kologba:

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One of my friends who is also my age had sex in 2019 and she has been sexually active ever since, she told me sex with males aren't really worth it, that if I'm ready I should try having sex with my gender because it's freaky because op is already eager for sex

[s]U are silent about this: would u wish she should have sex with her gender rather than that man..a man at 34 should be ready for marriage,don't say the man did not love her[/s]

Bloommax:
The girl and I aren't in the same state. And I'm not even going to listen to what she said.

Kfed4ril:

I go give you format to break up

FromOuterSpace:
She's not going to engage in that nonsense. I'm in communication with her and have more details of the situation. The man is no good at all. She's a good girl and is making the right decisions for herself.

Bloommax:
I'm not a lesbian.

HolyPussy:


You better watch out.

It's only a matter of time.

The human mind can be so deceptive at times.

The suggestion is being thrown your way now and before you know it, curiosity will take over.

One or two trials, and you are sucking pussy every morning, day and night... forever!

Bloommax:
Done that already.

Kfed4ril:

You don get mind
He’s not coming again?

Bloommax:
He's not. Totally destroyed what was between us.

Kfed4ril:


Lol
So he was basically coming just to burst you?
Thank your stars for advices from NL
Person Wey de serious about marrying you will not be in a hurry to deflower you since he knows he’ll soon have you fully to him self.
Don’t be surprised if you had succumbed, he for blow and run.

FromOuterSpace:
She's not going to engage in that nonsense. I'm in communication with her and have more details of the situation. The man is no good at all. She's a good girl and is making the right decisions for herself.

fearle55:



He was serious with her. I know that much. She was just playing him. It's a shame I tried to warn him about her but he wouldn't listen. Now he's in mud with her. Someone who is still confused with her true sexuality. The op is a gay person who deactivated only to come here spreading lies against someone you were throwing yourself all over Nairaland romance section for. Now he is bad. And for those of you thinking she is innocent or i am lying let her come and defend herself and I will point everyone in the right direction. Thank God the internet never lies. You may have deactivated all your previous accounts but the trails are there to follow. And she is back to her true ways of being gay with another moniker again looking for her next victim. She just created this to run him down. I warned him about her because we are friends off here but he was blind by whatever he thought he was feeling. I still won't let you deceive everyone to think you are the saint. Someone who does all kinds of depraved sexual acts only keeping her hymen intact and still has the audacity to defame a guy who did nothing but to be good to you in every way. Virgin indeed. I know more than any of you here because my friend told me a lot when he was fed up with her ways. I have long deactivated for personal reasons. I just had to create this account for this. I will drag the both of you to the mud and don't care if he is a friend. He got what he deserved. You can't be lying to him and still lie to everyone here. Kolewerk

Its very obvious its you and I am ready to prove it

Kfed4ril:


So who do we believe now?

frankson1:





Your last paragraph is just perfect.

I CAN NEVER AND WILL NEVER ADVICE ANY KID WHO IS ALREADY THINKING ABOUT SEX NOT TO HAVE SEX BECAUSE IT IS TIME WASTING.

I let them know about the possible dangers involved in engaging in sex and having an unsafe sex.

Richy4:


Can you imagine that guy using that ancient format on a 19yr old? .. what a scallywag

Bloommax:

Wonderful evening to y'all.

I just discovered Nairaland few weeks ago and I've read so many informative things and people's story. Some get advised and some get bashed when they drop their stories here, I hope I wouldn't.

Let me cut to the chase.

I'm 19, I'm a virgin and I'm a 300lvl student. I have a boyfriend that is 15years older than I am and he's sexually active. We met on online. We've known each other for seven months. We both love each other really well, even with the ups and downs that we've had in our relationship. This relationship is a long distance relationship. Now the thing is my boyfriend who is sexually active hasn't had sex for almost a year and lately he's been craving for sex. Sometimes I'll tell him I'm ready to have sex and other times I change my mind because of fear. I've been undecided about having sex. I thought about having sex with him maybe it'll make our bond stronger. He isn't married, he has no kids but he says he wish to marry me as soon as I graduate from the university. To be a virgin in a university isn't easy, there are temptations everywhere. Sometimes I get so tired of being a virgin and just want to have sex but other times I just want to keep it. One of my friends who is also my age had sex in 2019 and she has been sexually active ever since, she told me sex with males aren't really worth it, that if I'm ready I should try having sex with my gender because it's freaky.

I need advice please, should I have sex with this guy and hope that he'll marry me. Or I shouldn't and just be patient. He coming to meet me in two weeks time.

Bloommax:

Wonderful evening to y'all.

I just discovered Nairaland few weeks ago and I've read so many informative things and people's story. Some get advised and some get bashed when they drop their stories here, I hope I wouldn't.

Let me cut to the chase.

I'm 19, I'm a virgin and I'm a 300lvl student. I have a boyfriend that is 15years older than I am and he's sexually active. We met on online. We've known each other for seven months. We both love each other really well, even with the ups and downs that we've had in our relationship. This relationship is a long distance relationship. Now the thing is my boyfriend who is sexually active hasn't had sex for almost a year and lately he's been craving for sex. Sometimes I'll tell him I'm ready to have sex and other times I change my mind because of fear. I've been undecided about having sex. I thought about having sex with him maybe it'll make our bond stronger. He isn't married, he has no kids but he says he wish to marry me as soon as I graduate from the university. To be a virgin in a university isn't easy, there are temptations everywhere. Sometimes I get so tired of being a virgin and just want to have sex but other times I just want to keep it. One of my friends who is also my age had sex in 2019 and she has been sexually active ever since, she told me sex with males aren't really worth it, that if I'm ready I should try having sex with my gender because it's freaky.

I need advice please, should I have sex with this guy and hope that he'll marry me. Or I shouldn't and just be patient. He coming to meet me in two weeks time.

Bloommax:

Wonderful evening to y'all.

I just discovered Nairaland few weeks ago and I've read so many informative things and people's story. Some get advised and some get bashed when they drop their stories here, I hope I wouldn't.

Let me cut to the chase.

I'm 19, I'm a virgin and I'm a 300lvl student. I have a boyfriend that is 15years older than I am and he's sexually active. We met on online. We've known each other for seven months. We both love each other really well, even with the ups and downs that we've had in our relationship. This relationship is a long distance relationship. Now the thing is my boyfriend who is sexually active hasn't had sex for almost a year and lately he's been craving for sex. Sometimes I'll tell him I'm ready to have sex and other times I change my mind because of fear. I've been undecided about having sex. I thought about having sex with him maybe it'll make our bond stronger. He isn't married, he has no kids but he says he wish to marry me as soon as I graduate from the university. To be a virgin in a university isn't easy, there are temptations everywhere. Sometimes I get so tired of being a virgin and just want to have sex but other times I just want to keep it. One of my friends who is also my age had sex in 2019 and she has been sexually active ever since, she told me sex with males aren't really worth it, that if I'm ready I should try having sex with my gender because it's freaky.

I need advice please, should I have sex with this guy and hope that he'll marry me. Or I shouldn't and just be patient. He coming to meet me in two weeks time.

Nah he’s not going to marry you . I’d tell you the same thing only to get in your pants.
The temptation will increase especially during your service year .
Look for like minded friends and flock together.
If you must give it up. Give it to someone who loves you. Not claims he wants to marry you unless he’s been to see your parents etc.
I would rather you gave it up to someone who loved you and you fell out of love rather than out of desperation

Heathrow44:


Ur number

Bloommax:
What about my contact?

Heathrow44:


I want us to talk

Bloommax:
Talk about?

Bloommax:
Talk about?

Bloommax:
It isn't. All I need is the right advice.

gannod:






Why not forget about sex and focus more on other serious things like getting the best out of your Academics and settling down after school? You have kept yourself, you are almost done with School so hold on. If your boyfriend is mature enough and " he is not married" he should be patient enough to allow you finish School and marry you as promised.

Bloommax:
This story is old. I'm no longer with him.

Bloommax:

Wonderful evening to y'all.

I just discovered Nairaland few weeks ago and I've read so many informative things and people's story. Some get advised and some get bashed when they drop their stories here, I hope I wouldn't.

Let me cut to the chase.

I'm 19, I'm a virgin and I'm a 300lvl student. I have a boyfriend that is 15years older than I am and he's sexually active. We met on online. We've known each other for seven months. We both love each other really well, even with the ups and downs that we've had in our relationship. This relationship is a long distance relationship. Now the thing is my boyfriend who is sexually active hasn't had sex for almost a year and lately he's been craving for sex. Sometimes I'll tell him I'm ready to have sex and other times I change my mind because of fear. I've been undecided about having sex. I thought about having sex with him maybe it'll make our bond stronger. He isn't married, he has no kids but he says he wish to marry me as soon as I graduate from the university. To be a virgin in a university isn't easy, there are temptations everywhere. Sometimes I get so tired of being a virgin and just want to have sex but other times I just want to keep it. One of my friends who is also my age had sex in 2019 and she has been sexually active ever since, she told me sex with males aren't really worth it, that if I'm ready I should try having sex with my gender because it's freaky.

I need advice please, should I have sex with this guy and hope that he'll marry me. Or I shouldn't and just be patient. He coming to meet me in two weeks time.

Aldol:

Just seeing this thread now, Op I hope you never allowed that scallywag of a boyfriend to disvirgin you

Bloommax:
Yeah still a virgin.