60/40

Jesslove:
Mum 100k, dad can go to hell

Mum 40
Dad 60
Coz dads 60k will still go into taking care of the family

Mark them down, note the girls with daddy issues and avoid them like a plague.

If their own father was never and will never be good enough, brother if you like carry mount Everest for them; nothing you do for these kind of girls can ever be do enough.

Jesslove:
Mum 100k, dad can go to hell

How come. Why you wish him hell?

PDJT:


-Chai. Have you asked him politely what happened? X

Right now I'm not even interested in knowing what went wrong, and who was at fault. Cos when I was dependent and needed him badly he was not there.

He has no role to play for me as a father. We are all living our lives separately and happy anyways.

I remember how my mom used to try to poison my mind against my dad back then.

Coming from a broken home & living with my mom from a very tender age, I always crave for my dad because I “saw” him as a caring father back when we all lived together as a nuclear family.

Growing a little older, I’ll always visit him at work & he would pamper me with food & money, which my mom was not really happy with.

I remember how my mom would always paint my dad as irresponsible & uncaring, but he was always giving me stuffs when I visited him at work as kid. So I didn’t believe my mom or take her seriously.

She would get angry anytime she found out I went to see my dad & begin to abuse me emotionally; sometimes physically.

Later as I grew older I came to understand that my dad no “try” at all. And that he was actually a deadbeat. I won’t mention how I found out.

I later realized he was transferring the “hate” he had towards my mom to me & had really been taking care of his other family. But he only gave me peanut & would even complain like I’m bugging him.

Soon as I noticed that, cut all communication with him & won’t even want to see him again.

He has tried to establish connections through phone calls, visiting & the likes but I blocked him out completely.

Most fathers are actually guilty even though it may seem as if the mother poisoned the mind of the children against them.

Like in one of my posts, I’ve learnt how avoid a woman like mom when I see one far off and not be a man like my father.

Reason why no one of them is getting shishi From the 100k.

50:50

obinna58:

If I’m as irresponsible as my dad then let it be, money is shared according to merit

Easier said than done. When you become a father for 10-15 years max then your opinion would be valid

It's not about you being responsible or irresponsible it's all about the set of the mind.

Your children will grow up with the mentality of my mom carried me for 9 months and she took care of me. Of course she'll, Old man is busy trying to meet the ends.

It seems your father was a deadbeat and it affected your psyche then I'm sorry

Men are underrated. God bless all responsible men out there wrongly depicted to be deadbeat.

This is deep.

faceLAGOS:
I remember how my mom used to try to poison my mind against my dad back then.

Coming from a broken home & living with my mom from a very tender age, I always crave for my dad because I “saw” him as a caring father back when we all lived together as a nuclear family.

Growing a little older, I’ll always visit him at work & he would pamper me with food & money, which my mom was not really happy with.

I remember how my mom would always paint my dad as irresponsible & uncaring, but he was always giving me stuffs when I visited him at work as kid. So I didn’t believe my mom or take her seriously.

She would get angry anytime she found out I went to see my dad & begin to abuse me emotionally; sometimes physically.

Later as I grew older I came to understand that my dad no “try” at all. And that he was actually a deadbeat. I won’t mention how I found out.

I later realized he was transferring the “hate” he had towards my mom to me & had really been taking care of his other family. But he only gave me peanut & would even complain like I’m bugging him.

Soon as I noticed that, cut all communication with him & won’t even want to see him again.

He has tried to establish connections through phone calls, visiting & the likes but I blocked him out completely.

Most fathers are actually guilty even though it may seem as if the mother poisoned the mind of the children against them.

Like in one of my posts, I’ve learnt how avoid a woman like mom when I see one far off and not be a man like my father.

Reason why no one of them is getting shishi From the 100k.

Lyfdiscvry91:


Right now I'm not even interested in knowing what went wrong, and who was at fault. Cos when I was dependent and needed him badly he was not there.

He has no role to play for me as a father. We are all living our lives separately and happy anyways.

-Ok. I get your point. However, I believe you need to heal from that trauma, and the only way to do so properly is to confront the situation (your father).

-If one has a phobia for something, the only way to end such phobia is to face that thing, albeit through a gradual process.

-We all make mistakes, and that's what makes us human. X

jumper524:
Popsi 5k momsi 95k.
Make my son do me no wahala.

You don't even have a son yet 🤣

ukaface:
50 50
Cos if I give Maale more, paale go read meaning to am and I don’t have that strength.

Maale go understand, always understanding

Your father is your backbone. You won't understand.
Men are suffering forget tough countenance and gestures.

What has maternity ward has to do with this? I refuse to be brainwash. I'm saying it again....I can kill her if I meet her.

PDJT:


-Why na? She is still your mum. Have you been to a maternity ward before?

royalfly:


Let me tell you this true life story that's even happening now. There is this couple, the man pays the rent fees and sometimes bring to replace the children clothes, all this and more and manages to give the woman some money at the end of the month. They re both working. The woman does not of note or record in the house in terms of contribution but goes around telling people that the dies nothing and he is a dead bit and. In all of thus the woman insults the man all the time, her parents will support her, she will most times take the man's money and say abominable things in thier house like the children are not his and how yes she has slept with this and that nd the man shld report to his village people. Alot of things about this woman she would run to her parents house after she has done this things and they wld even end up keeping her for months she will come back and it continues. Now the man is tired and he is ready for a divorce but she is pregnant so he is patiently waiting. I asked the man what of the kids in anger he said he does not care for now and all he wants is to get himself together. The truth is people don't know the he'll the man has been through. Tomorrow the children of that man will say thier father abandoned them. See life is tough and women most times lay the foundations for the suffering thier children are going through but the sometimes will never know the true story.

The man should not for any reason leave his children to suffer for what they know nothing about.

He should make his kids priority and try to be in their lives which ever way he can, life is short and he will have a lot to regret in old age.

remsonik:
I will give my dad 70k if he was alive and 30k to my mum cos my dad is a responsible father, he will spend the whole money on maintenance, repairs, taking care of the house and giving us the best care. I am just praying I meet a man like that.

What happened to all your Exes? Non is like unto your dad?

TheMostComplex1:
Whether your parents are alive or not just share the money between the two ie the task you are asked to carry out

Dad 20%
Mum 80%
I just tried to be fair to my dad

No you didn't

Bombeverybody:
What has maternity ward has to do with this? I refuse to be brainwash. I'm saying it again....I can kill her if I meet her.

-Do you not think you're bearing a trauma which is still very fresh and raw? A mental trauma that needs urgent healing?

paul4prime:


my father nor deh drop one naira for food for house
mom 100k
make my papa look bush

Because he doesn't have. No man would have money and his children will go hungry

Michelle55:
Mom- 80k
Dad- 20k
My mom spends more especially when everyone knows she's the only person you can approach and cry to, she would gladly give you everything just so you can smile(hence the 80k).🤣🤣🤣
Popsy on the other hand, my dear na no go area cos shishi you no go see even if you cry blood( can't be manipulated hence the 20k because he wouldn't spend it)
I wish I'm more like my popsy sha☹️

You even give the idiot 20k, me I go give am 50 naira

feckos:
Mum 70k
Dad 30k

Popsy's money is only for flexing at this point in their lives. Great guy, love his style. Momsy keeps cash for all food and home maintenance related expenses.

Women no comot their own money for house stuff 😂.
They squeeze the dough outta your Old man but you ain't gonna know.... Women are sneaky.

father 50k and mother 50k

Jesslove:
Mum 100k, dad can go to hell

You were raised by a single mother and you're a single mother too.

She opened her legs for men anyhow and you did the same thing too.
Shame on you.

Girls are a copy of their mothers.
Again, Shame on you.

For me. My Dad = 100k.

My dad loves my mum so much and takes care of her. So I know he will still ask my mum how they should both spend the money.

I know because it has happened like that before. I sent money into my Dad's account for their upkeep but it is my mum that called me on his behalf to say thank you and prayed for me.

BabbanBura:


Did you seek him out? Did you go to him and he refused to take you and help you?

I have being close to such families and at the end when the kids eventually met the Dad, they discovered the mum was the problem all alone but lived all their lives hating on the father. The families are now united but the parents still living separately

Alot went down, that you would need no soothsayer to tell you that he has no love for you .

If you have a responsibility father never joke with him. I don't even know what fatherly love or care means..

noble2faith:
As for me,
Father ₦60k
Mother ₦40k

What of you?

If I give the whole 100k to my dad he will give all of it to my mom to get things in the house and he later add to it

Goldmaxx:
Easier said than done. When you become a father for 10-15 years max then your opinion would be valid

It's not about you being responsible or irresponsible it's all about the set of the mind.

Your children will grow up with the mentality of my mom carried me for 9 months and she took care of me. Of course she'll, Old man is busy trying to meet the ends.

It seems your father was a deadbeat and it affected your psyche then I'm sorry

Men are underrated. God bless all responsible men out there wrongly depicted to be deadbeat.

I won’t say deadbeat
He is just irresponsible, give him money and he’ll drink himself to death, man is fvckin his health up on daily basis, I see him killing himself slowly but I don’t know how to help and still be on his good people list

Mom takes all, I trust her not to misuse and for judicial spending.

Yes I can.

My mom is alive and living well. She travels overseas when needed, the only place my father has ever been on a long journey is his grave.

But he left us his good name, and it's that name I will honor with the #70,000.

Justiceleague1:

Guy seriously!!?
You can't do that to your mother

50 - 50

endsarrrs:
Mother 100k

You brought up by a single mum right?😁