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Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Goodlady(f): 7:19pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
PPIA:If you no run mad before end of this year you go see |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by PPIA: 7:23pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Goodlady:Area boys on that your street lining up while taking turns on you in one lungu around your neighborhood. Would be a nice tape to go around |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Ashirioluwa: 7:24pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Amajuoyi44: I am a man, and I don’t pray for such a situation. Anyway, marriage is overrated, and I don’t think it’s by force to get married when you’re not ready both physically and financially. |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Goodlady(f): 7:26pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
PPIA:You mean ur mom? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Atole26: 7:31pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Some men deserves to be helped while some don’t. The funny thing is they no dey write am for head which of them you go enjoy. |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by PPIA: 7:33pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Goodlady:No you. Your mom would've been part of it too but everyone will not be even interested because there is nothing left to salvage in her putrid sinkhole called her vagina that your father used to manage until he got totally fed up. At least yours can still be pushed to the current state your mom's own is, so guys with abnormally extra large members can still manage to take quality advantage of you. |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Fuckyoumod: 7:48pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Goodlady:listen to an evening newspaper at your own peril. They can't eat their cakes and have it. They have wasted away their usefulness and special features. There is one on my neck currently, she is 27. unfortunately for her I can't marry a lady that is more than 20 - 24 years. E get why! |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Ashirioluwa: 7:50pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Goodlady: Lucky her. Anyway, there is always an exception to everything, and your adage "the older the wine, the sweeter it is" doesn't apply to everything, especially when it comes to women or marriage, because most Nigerian men believe "the younger they are, the tighter and sweeter they are." Also, most men always believe that older women already have a lot of mileage on them, which is not true most of the time, but that's our belief. |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by IamtheTruth1(m): 8:07pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
DonBenny77: My bad then. Forgive me. |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Kevineleven(m): 8:38pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Eget one lady wey I dey suspect say na she pay for her own marriage, she was so desperate for marriage then boom, it happened |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Bfly: 9:26pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Goodlady: Broke girls cannot do it. Only rich ones. |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by kkins25(m): 9:56pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Samantha124:Small group of people? 😂😂😂😂 Na why i say, African women are not ready for liberation. The moment that bride price changes hand, the hubby now consider her a product he has rightfully acquired. Therefore, he has the final say. Why don't we also continue the culture of training only male kids to school.. You're a comedian Ma. My "bestie" was just gisting me about her class mate who has had to drop out of school because her hubby, who is uneducated formally but a business man insists she sits at home.. 😂 😂 😂 She say small group. Because poor people no dey twitter na.. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Nobody: 9:58pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Okay. kkins25: |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by kkins25(m): 10:00pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Samantha124:Is that all? say something. |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Osariemen12: 11:03pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Where is my Sweetplum. Please, do it. I'll pay you before your first child arrives. |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by 1Sharon(f): 11:40pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Samantha124: Sis, lots of strange practices used to be part of African culture but we've moved on from that. If certain cultural practices are going against human rights. It needs to be jettisoned. People aren't supposed to be slaves to their culture. Then again it may be the amount of money paid for bride price. If a man paid a good amount for his bride, best believe he'll feel entitled to treat her like she's his object. The women in those situations can't even leave, because that will involve the girl's parents giving back the money. Just look at the topic on Fp asking why men cheat, alot of the men feel they are entitled to do whatever since they provide everything. |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Goodlady(f): 11:41pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Fuckyoumod:Children mentality. You sef go old soon. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Chimeluv(f): 11:57pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
No |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Nobody: 12:30am On Aug 02, 2023 |
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Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Nobody: 12:38am On Aug 02, 2023 |
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Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by stanisbaratheon: 1:39am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Samantha124: I personally wouldn't be. But it doesn't make her a fool for doing so. I guess she was just being supportive. |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by erico2k2(m): 6:41am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Amajuoyi44:Regardless of how much the cost is, a Woman should never pay or contribute 2wards her own bride price, its a thing of Honour for one's bride price to be paid by the MAN, even if you are going to support your man do not make it so obvious, use brain empower your man so he could meet his financial needs at the point of all the Marriage plan. PS. whatever you do to make your marriage fest come Fru is entirely btw you and your man, I see too many kids giving advice on topic they know next to nothing about, some of yah still living with parents. |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by BabaIbo: 6:55am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Puss360: Young girl, everything is not all about sex. Sex is sweet but life is more than just sex. There many things you can give a guy that will be more valuable to him than sex. So, if you are wealthy and you see a hungry man or a struggling man, na sex you go offer am. You can give sex to a hungry or jobless man and expect him to go any length for you. Life is more than what you think. |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by FireUpNow(m): 7:13am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Old and very desperate women do that. Women who wants babies by all means can also do it for the man who made them pregnant also. |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by sihamey: 8:00am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Ashawoman82:Stop reading evening news papers brides price (dowry) in Igbo land cost less than 10k the marriage right items differs that’s where you spend money and it depends on the family. Don’t mistake dowry to marriage ceremony |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by reiddecuti: 8:21am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Goodlady: Should I get to know you in real life ma'am? |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Dreament(m): 10:47am On Aug 02, 2023 |
WeirdAlien:eaaàaà |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Puss360(f): 11:03am On Aug 02, 2023 |
BabaIbo:Young man, this talk is for men of the 18th century... This days, sex everywhere... Because you no carry am for head no mean say others no carry sex matter for head... I am speaking from experience... Don't argue... Good morning... |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by BabaIbo: 11:44am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Puss360: You no well. So, me wey no carry am for head is from which century? Good morning, trust you had a good night rest? |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Puss360(f): 12:51pm On Aug 02, 2023 |
BabaIbo:Lol.. wahala... Abeg allow hustlers like us breathe oo😂😂.. Yeah sure I had a good rest.. thanks.. Have a great day ahead |
Re: Ladies, Will You Give A Man Money To Pay Your Bride Price by Nobody: 1:25pm On Aug 02, 2023 |
That's why I said maybe Nigerian men still have that entitlement mentality along with few other African men. I've seen a lot of men who paid a lot of money as a bride price, yet they respect and treat their wives with care... The problem is with us women, we undermine ourselves to a point that most of us want to depend on men almost for everything... We give men too much power over us, in return you blame the culture by saying it's enslaving us. Maybe in Nigeria they return the bride price if the marriage doesn't work out, but in South Africa it's an abomination... You don't ask for a bride price to be returned because it's considered a bad luck.. I have a relative of mine who paid R50 000, three cows, and three goats as a bride price, but his wife still left him within a period of 2 years because he wanted more children while she didn't, he never mistreated her. Maybe in Nigeria bride price goes against human rights and it makes women slaves to their culture... But in my country it doesn't, few men might abuse it, but we mustn't generalize based on few rotten potatoes. Even in America and Europe, women who are from poor backgrounds and married by rich men tend to be mistreated by their husbands... Only few lucky ones have peaceful successful marriages. But if you feel that it's only in Africa where women get mistreated because of bride price, then you're free to do something about it and good luck. 1Sharon: |
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