dauntless15:

You wish.

I'm not like you who throw tantrums and use curse words like a woman on her period. I keep things civil, but if you threaten me, I'll do the same double dose. I don't let things slide.

CartelKenneth:




That one concerns them
Do you want to be married with 50k?
Try it Na and see how SWEET life is

Just saying the bitter truth.
Are you saying that poor men do not ,should not or will not marry?

I was earning 300K + when I got married about 5 years ago.
My hubby earned a little higher.

pansophist:


You all most of you are so horrible that there is nothing more to gain from you aside money. I can opt for a struggling ukrainian man but not Nigeria men.

@pansophist
That was an oversight. Thanks for bringing it to my notice.

Corrected

spiceadole:


Just saying the bitter truth.
Are you saying that poor men do not ,should not or will not marry?

the question is that why should a poor man be thinking of marriage?
Why should that be his priority rather than becoming rich?

UyaiIncomparabl:


You wish.

I'm not like you who throw tantrums and use curse words like a woman on her period. I keep things civil, but if you threaten me, I'll do the same double dose. I don't let things slide.

E concern you naw.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Dominique, Mynd44, Seun, Farano, Obinoscopy, Royalroy, this is not supposed to be happening. Or is it? 😫

He started this first. I opine that you give him a 3 months ban for starters. We need sane minds on this forum.

Everyone can clearly see you're the aggressor here, your shenanigans mean nothing, if you like quote God, I don't sleep on nairaland like you do nor do my life depend on nairaland, you're the one who needs to be locked up in whatever cell your small mind can imagine, you'll also get a ban if the mods aren't biased, na you attack me out of all the comments on this thread, you're a bully, trying so hard to appear innocent, shey the mods can read na, someone your age shouldn't be acting like this, common sense ain't common afterall.

UyaiIncomparabl:


You wish.

I'm not like you who throw tantrums and use curse words like a woman on her period. I keep things civil, but if you threaten me, I'll do the same double dose. I don't let things slide.

Thank God you're describing yourself, I don't even know if pigs get Thier period, otondo.

hybridblood07:
That's Kaduna oh. I attended NMS

My brother.

Aklee4994:
I Dey adjust bruh 😎 I want to start saving 20k monthly starting from this month.

That's better.

CuriousStudent:
the question is that why should a poor man be thinking of marriage?
Why should that be his priority rather than becoming rich?

Everybody will not be rich.

Some people will be poor now,later comfortable/rich
Others will remain poor forever.
Such is the reality of life

spiceadole:


Everybody will not be rich.

Some people will be poor now,later comfortable/rich
Others will remain poor forever.
Such is the reality of life

Exactly. But the person that will marry this struggling guys doesn't have to be me or females in my life I hold dearly

How far na

Rinoxy:

My brother.

CuriousStudent:


Exactly. But the person that will marry this struggling guys doesn't have to be me or females in my life I hold dearly

Definitely...there are women who still marry and will marry them.
They are usually also struggling and even in worse circumstances..so they can manage

The ones when dey marry without jobs nko.... omo who wan marry make e marry abeg

Rinoxy:

Na this era u wan carry babe go farm? Even village girls no go reason am with u.

It's not about going to farm but planting some crops on a small scale. For garden you can plant bitter leaf, scent leaf, fluted pumpkin etc. You can grow fruits like oranges, paw paw etc. It doesn't need much work. Crops like cassava in small quantity, cocoyam etc.

Instead of buying everything in the market, you can take those from your garden.

I hope you understand.

zedegit:


It's not about going to farm but planting some crops on a small scale. For garden you can plant bitter leaf, scent leaf, fluted pumpkin etc. You can grow fruits like oranges, paw paw etc. It doesn't need much work. Crops like cassava in small quantity, cocoyam etc.

Instead of buying everything in the market, you can take those from your garden.

I hope you understand.

That makes sense o!

hybridblood07:
How far na

I gallant jare. And you?

I dey oh. Are you an Ex Boy??

Rinoxy:

I gallant jare. And you?

hybridblood07:
I dey oh. Are you an Ex Boy??

Naaa, me na correct civilian from the get go.

Nice one. We are all one bro

Rinoxy:

Naaa, me na correct civilian from the get go.

hybridblood07:
Nice one. We are all one bro

Yes o! How KD this evening at your ends?

Boss, i dey lag oh. Na Lag i dey run my hustle

Rinoxy:

Yes o! How KD this evening at your ends?

CuriousStudent:
......

Whew.

I have heard you, just that, you have to be easy with Nigerian men. I mean, if a man generalizes all Nigerian women including you to be something you are not, it would be unfair to you.

And you satisfied my inquisition, that you will support a man that genuinely treated you better. Thats good. This is what I am after since lots of women understand it as ´´for better for stay, for worse for go´´.

Biola67:

How bike guys take be biggest boy. Go buy Bajaj na . Make you stay junction. Abi you no wan be biggest boy??

you deh think at all.. say work get money mean sah everybody must do am…? Say work get money na everyone of us fit take the risk.. but I can bet you that bikers cash as much as 7k upward on daily basis.. and guys in lag will tell you they make 15k per day or more .. make you deh there deh play

pansophist:



I have heard you, just that, you have to be easy with Nigerian men. I mean, if a man generalizes all Nigerian women including you to be something you are not, it would be unfair to you.

I did re-read my post to you the umpteenth time and I struggle to find how my post wrongly generalized Nigeria men.

Oh,okay. The comparison with Ukrainian men,yes?

I have always known you to advocate for truth,even it the truth kills them. So I am surprised a rightful comparison with Ukrainian men will seem unfair or what you have deemed it to be

hybridblood07:
Boss, i dey lag oh. Na Lag i dey run my hustle

Omo, nice one there. Na KD me dey o! Work and all.

olamilarks:
All I see on this post is:
Government failure to provide some welfare (Child support+Healthcare).

The husband man's failure to plan for an upcoming event (heck he had 9months to plan for all contingencies)

Societal pressures (Aso Ebi and owambe wahalas of a show offy Nation)

Heck, if I had the time I'd rather blend peanut butter and other farm fresh meals for my baby than expose them to the hazards of mass produced factory made foods (Look up Good Food, John McKenna) Obesity is an unafrican thing but Naija kids fed on those store bought diets have this near obese look, drive thru affluent neighbourhoods and look at the BMI of their kids.


And a majority of us don't earn 700k per month and we manage to raise our families on our meagre paychecks with bits of black taxes here and there!


Modified:
I don press "submit" before I remember say here Na nairaland not Reddit and I'll be dragged like Tiger gen wire, but it's all good.

Your submission makes so much sense bro.

spiceadole:


Just saying the bitter truth.
Are you saying that poor men do not ,should not or will not marry?

I was earning 300K + when I got married about 5 years ago.
My hubby earned a little higher.

your own situation is even very good. Some people get married with less than 15 K salary per month.
. Can you do that be honest?

Rinoxy:

If you're a right thinking man and you're quick to insult another man in respect to finance, then you've never heard of 'tides&turns' in life. Be careful.

Do you know how much cerelac is now?
the other day I went shopping and I saw it my head nearly exploded

CuriousStudent:

I did re-read my post to you the umpteenth time and I struggle to find how my post wrongly generalized Nigeria men.

You wrote this below in your first response to me.

You all are so horrible that there is nothing more to gain from you aside money. I can opt for a struggling ukrainian man but not Nigeria men.

If the above is not a generalization, what is it?

CartelKenneth:



your own situation is even very good. Some people get married with less than 15 K salary per month.
. Can you do that be honest?

Depends on social class.
15k salary is not my social class.
The least salary I earned :120k and that was during my NYSC.