marry a 34years old woman.. where is it done? It’s best women settle down early Latest by 22years… there is absolutely nothing wrong with 34years dating a 19years old.. Her age mate at 19years will Only waste her youthful years + infection, disease and breakfast.. a 34years will be more ready for married than just dating her for fun.. OP be careful of 35years old virgin in there parent house advising you.. No need to rush things but don’t take the advice literally.. you are not a baby .. you are a woman.. you will be a graduate in couple of years.. hopefully get married in a few years.. there is nothing wrong in you dating a 34years old if he has good intentions.. chris51: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by ZINNYBANKS: 11:35pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
A Virgin at 19 op post ur picture first. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Monday60655(m): 11:37pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
FromOuterSpace:If not that this person is an attention seeker, I would have said that you nailed it on the head. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by ejieddy: 11:37pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
1) Sex with this guy will not make your bond stronger. Rather, it will make you bound to him emotionally and spiritually. The spiritual implications is more and worse. 2) it's normal for a human being to crave for sex. That's what makes you human. But being able to control that craving is what differentiates us from animals. 3) I can guarantee you that what still keeps your relationship is the fact that this man hasn't had sex with you yet. The curiosity and the desire for it still drives him. Don't lose that. You are not punishing him by not giving him sex, you are keeping yours and his sanity, sanctity and integrity. If you lose this, your relationship is as good as dead. 4) When a man has sex with a lady he wants to marry and isn't married to yet, there's nothing to look forward to again. When I was courting my wife, one of the things that motivated me, apart from God's word was that one day, I'll get the opportunity to be one with her in flesh (sex) but I wanted that to be in marriage. We both wanted that and God helped us. So, put it in your mind that sex for you will only be within the boundaries of marriage. 5) Also, this sex thing, as beautiful as it is, is actually very overrated. You get tired of it eventually. So why give up a gift God has given you for something you will have abundance of in marriage and even get tired of it? 6) Your friend is a liar. Sex with the right man is enjoyable and worth it. But when you do it wrong, it becomes an addiction that you will need more crazy things to quench that addiction. That's where your friend is at the moment 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by olisaEze(m): 11:39pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
What are you saving it for, the rainy day? Go to him and get laid joor! He’s 34 yrs old, sexually active and has not had sex because of u?? LoL, na real small pikin u be! Do it not because of luv, but because experience matters. Whether u give it up now or later, it has no bearing on how happy ure going to be in marriage. That is if u don’t goan have unwanted pregnancy before u get sense! ejieddy:
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Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Monday60655(m): 11:45pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Bible said that marriage is honourable with bed undefiled. I Corinthians 6:18 said free fornication. Every sin a man committed is without his body, but he that committed fornication sin against his own body. If not that you are an attention seeker, I would have asked you with all these red flag, yet you are here asking these childish questions. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by frankson1(m): 11:57pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
adebayour26: Your last paragraph is just perfect. I CAN NEVER AND WILL NEVER ADVICE ANY KID WHO IS ALREADY THINKING ABOUT SEX NOT TO HAVE SEX BECAUSE IT IS TIME WASTING. I let them know about the possible dangers involved in engaging in sex and having an unsafe sex. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by chloride6: 11:59pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Leave that your bf alone |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Papafada: 12:05am On Nov 14, 2022 |
My beloved sis know dis n hv peace even if na aero plane u wan buy u go test am start d engine n check proper property dats how we role |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by jimcaddy(m): 12:06am On Nov 14, 2022 |
My advice to you, face your studies and graduate. Once you start having secs with this guy, trust me, problem will start. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by advanceDNA: 12:08am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Bloommax: Watever u decision is...know jointly don...its not a a pair of jeans or 1k u dash someone..so dont do it for him....do it for yourself when u are ready and feel like u want to start what ur father and mother does.......... because the consequences is urs to bear.....even if he doesnt marry u and when the body count starts to stack up |
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