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Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by olamilarks(m): 9:13am On Jun 20, 2023 |
CuriousStudent:All I see on this post is: Government failure to provide some welfare (Child support+Healthcare). The husband man's failure to plan for an upcoming event (heck he had 9months to plan for all contingencies) Societal pressures (Aso Ebi and owambe wahalas of a show offy Nation) Heck, if I had the time I'd rather blend peanut butter and other farm fresh meals for my baby than expose them to the hazards of mass produced factory made foods (Look up Good Food, John McKenna) Obesity is an unafrican thing but Naija kids fed on those store bought diets have this near obese look, drive thru affluent neighbourhoods and look at the BMI of their kids. And a majority of us don't earn 700k per month and we manage to raise our families on our meagre paychecks with bits of black taxes here and there! Modified: I don press "submit" before I remember say here Na nairaland not Reddit and I'll be dragged like Tiger gen wire, but it's all good. |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by Bakrabas: 9:14am On Jun 20, 2023 |
maasoap: Bike doesn't usually develop fault like that except tire. And there's no fault a bike can develop that will stop you to fix within a short period of time. Every business comes with it season, even the common 7days rain sometimes comes with light dropping or shower that doesn't stop people to move around. As regard the health is applicable to everyone, even the doctors can't escape it. No matter how life is we'll still have something to thank God, May God bless our legit struggles |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by chymdyx(m): 9:14am On Jun 20, 2023 |
pansophist: sir.. i wish you'd expand more on this. This is very deep. The reason for marriage is not happiness. so true.. yet enigmatic. pls expand a bit more. |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by umarfantami(m): 9:19am On Jun 20, 2023 |
pansophist:AH😄 |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by dauntless15(m): 9:23am On Jun 20, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:I am a youngling yes, I have time on my side, you what have you done with yours, old pig, just gallivanting all around and looking for short fame and getting stupider, if there's a word like that, I won't help you on you attention seeking obsession, I no know wetin send me come nairaland, now this old pig won't leave me alone. |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:29am On Jun 20, 2023 |
dauntless15: Lol. You went to search my picture to post on NL for what na? At least, I'm not ugly. Anyways, amidst the fun, you have breached the privacy here, so I'll call to have you banned. You should have done something better than this. You thought you could provoke me, but I'm so chilled and enjoying the ride. |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by pansophist(m): 9:31am On Jun 20, 2023 |
chymdyx: Which part specifically do you want an explanation? |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by dauntless15(m): 9:33am On Jun 20, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:yea chilled, so chilled you won't let me be, you're ugly and fat, with your jumbled leg make nobody decieve you |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:34am On Jun 20, 2023 |
dauntless15: LMAO. Can we see what you look like and leave my jumbled legs alone? If this isn't frustration and bitterness, what else could it be? |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by dauntless15(m): 9:35am On Jun 20, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Whatever it is IDC lemme alone. |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:37am On Jun 20, 2023 |
dauntless15: LOL. Yeah, right. You are the joker here. What else have you got? 😩 |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by dauntless15(m): 9:39am On Jun 20, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:jokes |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:39am On Jun 20, 2023 |
dauntless15: Leave you alone? No way. You started this. Let's end it. I'm giving you time pending when you'll be banned. So, let's have fun for the time being. |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by Acidosis(m): 9:41am On Jun 20, 2023 |
Your current minimum salary doesn't matter. In 2019/2020, I earned x amount/month. Today, I earn 5x the x amount. I fit wake up 5 years later and see my earning go the other way (well, I hope it doesn't). Expect and promise nothing as far as your financial life is concerned. Just do your best, put in the work, and have an understanding partner by your side (the most important). You're not God. Technology and market forces can destroy that career and the salary you think you have within 2 years. So what do you do? Divorce or adjust? Pay more attention to values. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by Rinoxy: 9:45am On Jun 20, 2023 |
Fmghewzy:Me I have o, e remain you. |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by pansophist(m): 9:45am On Jun 20, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: Why draw the line at 700k? I mean, I personally think any person that advises a woman to marry a man that earns less than 10M naira a month is evil. I pray every woman gets married to a man that can provide the needs of her widest dreams. BUT....... I also hope that if life's unfortunate circumstances happen, divorce will not be the automatic consequence. Hence in my first comment on this thread, I emphasize the need to adhere to the ´´for better for worse pledge´´. This area is where women have a problem, and that in itself makes them ineligible for marriage. Millions of Ukrainian millionaires, pregnant women, etc are now a refugee in other countries, with zero income, what is your advice to the women of these men now that life's unfortunate circumstances are knocking on their door? Please answer this question, let me understand your point exactly. Also, you said that 90% of Nigerians don't have 500k in their account, so given this scenario, except for polygamy, where exactly will all the Nigerian women see men earning 700k and above men to marry? And if they catch a high-earning guy to marry them, what should these women do if something happens that affects the family income? Can you also explain to me your understanding of the ´´for better for worse pledge´´? So many questions, but please answer them. Because I am honestly shocked at how what I wrote seems to infuriate some folks here. Please clarify for me and if I am wrong, I will change my view, I promise. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by dauntless15(m): 9:50am On Jun 20, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:pending when I'll be banned, you should expect yours too then, how did I start it, na your buzzy body carry you come my post. |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by Nobody: 9:51am On Jun 20, 2023 |
olamilarks:There is a reason I am responding to you: your mature response devoid of diatribes and insults. It is a virtue,I commend you. All you stated was excuses for men failure. Society,bad governance,this and that,but not themselves. Wheras women take the consequences and blames for their actions. When women fail(high body count,prostitution,abortions,single motherhood, promiscuity,unmarried in their 30s, exposure of their nudes), you people trumpet that they are responsible for their actions. The mantra is repeated while gloating at women travails . Nobody blames the society this women grow up in,nobody blames hookup on the current societal decay,they blame women. So why can't we blame men instead of society or economic and the rest? If you tell women to take accountability for their failures(without attributing their failures to society or economy) then men should take accountability for their failures without blaming society and economy. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by hybridblood07(m): 9:53am On Jun 20, 2023 |
That's Kaduna oh. I attended NMS Rinoxy: |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by pansophist(m): 9:58am On Jun 20, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: By fighters, I am referring to two individuals with necessary virtues. It has nothing to do with physical strength, although physical strength can be a feature. Specifically, I am referring to the virtues needed to thrive in life such as integrity, hardworking, humility, God-fearing, responsible, wisdom, etc. By soft-life girls, I am referring to ladies that see marriage as a place to enjoy, to live out their wildest materialistic dreams, at the expense of their husbands. For example in the West, women initiate at least 80% of divorces, and the reasons are mostly financially related. Girls that when things get hard, chicken out. They can't stand adversity no matter how legit and unfortunate (Imagine divorcing your husband because he can't earn much because he became sick). By soft-life girls, I am not referring to women that love the good life. Of course not. I personally think every man should give his family a good life. I am referring to the girls that soft-life is the foundation of their marriage. Soft life should be a feature, not the foundation because life in itself is suffering. Even if a lady gets married to Dangote, she will only solve her material problem, but the existential one remains. I will give an example. There are billionaires that are blind, suffering from an incurable sickness, or physically incapacitated. Will a soft-life advocate still stay and push the sick man around? This is why I said marriage is for two fighters. It is always good to ask me to clarify my stance and not misinterpret and build a false opinion on what I didn't mean. Having said that, every woman deserves a soft life, but a soft life woman does not deserve a marriage. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by Aklee4994(m): 10:01am On Jun 20, 2023 |
Rinoxy:I Dey adjust bruh 😎 I want to start saving 20k monthly starting from this month. |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by Emeka71(m): 10:04am On Jun 20, 2023 |
lilvicky68:No bet9ja. |
Re: What Is The Minimum You Should Earn In A Month To Consider Marriage by maasoap(m): 10:05am On Jun 20, 2023 |
Rinoxy:Accept what? That's because you don't where my transport business started and how many okada riders I relate with. |
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