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Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by searchlight: 12:24pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Neweramify:Weakling of a man. The wife killed the guys mum if that's your reason. When she accuse you of any nonsense you remind her of how she killed your mum simple. I think it is men like you that make woman too powerful. If the wife has any atom of Sense she wouldn't even come with such suggestions. What is good for Greece is also good for Uganda |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by rickleye: 12:28pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
ozalogbo: I remember you and your story and we advised that you get a nurse to stay with your ailing mother-in-law. Condolences on her passing. You donβt come across as someone who believes revenge is a dish best served cold. I would do what is right and not popular( As what is popular is not always right ) . At the end of the day you live with your conscience. 1. I would tell the wife, as long as taking care of your mother doesnβt infringe on any of your duties and responsibilities to me . Mama can stay. 2. For the record, you wholeheartedly disagree with the way your mother was treated ( get that out of your system ) 3. Enjoy π 1 Like |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Gloriagee(f): 12:29pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Keep your insults to yourself. The guy in question has displayed enormous maturity but rude upstarts like you dont know better than being rude to anyone that has a different opinion. Again, I reiterate my question was never intended for you. Now, run along and get something doing Justbehave: |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by searchlight: 12:31pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
frozen70:Lol this people self. If he had refused to send his mother away it would have resulted to another thing, if he refused to allow the wife's mother to his house it will still result to another thing. That makes him the only one who wants the marriage to continue right? If she gets this chance she will demand for even bigger one and if he refuses it could result yo another thing. It is only a weakling that bring this to public platform. This case is the simplest case i have seen in NL. What's good for the Greece is also good for Uganda |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by searchlight: 12:32pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
anthonyuncle:No be only allow her to come. That his wife is a demon and must be treated as one. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Akuruoulo(m): 12:32pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: GOD BLESS YOU. THE WHITE MAN BUSINESS IS TO DEVALUE MASCULINITY. NOW UR WIFE SAYS WHATEVER SHE WANTS AND IT STANDS, BT U AS THE MAN OF THE HOUSE CAN'T . SIMPHOOD IS WHAT ALL MEN IN AFRICA SHOULD FIGHT AGAINST. MEN ARE TOT M HOW TO PROTECT THEIR MARRIAGE AND LEAVE HIMSELF VOLUNARY TO EVERY NONSENSE 1 Like |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Klass99(f): 12:38pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
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Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Akuruoulo(m): 12:39pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Darammliveth: HE SHOULDN'T EVEN SEND HER ANY MONEY |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Millxz(m): 12:43pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
I can't believe you are even thinking about it.. considering what she did to your mum |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by yankison(m): 12:47pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
ojun50: Do u know if it was the loneliness that killed the man's mother too . let her go take care of her mom.somewhere else too I will never agree to this .. Bro keep ur advice to ursef |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Akuruoulo(m): 12:50pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Neweramify:women have proven to be the most dangerous animal against a man. why must u lots find a way to defend ur fellow women nor matter their crime ? she has fear this. she has fear that. men no the get fear too ? The simp boy should be fearing that he married a demon and needs to untie himself frm her and her entire family. MEN WHO EMBRESS SIMPING ISN'T SUPPOSED 2 BE FEELED 4. MY ADVICE 4 MEN HERE IS DAT THIS MADAM QUOTE IS A TRAP 2 MAKE U GUYS SIMP 4EVA. SHE WOULD DO THESAME TO HER MOTHER~INLAW & FEEL THE MAN MUST UNDASTAND |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by shantti(m): 12:50pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
EriMma1: What are they currently saying about the death of op's mum as result of his wife's atrocity. If she doesn't mind what they are saying, then the op shouldn't mind what they will say after he have retaliated. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by shantti(m): 1:02pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
drnoel: If u discovered ur wife poisoned your food to kill u. Considering ur kids, what will u do? Since two wrongs doesn't make a right, u forgive and continue to eat her food, right? |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Akuruoulo(m): 1:03pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Friendship, Relationship, and marriage can never come between i and my mum. my wife doesn't have the power to tell me if my mom comes or not. i just have to tell her that my mom is coming , then she can tell me any of her reasons why she should come immediately, now, or later and if her reasons isn't meaningful enough then she must come. if its a health issue, then she must come unless she decides to go to her daughters place, same way her mother\family is free to visit us. if my mom leaves my home becus ur maltreated her, then u aren't ready for the marriage. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by therealMcCain: 1:03pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
ozalogbo: An eye for an eye makes the world go blind but there are questions that must be answered and the answers will determine what should be done 1.Has your wife suggested to you or asked that her mother moves in with you? 2.Those suggestions you received are they from folks who your wife is speaking through or its genuinely from them 3.Has your wife realized that what she did was wrong? Is she truly sorry about it? You can do as some have said, let your mother inlaw move in with her other kids while you send her monthly upkeep 1 Like |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Dtruthspeaker: 1:03pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Go check it. Forgiveness is based on the fact that it is an issue which is forgivable and overlookable. But when a person crosses that line, it is unforgivable. And forgiveness comes from the Spirit, thus, we can not forgive unless The Spirit lets us, if not people would do that fake forgiveness where they say "I have forgiven her o but the issue is still paining me." |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by shantti(m): 1:06pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
NaBanga: Sir stop this thing u guys are doing Do u guys hate ur mothers that much Who said a middle aged woman can't be the care giver in his home. Why r u supporting evil Is ur wife forcing u to type this |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by shantti(m): 1:07pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
ojun50: What abt the married ones that are chipping in their advise and telling the op to stand his ground. What about them? |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by shantti(m): 1:08pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
iInjureHerYansh: πππππ The girl na acute olodo |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by shantti(m): 1:09pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
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Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Akuruoulo(m): 1:10pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Exodus15v11:MADAM MAY GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by shantti(m): 1:14pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
NoToPile: U know u are dumb right? The way u lot skip the issue at hand and start cooking up unrelated rubbish just to portray urself as the victim is baffling. Did the op said his wife was the one catering for his mum? Why all these? Why are u projecting ur hatred of mother in laws onto a sick old woman that is already dead. U will become what u hate one day. Its a matter of time. Then, same hatred will be projected onto u. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by yankison(m): 1:16pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Oyira: Getat with shallow reasoning .. Which one be pressure of a woman ..? After letting the man's mother died of loneliness |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Angelacruz: 1:18pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:Seconded |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Akuruoulo(m): 1:22pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
frozen70: IF HE DOESN'T PAY HER BACK, WOEMEN LIKE U WILL LEARN AND DO THE SAME TO UR SIMP HUSBAND |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by shantti(m): 1:22pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Gloriagee:ππππππ Women, chai!!! |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by shantti(m): 1:24pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
frozen70: Aunty pls die this talk He shouldn't let her in his house period. Remember that marriage is between a man and his wife, no third parties |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Bordey: 1:26pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA:It's very bad. Some people are just clueless |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by shantti(m): 1:27pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Gloriagee:Have u considered the fact that the wife might naturally be a wicked and bitter person |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Akuruoulo(m): 1:32pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Op ur wife knows u are a bloody simp thats why she got the guts to tell u this. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Dtruthspeaker: 1:33pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
EriMma1: 1) He who applies The Law does no wrong. "Do unto others what you want done to thee/An eye for an eye" not an eye for an ice cream. She did not give Mercy in her time, she cannot even be asking for Mercy". 2) Mercy is earned because The Law Says so. Give Mercy, get Mercy. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Beelisam: 1:38pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
OP I don't think you want to come back to narrate how your home got set apart as a result of unsettled issues. For the fact that you still have fresh memories how your mum was badly treated by your biased wife. On this note I advice you not to allow her mother to come over with the intention of staying. If that happens it won't end well. |
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