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Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Judybash93(m): 6:41am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Smartguyboy: LMAO ! Choose one
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Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Alusiizizi(m): 6:51am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Ahmed0336: Sometimes try to pick up on detail. The OP mentioned 99%, which although probably not laser point accurate is definitely not too far off. Although don't take his word for it, try out a UK based Nigerian girl, or even a black girl for that matter, see what happens. 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Tunagee(m): 6:58am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Romanoff: You really dont know what is happening. Most Nigerians and other citizens avoid Nigerian women a lot over there cos of issues explained by the OP, in addition to the silly Nigerian women mentality of ''the man must provide everything at home''. I cannot even bring my wife to the UK or abroad to continue our marriage there, cos of issues like this. Go and do your findings, most Nigerian women always capitalize on their ''women represented system'' over there to misbehave and push their husbands out. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Kobojunkie: 7:05am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Tunagee:1. Which most? Make we hear word abeg! I know lots of Nigerian women living married to other African citizens in that same UK wey no dey get una problem. I even know some Nigerian couples out. So which most make we hear word abeg! 2. If you cannot bring your wife, that is your lot there. There are already so many others living and thriving right there in the UK. Then use complaints do una? 4 Likes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Oluwaseunomo: 7:20am On Jan 04, 2023 |
ibkayee:This is the reason why i dislike Nigeria women home and abroad few years to come suicide go plenty because who wan marry all this animals.. in few years Na suicide we go dey hear because they'll be as useless as evening newspaper that nobody wants to have shit to do with except to wipe their ass. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Oluwaseunomo: 7:22am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Tunagee:Why are you wasting your time explaining to that guy sooner or later he'll get the picture 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by lereinter(m): 7:45am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Why do you people like composing fallacies 1 Like |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Romanoff(f): 7:49am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Tunagee: You people will maltreat your wives in Nigeria, they will endure it. Once y'all get to foreign countries where the laws protects women, wahala go start. Biggest culture shock of your lives. I have countless people who have relocated abroad, I've never encountered this kind of stories. I still have some that left in December sef. Treat your wives well here in Nigeria, it won't kill you. Your red pill nonsense or misogyny won't favour you there. And if you want to be a traditional African husband, please stay back with your family in Nigeria. Na Nigeria go favour you pass. 9 Likes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by copyrites: 7:53am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Romanoff: So what can the man do to the woman with a "cause"? Can a man kick out his wife based on threats to life? The answer is NO. The man will always be at the receiving end even when his life is being threatened. Laws are meant to protect everyone equally not the useless laws in the west that favour and put the woman and kids ahead of the man. That's satanic. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by HighTableVoice: 7:59am On Jan 04, 2023 |
First, I will honestly like to say your assessment is not totally correct as there are a lot of women who still belief in the marriage project as a good objective. But in agreeing with you, marriage is becoming a thing of the past as it is getting glaring to men society that it benefits the woman and children more than the man. A child will grow up to be what he or she wishes like and choose a path, as a parent you partly influence but eventually you will not decide for that "SOUL". Same as with mothers. When a woman becomes a mother, she doesn't really see or will not see the man as a priority anymore compared to her child or children. It is only natural. Women paternal interests are way over the roof than most men. As for the system in the UK and how some people are saying the system is fairness and not like Nigerian system, the reality is that's not the case as the UK itself is one of countries in the world with the highest divorcee and widows in the world and giving how small their population is. We adjust with each other but not necessarily we must topple each other's life at the expense of an idea. Personally, I do like having a relationship with a woman, but beyond that I have gotten skeptical and i am speaking from experience. My honest opinion will be advising a good courtship first, know your self well before engaging in marriage because you will never truly know how fickle your partner can or will be as you progress. Your strength is hers but hers isn't yours, and lastly marriage project is becoming stale, old news and mainly women fantasy. Nevertheless, if you do meet or your with a partner you both understand each other, protect it with everything fibre of your concentration and will. Terimakasih 3 Likes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Mr2wealth: 8:31am On Jan 04, 2023 |
IngrateWifeKids: Bros, is this from experience, or you are just writing story, or you read it somewhere and you are sharing with us. That your 99% and 1% is very very scary |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Britishpea: 9:03am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Ahmed0336: Na comprehension be the problem for most of you. The 1% he mentioned, aren’t they the good ones he said? 1 Like |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by ZINNYBANKS: 9:12am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Thats why you hardly see a man live long the way women live long ... 1 Like |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Romanoff(f): 9:28am On Jan 04, 2023 |
copyrites: So a man will love his wife and treat her with respect and she'll just wake up one day, as she's Medusa, and treat him as bad as OP described? Wawu!. |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Creativity22: 9:42am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Romanoff:If you feel your husband is maltreating you here in Nigeria. Why don't you divorce him and move on 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by GloriousGbola: 9:42am On Jan 04, 2023 |
ibkayee: This chick - your future is in compliance. The word misconduct jus dey flow from your fingers. Go forth and break some careers 1 Like |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by GloriousGbola: 9:48am On Jan 04, 2023 |
IngrateWifeKids: Hmmm. It is far easier and almost inevitable that you will be directly involved in your kids lives if you live in obodo oyibo. The whole game with the kids is actually a long term strategy /revenge by naija women. Because often the traditional African man restricts himself to doling out money and discipline and may not have a proper relationship with the kids. This plays out in old age when the resentment etal comes to the fore But in obodo oyibo as there are no maid or driver etal for average people, you will interact with your kids. So unless you have a really congenital case of disconnected African dad, I don't know how your wife can turn the kids against you. 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Pakwel(m): 9:50am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: As your name goes kobojunkie. Nah coins deh your head. 10,000 pounds a month for benefit.. you dey mad. 10k € is not naira oh.. even her husband that works ,his salary can never be 10k. Broke bitch. You have never crossed naija that's why you talk like a joker |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Dangrace01: 9:52am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Romanoff: Very possible now. Nigeria society is a blank society Uk society favours women. Women have heard mentality and listen to friends alot. If you do it, it would benefit you as a woman and your child. The woman has nothing to loose. So many women would do it. Lets even leave Nigeria. Divorce is a common thrend in the western world. Are the white men mistreating the women. Why are white men traveling to different continent to look for wives 1 Like |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Pakwel(m): 9:52am On Jan 04, 2023 |
otipoju:Continue reply this girl. It's at your own risk. She's just a fool with data. 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Romanoff(f): 9:54am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Dangrace01: It is not possible for a woman you treat with love and respect to turn on you without cause. I don't agree o. |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by HellVictorinho6(m): 9:54am On Jan 04, 2023 |
ibkayee: Nonsense Nobody says UK is Nigeria But who told you all men are protected in Nigeria? It's a matter of connection |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Dangrace01: 9:54am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Romanoff: Like for real 3 Likes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Romanoff(f): 9:55am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Creativity22 post With the stigma you people place on divorcees and single mums? Why do you think some endure yeye marriages even though they can afford to care for their children without the husband. Is it not because of what people will say? 1 Like |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by HellVictorinho6(m): 9:56am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Romanoff: It's possible because your love may not be enough. They may see you as an idiot for loving them. Till they get fed up and threaten to kill you for seeing it as enough. 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Romanoff(f): 9:56am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Dangrace01: Yes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Dangrace01: 9:58am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Romanoff: Examples yakpa. Love and respect means different things to different women. To so many women this aint enough Women no worry we know them 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Romanoff(f): 9:59am On Jan 04, 2023 |
HellVictorinho6: This your claim isn't even a well rooted claim. Anything to demonize the Nigerian woman. |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by jimmychang: 10:01am On Jan 04, 2023 |
ibkayee: Protecting lol,Nigerian women have no culture and are extremely greedy.Even the good men are still suffering.My uncle is a prime example.He married a witch. 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by ibkayee(f): 10:02am On Jan 04, 2023 |
GloriousGbola:Buahaha |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by jimmychang: 10:02am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Romanoff: Nigerian women are below the pecking order when people want to choose women.Go and do your research.Most of them are hoes. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Romanoff(f): 10:03am On Jan 04, 2023 |
jimmychang: Who made them hoes? Tell me you've not fornicated with a Nigerian woman before. As long as you've fornicated with a Nigerian woman you're not married to, your sin is the same. |
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