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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by yemi1504: 1:41pm On Feb 05, 2023
bizhop01:
I don't know why new generation female child are so useless cool

Poverty, I mean the rife poverty is one of the reasons. It wasn't this bad when the country was much better!

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by yemi1504: 1:43pm On Feb 05, 2023
Hamiltonii:


Same here but we would have to live with them. It's a pity.

It is still a choice and not a must.

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Glistinin(m): 1:44pm On Feb 05, 2023
You are giving out the vibes of a bipolar! Coupled with your flair for treating every man that comes your way like dirt.
I can authoritatively tell you that you are messed up mentally; you need urgent therapeutic mental reprogramming using Freudian methodology.
pocohantas:


No one asked you think. If you were any intelligent, you should know you and your thoughts do not matter in the grand scheme of things! Jeez! grin grin

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by yemi1504: 1:44pm On Feb 05, 2023
Googledotcom:
God bless you OP, those people ways dey tire me most times.

Abi. Not only you. They even keep spoiling my weekends relating with them these days. Guess I just have to keep to myself! Sigh.

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by frankson1(m): 1:44pm On Feb 05, 2023
KlausMichaelson:


Exactly what I am talking about, you are obviously a female and I understand clearly that this post may not go down well with you. Be that as it may, I read your post the first time and there was no need repeating yourself once again. Thank you, you can now rest.




This is you, doing what you're accusing women of doing instead of engaging him since you're highly intelligent but no, you become an attack dog.

He's now a female because he didn't agree with you and everyone who agrees with you are males undecided

You better take the advise and go see a PSYCHIATRIST.

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by tctrills: 1:45pm On Feb 05, 2023
KlausMichaelson:


I am having second thought on that. But with the way things are going, I may end up not marrying.
Being a very sensitive person,I rather live with Peace than with someone who will give me recurring headaches every day and night for the rest of my life.
You wouldn't be the only one not to marry so no problem. It's selfish to marry when you know it would not go well at last.

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Maxxim: 1:45pm On Feb 05, 2023
Tradinggiant:
See how all the females they prove op right..
Non Could drop a valid point rather they just insult me 😂😂😂😂
Lol I just tire🥱

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by pocohantas(f): 1:46pm On Feb 05, 2023
Glistinin:
You are giving out the vibes of a bipolar! Coupled with your flair for treating every man that comes your way like dirt.
I can authoritatively tell you that you are messed up mentally; you need urgent therapeutic mental reprogramming using Freudian methodology.

Lol. You don’t want to be treated like dirt? You guys don’t like women as you have stated on this thread. Why should it matter how I treat your kind? No, I don’t need anything. YOU WILL REMAIN DIRT TO ME. grin grin

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by yemi1504: 1:46pm On Feb 05, 2023
bluefilm:


After going thru this piece, all I can say to you is that you are not the only one.

The problem I have with most women in general is their entitlement mentality.

When you give a woman something, she rarely appreciates it the way a guy would because somewhere in her stupid mind, she thinks that she is automatically entitled to that favour.

You can say that again bro!
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Ckonnet: 1:47pm On Feb 05, 2023
Oga who serve you breakfast!!

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Regex: 1:47pm On Feb 05, 2023
KlausMichaelson:

It's really worrisome. Am I the only one?

You are not the only one. Marriage to me is overrated. When you look at it, two people come together to live as one to solve problems that are not limited to having kids, sex, and money. However these problems are still left unsolved when a particular party will decide not to have sex, the man is cheated out in prolonging his lineage via kids and it is quite expensive to have a family now. Worst of it, these women will not be logical in it.

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by pocohantas(f): 1:47pm On Feb 05, 2023
tctrills:

You wouldn't be the only one not to marry so no problem. It's selfish to marry when you know it would not go well at last.

The need to announce it and have people beg them and try to convince them to marry comes from a place of low self esteem. No one would even notice except his family and neighbours. 200m people in Nigeria would move on. undecided

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Berankis: 1:48pm On Feb 05, 2023
The truth is... Women are what they are and nothing can change them. It's the way God has designed them to reason and function, if not, we won't have a world. If they were designed to reason and act like men, they won't have children most times or take of them like they do. Can a man breastfeed a baby? I am sure a man will be irritated if his baby accidentally puts it's mouth on a man's nipple, because we aren't designed to function that way.
Let's learn to accept and respect them for whom and what they are - women. Life would be alot easier for us.

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 1:49pm On Feb 05, 2023
KlausMichaelson:
Honestly this has been bothering me for a while now. And I think that this is what is referred to as Misogyny
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I hate the to hear or see the opinion of a female gender cos most times if not all the time, it doesn't make sense. And this realization could make me end up angry for the rest of that day. Whenever I apply logic to actually understand why they make such opinion, I find out that it's always out of emotion and not logic.

Maybe I am too much of an observer, I really do not know. Or maybe because I am very sensitive. Sometimes I think to myself that if not that I was born by a woman, I don't see how useful they are, cos they are irritating when it comes to being logical. Try and engage them in a very intricate discussion, you will understand what I mean.

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

You have said my mind in bits. I have excluded he bits that do not say my mind. The ones quoted state my mind and, honestly, I don't nowadays give a flying fck if anyone sees my views as "Misogynexion" or "Sepust" or whatever the fck they want to label it.

Facts are fucking facts!

The more I listen to women argue and give points on the internet or TV, I just lose respect for women in general. They sound exxxxxtremely dumb and illogical all while trying to push an angle that favours them.

E.g. We are equal and I should be treated equally. "Okay, so who should pay for first date if you believe in practicing equality?" "The person that asks the other person out".

E.g. Men should just be honest that all they want is sex, not relationship. How the fck does that help the man? Does your ass get honest and tell men your body count, how many abortions you have had, how may one-night stand you have had and how many other women's boyfriend/husband you have shagged behind their backs, so he too can judge whether you are worth his time, effort and resources?

Dumbassmotherfuckers thinking they are smart.

Majority always argue illogically from an angle they would hope will favour them. I use majority, hence why I removed the part you said "All of them". There are some smart ones, who do talk smartly, but they are a very small population. There population is as small as the men that would not cheat with a hot girl if they had the chance.

When I hear some mooooron argue that we need to a society where women rule, I am just thinking "What a fcking reeetard!". If majority of leading positions go to women, we would have a fcking disaster. Take that to the bank and cash it out!

KlausMichaelson:

Now my worry is that, it's affecting the way I act towards them. The worst punishment I can do to myself is to try withstand an opinion from them during arguments. That's the worst. This is giving me a second thought on whether to get married or not, as a matter of seriousness. Cos this is mentally draining to live with people like that for the rest of one's life.

It's really worrisome. Am I the only one?

I was at this stage due to my irritations too, as an extemely logical person. I really do not understand how people put these selfish, self-centred and illogical beings at home and then fake they are happy.

What I do to cope is that, I understand what they are, what they are like, and never think of putting them as centre of my world or rely on them. They are not reliable except you use an approach of emotional manipulation. Which is not my style. I stick with fcking logic!

As for arguments. I state what the fck logical arguments I want to state, if they don't like it, fck'em!

If you marry them, I feel sorry for your happiness and mental stability.

We have a generation of them with the same disease, who have been brainwashed that nothing is wrong with them, they are very valuable just the way they are, they do not need to change anything or improve, anyone that tells them otherwise is "misogynist" or "sexist", and they deserve things just for being a woman.

Oloriburuku things!

I have been saying for years that many of them are of little value to men's lives.

I will still take them and judge them as individuals, but after such individual assessments, reality is that if I was to look at them as a collective, or on average, honestly, it is hard to respect them. I don't respect people who don't make sense (plus are selfish, have a sense of entitlement and then self-overvalue). Fck that!

@shaybebaby, come and continue lessons o.

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by sukkot: 1:51pm On Feb 05, 2023
not to be funny but i find obedient men to be very emotional with zero logic too so lay off the misogyny

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by tctrills: 1:51pm On Feb 05, 2023
pocohantas:


The need to announce it and have people beg them and try to convince them to marry comes from a place of low self esteem. No one would even notice except his family and neighbours. 200m people in Nigeria would move on. undecided

Lol
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 1:52pm On Feb 05, 2023
Kobojunkie:
I am afraid your problem is of a mental origin and the only one who can help you is probably a professional psychiatrist or mental health therapist. Please make an appointment soonest so you can dig that worm out of your head before it ruins what is left of your mind. undecided

He is mainly stating facts!

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 1:53pm On Feb 05, 2023
doggedfighter:
This is the kind of female hatred that breeds serial killing and other forms of crime against women.



Get help !

Or his is the kind of comments that should spur women to self-reflect.

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Ckonnet: 1:58pm On Feb 05, 2023
Buhari has succeeded in frustrating most of our men!!!
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 1:58pm On Feb 05, 2023
Haynnie:
I can reason alike but I have no hate for women though. I frown at their ills as they fail to see and is mind bugging.

Op made this thread no female has come up with a reasonable comment for or against the post. Is just how y'all females is concerned of his mental stateand should seek help (yes, inclusive but that aside first). Y'all have can make discussion out of it you know.

They would be more worried about "the way he said it", rather than "the truth of what he said".

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by yemi1504: 1:59pm On Feb 05, 2023
Regex:


You are not the only one. Marriage to me is overrated. When you look at it, two people come together to live as one to solve problems that are not limited to having kids, sex, and money. However these problems are still left unsolved when a particular party will decide not to have sex, the man is cheated out in prolonging his lineage via kids and it is quite expensive to have a family now. Worst of it, these women will not be logical in it.

You can say that again!
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Fiscus105(m): 1:59pm On Feb 05, 2023
frankson1:





This is you, doing what you're accusing women of doing instead of engaging him since you're highly intelligent but no, you become an attack dog.

He's now a female because he didn't agree with you and everyone who agrees with you are males undecided

You better take the advise and go see a PSYCHIATRIST.


Did u need to reply physiatrist patient?

They blame women around them because they dnt show interest in area of their interest! What a foolish and superiority way of reasoning! Did OP discuss business issues with such ladies and they dnt response optimally?

Meanwhile, many of these frustrated kids that are lamenting on women matter,not be able to engage in discussion, possibly (politics, sports ) how many of them, that normally give meaningful contributions when such posts hit the front pages.

I think records are here on nairaland to see useless contributions from these so called kids forming useless superiorty on women

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by iammolise(m): 2:00pm On Feb 05, 2023
Balance is just the key to everything, even to avert SIN. You are on point with your claims about women, they think from an emotional perspective and that's natural as they're wired that way, personally I call them "the emotional box", they're designed to give care and emotional support to men generally. With all these information you have about women which is POWERFUL if you ask me, I'd urge you to be open minded about it all and use this intelligence as a tool to find a woman that is right for you rather than continue seeing it from a malicious perspective. From what I've read you're already at the boiling point, what you need is therapy brother, you need gradual rehab, and not just any councilor but one whose specialty is relationship and marriage, I would recommend you tune in to 102.3 max fm 10pm by tomorrow night(The love doctor show), call him and talk to him, he's also on Instagram & Fb (@Daniel Akpata on radio) he might help you but truly only you can help yourself, coz no matter what anyone advices you it's still up to you to follow their advice or follow yours.

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by drimzsmoke(m): 2:02pm On Feb 05, 2023
KlausMichaelson:
Honestly this has been bothering me for a while now. And I think that this is what is referred to as Misogyny
.
I hate the to hear or see the opinion of a female gender cos most times if not all the time, it doesn't make sense. And this realization could make me end up angry for the rest of that day. Whenever I apply logic to actually understand why they make such opinion, I find out that it's always out of emotion and not logic. They also always act before thinking (even when they think, their opinion still doesn't make sense). This is applied to all of them. None is excluded.

There's something called the female intuition,never underestimate it.A woman can tell you how a project you're about to start will end and she won't be able to back it logically,and at the end of the day,it will end that way...it's why some men refer to their wives as witches...
Please I'll like you to read these 2 books..."why men don't listen and women can't read map" and "women are from mars,men are from venus"...bros men are women are different,we will never be the same.Please create time to read those 2 books,the 1st one is very important

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by yemi1504: 2:03pm On Feb 05, 2023
Sagamite:


Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

You have said my mind in bits. I have excluded he bits that do not say my mind. The ones quoted state my mind and, honestly, I don't nowadays give a flying fck if anyone sees my views Misogynexion or sepust or whatever the fck they want to label it.

Facts are fucking facts!

The more I listen to women argue and give points on the internet, I just lose respect for women in general. They sound exxxxxtremely dumb and illogical all while trying to push an angle that favours them.

E.g. We are equal and I should be treated equally. "Okay, so who should pay for first date if you believe in practicing equality?" "The person that asks the other person out".

E.g. Men should just be honest that all they want is sex, not relationship. How the fck does that help the man? Does your ass get honest and tell men your body count, how many abortions you have had, how may one-night stand you have had and how many other women's boyfriend/husband you have shagged behind their backs, so he too can judge whether you are worth his time, effort and resources?

Dumbassmotherfuckers thinking they are smart.

Majority always argue illogically from an angle they would hope will favour them. I use majority, hence why I removed the part you said "All of them". There are some smart ones, who do talk smartly, but they are a very small population. There population is as small as the men that would not cheat with a hot girl if they had the chance.

When I hear some mooooron argue that we need to a society where women rule, I am just thinking "What a fcking reeetard!". If majority of leading positions go to women, we would have a fcking disaster. Take that to the bank and cash it out!



I was at this stage due to my irritations too, as an extemely logical person. I really do not understand how people put these selfish, self-centred and illogical beings at home and then fake they are happy.

What I do to cope is that, I understand what they are, what they are like, and never think of putting them as centre of my world or rely on them. They are not reliable except you use an approach of emotional manipulation. Which is not my style. I stick with fcking logic!

As for arguments. I state what the fck logical arguments I want to state, if they don't like it, fck'em!

If you marry them, I feel sorry for your happiness and mental stability.

We have a generation of them with the same disease, who have been brainwashed that nothing is wrong with them, they are very valuable just the way they are, they do not need to change anything or improve, anyone that tells them otherwise is "misogynist" or "sexist", and they deserve things just for being a woman.

Oloriburuku things!

I have been saying for years that many of them are of little value to men's lives.

I will still take them and judge them as individuals, but after such individual assessments, reality is that if I was to look at them as a collective, or onaverage, honestly, it is hard to respect them. I don't respect people who don't make sense (plus are selfish and then self-overvalue). Fck that!

@shaybebaby, come and continue lessons o.

With the way things are going these days with this gender, getting married will soon be a mirage.

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Feb 05, 2023
CONFLICT.

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by felzokugo(m): 2:05pm On Feb 05, 2023
Ahmed0336:
No vex, you plan to marry in the future so? undecided

U don see him response naa...him no plan marry. I hope say him no plan to cure konji too. because...agro na bastard! grin
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by yemi1504: 2:06pm On Feb 05, 2023
Sagamite:


They would be more worried about "the way he said it", rather than "the truth of what he said".

Abi. That is the main problem I have with their gender as I don't know how to sugarcoat things.

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by felzokugo(m): 2:06pm On Feb 05, 2023
Kobojunkie:
I am afraid your problem is of a mental origin and the only one who can help you is probably a professional psychiatrist or mental health therapist. Please make an appointment soonest so you can dig that worm out of your head before it ruins what is left of your mind. undecided

Oooh boy! Dis ur suggestion dope!
Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by iammolise(m): 2:07pm On Feb 05, 2023
drimzsmoke:


There's something called the female intuition,never underestimate it.A woman can tell you how a project you're about to start will end and she won't be able to back it logically,and at the end of the day,it will end that way...it's why some men refer to their wives as witches...
Please I'll like you to read these 2 books..."why men don't listen and women can't read map" and "women are from mars,men are from venus"...bros men are women are different,we will never be the same.Please create time to read those 2 books,the 1st one is very important
Nicely said comrade, and in addition to these books you can as well read " why men never remember and women never forget"

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Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Teymanhenry(f): 2:09pm On Feb 05, 2023
It's not just you that think this way. Most men choose to ignore a lady's fuckups and focus on her strengths which is little.

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