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Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by Myer(m): 2:51pm On Aug 16, 2023

Lutherblaq:
They say Forgiveness is the firs step to fixing relationship issues. It gives you a window to understand the reason behind your partner’s actions.

Being cheated on is one of the most traumatic feelings one can go through in any relationship. There are times when the love and affection between two people decrease due to various factors.

Cuddles, romance, and communication become less frequent with time. It is in times like these either of the partners may search for love outside.

As a man/woman, tell us;
Can You Leave A Good Woman/Man Because They Slept With
Someone By Mistake?

God forgives us of far worse cheating daily.
He gives you life, you prioritize idols and other things over him.
We cheat on Him with our jobs. He gives you a job, you prioritize the job over him.
He gives you money, you idolize the money over him.
He gives you a talent as a believer, you use the talent for worldliness.
He gives you husband/wife, you prioritize them over him.
He gives you children, you prioritize them over him.

If we understand how we cheat on God every day and He still forgives us, what can anyone do to us that is beyond forgiveness?

Truly, betrayal in any way, shape or form is hard to forgive.
Some people can forgive their cheating husband but can not forgive their parents or children or best friends.

But when we realize unforgiveness does more harm to our souls/hearts than the person we chose not to forgive, we will make peace.
Not all relationships can or should continue after forgiveness, but certainly you need to make peace.
As a believer, God Himself works out how best to handle each scenario as you let him guide you through it in prayer.

Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by Chukdeee1: 7:13pm On Aug 16, 2023

opera1:
Nothing like slept someone by mistake please.

What if she used juju on me and I mistakenly slept with her?

Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by idomytin(m): 12:25am On Aug 17, 2023

YES!!

Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by DonroxyII: 1:23am On Aug 17, 2023

placeofallure:
This is what I'm about to type before I stumbled on this. Prick dey by mistake enter hole? E gba mi kẹ!

.... Life can Happen Under Passion of the Moments ...!

Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by ElliotP: 12:30pm On Aug 17, 2023

Which kind werey mistake be that, anybody wey fit cheat on you once fit still do am again

Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by goldmatrix(m): 8:31pm On Aug 17, 2023

NO ONE, absolutely no one sleep with someone by mistake.. Forgiveness has nothing to do with that.. You choose to forgive or not to if you want to.

Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by placeofallure(f): 6:32pm On Aug 19, 2023

DonroxyII:
.... Life can Happen Under Passion of the Moments ...!

Which kain life be that? Ayekaye ni yẹn o!

Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by pansophist(m): 7:18pm On Aug 19, 2023

Sonnobax15:

No be only by mistake..Na by error!!!!!

Once I notice say you've slept with another man when we are still dating, nothing on earth go make me forgive you

Why na? You gon forgive her for your own peace of mind. But you don't have to accept her back.

Forgive and cut off.

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Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by pansophist(m): 7:22pm On Aug 19, 2023*

IconicR:
Men don't forgive cheating.
If a woman cheats on her man she should respect herself and leave the relationship else she's in for a lifetime torture

Yes. You have sense.

Cheating on a man is a different level of pain. It's comparable with being forked by a gay dude, and this is an understatement due to a lack of a better analogy. It cuts deep in a way women won't comprehend.

The older I get, I realise that there are some red lines that should not be crossed. No amount of wokeness will change it.

I'm not sure but you can tell me. I think the female version will be a man not providing for her. It cuts really deep for women, and there is something in her that will just switch off concerning the man matter.

Men truly do not forgive cheating. It's like a dagger under his belly, and the more he thinks about it, the sharper it feels.

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Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Aug 19, 2023

pansophist:
Yes. You have sense.

Cheating on a man is a different level of pain. It's comparable with being forked by a gay dude. It cuts deep in a way women won't understand.

The older I get, I realise that there are some red lines that should not be crossed. No amount of wokeness will change it.

I'm not sure but you can tell me. I think the female version will be a man not providing for her. It cuts really deep for women, and there is something in her just switch off for the man matter.

Men truly do not forgive cheating. It's like a dagger under his belly, and the more he thinks about it, the worse it get for the woman.

You are right
I can feel the rage in your last paragraph 😂
The biggest insult a man can ever get from his woman is to cheat on him, he'll never truly heal from it.

Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by pansophist(m): 7:53pm On Aug 19, 2023

IconicR:
You are right
I can feel the rage in your last paragraph 😂
The biggest insult a man can ever get from his woman is to cheat on him, he'll never truly heal from it.

Men literally destroy countries just for women. Some men even feel entitled to a woman from their culture and can harm a man who is a foreigner just for flirting with her. This is a woman that is not even his wife or sister.

Now imagine sleeping with her. You just expose a part of him that is in hibernation, but he doesn't know about. For example if you meet people that commit suicide or killed someone like a year before the act, they will never believe that they can do it.

But when some situations occurs, they find themselves doing what they never thought was possible. It's the same thing when a woman cheat on a man. You expose him to a part of him that he didn't knew existed inside him. Its an evil you don't ever want to release.

And that part of him have no soft side for the woman amymore, or at least, it won't be as organic and rich as it once was. No woman should thread that path, it's a point of no return.

This is why women have the duty to choose a man they can respect, that they love, and they will submit to. You have to use that power very well, instead of pick the wrong person, then cheat with the desired one outside.

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Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by Fortune118005(m): 5:30pm On Aug 21, 2023

Lutherblaq:
They say Forgiveness is the firs step to fixing relationship issues. It gives you a window to understand the reason behind your partner’s actions.

Being cheated on is one of the most traumatic feelings one can go through in any relationship. There are times when the love and affection between two people decrease due to various factors.

Cuddles, romance, and communication become less frequent with time. It is in times like these either of the partners may search for love outside.

As a man/woman, tell us;
Can You Leave A Good Woman/Man Because They Slept With
Someone By Mistake?

By mistake?

Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by DonroxyII: 7:11pm On Aug 22, 2023

placeofallure:
Which kain life be that? Ayekaye ni yẹn o!

U sha know say Mewa & Ten dey happen insyd life sha !

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Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by Nonywendy(m): 10:12pm On Aug 22, 2023

Lutherblaq:
They say Forgiveness is the firs step to fixing relationship issues. It gives you a window to understand the reason behind your partner’s actions.

Being cheated on is one of the most traumatic feelings one can go through in any relationship. There are times when the love and affection between two people decrease due to various factors.

Cuddles, romance, and communication become less frequent with time. It is in times like these either of the partners may search for love outside.

As a man/woman, tell us;
Can You Leave A Good Woman/Man Because They Slept With
Someone By Mistake?

Something u open eye do me u wan make I close eye forget?

Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by PINKYandBRAIN: 8:19pm On Aug 29, 2023

PINKY: Brain, Over To You.

BRAIN: There's nothing like MISTAKE When It Comes To The Issues of Sex. You open Toto, Your Toto still wet, dick enter am, you con dey shout "ouch ouch, faster baby"... And then; you say it is a mistake ?

Maka Why Na ? Make We dey use Our Brains Na.

Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by LarryCork: 12:59am On Oct 02, 2023

meobizy:
A good partner will not sleep with anyone else to begin with. Many boys have left “female friends” for doing so behind their backs. They still go around to claim they had no romantic feelings for the girl. Delusion.

Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by LarryCork: 1:02am On Oct 02, 2023

meobizy:
A good partner will not sleep with anyone else to begin with. Many boys have left “female friends” for doing so behind their backs. They still go around to claim they had no romantic feelings for the girl. Delusion.

So u planning to sleep wit someone again on nairaland...abi? who? Me?...anyways am ready for u if u be gentle with.me....but u must not act like a ilitarattes thou!!(no oofeñcse) angry

Re: Can You Leave A Good Woman/man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake? by Akinksquare: 3:28am On Oct 02, 2023

Lutherblaq:
They say Forgiveness is the firs step to fixing relationship issues. It gives you a window to understand the reason behind your partner’s actions.

Being cheated on is one of the most traumatic feelings one can go through in any relationship. There are times when the love and affection between two people decrease due to various factors.

Cuddles, romance, and communication become less frequent with time. It is in times like these either of the partners may search for love outside.

As a man/woman, tell us;
Can You Leave A Good Woman/Man Because They Slept With
Someone By Mistake?

Point of correction, a God - fearing woman cannot sleep with someone by mistake. If she does, she's not. It's as simple as that .

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