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Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:26am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Prettygirl200:Ok. |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:33am On Jun 09, 2023 |
pryme:I am someone who doesn't care about status, money comes and goes and the importance people put on material possession is too much, yes I work hard to earn a better life for myself and my family, this is the reason why the only thing I dedicate most of my time to is hustling, that is why I have no friends or social life, and I'm not someone who is into so much socializing, so that circle thing isn't me, I just want purpose, someone that'd be my friend, confidant, wife in all, and her personality should compliment mine, but I can't seem to find anyone, that is the problem with me, I don't think this is too much to ask, someone intelligent, interesting, thoughtful, good looking, you mustn't be Beyonce just have good features, I'm not picky and I don't judge people by status or how popular you are, just be on same level with me and be loyal, cuz I don't cheat, cheating is a chore to me. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:36am On Jun 09, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Lol, I'll not share my pic here because I value privacy, but is it by being goodlooking? If you're only interested in someone because of his looks that relationship won't last, na looks you chop? I'm not ugly though, just average. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Prettygirl200(f): 9:47am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Lexzeey:is it that u don't want to reply the mail I sent to you or u actually posted this for cruise? Let me know so I can just forget it. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:55am On Jun 09, 2023 |
pansophist:I get bored easily if someone isn't exposed or intelligent, we can't come and be saying have you eaten everyday, it's so boring, someone that has something to say about any topic, even if she doesn't know the topic very well she can have a meaningful conversation instead of ok, ya, tnx, pls, yap. |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:55am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Prettygirl200:I replied |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:14am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Lexzeey: You have to pleasing to my eyes at least. If you claim to be average, then I don’t know what may be wrong. A lady sent you a mail already from this thread, I suppose. You both can take it up from there. Wishing you the very best. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Nobody: 10:20am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Lexzeey: For me I think you're still young because I'm 34 years old although I am very comfortable but not yet married. I will advise that you shouldn't feel desperate, just relax you're a man. The older we get the better we become not women who gets desperate after 27 years old looking for a man to marry. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Nobody: 10:25am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Lexzeey:Shine ur eyes oo that girl na those types when dey date like 5-6 guys at the same time. Don't say u weren't warned. U can go through her old posts and topics if ur new here. Good luck 🤞 6 Likes |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Ade1177: 10:50am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Lexzeey: My only advice is don't be desperate and beg a lady to marry you Or show her you love her too much and all you want is marriage You will regret it Wait even if it takes another 5YRS to find a lady that sees you as a small god and adores you And when she begs you to settle down consider it if you can tolerate her when you no longer love her Marriage is not what it looks like when you are single looking at it from outside Remember your mind is different from a ladies mind We don't think the same Only married men who married a lady that just agreed to marry out of pressure will advice you better As a man At 40 you are still young 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 11:38am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Ade1177:Thanks for the advice, I am aware of all that, and I'm aware that desperate people make big mistakes, I'd not get married to someone that doesn't feel the same about me though, I have seen how disastrous that could be on the long run. |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by pryme(m): 11:38am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Lexzeey: You may think what are you are looking for is not too much, but when you realize that this world is a fuucked up place, and every body is trying hard to escape hardship and poverty, you will soon realize what you are looking for is actually rare. And in finding what is rare requires due diligence and patience. 8 Likes |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 11:39am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Runnerzz:Lol for real? |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 11:40am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Opurumiri:They won't even reply dms, making me think something is wrong with me, I don give up on that sha, life goes on. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 11:41am On Jun 09, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Yea, I'm hoping it ends well too, thanks 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Geovanni412(m): 12:07pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Lexzeey: My father told me this: Love is a misunderstanding between two fools When it comes to relationships, know when to sound logical and when to ignore BS and just flow There is a reason 'mumu' boys get lots of girls - they are free spirited. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 12:11pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Geovanni412:So you're endorsing the irresponsible and careless personality? The world has gone to sh!t. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 12:13pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
pryme:So make do with anything you see? You do realize it's not a relationship I want? It's something permanent, for life, wouldn't want to be stuck with misery forever na, marry headache then stay with her forever, I'd rather remain single. |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Geovanni412(m): 12:20pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Lexzeey: Try and relax a bit Even the most logical women say the most crazy stuff when they get emotional Imagine putting up a house worth 100m naira as collateral for your wife to go on pilgrimage to Israel And the only message your wife tells the kids is that their father is the one who caused the stress that made her get breast cancer I loved my late mum and she was quite a brilliant lawyer but does that sound logical to you, as a man? With women, do your best but always give them the road to leave if they want... They will stay if they know you are willing to let them go They will go if they know you will do anything to make them stay If you are looking for a partner that will be logical 90% of the time, you might as well go and get an intimacy gadget or live on an Island. 11 Likes |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by AfahaAbia(m): 12:24pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Opurumiri: |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by udede(m): 12:35pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
pansophist:you said it all |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by pryme(m): 1:02pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Lexzeey: Thats the question you should be asking yourself, I for one will rather die single than marry a headache, regardless of what ever peer pressure. Its losers thats do things just because everyone is doing it. But what if you dont find the kind of woman that will give you peace and make you a better person? will you settle for less? Know this, it goes both ways, just as you want a woman that has certain qualities, DO YOU HAVE THE QUALITIES THAT WILL KEEP SUCH A WOMAN? This part is what alot of people overlook. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 1:02pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Geovanni412:At the peak of my desperate attempt to find something meaningful with a girl I have even considered shallow girls who obsess over iphone and human hair, that was me back then, I still very much want to settle down but I'm not going to settle for less just because I want something meaningful anymore, you see all the playboy lifestyle? I can live that life comfortably without stress, once there's money there's always a hookup girl you can lay with every night, but after the sex and hookup, she leaves and the emptiness creeps in, you slept with a stranger you know nothing about, I know how cheap girls are, but what I am looking for is something meaningful and I know such girls are rare, but marriage is a lifetime commitment, I can't be with anything I see just because she's female and I want something serious. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Jayrockk: 1:04pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
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Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by pryme(m): 1:12pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Jayrockk: Who ever created this post does not know what women are capable of to get the top 10% of men. The wrong ones ALWAYS waltz in, it takes a wise man to push them out. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 1:17pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
pryme:I do have the qualities, most girls in Thier 20s feel there's alot of time for them and they cheat and date multiple guys at once, this is something I am very much aware of and dread, inasmuch as I want to get married before 30, it doesn't mean I am doing it for peer pressure or copying someone, it's not a do or die affair too, you can go if you want to, but at this stage in my life any relationship I enter would be something serious and long term because this is what I need in my life rn, hope you grab, it's not a sense of duty, pressure or obligation that is pushing me, it's the will to have something meaningful with someone and we will grow together and understand each other before making any commitment. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by pryme(m): 1:23pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Lexzeey: then know this, its normal to not easily find your kind of woman, cos the world is filled with terrible human beings. Just know it may take time. Also... She is out there. Good luck. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 1:29pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
pryme:thanks |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Hustle more , it's not enough. Ladies literally flock around men that hustle. Well according Nl men sha. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Geovanni412(m): 1:38pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Lexzeey: Find gees wey dey your area and relax Which side for naija u dey? |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 1:51pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Geovanni412:abj |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 1:53pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Persephone1:Then they'll like u because you have money, when money no dey again they'll japa, If it's about money I'll only looking for sex partner not someone to get married to, I can't marry someone who is drawn to my money, I rather die single please. 1 Like |
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