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Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by SultanOfAbia(op):
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by gaby(m): 4:05pm On May 26, 2023
Then, don't travel.

You did nothing wrong.
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Karleb(m): 4:06pm On May 26, 2023
Because she knows you will regret it in the future.

You are like that lady that chose a polytechnic over a university. Give it time, the regret will hit ya.
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by taylor89(m): 4:07pm On May 26, 2023
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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by SultanOfAbia(op): 4:11pm On May 26, 2023
Karleb:
Because she knows you will regret it in the future.

You are like that lady that chose a polytechnic over a university. Give it time, the regret will hit ya.
undecided undecided
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Kimiso(m): 4:12pm On May 26, 2023
Karleb:
Because she knows you will regret it in the future.

You are like that lady that chose a polytechnic over a university. Give it time, the regret will hit ya.
how did the story goes thus
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Kimiso(m): 4:13pm On May 26, 2023
You have everything it requires to live over there,trust me bro try it and you shall see the difference,vice versa me
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by phorget(m): 4:16pm On May 26, 2023
SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?
Can your mum adopt me so as to replace yourself? Help me to ask her please.
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Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by SultanOfAbia(op): 4:24pm On May 26, 2023
Kimiso:
You have everything it requires to live over there,trust me bro try it and you shall see the difference,vice versa me
Honestly, I rather make it big in Nigeria
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Sleekcode:
You're destined to be somehow useless.

It's not your fault you willingly surrendered to poverty
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Kimiso(m): 4:35pm On May 26, 2023
SultanOfAbia:
Honestly, I rather make it big in Nigeria
why are you so zealous about Nigeria
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Sonnobax15(m): 4:35pm On May 26, 2023
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Bro,lemme be honest with you,no Nigerian who travelled abroad hates Nigeria but the quest to japa in order to make a better future became an option when they had the opportunity to.....The truth must be told,and the truth is that your mom sincerely loves you..... No doubt about that....
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Offpointng: 4:50pm On May 26, 2023
You've done nothing bad brother man, it simply means you're destined to make it here. Bro just align with your instinct, trust me.
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by thesicilian: 4:51pm On May 26, 2023
You can go visit them once in a while. But if you feel more comfortable in Nigeria, then you shouldn't let their perceptions affect you that much.
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by SultanOfAbia(op): 5:00pm On May 26, 2023
Offpointng:
You've done nothing bad brother man, it simply means you're destined to make it here. Bro just align with your instinct, trust me.
Thanks I really believe I'm destined to make it big in Nigeria.
Japa is not for everybody
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Nobody: 5:12pm On May 26, 2023
Just go if you don't like it come back...
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by GodWrites:
SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?
You just want to continue taking mkpurumiri with your yeye friends in uncompleted buildings.

You will surely regret this decision years from now, when your son will ask you what you did with your youth.

If you have sense, at least go and spend 6 months then come back.

Travel and experience other cultures.
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by marlow1962(m): 6:15pm On May 26, 2023
GodWrites:
You just want to continue taking mkpurumiri with your yeye friends in uncompleted buildings.

You will surely regret this decision years from now, when your son will ask you what you did with your youth.
He stayed connected with his father's land during his youth.
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by GodWrites: 6:18pm On May 26, 2023
marlow1962:
He stayed connected with his father's land during his youth.
He should kontinue
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by sulakishop(m): 6:30pm On May 26, 2023
I suspect your village people
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by quisera(m): 6:40pm On May 26, 2023
You're not wrong my brother, you're just stupid
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by frozen70(f): 6:46pm On May 26, 2023
SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?
If suffering never tire you, stay and keep hoping till you come to your right mind

Its your life but don't start regretting when you are tired of staying behind while others are moving ahead
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by marlow1962(m): 6:52pm On May 26, 2023
GodWrites:
He should kontinue
Lol
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Niwdog(m): 7:30pm On May 26, 2023
Why you go travel...per say your people wey Dey abroad still they send you change, you come use am they flex Nigeria, my brother the truth be say you ant doing nothing in Nigeria cause if you are..then your family won't pester you to live
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by RTID: 7:49pm On May 26, 2023
Imagination wan injure this one
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by ednut1(m):
Reduce the Igbo. probably never been to the embassy before. see mouth like i was given
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by atobs4real(m): 8:07pm On May 26, 2023
No
because you may be one of the Refugees
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by kknaija001: 8:07pm On May 26, 2023
No
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Nahunger(m): 8:08pm On May 26, 2023
UK na hype
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by owiko(m): 8:08pm On May 26, 2023
Just do what brings you lasting peace. At the end of the day, it is your life and yours alone to live. Welcome to nairaland where nobody is a common somebody..
Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Iamajala: 8:08pm On May 26, 2023
When did UK start conducting interview?
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