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Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by BusinessPlan22: 5:01am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Bloommax: Are you married to him madam? What is sexually active, when u people finally destroy yourselves, u bring problem to an innocent man Idiot |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Bryan88(m): 5:02am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Bloommax:then forget abt havin sex now till the night of ur honeymoon...that’s s right advice u seek. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by mrmachine: 5:04am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Keep yourself holy.Acts 15:20 But that we write unto them, that they abstain from pollutions of idols, and from fornication, and from things strangled, and from blood. Acts 15:20 But that we write unto them, that they abstain from pollutions of idols, and from fornication, and from things strangled, and from blood. 1 Corinthians 6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. Bloommax: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Richy4(m): 5:17am On Nov 14, 2022 |
NoToPile: I was not very active on campus fellowship back then.... But I lived with spiritual brothers in the same premises back then.. The way u described hanger association is funny... Those campus things do bring fun memories back honestly |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by jamesharryson(m): 5:19am On Nov 14, 2022 |
FromOuterSpace:You see these two points, they are out of place. But other points are very well okay. Adults think of sex more often than ever. But our ability to control the urge make us more mature (talking base on number 5). If at hisbgae he didn't discuss sex with her, then he is discussing it with another. Which was the more reason your ex cheated on you without your knowledge. They need to understand their sexual histories. As for this number 4, a man who loves you, can wait till internity to have sex with you, only when: 1. He has never tasted sex for the first time and 2. He has someone somewhere satisfying his sexual urge and also 3. He is not man enough to have sex with you. But other points you raised are in place |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by FireUpNow(m): 5:27am On Nov 14, 2022 |
OP you 19 and dating a man 15 years older than you. Flee from that man and continue your study my 2 kobo advice to you. That man will use you and dump you like a hot potato fresh from fire. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by natddon1: 5:53am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Bloommax:pls keep ur virginity. If not for anything else but for ur soul, health and peace of mind |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by mildteddy(m): 5:55am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Bloommax: Glad so many people gave you a sound advice. I have a friend who was in your shoes (I met her when she was 24 years). She started sleeping with the very much older guy she was dating at 19 years. She got pregnant for him and had to drop out of school and go incommunicado with her parents. Her life has been ups and downs since then. The guy asked her and her baby to pack out of his house 2 years ago. She has been unable to finish school, and had to move to her hometown from the city to live with her parents, so she can take care of the baby. Till date it's not been easy for her (some mistakes alter your trajectory for life). The advice that poster gave you is the best advice. You have more to gain if you listen to her. Keep your virginity for someone who is worth waiting for. Keep it till after university and NYSC (I did it, it's possible.). Keep it till you marry. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by ezra1990: 6:00am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Rightly said...a word is enough for the wise |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Nobody: 6:09am On Nov 14, 2022 |
MethPedo:Stfu. If you want to insult me, do it don't fvcking talking about my parents. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Vivian16: 6:12am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Pls don't mind that old fool, he wants to take advantage of u and dump u later, he won't marry u please cut off any tie you have with him and face your studies, don't explore sex now it's not worth it because u will have regret and heartbreak, direct your attention to other meaningful adventures until u are emotionally matured to handle what comes with relationship and sex. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by HardMirror(m): 6:13am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Bloommax:see it is a lie! I am a man and yes we want sex with people we love. The challenge now is does he truly want u? He is most likely lying to u about not having sex for a year. As for me no sex no relationship and it does not mean i dont love a girl or only want her for sex. But sex must be part of the relationship. But be very careful, he could just want your punny and dump you. Not all men are men, some are dogs and some women are useless butches. As for you, you are a naive fool |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Harmattan123(m): 6:18am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Bahamas95:Nope it's Yemi My Lover part 2 |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Neitan(m): 6:18am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by HardMirror(m): 6:19am On Nov 14, 2022 |
jamesharryson:exactly what i just said too. I see lot of stupid people thinking a man only has sex with those he does not love. See me having sex with a girl is the best prrof she can get that i really like her. If i cant have sex with u, it shows i dont find u attractive enough. Blunt truth. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by kpajie1: 6:20am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Bahamas95:ask am ooh.is like na d part4 |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by cheezy4real(m): 6:26am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Bloommax:. God's grace is sufficient and all these wisdom profit alot. every decision is a step taken either in a right direction or wrong direction and will begat other steps that make up miles to cover. these advice should encourage ur heart and make u resist lust. the young man if sincere will be busy trying to improve u and see how u b d best among ur equals & not talking SEX. pls avoid him 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by fashionistatee(f): 6:33am On Nov 14, 2022 |
My dear, please don't give in easily especially not to a 30yrs old man. A 30yrs old man knows exactly what to do if he truly wants to marry and i can tell you for a fact that giving him sex will not make any bond stronger, it will rather reduce your values as a woman. You have a long journey ahead of you and sex at 19 shouldn't be a part of your list neither are men worth the stress. While i understand there are pressures and temptations around, please note your virginity is one value that will keep your shoulder up high in ugly moment. Note: same gender sex is a sin; so channel your energy and desires towards being the best version of yourself and you sill be glad you did. Bloommax: |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Benwallt(m): 6:35am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Girl, close that leg. That's my take to your take in 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Nobody: 6:38am On Nov 14, 2022 |
mildteddy:What a sad story. I've ended things with the man and I'll keep it till wedding night. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by lavidoren: 6:40am On Nov 14, 2022 |
budaatum:BEST ADVICE |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Nobody: 6:40am On Nov 14, 2022 |
HardMirror:Lol |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Nobody: 6:42am On Nov 14, 2022 |
FromOuterSpace: I concur Na so one 40yr old snatch my 17yr old gf den o She say he is well matured for her 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by IkeAbuja: 6:46am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Ihe emebiwo women of nowadays got no shame again you're asking whether you should have sex or not that is the 1st class degree your parents sent you to school to acquire and make them proud EWU GAMBIA |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Nobody: 6:51am On Nov 14, 2022 |
IkeAbuja:You're one of the goats of this forum, I never said I have a problem with my studies and I'm on the right track for a first class, you that you're typing thrash I'm sure you don't have one. And if you were using your sense when you typed this you'll know that humans aren't perfect. So next time think well before embarrassing yourself. Ode. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Clinghton: 6:53am On Nov 14, 2022 |
That your friend wants to turn you yo a lesbian. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Safyqueen: 6:54am On Nov 14, 2022 |
The beauty of Islam is that this type of case doesn't exist talk less of seeking advice on how to go about it. You think sex is just anything you engage in anyhow? Haba. Become a Muslim, perhaps your virginity will be a valuable asset for you that you will not trade anyhow with gold diggers. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Ineedhustle247: 6:56am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Bloommax: It's not worth it mama Sex is no guarantee he'll stay with you Once your virginity is gone Nothing will differentiate you from other ladies out there. By not having sex now The only thing you lose is bragging rights of what you did in your youth. Please keep your gift a real man will adore and worship you for your perseverance. Of course the obvious trust that will accompany marriage. And lastly my dear, please forget about ppl promising you marriage for sex That's the oldest lamba in history. Na so Dem take that lamba collect my babe that year. The girl is still single and her virginity gone. She's now HR for a firm in Abj The man way lamba her is now a bike man in Kogi And I'm here. We're just friends now and she keeps regretting her decision till date even though it doesn't define her, she always wishes she could have continued minding her life. The bike man still does not value the virginity he took till date. He may come He may break up with you But in it all, always remember you hold a more valuable bargaining chip. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Nobody: 7:05am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Safyqueen:I'm laughing out loud right now. This post makes zero sense. The girl that told me about lesbian sex is a chronic Muslim, those with hijabs 24/7. And she had sex in 2019, we're the same age. So don't talk about Muslim whatever here, religion doesn't matter. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Toriagirl(f): 7:08am On Nov 14, 2022 |
You're still very young and naive, don't even fall for that trap, you still have a bright future ahead of you. If he can't wait he should use the exit door. |
Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by Banhammy717: 7:11am On Nov 14, 2022 |
I beg you in the name of God. Keep your viginity as long as your wedding night. Premarital sex is a great sin. May God guide you. That's the only honor you have before your husband, don't give it to ordinary boyfriend. |
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