BabaIbo:

In all your generosity, na trophy you see wey you fit give person wey him opinion sweet you.

After all the mouth wey you dey make for this forum. Tufia!

What kind of give can a girl give a guy wey go make body sweet am apart from sex...

ExudeLoveToAll:




@first bolded , you married yourself .

@second bolded, if you want to be head that isn't a problem. Just keep your head well so that you will carry a heavier load


On a serious note, no one cares to know what kind of marriage system both couples are engaging it, what is pertinent is to know how well you are doing in your marriage.

The marriage will be doing well if the husband ready to understand equality...

Ashawoman82:
some places for Imo state like mbaise, their bride price de enter 2 mil... Even if u earn 350k monthly as a struggling guy u cant afford to pay that money just like that... Are u saying a guy earning 350k can't start a family?...

You lied. Whoever sold that lie to you and you bought it did you shege... 2mil because dey wan sell their daughter. Make Una no dey hide behind keyboard to throw around disinformation

Rayban25:


you seem upset

Not really, I m fine.

Goodlady:

Not really, I m fine.

very good

Samantha124:
He was busy praising her and you know how drunk people can't keep a secret.

He then talked of how she helped him raise the money for the bride price by paying half of it... Everyone just went silent upon hearing this..

Arghhh

Goodlady:

Stfu!
There's nothing like evening newspapers.
The older the wine, the sweeter it is.
Just last Saturday, a 46yrs old woman got married to a 40yrs old man in Lugbe area, Abuja. Everyone ll get fulfillment at one time. Cos I reject your short, black and broke destiny no mean say I go tey before I marry or reach Age 90 like Sarah before I born.
All you boys here dissing women with your childish threads, na una Mama's bweast una dey drag like madman own. You all should get a life.

ekun egbere yio wa poju??!!

ENPS wouldn't mind

Goodlady:

You know I m very hot and you wished you had me. But it's a pity your tattered life can't fit to my perfect world. So, blow away like smoke.

hmm
hot after-1?


only virgins can proudly say what you just said.

1Sharon:
Abolish bride price. It has been the reason for mistreatment against women

effects of being 'woke"


No make the gods angry

Samantha124:
But the question is who then becomes the head of the house? Because African men would usually say that they're the head of the house simply because they paid the bride price.

If he didn't, does this means the woman is the head of the house?

that means the woman is the head since the man failed in his first responsibility! how can he claim the head?

Puss360:

I owe you one bottle of Cold Trophy Beer for this...

Thank you

Funny, but true...

Holluwhakemmy:
that means the woman is the head since the man failed in his first responsibility! how can he claim the head?

But in America they don't pay bride price, yet cases of women being mistreated are also high... Women get killed everyday by their boyfriends and husbands.

So I don't think the mistreatment has anything to do with bride price.

1Sharon:
Abolish bride price. It has been the reason for mistreatment against women

Goodlady:
Se ori man naa o buru? Hope the man isn't an unfortunate one?
Why ll you fail in your first responsibility?
The wedding ll hold when the man's financially buoyant and it must not be long.
Borrowing a man to pay for my bride price is the beginning of SAPA in the marriage.
Men, there are some things you must not fail with in life. Handling your wedding well is part of it.

Please, is the wedding the man's wedding? Who is wedding who?

They ops talked about brideprice and not wedding. Wedding is both parties. The man is suppose to pay the brideprice

There's this pride in paying the brideprice of your woman. That being said, when there's [b]proper understanding [/b]and unfortunately, the guy couldn't pay the brideprice, the lady can loan him to return it after the event. Relationship doesn't have a formula, stick to what works for you. Many ladies have their guys money for their wedding and they're doing great till today

So, stick to what works for you. But for me, I won't accept a lady paying the brideprice. If it takes me carrying blocks to gather the money, I'll

IamtheTruth1:



It’s just clout man. Prince Kpokpogri na my neighbor for Asaba. The man is rich man. I know am well. I have seen a lot of Nollywood actors acting on set at his house severally. Forget all those things Tonto said. That man is rich. You no see him house for Abj way government demolish ?

Na churchill not kpokpogarri

Some women actually do this, out of love, or out of the frustration if not having a man who can pay their bride price.

Samantha124:
Nope, but apparently it has decreased... She only allocates him a small amount of money as his monthly allowance from his monthly salary.

Sometimes he'd have to ask her for some money if it happens that he finished his allowance before the month end...

God abeg ooo

BabaIbo:

If I say Evening and you say News and another man add Paper, omoh na you sabi.

hehe

Goodlady:

You know I m very hot and you wished you had me. But it's a pity your tattered life can't fit to my perfect world. So, blow away like smoke.

but why? ,, this is only evil

Samantha124:
But in America they don't pay bride price, yet cases of women being mistreated are also high... Women get killed everyday by their boyfriends and husbands.

So I don't think the mistreatment has anything to do with bride price.

I know that, but the cases of misogyny in Africa are too high. The way men there think is just on a different level.

Samantha124:
My sister paid half of her bride price... No one knew about it until one day her drunk husband told everyone everything.. .. She was so embarrassed.

Oh wow

Your sister is a rare gem

Goodlady:

Stfu!
There's nothing like evening newspapers.
The older the wine, the sweeter it is.
Just last Saturday, a 46yrs old woman got married to a 40yrs old man in Lugbe area, Abuja. Everyone ll get fulfillment at one time. Cos I reject your short, black and broke destiny no mean say I go tey before I marry or reach Age 90 like Sarah before I born.
All you boys here dissing women with your childish threads, na una Mama's bweast una dey drag like madman own. You all should get a life.

Oh damn!

omooba969:
mariah.Angel right now!

Omooba, how about I pay your groom price just so I can keep you, and be hard on you every single day?
You'd like that, wouldn't you?

Say hi to Kanuse for me.

Samantha124:
My sister paid half of her bride price... No one knew about it until one day her drunk husband told everyone everything.. .. She was so embarrassed.

Really

udeh3:


So, stick to what works for you. But for me, I won't accept a lady paying the brideprice. If it takes me carrying blocks to gather the money, I'll

You can see I had to erase the early part cos it's ranting. This part is where you made sense.
Work harder and be a man in charge of your home from the day of marriage.
Peace!

tiswell:
hmm
hot after-1?


only virgins can proudly say what you just said.

Yes cos I m qualified to say it.

Maybe it's only Nigerian men who take it on another level and a few other African men.

We can't abolish something that's part of our culture just because a small group of people are abusing it... Women worldwide still get abused and mistreated even without the practice of the bride price.

Personally I'm against the abolishment of bride price in Africa.

And in most cases it's our fault as women because we allow these men to mistreat us.

1Sharon:


I know that, but the cases of misogyny in Africa are too high. The way men there think is just on a different level.

Yep.

Dshocker:


Really

Will you be okay with your girlfriend paying her own bride price?

stanisbaratheon:


Oh wow

Your sister is a rare gem

ugofulfilled:

You lied. Whoever sold that lie to you and you bought it did you shege... 2mil because dey wan sell their daughter. Make Una no dey hide behind keyboard to throw around disinformation

bro ask around, it's a known fact..

Goodlady:

Yes cos I m qualified to say it.

Says someone whos' vagina has exceeded its elastic limit and is heading towards its yield point