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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by polite2(m): 3:45pm On Jun 30, 2023
100 times more

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by TruthHurts100: 3:47pm On Jun 30, 2023
Never!

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by omooba969(m): 3:47pm On Jun 30, 2023
Lol 😂 Married people are in trouble. grin

Let the married people breathe !

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by tboydbrave(m): 3:47pm On Jun 30, 2023
No,wouldn't touch her with a long spoon sef

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by PDJT: 3:49pm On Jun 30, 2023
Capernum:
No. Simply put. She doesn't believe in my dreams and aspirations and she doesn't support it one bit.

-Be a man, go and find yourself a supportive wife. You only have ONE life to live, and when it's time to exit you will exit alone too.

-I tell young men; if you're an armed-robber it's a total waste of time marrying a woman who doesn't support armed-robbery.

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Alvin212(m): 3:49pm On Jun 30, 2023
bukatyne:


You are welcome 😊


Oh yeah

My sweet virgin girl


Come and pour your panties water all over my body

I like the smell of your panties water
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by omooba969(m): 3:49pm On Jun 30, 2023
tboydbrave:
No,wouldn't touch her with a long spoon sef

Wahala 😂 Mama Chinedu must not see this...lol 🤣
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by maasoap(m): 3:49pm On Jun 30, 2023
If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse?
I saw this question on Facebook and I was dumbfounded by the replies.

Over to Nairalanders, let's also have your view on this

I know nothing new about her after 12 years of marriage. Married her a virgin, very supportive too. And we're conquering

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by CJStarz: 3:50pm On Jun 30, 2023
My sister, simple yes or no, U just dey blow grammar. No ask me my own o😂😂

wunmi590:


We all have our flaws and marriage is not meant for two better people, you are meant to marry and correct and make each other better...

Even twins who are too bond have their differences...

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Rebelutionary: 3:50pm On Jun 30, 2023
Again and again without batting an eyelid abeg! If I travel back in time na she I go still look for abeg! Ah this woman is a blessing to me!

P.S: I think this thread is testament to the fact that there are working and happy marriages not all the gloom nd doom stories about marriages that only seem to abound out there!

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by nnewsnjobs: 3:51pm On Jun 30, 2023
Yes.
I am lucky to have her as my wife. We have achieved a lot together with her support within 11years.

But if this question was in my first one to two years on marriage, I would have answered no.

My advice to younger folks in here, no perfect marriage, marriage is not a bed of roses, always know that the first three years of marriage is not always easy.

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by PHIPEX(m): 3:51pm On Jun 30, 2023
Again and again, and earlier than I did

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by maasoap(m): 3:51pm On Jun 30, 2023
Capernum:
No. Simply put. She doesn't believe in my dreams and aspirations and she doesn't support it one bit.

That's not good at all
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Nobody: 3:51pm On Jun 30, 2023
Nairalander248:


U dey craze ooh grin while some are regreting not marrying early, you are regreting marrying early

I no com get bachelor life na. Lots of my friends get bachelor life. Lots

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by koladebrainiac(m): 3:52pm On Jun 30, 2023
no

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Alvin212(m): 3:52pm On Jun 30, 2023
shabashola:
Ha! God forbid.


We all know that your husband is dead Dicckkk looser


I will give you
your first BBC experience

One night with me
Will for sure be the sweetest sexxx you ever had
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by warriking(m): 3:52pm On Jun 30, 2023
I won't have married her I swear. Stupid mistake I've ever made in my life. Reasons best known to me undecided undecided

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by EriMma1: 3:53pm On Jun 30, 2023
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by occfx: 3:53pm On Jun 30, 2023
talented321:
Manchi, marriage sweet, no dey reason all this nonsense you see or read online.

Most people don't know. I will marry her 10x but would treat her differently/better

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by ItisWell22(f): 3:54pm On Jun 30, 2023
Skyview01:


I no com get bachelor life na. Lots of my friends get bachelor life. Lots

You don’t know what God has done for you… 🥹

warriking:
I won't have married her I swear. Stupid mistake I've ever made in my life. Reasons best known to me undecided undecided

Slay Queen that year.

Hottest girl around the hood.

Not teasing you, just wondering why you didn’t get the slightest idea of what you’re seeing now.

Anyways, God heal your home… 🙏🤲😥

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by EmmanuelTimmy(m): 3:54pm On Jun 30, 2023
Of course sure. She's the best thing yet to happen to me. grin grin

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by seunayantokun(m): 3:54pm On Jun 30, 2023
Even if you raised your nose now and said you wouldn't have married your spouse, let me tell you, you might not have been happier with another person. Forget all the trash being peddled around about marriage, embrace the gift of God for you, do the needful, and you will be happy always.
Good riddance to bad rubbish!

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by wunmi590(m): 3:55pm On Jun 30, 2023
EriMma1:


Don't mind them. Some will be shouting yes, yes just to save face but deep down, it is not what they're claiming .

I pray for marriages to experience heaven on earth.

You are not far from the truth...

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Progress62(m): 3:56pm On Jun 30, 2023
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I never marry i no know anything even if i know i don marry be say i don marry
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Herbiodun09: 3:56pm On Jun 30, 2023
100% smiley

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by maasoap(m): 3:56pm On Jun 30, 2023
nnewsnjobs:
Yes.
I am lucky to have her as my wife. We have achieved a lot together with her support within 11years.

But if this question was in my first one to two years on marriage, I would have answered no.

My advice to younger folks in here, no perfect marriage, marriage is not a bed of roses, always know that the first three years of marriage is not always easy
.

You're right. Two people with different backgrounds and upbringing coming together to live together 24/7, e go choke. Couples need time to synch.

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jun 30, 2023
ItisWell22:


You don’t know what God has done for you… 🥹

I tell all my kids never to marry early. Finish degree , masters if possible, have a property, travel the world before finally marrying.

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Juanmike(m): 3:57pm On Jun 30, 2023
Cassandraloius:
Oh yes!
I felt doubt in your response.

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Babaken(m): 3:57pm On Jun 30, 2023
lavylilly:
Acrimony comes to mind.
but she support her husband but give up at the end.
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Sholaco: 3:58pm On Jun 30, 2023
Skyview01:


Responsibilities no dey end.
Also, when i go out, i get lots of phonecalls, daddy where are you? When are you coming back.

Sometimes i like to travel and vacation alone which i will start this year.
promiscuous no far from this one blood.

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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by DonBenny77(m): 3:59pm On Jun 30, 2023
Klass99:


Wunmi this was a straightforward question requiring a yes or no answer. Then if you want to elaborate or expand on your answer with an explanation or reasons, you do so.

This is the problem I have with majority of you married folks. When you are asked valid questions about marriage that can teach others a valuable lesson or help them make an informed decision, you go off on a tangent or lecture about, how, no marriage is perfect, every marriage has its issue, marriage is not for people who cannot tolerate or forgive..........yada, yada, yada.

Can you people not answer questions candidly without the sugar coating, deflection and philosophical answers? Will it kill you people to respond to questions with specific and logical answers? Or share hard truths and realities without dancing round issues pertaining to marriage?
Then you should know the answer already.
Marriage is a personal decision no be everybody go marry

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