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In a controversial discussion, a young lady named Bamisaye says after getting married to her boyfriend, she won't get pregnant until he earns above 200K.

How practical is this in Nigeria considering the fact that most people today earn less than 100K?

Please watch and share your thoughts.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t66DkQl0j50

How much is she earning herself?

You have no reason to get married to him if he earn less than 200,000, you're liability to him already

How much is her father and entire family members earning?

Just imagine.
What stops you from earning that same amount?

Girls, make una dey think mbok!
What if the man dies few months after earning that amount, will she abort the pregnancy? Useme mkpo!

Lol. Cheap. Entry level is 250 - 400k monthly. The problem is, she isn't attractive enough to command such from a man.

And when he earns 200k your body will have been too old to carry the pregnancy, then he'll start spending all his savings on looking for surrogate mother.

Ronu

Well.... She's right.


Girls with such mentality often drive men into working hard and dumping them.

By then he would have gotten someone else pregnant

To be honest, anyone trying to father a child with a salary of less than 250k monthly should be ready to be running all his life. Don’t talk down any lady giving description to her life on this. The things is I can’t marry anyone who will think it’s only me the husband to fetch all the needs for a baby we had together. Hence there is a need for one to think. There is more to life than making babies

No need getting married to him in the first place. Girls like her are from poor homes whose families can barely feed but they come online to form porche.


That's to say she got married to him outta her selfish interest because women take marriage as top priority......A real niggga won't even bother himself, na to give one serious babe belle outside sure pass and leave aunty till menopause hit her.

Someone like me won't even tell her am earning 200k or more, we go dey play the game together.

Ologundudu2020:
To be honest, anyone trying to father a child with a salary of less than 250k monthly should be ready to be running all his life. Don’t talk down any lady giving description to her life on this. The things is I can marry anyone who will think it’s only me the husband to fetch all the needs for a baby we had together. Hence there is a need for one to think. There is more to life than making babies

If the minimum of 250k is what is needed to run a family and the guy is earning 150k then he's done his part. The lady should earn the remaining 100k

She is not all wrong. So many poor families everywhere. But if some niggars would hustle hard and keep this bitches at bay, we can get things aright.

Tallesty1:
If the minimum of 250k is what is needed to run a family and the guy is earning 150k then he's done his part. The lady should earn the remaining 100k

Yes and if the lady can’t afford the other part. No marriage or no kid till they certain

With the kind of mentality, girls of today have,it takes only the Grace of God for a man to find a wife worthy woman for marriage.
Many of these stupid girls setting financial prerequisite for marriage, come from families that have wallowed in poverty so long,that they will do anything to get rich.
Their entitlement mentality is out of this world.

She's 💯 right, it's just common sense for a man to earn above 200k in this present Nigeria.

Onyiiobi7735:
With the kind of mentality, girls of today have,it takes only the Grace of God for a man to find a wife worthy woman for marriage.
Many of these stupid girls setting financial prerequisite for marriage, come from families that have wallowed in poverty so long,that they will do anything to get rich.
Their entitlement mentality is out of this world.

All these poverty mentality males sef

So because they come from families of poverty, means they should keep wallowing in poverty, they should not set standards for themselves and whoever they want to marry abi? A worthy woman for marriage is the one that loves poverty right?

Is it not men that are doing yahoo, kidnapping, anything evil to get rich? Who do am pass una? But when it comes to women saying what they want all of you will start foaming in the mouth as if we beat you, see how all of you above came out with guns blazing on what doesnt affect you, she said her preference, tell your sisters and daughters to embrace poverty no one cares.

Ologundudu2020:
To be honest, anyone trying to father a child with a salary of less than 250k monthly should be ready to be running all his life. Don’t talk down any lady giving description to her life on this. The things is I can’t marry anyone who will think it’s only me the husband to fetch all the needs for a baby we had together. Hence there is a need for one to think. There is more to life than making babies

so 250k can’t take care of a family?

Na so u go dey form online n many of u no even make 100k per month

Jovialjune1:
All these poverty mentality males sef

So because they come from families of poverty, means they should keep wallowing in poverty, they should not set standards for themselves and whoever they want to marry abi? A worthy woman for marriage is the one that loves poverty right?

Is it not men that are doing yahoo, kidnapping, anything evil to get rich? Who do am pass una? But when it comes to women saying what they want all of you will start foaming in the mouth as if we beat you, see how all of you above came out with guns blazing on what doesnt affect you, she said her preference, tell your sisters and daughters to embrace poverty no one cares.

Worthy people sort out their salvation.

Your background should even be a motivation to become successful, work it out and stop hoping others would do it for you. Hope in itself isn't certainty.

BATified2023:
so 250k can’t take care of a family?

Na so u go dey form online n many of u no even make 100k per month

Bro Bleep am not in ur league. 250k can’t even feed my dogs

ExudeLoveToAll:
Worthy people sort out their salvation.

Your background should even be a motivation to become successful, work it out and stop hoping others would do it for you. Hope in itself isn't certainty.

Who said people shouldn't sort out their own salvation or aim to be successful?

For those wanting marriage, how exactly is it wrong for them to state out their preference in men or wanting successful men? How does wanting a successful husband equate to hoping others do it for them?

Ologundudu2020:
Bro Bleep am not in ur league. 250k can’t even feed my dogs

Everyone is rich in nairaland

Ologundudu2020:
Bro Bleep am not in ur league. 250k can’t even feed my dogs

all these online dangote self


I won’t b surprised if u don’t have 30k in your account

BATified2023:
all these online dangote self


I won’t b surprised if u don’t have 30k in your account

Shatap and look for a job

#sorrynovex

Jovialjune1:
All these poverty mentality males sef

So because they come from families of poverty, means they should keep wallowing in poverty, they should not set standards for themselves and whoever they want to marry abi? A worthy woman for marriage is the one that loves poverty right?

Is it not men that are doing yahoo, kidnapping, anything evil to get rich? Who do am pass una? But when it comes to women saying what they want all of you will start foaming in the mouth as if we beat you, see how all of you above came out with guns blazing on what doesnt affect you, she said her preference, tell your sisters and daughters to embrace poverty no one cares.

Offpoint

SHINJA:
Everyone is rich in nairaland

no mind d mugu

Online everyone is a billionaire including a nairalander here who promised to give person 1 million only for people to burst him on the thread he created few days before that time saying he ate his beans with cockroaches inside

BATified2023:
no mind d mugu

Online everyone is a billionaire including a nairalander here who promised to give person 1 million only for people to burst him on the thread he created few days before that time saying he ate his beans with cockroaches inside

Shatap

SHINJA:
Offpoint

Comprehension failed you.

Jovialjune1:
Comprehension failed you.

Okay keep crying

BATified2023:
no mind d mugu

Online everyone is a billionaire including a nairalander here who promised to give person 1 million only for people to burst him on the thread he created few days before that time saying he ate his beans with cockroaches inside

Lols

SHINJA:
Okay keep crying

Daft.

150k can disappear over house rent alone, and that's for a small house in a remote area.

She made the right choice.