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optimusprime2:
You have a solid point.

However I also know many Nigerian males who are like Demi-gods in the dating ecosystem.

I remember once back in Germany a Nigerian guy, who was soooo slick with women, that this guy was literally the hottest thing that landed in Leipzig that year, he was a student at the time and how he mastered German to the point where women were swooning over him, beat even the locals. There was a season of mixed kids from different German women that time from "you know who".

For those who went to Leipzig University of applied sciences in 2016, I guess you would know who I am referring to, because he was given permanent residency in Germany due to the sheer number of kids he had from different women.

In Poland and Ukraine I also know a lot of Nigerians who have been in the business of pant shifting and handling if not for the war that dispersed some of them in Ukraine.

I knew a Gym trainer in Japan who was Nigerian, first of all in Japan people are not that big, infact I tower above almost 80% of people in Japan, so imagine how this guy compares in Japan who is incredibly muscular and stands at a monstrous 6"6 ... like anytime he has shifts in the Gym, I noticed how females are at incredible numbers wanting him to train them and taking candid pictures of him, all I can say is this guy is literally Hercules in Japan- He always told me he knew how celebrities felt like when it comes to dating.

And lemme also add this, I know a very, very dark skinned guy from Senegal in the US, so apparently American women love his accent (he has a kinda french and wolof twang on his English) but he samples women simply because they find the way he talks attractive. If you know how this guy uses it to his advantage, he gets women even a rich white guy would not even attempt just because he knows he has some rare foreign attributes.

So na so area be o.

Most Nigerian women are on the thick side and some obese, so you don't expect a white guy to go after them considering that they have their own definition of what beauty is to them.

Now, if you are fat or chubby according to the west standard, do not properly put your wigs on, hardly wear makeup, do not go out then how are western guys gonna look at you

In regards to Nigerian guys and dating abroad. It is difficult, sometimes Nigerian guys want to date Nigerian girls but their rude and aggressive attitude put them off.

Another dynamic is survival, coming from a poor country where survival is the game, the Nigerian guy mind is to meet a foreigner and entangle them towards a relationship so that they can be legal. The Nigerian girls loses out if all her men are looking for foreign women to date

IyaTola:
In Nigeria, men go dey beg to date you. Even if they go still show you pepper, but at least, options plenty & they put in the efforts.

Outside Nigeria, them no send your papa

My cousins, in the UK, have beautiful daughter's who say no one looks at them, My aunties in thier 50's and get approached by many.....

Ladymillion:
How many Nigerian men approach a lady that is not too good looking?

optimusprime2:
When I see you name Tidjane Thiam (Who is even an old man), then I already know you lack that prime confidence (which is the essential thing in the art of gaming).

I stand at 6'2 and I am confident the gbola that I carry cannot be replicated in any race . I have lived in 11 different countries (Including the America's) and sir, the ladies have always, I repeat "A-L-W-A-Y-S" rushed me... different types, I even had a menu, if I wanted blondes, brunettes, red heads, skinny, mini, thick, you name them. Infact when I was in Turkey (that women are more conservative) I still ran extreme game.

The good thing I love about the dating scene outside Nigeria is the fact that, you don't need as much money or riches to run game, just the essentials are ok, but you need to have your confidence in tonnes and you need to know how to use the "black" clout to your advantage, if you don't, then you'd probably endup writing about white privilege in picking up women yada yada yada... Oga I did point N kill, top specifications, location and language was not a barrier.

Infact in Japan, running game was the easiest because the ladies are naturally timid and reserved so your confidence and kindness goes a super long way until when you shift pant. Infact I was like a celebrity that time, because they barely saw black people in Japan.

In Europe I let them know the stereotype about African gbola is true, From France to Czech Republic to Scandinavian regions, I was a legend, I shifted wombs for free during winters due to popular demand.

In the US sir chai... mheeeeen Infact lemme stop here because although I have hung my boots, I never barb my dada.

So oga, I don't know what you are talking about. If you are the calm one, just say it, Don't generalise all brothers sir, because some of us have conquered.

optimusprime2:
When I see you name Tidjane Thiam (Who is even an old man), then I already know you lack that prime confidence (which is the essential thing in the art of gaming).

I stand at 6'2 and I am confident the gbola that I carry cannot be replicated in any race . I have lived in 11 different countries (Including the America's) and sir, the ladies have always, I repeat "A-L-W-A-Y-S" rushed me... different types, I even had a menu, if I wanted blondes, brunettes, red heads, skinny, mini, thick, you name them. Infact when I was in Turkey (that women are more conservative) I still ran extreme game.

The good thing I love about the dating scene outside Nigeria is the fact that, you don't need as much money or riches to run game, just the essentials are ok, but you need to have your confidence in tonnes and you need to know how to use the "black" clout to your advantage, if you don't, then you'd probably endup writing about white privilege in picking up women yada yada yada... Oga I did point N kill, top specifications, location and language was not a barrier.

Infact in Japan, running game was the easiest because the ladies are naturally timid and reserved so your confidence and kindness goes a super long way until when you shift pant. Infact I was like a celebrity that time, because they barely saw black people in Japan.

In Europe I let them know the stereotype about African gbola is true, From France to Czech Republic to Scandinavian regions, I was a legend, I shifted wombs for free during winters due to popular demand.

In the US sir chai... mheeeeen Infact lemme stop here because although I have hung my boots, I never barb my dada.

So oga, I don't know what you are talking about. If you are the calm one, just say it, Don't generalise all brothers sir, because some of us have conquered.

GUNITGuy:
My aunt in the Uk same thing she should going to her mid 50s .....Here on the island dey just dey find who to give them belle wether rich or not.......

IyaTola:
In Nigeria, men go dey beg to date you. Even if they go still show you pepper, but at least, options plenty & they put in the efforts.

Outside Nigeria, them no send your papa

My cousins, in the UK, have beautiful daughter's who say no one looks at them, My aunties in thier 50's and get approached by many.....

pacespot:
Cacophony of buffoonery. Black men are loved by women across races all over the world, Nigerian men now add their own on top for being romantic.

I've watched many videos online where women of all races were asked to pick their preferred man for dating in other races, I was surprised to see Nigerian men rank top for most of the interviews, Asian men especially Koreans also rank high. Na that time I know say Nigeria is popular than Africa, because none of other African countries' men got mentioned.

WantsandMore:
This is the most half truths I've seen based on this topic. Dude your ugliness is affecting your opinion.

optimusprime2:
When I see you name Tidjane Thiam (Who is even an old man), then I already know you lack that prime confidence (which is the essential thing in the art of gaming).

ause although I have hung my boots, I never barb my dada.

So oga, I don't know what you are talking about. If you are the calm one, just say it, Don't generalise all brothers sir, because some of us have conquered.

haybhi1:
Lagos island, in Nigeria here?

creolehunt:
I'm struggling to understand your reference to Tidjane Thiam. Kindly explain

GUNITGuy:
No Saint Vincent Island on the Carribean
We have Other islands like St. Lucia, Dominica, Bequia, Bahamas, Barbados....

3nity7:
I was shocked to see more than 20 likes on one of my comments in the first page this afternoon😂😂

Karnice600:
Well in as much as a bit of this is true, I'll rather prefer you don't generalize this.

This friend of mine who schooled in Dalian University, way back in China, told me how Asian girls loved American men and their styles, especially with the hip hop flare. It didn't matter whether you're white or black, so long as they could get those vibes from your accents, dress sense and demeanor. He also pointed out to me that Russian girls as well as Chinese girls love Western guys with thuggish arrogance. He said the Russian women hated dating Chinese men. On the top of their preference scale were American artists, popular or upcoming. Next are Frenchman. Said they're believed to be very romantic, and then the Russian men so on...,

From my experience with the whites, the way they, especially the females, connect is quite different. I've discovered that passion turns them on. Just be good at what you do. A white lady loves you when you aren't watching. If they desire a black guy for his physical grace, most times its for strictly sex and nothing else. A white lady can use a black man for sexual fulfillment, but that only makes the guy more miserable because she can keep him disconnected from vital parts of her life, letting him feel he isn't worth it. How do you feel to discover you're a little better than a Love Machine?
White girls respect black men with brains, not abs. They have sex with you doesn't mean they respect you. That's how weird they seem. Your wits, your guts, your flow, your body language, your voice...these things matter most to them. Our females here tend to look for signs that translate to financial stability. Shoe quality, wrist watch brand... Although both whites and blacks appreciate good haircuts and toned bodies. That one dey. But that doesn't Accord the man his respect.
Their laws are also a big issue. Scandinavian girls are less lousy than American, but more possessive and bossy. Their laws favor feminine concerns more than America's.
When I visited Dublin for an exhibition with my wife some years back, we met a Finnish-Russian blonde, through a friend. We shook hands and we were introduced as a couple to her. She boldly told me she liked me and wouldn't mind if I'll be coming the next few months for a planned vacation by her crew. My wife got cross immediately. I smiled and told her I'll discuss that with my wife, who was now staring at her like a punching bag.
For your sisters I think they've not really gotten involved with some kinda social engagements. Attend a music class, meet people. Create a visible lifestyle and someone who loves it will connect with that personality. Unfortunately this may take some time.
Most folks who live overseas live a boring life. You gotta vibe. The environment there is so designed that you can create your reality, all be it with some extra efforts and money.
Na so e be.

WantsandMore:
This is the most half truths I've seen based on this topic. Dude your ugliness is affecting your opinion.

Parrot69:
Tamper justice with mercy.

correctguy101:
7. You must also confirm if the gender has been changed

feyisy86:
Bravo, You have a good experience about life abroad thanks for sharing

Orgasmgiver123:
Reason me one of those your cousin nau

I go take care of her oh
I dey able and capable to put food for her table and even make her comfortable without timetable, our children go be uncountable, we go balance ontop high table


Damn... nasty... I'm out of here

Oyindamolah:
The bills and taxes over there would make you to chose loneliness over relationship.

lavylilly:
The pressure to meet up with bills, taxes and other stuff to survive with back to back shifts go humble any Nigeria Person. Even many married people are lonely...talking from my sisters experience.

She said nothing but the fact.
Have experienced this issue.
Ko easy. Do shakara for naija but not for obodo Oyinbo

Beautiful thing ;
1. You can’t use money, catfish &pepper soup to get a girlfriend.
2. Bills are split even on first date
3. You don’t pay anyones transport
4. Dating doesn’t mean relationship
5. Relationship doesn’t mean marriage
6. You must ask if she is into men/women

Thomasankara:
[/color]is that really u at ur moniker?[color=#770077]

Tzar:
The reason is that abroad women can easily claim assault and molestation against men and get away with it, so abroad men have learnt to avoid abroad women.
The same abroad men will flirt and date as Nigerian men if they are away from the men-demonizing feminist society of Europe & America.

Karnice600:
Well in as much as a bit of this is true, I'll rather prefer you don't generalize this.

This friend of mine who schooled in Dalian University, way back in China, told me how Asian girls loved American men and their styles, especially with the hip hop flare. It didn't matter whether you're white or black, so long as they could get those vibes from your accents, dress sense and demeanor. He also pointed out to me that Russian girls as well as Chinese girls love Western guys with thuggish arrogance. He said the Russian women hated dating Chinese men. On the top of their preference scale were American artists, popular or upcoming. Next are Frenchman. Said they're believed to be very romantic, and then the Russian men so on...,

From my experience with the whites, the way they, especially the females, connect is quite different. I've discovered that passion turns them on. Just be good at what you do. A white lady loves you when you aren't watching. If they desire a black guy for his physical grace, most times its for strictly sex and nothing else. A white lady can use a black man for sexual fulfillment, but that only makes the guy more miserable because she can keep him disconnected from vital parts of her life, letting him feel he isn't worth it. How do you feel to discover you're a little better than a Love Machine?
White girls respect black men with brains, not abs. They have sex with you doesn't mean they respect you. That's how weird they seem. Your wits, your guts, your flow, your body language, your voice...these things matter most to them. Our females here tend to look for signs that translate to financial stability. Shoe quality, wrist watch brand... Although both whites and blacks appreciate good haircuts and toned bodies. That one dey. But that doesn't Accord the man his respect.
Their laws are also a big issue. Scandinavian girls are less lousy than American, but more possessive and bossy. Their laws favor feminine concerns more than America's.
When I visited Dublin for an exhibition with my wife some years back, we met a Finnish-Russian blonde, through a friend. We shook hands and we were introduced as a couple to her. She boldly told me she liked me and wouldn't mind if I'll be coming the next few months for a planned vacation by her crew. My wife got cross immediately. I smiled and told her I'll discuss that with my wife, who was now staring at her like a punching bag.
For your sisters I think they've not really gotten involved with some kinda social engagements. Attend a music class, meet people. Create a visible lifestyle and someone who loves it will connect with that personality. Unfortunately this may take some time.
Most folks who live overseas live a boring life. You gotta vibe. The environment there is so designed that you can create your reality, all be it with some extra efforts and money.
Na so e be.

ShaqFu:
well this might be because approaching them to go out on a date might be miscontrued as harassment or sexual harassment etc...

IyaTola:

Thomasankara:
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optimusprime2:
When I see you name Tidjane Thiam (Who is even an old man), then I already know you lack that prime confidence (which is the essential thing in the art of gaming).

I stand at 6'2 and I am confident the gbola that I carry cannot be replicated in any race . I have lived in 11 different countries (Including the America's) and sir, the ladies have always, I repeat "A-L-W-A-Y-S" rushed me... different types, I even had a menu, if I wanted blondes, brunettes, red heads, skinny, mini, thick, you name them. Infact when I was in Turkey (that women are more conservative) I still ran extreme game.

The good thing I love about the dating scene outside Nigeria is the fact that, you don't need as much money or riches to run game, just the essentials are ok, but you need to have your confidence in tonnes and you need to know how to use the "black" clout to your advantage, if you don't, then you'd probably endup writing about white privilege in picking up women yada yada yada... Oga I did point N kill, top specifications, location and language was not a barrier.

Infact in Japan, running game was the easiest because the ladies are naturally timid and reserved so your confidence and kindness goes a super long way until when you shift pant. Infact I was like a celebrity that time, because they barely saw black people in Japan.

In Europe I let them know the stereotype about African gbola is true, From France to Czech Republic to Scandinavian regions, I was a legend, I shifted wombs for free during winters due to popular demand.

In the US sir chai... mheeeeen Infact lemme stop here because although I have hung my boots, I never barb my dada.

So oga, I don't know what you are talking about. If you are the calm one, just say it, Don't generalise all brothers sir, because some of us have conquered.