Why not?! Just how do you know or learn about someone you just meet if not by going on dates. But depends on where and how you meet. I normally don't take persons on social media and online seriously especially anonymous peeps. I am almost intentionally rude rather than pretend. You meet too many hungry girls online these days. Just last weekend I met one on Badoo and she wanted us to connect,after exchanging contacts I called her and she told me where she wanted us to hangout that evening. Being someone that's already used to meeting wrong sets,I called her when I got there but she decided to be taking her time.
I ordered for BBQ fish and beer.
By the time she arrived I was at the tail of the fish.
She came,ordered for Gordon's and a pet bottle of fearless.
Washed her hands and still ate from the fish.😄.... Notice,her bill pass my own. I drink only one bottle of beer,she come dey drink Spirit and fearless. She hasn't even sat up to 30mins to gup her drink she started whispering to me that she wanted pepper meat. All I dey hear na pepper meat pepper meat . I was even trying to reason her how the night dey be but the ediot dey form posh ontop ,"I didn't plan on spending the night outside". But you planned on eating pepper meat. The way she sing pepper meat till I was ready to leave e com dey like theme song. She even went as far as asking dem if they had spiced meat but I just do like who deaf,she ma no hold chimbai(poorgirly) to eat the meat. I don even make up my mind not see her again before leaving. After clearing the bill,I just stood up and told her I was going home. She sha follow me outside til I just enter my car drive off. Immediately, I blocked her on every side.
Nonsense things. Different day different character. But all na for cruise though,more reason why I love going on dates.

Saintinoo:
Happy Sunday gentlemen of this section.

I see almost everyday how men go about asking ladies for a date, burning date and airtime, trying to impress ladies which I find so disgusting.
I don't know if it is a problem with me, but, I find it absurd, time and resource wasting to go days asking a lady out, buy things to impress her, call her every morning and send gifts just to have a woman around me.

I have had some few girlfriend in the past and even my last ex, I only asked her out once and wait for her to make up her mind, never spent a dime on dates or gifts.

Guys tell us about yourselves, do you go about doing all those zee world and nollywood styles to get your woman.

Why do people go on dates?
Why do you consider it to be a weist?

You guys should simply pray for money and more money. There are certain things you don't consider when you have money. How much can I spend on a lady on a date? 20k or 30k. Do you think it matters when your minimum balance on expense account is 2million? Work hard and make money, it has a way of stopping some unnecessary quibbles.

Fairview1:
You guys should simply pray for money and more money. There are certain things you don't consider when you have money. How much can I spend on a lady on a date? 20k or 30k. Do you think it matters when your minimum balance on expense account is 2million? Work hard and make money, it has a way of stopping some unnecessary quibbles.

You don't understand, that is my nature, I rather give that money to beggers than take an entitled woman on a date, irrespective of how much I have in my bank account.
So making enough money is out of it.

Persephone1:
Yes! Ask Nazgul, he takes us to chicken republic

Who is nazgul, so you're cheating on me. After everything I have done for you. You're cheating on me, I can't believe this. Nigerian girls are all the same. 😔

This I have seen.

Saintinoo:


You don't understand, that is my nature, I rather give that money to beggers than take an entitled woman on a date, irrespective of how much I have in my bank account.
So making enough money is out of it.

oga rest!!
I don’t see any problem with taking someone out irrespective of the person’s gender…just don’t over do yourself by trying to impress.
The only problem I will have if you are feeling entitled about it….I take friends out.
Even my old female classmates….how do you guys catch up if you don’t go out?
You just invite everyone to your house?

You guys should stop all these abeg.

folake4u:


Perse, you're so petty!!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣

Abeg where you see the picture?

Before nko....

You no wan Lay?....dey play ....Not Western kind of date ooo..Nigerian type

Saintinoo:
Happy Sunday gentlemen of this section.

I see almost everyday how men go about asking ladies for a date, burning date and airtime, trying to impress ladies which I find so disgusting.
I don't know if it is a problem with me, but, I find it absurd, time and resource wasting to go days asking a lady out, buy things to impress her, call her every morning and send gifts just to have a woman around me.

I have had some few girlfriend in the past and even my last ex, I only asked her out once and wait for her to make up her mind, never spent a dime on dates or gifts.

Guys tell us about yourselves, do you go about doing all those zee world and nollywood styles to get your woman.

it's obvious your are stingy

Hmmm

People are now thinking outside the box. Use the money arrange better food at home that will last a week

Nemesis0147:
oga rest!!
I don’t see any problem with taking someone out irrespective of the person’s gender…just don’t over do yourself by trying to impress.
The only problem I will have if you are feeling entitled about it….I take friends out.
Even my old female classmates….how do you guys catch up if you don’t go out?
You just invite everyone to your house?

You guys should stop all these abeg.

Entitled in what sense.......? I want to believe hanging out and dates in Nigeria mean the same thing.

No

At this period. I no be gay o but if a man toast me right now, I will agree.


I need someone to take care of me jare.

pocohantas:
No wonder your ex showed you shege.
Two overwise people met and almost turned themselves to mad people. Yenyen, I find it disgusting. Ngwanu, ndi co-redpillers, food done done. Bring 555 plate and spoon.

Rest

It’s only in Nigeria that going for a date must involve a lot of money. You mustn’t eat in a date. You can go for a date in the park, you can go for a walk and talk date( with maybe a bottle of water for rehydration). You can go for a snack date( eat simple snacks and some soft drinks). You can go to a public place and take pictures, talk and chill. You mustn’t go for a date and eat fried rice, salad and Turkey , no ! Except if the person that initiated it mentioned - lunch , dinner or going to a date for a meal.

We’re all getting it all wrong in this country.
If you ask a girl out for a date, she will pick chicken republic without asking or caring if you’re up to it . Don’t you eat at home ? mtchew

No be only date, na time I go carry them go! Nonsense

Would have preferred date with jennyclay but no, she doesn't want to have anything doing with a farmer

Offpointng:
I have not taken a lady out in the past 5 years and I feel very happy. I just send my momma money every month end for upkeep and so far I've been doing just great.

I don't ask ladies out, I see beautiful ladies standing or sitting alone and i don't bother to say Hello let alone having to get her attention in anyway. I've grown to know ladies are not worth ur little time

So who is doing who?

For 5yrs.... You are either broke, timid or gay to have stayed away for too long.

Stop deceiving yourself bro!!!

Yes now😳 anything for my girlfriend o

I wan take candidlady out

She no get my time

Saintinoo:
Happy Sunday gentlemen of this section.

I see almost everyday how men go about asking ladies for a date, burning date and airtime, trying to impress ladies which I find so disgusting.
I don't know if it is a problem with me, but, I find it absurd, time and resource wasting to go days asking a lady out, buy things to impress her, call her every morning and send gifts just to have a woman around me.

I have had some few girlfriend in the past and even my last ex, I only asked her out once and wait for her to make up her mind, never spent a dime on dates or gifts.

Guys tell us about yourselves, do you go about doing all those zee world and nollywood styles to get your woman.

Brother the gospel truth be say; You no get money

Persephone1:
Like it's tiring. Later he will go on to Nigerian ladies are materialistic when his "not impressing" MO backfire. People who are impressing are still putting deliberate effort to make things work out.

I will be here to read when he open thread to scream loneliness like his 46 years old brother who turned to surveillance camera monitoring a 26 years old lady's sexual activities

loneliness is still better off...we have thousands of them crying on Facebook and churches looking for husband!

Offpointng:
I have not taken a lady out in the past 5 years and I feel very happy. I just send my momma money every month end for upkeep and so far I've been doing just great.

I don't ask ladies out, I see beautiful ladies standing or sitting alone and i don't bother to say Hello let alone having to get her attention in anyway. I've grown to know ladies are not worth ur little time

correct..after you Bleep the pussy,you got tired of everything about them!

You should rather be asking if Men still get erection in this economy!!

Yes of course. But it must be a “steady” lady wey be say u call her once, she answers 3ice. 🤣🤣🤣. Not all the once wey no get level but still de package.

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Most people go out on date and still end up not dating....
Waste of time and resources

I think it's high time we have age restrictions to certain sections around here.

What on earth am I even reading?

Most deff!

An extremely important aspect of my small life. I don't know about others, but dates are fun. Dinner dates at Blakes resort, Garki. The serene and well-lit ambience adds colour to the mood and taste to their fine recipes. Their barbecue fish is to die for.

Then have lunch at Sketch restaurant, Wuse. You'll be looking like the only colour tone in a black and white art work.. .

Smell the sea breeze beside Jabi lake with moimoi from shoprite. Go clubbing at passport lounge. Or explore their karaoke nights. And at the end of the day, where is the fun in all of that if you can't do it with company? One soji lady wey sabi vibe! Not all these gluttons who'll see an opportunity and want to order everthing on the menu, like say their papa dey mad!

At least we could still do two dates weekly during Buhari's cursed regime. Like this now, I dey only date my alcohol for my bedroom.

E no go better for Seyi Tinubu papa! The bastard no go die well!

SonofGod231:
Why not?! Just how do you know or learn about someone you just meet if not by going on dates. But depends on where and how you meet. I normally don't take persons on social media and online seriously especially anonymous peeps. I am almost intentionally rude rather than pretend. You meet too many hungry girls online these days. Just last weekend I met one on Badoo and she wanted us to connect,after exchanging contacts I called her and she told me where she wanted us to hangout that evening. Being someone that's already used to meeting wrong sets,I called her when I got there but she decided to be taking her time.
I ordered for BBQ fish and beer.
By the time she arrived I was at the tail of the fish.
She came,ordered for Gordon's and a pet bottle of fearless.
Washed her hands and still ate from the fish.😄.... Notice,her bill pass my own. I drink only one bottle of beer,she come dey drink Spirit and fearless. She hasn't even sat up to 30mins to gup her drink she started whispering to me that she wanted pepper meat. All I dey hear na pepper meat pepper meat . I was even trying to reason her how the night dey be but the ediot dey form posh ontop ,"I didn't plan on spending the night outside". But you planned on eating pepper meat. The way she sing pepper meat till I was ready to leave e com dey like theme song. She even went as far as asking dem if they had spiced meat but I just do like who deaf,she ma no hold chimbai(poorgirly) to eat the meat. I don even make up my mind not see her again before leaving. After clearing the bill,I just stood up and told her I was going home. She sha follow me outside til I just enter my car drive off. Immediately, I blocked her on every side.
Nonsense things. Different day different character. But all na for cruise though,more reason why I love going on dates.

her mouth like pepper meat

IyaTola:
it's obvious your are stingy

Yes, honestly I think I am stingy to ladies.