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E be like one naija babe wey we worry me. Na big time doctor she be for California hey. She dey find husband even her family dey worry my old parent but as dem see I no dey look their daughter side dem discharge. Number 1 she no too fine and secondly not my type. I get my own personal lingering financial problem wey I dey beg baba God to solve. I never ready to do houseboy for obodoyinbo. Make I dey my dey. She go use american culture take finish my life. She is career oriented. I need a badass chick not a control freak.

IyaTola:
In Nigeria, men go dey beg to date you. Even if they go still show you pepper, but at least, options plenty & they put in the efforts.

Outside Nigeria, them no send your papa

My cousins, in the UK, have beautiful daughter's who say no one looks at them, My aunties in thier 50's and get approached by many.....

You're right about this because most Naija girls know say when you don marry them,guys go get upper hand in the marriage while outside, girls are most at advantage in marriage.
So, before they leap, you have to check very well.

lavylilly:
In Nigeria, your partner go dey call you at least 2x a day. You go still dey vex say e no text you.

Outside Nigeria, three weeks! Your phone is silent. Nothing from your so-called partner. After, they fit hit you up randomly, “What’s up?”

Some will just stop talking to you without giving you any cogent reason. Some would pull out of dates without saying a word

Shey you dey whyne me ni?

Correlates with this below. If only more Nigerians were like me

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmgMbLVibbw

@angrygoat @womenareapezz @savedday and @strongalphmale advises us to beware of nigerian girls they are all uselesss

Gerrard59:
That depends on the kind of woman o. In ranking order, the white man is revered worldwide and is higher than his black counterpart (thanks to their great-grandparents who dominated the world). To get the top class women in developed countries as a black African male migrant takes a whole lot - education, mannerisms, spoken language, career etc. Add the fact that most Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), some due to the suffer-head conditions they faced in Nigeria, and it gets worse. One literally has to be a Tidjane Thiam to stand a chance. It might be better in the US and other countries with a substantial black population, but in places where the black population is very minute, e get as e be. So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", certain questions should be asked.

- What calibre of women "love" Nigerian men?
- Which countries do they come from?
- What are the profiles of these women (height, facial looks, educational attainment, career etc)?

Dude! You lost me at "most Nigerian men are ugly". Are you serious? What would you now say about South African men? And I'm talking native ones, not the mixed. We're not Greek gods by any stretch, but we're good looking in a more rounded way. Dude speak for yourself!

Raalsalghul:
Your post is incoherent, you might need to rephrase for a better understanding.

I thought am the only person struggling to understand op

lavylilly:
In Nigeria, your partner go dey call you at least 2x a day. You go still dey vex say e no text you.

Outside Nigeria, three weeks! Your phone is silent. Nothing from your so-called partner. After, they fit hit you up randomly, “What’s up?”

Some will just stop talking to you without giving you any cogent reason. Some would pull out of dates without saying a word

Shey you dey whyne me ni?

That your sisters are facing this situation shouldn't be your yardstick to generalize.

Most times people who suffer in this situation are those still finding their feet, and the money they make from their job can barely cater for their bills.

You can't say such for someone whom has planned his/her life over the years, after getting their papers and working in a good paying job.

Gerrard59:
That depends on the kind of woman o. In ranking order, the white man is revered worldwide and is higher than his black counterpart (thanks to their great-grandparents who dominated the world). To get the top class women in developed countries as a black African male migrant takes a whole lot - education, mannerisms, spoken language, career etc. Add the fact that most Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), some due to the suffer-head conditions they faced in Nigeria, and it gets worse. One literally has to be a Tidjane Thiam to stand a chance. It might be better in the US and other countries with a substantial black population, but in places where the black population is very minute, e get as e be. So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", certain questions should be asked.

- What calibre of women "love" Nigerian men?
- Which countries do they come from?
- What are the profiles of these women (height, facial looks, educational attainment, career etc)?

I'm struggling to understand your reference to Tidjane Thiam. Kindly explain

Gerrard59:
That depends on the kind of woman o. In ranking order, the white man is revered worldwide and is higher than his black counterpart (thanks to their great-grandparents who dominated the world). To get the top class women in developed countries as a black African male migrant takes a whole lot - education, mannerisms, spoken language, career etc. Add the fact that most Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), some due to the suffer-head conditions they faced in Nigeria, and it gets worse. One literally has to be a Tidjane Thiam to stand a chance. It might be better in the US and other countries with a substantial black population, but in places where the black population is very minute, e get as e be. So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", certain questions should be asked.

- What calibre of women "love" Nigerian men?
- Which countries do they come from?
- What are the profiles of these women (height, facial looks, educational attainment, career etc)?

When I see you name Tidjane Thiam (Who is even an old man), then I already know you lack that prime confidence (which is the essential thing in the art of gaming).

I stand at 6'2 and I am confident the gbola that I carry cannot be replicated in any race . I have lived in 11 different countries (Including the America's) and sir, the ladies have always, I repeat "A-L-W-A-Y-S" rushed me... different types, I even had a menu, if I wanted blondes, brunettes, red heads, skinny, mini, thick, you name them. Infact when I was in Turkey (that women are more conservative) I still ran extreme game.

The good thing I love about the dating scene outside Nigeria is the fact that, you don't need as much money or riches to run game, just the essentials are ok, but you need to have your confidence in tonnes and you need to know how to use the "black" clout to your advantage, if you don't, then you'd probably endup writing about white privilege in picking up women yada yada yada... Oga I did point N kill, top specifications, location and language was not a barrier.

Infact in Japan, running game was the easiest because the ladies are naturally timid and reserved so your confidence and kindness goes a super long way until when you shift pant. Infact I was like a celebrity that time, because they barely saw black people in Japan.

In Europe I let them know the stereotype about African gbola is true, From France to Czech Republic to Scandinavian regions, I was a legend, I shifted wombs for free during winters due to popular demand.

In the US sir chai... mheeeeen Infact lemme stop here because although I have hung my boots, I never barb my dada.

So oga, I don't know what you are talking about. If you are the calm one, just say it, Don't generalise all brothers sir, because some of us have conquered.

Nigerians don dey do copypasta. These twelve year old boys, sha.

Orgasmgiver123:
Reason me one of those your cousin nau

I go take care of her oh
I dey able and capable to put food for her table and even make her comfortable without timetable, our children go be uncountable, we go balance ontop high table


Damn... nasty... I'm out of here

Gold digger!
Lazy man.
Don't go and hustle.
You must be Afonja.

Bravo, You have a good experience about life abroad thanks for sharing

lavylilly:
The pressure to meet up with bills, taxes and other stuff to survive with back to back shifts go humble any Nigeria Person. Even many married people are lonely...talking from my sisters experience.

She said nothing but the fact.
Have experienced this issue.
Ko easy. Do shakara for naija but not for obodo Oyinbo

Beautiful thing ;
1. You can’t use money, catfish &pepper soup to get a girlfriend.
2. Bills are split even on first date
3. You don’t pay anyones transport
4. Dating doesn’t mean relationship
5. Relationship doesn’t mean marriage
6. You must ask if she is into men/women

optimusprime2:
When I see you name Tidjane Thiam (Who is even an old man), then I already know you lack that prime confidence (which is the essential thing in the art of gaming).

I stand at 6'2 and I am confident the gbola that I carry cannot be replicated in any race . I have lived in 11 different countries (Including the America's) and sir, the ladies have always, I repeat "A-L-W-A-Y-S" rushed me... different types, I even had a menu, if I wanted blondes, brunettes, red heads, skinny, mini, thick, you name them. Infact when I was in Turkey (that women are more conservative) I still ran extreme game.

The good thing I love about the dating scene outside Nigeria is the fact that, you don't need as much money or riches to run game, just the essentials are ok, but you need to have your confidence in tonnes and you need to know how to use the "black" clout to your advantage, if you don't, then you'd probably endup writing about white privilege in picking up women yada yada yada... Oga I did point N kill, top specifications, location and language was not a barrier.

Infact in Japan, running game was the easiest because the ladies are naturally timid and reserved so your confidence and kindness goes a super long way until when you shift pant. Infact I was like a celebrity that time, because they barely saw black people in Japan.

In Europe I let them know the stereotype about African gbola is true, From France to Czech Republic to Scandinavian regions, I was a legend, I shifted wombs for free during winters due to popular demand.

In the US sir chai... mheeeeen Infact lemme stop here because although I have hung my boots, I never barb my dada.

So oga, I don't know what you are talking about. If you are the calm one, just say it, Don't generalise all brothers sir, because some of us have conquered.

Bros even God de fear you. Haba na so you don sample women every where. L🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

lavylilly:
The pressure to meet up with bills, taxes and other stuff to survive with back to back shifts go humble any Nigeria Person. Even many married people are lonely...talking from my sisters experience.

She said nothing but the fact.
Have experienced this issue.
Ko easy. Do shakara for naija but not for obodo Oyinbo

Beautiful thing ;
1. You can’t use money, catfish &pepper soup to get a girlfriend.
2. Bills are split even on first date
3. You don’t pay anyones transport
4. Dating doesn’t mean relationship
5. Relationship doesn’t mean marriage
6. You must ask if she is into men/women

7. You must also confirm if the gender has been changed

sukkot:
Truth of the matter is that UK has brainwashed everybody living there as you wAtch their TV . Standard of beauty in the UK is white woman first, next is exotics like Indian , next is mixed race, next is Jamaican women and last is African women. Like to date a black woman in the UK is like considered scraping the bottom of the barrel. Everybody goes to clubs chasing white women and half caste. And so that's why African women there no dey get action. And the only people who should naturally give African women action are in the UK to hustle for money aka African men and they don't have time and the ones that have time are chasing white women. There is no action for African women in the UK. They are looked at as the dregs of society

On a side note let me add that the cold weather and British food does not make our women look good over there. It's when I came to Nigeria that I actually started appreciating the beauty of black women. When that sun hits that melanin it shines and starts popping. A black woman is very beautiful in the African sun but her skin looks dull and ashy in foggy cold British weather. Our women don't look their full potential living in the UK. I have seen more pepper sellers in Nigeria who look better than almost all the Nigerian girls in the UK. It's that good organic diet and the African sun making thAt melanin pop

I agree with this submission

Why is this just making it to front page?

Example DJ cuppy. Very ugly fellow.

sukkot:
Truth of the matter is that UK has brainwashed everybody living there as you wAtch their TV . Standard of beauty in the UK is white woman first, next is exotics like Indian , next is mixed race, next is Jamaican women and last is African women. Like to date a black woman in the UK is like considered scraping the bottom of the barrel. Everybody goes to clubs chasing white women and half caste. And so that's why African women there no dey get action. And the only people who should naturally give African women action are in the UK to hustle for money aka African men and they don't have time and the ones that have time are chasing white women. There is no action for African women in the UK. They are looked at as the dregs of society

On a side note let me add that the cold weather and British food does not make our women look good over there. It's when I came to Nigeria that I actually started appreciating the beauty of black women. When that sun hits that melanin it shines and starts popping. A black woman is very beautiful in the African sun but her skin looks dull and ashy in foggy cold British weather. Our women don't look their full potential living in the UK. I have seen more pepper sellers in Nigeria who look better than almost all the Nigerian girls in the UK. It's that good organic diet and the African sun making thAt melanin pop

In Nigeria is normal but in uk na benefit them they find.
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Oyindamolah:
The Naija man's options are multiple especially when they are outside the country SADLY; the white man's options are 'double multiple'. If he doesn't want his like, he'll consider Latin America, Asia, indians, etc Even in Africa, Nigerian women are at the bottom of the perking order, thanks to Nairaland men.

The bills and taxes over there would make you to chose loneliness over relationship.

If the Naija man's options are multiple especially when outside the country...... and Nigerian women are at the bottom of the pecking order .... then why do soooo many Naija men outside return home to find a wife?

Jackbaur88:
Bros even God de fear you. Haba na so you don sample women every where. L🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Honestly, I read his itinerary sexual biography, I fear 😂 people dey this nairaland.

Wicked Nigeria men are eating the wealth of women outside while promising them marriage but end up not marrying any. Westerners see marriage as a bondage, Spiritually, they have fallen, sadly people here are now imitating them

Magnoliaa:
You're beautiful, if that's really you @ your pfp. ❤

Because you see breast

sukkot:
Truth of the matter is that UK has brainwashed everybody living there as you wAtch their TV . Standard of beauty in the UK is white woman first, next is exotics like Indian , next is mixed race, next is Jamaican women and last is African women. Like to date a black woman in the UK is like considered scraping the bottom of the barrel. Everybody goes to clubs chasing white women and half caste. And so that's why African women there no dey get action. And the only people who should naturally give African women action are in the UK to hustle for money aka African men and they don't have time and the ones that have time are chasing white women. There is no action for African women in the UK. They are looked at as the dregs of society

On a side note let me add that the cold weather and British food does not make our women look good over there. It's when I came to Nigeria that I actually started appreciating the beauty of black women. When that sun hits that melanin it shines and starts popping. A black woman is very beautiful in the African sun but her skin looks dull and ashy in foggy cold British weather. Our women don't look their full potential living in the UK. I have seen more pepper sellers in Nigeria who look better than almost all the Nigerian girls in the UK. It's that good organic diet and the African sun making thAt melanin pop

Absolutely 1000% correct and their smelly worn out wigs, bad facial make ups and fake hairs don't help either, why in the world would an african or any black woman need facial make up? It makes their faces look pale rather than oilly as a black or african woman's face should look.

Even i have to apply lots of vaseline on my face and body to escape the winter dry skin.

Some of the naigerian or african women i have being aquinted with their hands, palms and feets were really hard and tough. I said to one, use some hand creams to soften your palm and hands

Oyindamolah:
The Naija man's options are multiple especially when they are outside the country SADLY; the white man's options are 'double multiple'. If he doesn't want his like, he'll consider Latin America, Asia, indians, etc Even in Africa, Nigerian women are at the bottom of the perking order, thanks to Nairaland men.

The bills and taxes over there would make you to chose loneliness over relationship.

Is that really you?

sprints1:
E be like one naija babe wey we worry me. Na big time doctor she be for California hey. She dey find husband even her family dey worry my old parent but as dem see I no dey look their daughter side dem discharge. Number 1 she no too fine and secondly not my type. I get my own personal lingering financial problem wey I dey beg baba God to solve. I never ready to do houseboy for obodoyinbo. Make I dey my dey. She go use american culture take finish my life. She is career oriented. I need a badass chick not a control freak.

Bro which sites you met? Cos I met one or two on Facebook, but keep tellin me I ain't in Yankee.

Jackbaur88:
Bros even God de fear you. Haba na so you don sample women every where. L🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Oga mi I no fit fall my Papa hand

optimusprime2:
When I see you name Tidjane Thiam (Who is even an old man), then I already know you lack that prime confidence (which is the essential thing in the art of gaming).

I stand at 6'2 and I am confident the gbola that I carry cannot be replicated in any race . I have lived in 11 different countries (Including the America's) and sir, the ladies have always, I repeat "A-L-W-A-Y-S" rushed me... different types, I even had a menu, if I wanted blondes, brunettes, red heads, skinny, mini, thick, you name them. Infact when I was in Turkey (that women are more conservative) I still ran extreme game.

The good thing I love about the dating scene outside Nigeria is the fact that, you don't need as much money or riches to run game, just the essentials are ok, but you need to have your confidence in tonnes and you need to know how to use the "black" clout to your advantage, if you don't, then you'd probably endup writing about white privilege in picking up women yada yada yada... Oga I did point N kill, top specifications, location and language was not a barrier.

Infact in Japan, running game was the easiest because the ladies are naturally timid and reserved so your confidence and kindness goes a super long way until when you shift pant. Infact I was like a celebrity that time, because they barely saw black people in Japan.

In Europe I let them know the stereotype about African gbola is true, From France to Czech Republic to Scandinavian regions, I was a legend, I shifted wombs for free during winters due to popular demand.

In the US sir chai... mheeeeen Infact lemme stop here because although I have hung my boots, I never barb my dada.

So oga, I don't know what you are talking about. If you are the calm one, just say it, Don't generalise all brothers sir, because some of us have conquered.

Yes, this is because you are a black man, black men finds it easier to score with all kinda women, black men has no problem wooing women anywhere in the world. I think the topic is about how hard it is for African and naigerian women to get a date in Europe or America, because they are seen as at the bottom categorically or not noticed atall or barelly noticed by all men including african or naigerian men

sprints1:
E be like one naija babe wey we worry me. Na big time doctor she be for California hey. She dey find husband even her family dey worry my old parent but as dem see I no dey look their daughter side dem discharge. Number 1 she no too fine and secondly not my type. I get my own personal lingering financial problem wey I dey beg baba God to solve. I never ready to do houseboy for obodoyinbo. Make I dey my dey. She go use american culture take finish my life. She is career oriented. I need a badass chick not a control freak.

Control freak, especially wen dem don old and desparate.

optimusprime2:
When I see you name Tidjane Thiam (Who is even an old man), then I already know you lack that prime confidence (which is the essential thing in the art of gaming).

I stand at 6'2 and I am confident the gbola that I carry cannot be replicated in any race . I have lived in 11 different countries (Including the America's) and sir, the ladies have always, I repeat "A-L-W-A-Y-S" rushed me... different types, I even had a menu, if I wanted blondes, brunettes, red heads, skinny, mini, thick, you name them. Infact when I was in Turkey (that women are more conservative) I still ran extreme game.

The good thing I love about the dating scene outside Nigeria is the fact that, you don't need as much money or riches to run game, just the essentials are ok, but you need to have your confidence in tonnes and you need to know how to use the "black" clout to your advantage, if you don't, then you'd probably endup writing about white privilege in picking up women yada yada yada... Oga I did point N kill, top specifications, location and language was not a barrier.

Infact in Japan, running game was the easiest because the ladies are naturally timid and reserved so your confidence and kindness goes a super long way until when you shift pant. Infact I was like a celebrity that time, because they barely saw black people in Japan.

In Europe I let them know the stereotype about African gbola is true, From France to Czech Republic to Scandinavian regions, I was a legend, I shifted wombs for free during winters due to popular demand.

In the US sir chai... mheeeeen Infact lemme stop here because although I have hung my boots, I never barb my dada.

So oga, I don't know what you are talking about. If you are the calm one, just say it, Don't generalise all brothers sir, because some of us have conquered.

Confidence is key. In this our Nigeria that I've lived almost all my life, I'd have sex with ladies from 25 out of 36 states including ladies from Sokoto, Kaduna, Katsina. I'm a light skinned and a Christian. But religion and ethnicity couldn't stop me. I no dey even send their hijab.

If I happen to be abroad, I will smash any race without much ado.

How did you travel to 11 countries. You must be loaded oh. . I've only ever visited Cotonou aside Nigeria.

Oyindamolah:

love your picture. Are you available for a flex this weekend ?

skj1377:
Example DJ cuppy. Very ugly fellow.

but she looks beautiful when in naija but soon as she enters uk she looks bad

Gerrard59:
That depends on the kind of woman o.
So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", certain questions should be asked.

- What calibre of women "love" Nigerian men?
- Which countries do they come from?
- What are the profiles of these women (height, facial looks, educational attainment, career etc)?

Thank you for this… 🙏

I ask again; what calibre of foreign women love Nigerian men?

Successful lawyers, doctors, engineers and etc 😢