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Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by chatinent: 10:44pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
You go bring factory-fitted girl as housemaid for husby? Upon you no sabi cook? You dey take risk. 1 Like |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Campus4u(m): 10:45pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
This might actually be the reason why your husband is leaving you for your maid,bad parental upbringing..... j Lovilla: 3 Likes |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by BloomingDale(f): 10:46pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Thanksful: This guy just basically corroborated what I said, that marriage is a job and a contract. Women, be wise and shine your eyes. |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Tonytonex(m): 10:46pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Na wa oh. Why dem go employ fine sexyhouse maid na? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Nobody: 10:47pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
BloomingDale: Those who don't know that always cry or loose out. 1 Like |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by ipobarecriminals: 10:48pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
lovilla. This is otumophor at work. Tell ur sis not to cry, summon courage and visit Elders. Not road side ones, real village Elders council. She’ll run/forget ur hubby. Mind you,I’m a xtain but Church will not do this for u. See Baba Agbomola |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Upworkwriter007(f): 10:49pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Lovilla:Let me get, if she chases the house maid away while her hubby is not around, will he go to their house and forcefully bring her? Also, I'm sure the house maid knows what is happening and chose to stay. E get reason. 2 Likes |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Ameduedwin: 10:49pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
sulakishop:see the way you just jodge your own Case, what do They employ the maid for, is it not to clean and cook for both of them? Why is she still complaining that the husband eat The maid food, woman with insecurity and jealousness. 2 Likes |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by advanceDNA: 10:50pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
ukaface: Go and learn out to cook.?? I no sure say u normal....na me open thread dey complain say house girl don snatch her husband If u dont have what to say....abeg go sleep 2 Likes |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Maurindo(m): 10:52pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
If she as a young lady in the past or present ever slept with a married man, then this is just Karma serving her hot hot and there's nothing she/you can do about it. Wish our ladies will learn that sleeping with a married man is you signing up your husband to be to cheat on you with several other ladies. Sometimes these men don't even understand what's making them do what they do as most of the times, their wives are often prettier and classier than the side chick. |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by manmade(m): 10:53pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Lovilla:try to learn how to prepare delicious meal from your maid before you send her away or else the history will repeat itself when you get a new maid or your hubby will be collecting takeaway packs from the maid even if she is no longer with you 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by ukaface(f): 10:53pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
advanceDNA:E still Dey pain you? Oya come chop ofe nsala Shey you no go like teach me how to cook like this? You too no Normal, you go point out to me when I support my gender wey no sabi cook |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by BackFromBalablu: 10:53pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Lovilla:i know how it feels, bt try dey endure bite 1 Like |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Galaxydon1(m): 10:55pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
The maid cooks better than your sister 2 Likes |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by dododawa1: 10:55pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Can your sister COOK? 1 Like |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by echepops(m): 10:58pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Lovilla: If you guys are Christians, will advise you to see your Preacher or visit a counsellor. Meanwhile, the wife should be very prayerful. Pray at midnight, it works!. Good luck |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Tonytonex(m): 10:59pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Lovilla:Are you beautiful? |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by zomoears(m): 11:01pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
ukaface: Na from clap dem de enter dance. U say all men should learn how to cook. Next thing will be “cooking should be a shared responsibility”. I cook cos I want to. I tidy dishes cos I want to. I clean the house cos I want to. Not cos I HAVE to. Mandating that men SHOULD learn how to cook is not different from saying men WIlL HAVE to cook. Six or half a dozen. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by ViceGovernor: 11:08pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Lovilla:This is where I must correct you and your sister. Beauty is nothing without good character and God has a way of astounding the high and mighty with the most mundane things. That ugly girl you're talking about is going to be elevated right before your sisters eyes. Beauty cannot keep a man in a marriage cause not all men are moved by beauty 3 Likes |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by NwaliE01: 11:08pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Do your sister know how to cook? Do she always complain/nag? Why do she need a house help? Do they have great sex often? Why is her husband shifting attention from her? The poor young girl is gradually gaining attention from her supposedly mistress's husband. Why i spelt this out is because, it would be unfair to focus on the symptoms rather than the cause. Men are promiscuous is no longer an excuse to cheat, but men can go for even the least girl in a classified level to gain comfort, especially from a troubled home. If your sister is playing her part well, am sure the husband wouldn't pay attention to the house girl. If the husband is sexually satisfied like every day, he wouldn't look out for his house help but when he isn't satisfied, then sometimes he think of getting a makeup elsewhere. Tell your sister to spice up their bedmatics, learn to cook beautiful meals and be respectful to her husband. He will never turn away from her to any. It's quite easy to gain the heart of a man. If she she still want to keep the maid, then its up to her sleeve to do so. If the husband is fighting it, then something is wrong somewhere. She need to work on her marriage or loose it to a random girl. Girls nowadays are no longer ashamed of going after married men publicly. So, remember he can as well get other girl outside if the home is not comfortable for him. Best of luck. It's becoming a norm. 1 Like |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Stillwater10: 11:09pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Are you saying Christians should not marry? |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by b5ive(m): 11:10pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
I concur to these submissions, it makes more sense than the subject matter advanceDNA: 2 Likes |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Poweidebenteke(m): 11:11pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Tell her to improve her cooking The house help is a better cook |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by SweetDipBenny(m): 11:15pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
U need to improve on urself. Work on urself. Be a better wife 1 Like |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Ken4Christ: 11:16pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Lovilla: It's time women should know that hiring a house maid is as good as bringing in a second wife. So, it's better to avoid it. And most of the time, they are preferred to the wife because stolen meat is always sweeter. Besides, they are younger in age. Only lazy wives agree to hire an house maid. The same goes for house boys. They do the job when oga is away from home especially if he is the traveling type. So, couples should be wise and plan their homes without them. Instead get a relative to assist and also train. Meanwhile, the only way out is to insist she is sacked. Otherwise, she is a second wife. 1 Like |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Agwaso: 11:16pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
You have not stated the reasons why your sister is not comfortable with the husband always eating food prepared by only the house help. there may be other signals. I would like to ask if your sister knows how to cook. Consequently, If your sister cannot cook I believe that eating food prepared by the house help is the best alternative available for the husband. because the other alternative is to eat outside before getting home. To really confirm if something is wrong I would advise your sister to serve the husband food cooked by the house maid as if she was the person that cooked the food. If he rejects the food, then we know there is something wrong. but for now i don't see anything wrong in my opinion. Lovilla: |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by ogmask: 11:17pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Lovilla: Check your cooking skills properly. |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by slimshady1000: 11:18pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
You are right Bro... The sister should stop being lazy jare. advanceDNA: 1 Like |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Blackpowers101: 11:18pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Lovilla:She can have her husband all to herself, this is a small case, the house girl will just happily leave without any problems. 09034568201, she can call or whatsapp me. |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by izubext007: 11:20pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Every smart man will putt his wife or girlfriend under competition. 1 Like |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by Okechinwadike: 11:22pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
feminism is not good ooooooo. mark my word the man will settle for the maid , in your next world you learn how to be a good wife. RUBBISH nothing should happen to that girl oooo. nonsense and feminist 2 Likes |
Re: House Maid Is About To Crash My Sister's Marriage by olisefom: 11:22pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
advanceDNA: I don't like putting mouth in family matters, but this I will second with my full chest. 1 Like |
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