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"I Can't Settle For Less. If You Don't Have Money Back Off" - Nigerian Woman / Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men / "Dear Men, If You Have Hustled So Hard And No Money, Get Married"- Nigerian Lady (2) (3) (4)

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Gboom: 2:07pm On Oct 02, 2023
Jovialjune1:



I wish it for your daughters Amen.

Imagine the trashy talk because a female supported what Op said, you men do not want to settle for less no female batted an eyelid here, a female also said same thing yet you're wishing evil on her, just can't hide your hypocrisy and bias.
You are pained for telling you the truth.

Note that I used the word "If" which means probability of you of being that or not
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by jawalis(m): 2:07pm On Oct 02, 2023
Jovialjune1:



Na Op you suppose give this advice not her, she simply supported what he said.
Just rest Abeg. Stop taking medication for another person headache. Let her reply her mentions if she’s got the balls in her. Why are you quick to fight her battle. Maybe you just want to be noticed but sadly, this is not the right approach

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Nobody: 2:07pm On Oct 02, 2023
pixey:

Did I mention anything about gender? Misandry has blinded your reasoning.My issue with her was don't mock or insult peasants or poor people you don't know their history and circumstances.Calm down and read my comment again.


Where exactly did she insult poor people? Are you blind to other guys here that insulted ladies on this thread, even Op insulted poor women, why didn't you quote them all?

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by RapistOnBail: 2:12pm On Oct 02, 2023
Alvin212:
Fools like E-BOLA Tinubu


And his Ashawooo

wife Remi Tinubu


I wish em painful death
Lol u go die before am
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Chasito(m): 2:13pm On Oct 02, 2023
Jovialjune1:



Same way women will never marry broke ass men

Oya cry.
who be this Ekuke? undecided

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by TheSuperX(m): 2:14pm On Oct 02, 2023
Persephone1:
True that

They should settle for high grin

Last last the high no fit pass fine face and bbl bum.

No be Nigerian men? grin cheesy cheesy
Nigerian men no be like your brothers and father. 😂😂

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Nobody: 2:14pm On Oct 02, 2023
jawalis:

Just rest Abeg. Stop taking medication for another person headache. Let her reply her mentions if she’s got the balls in her. Why are you quick to fight her battle. Maybe you just want to be noticed but sadly, this is not the right approach


Something is wrong with your head, imagine quoting to confirm exactly what I've been saying

You nairaland guys are fond of gaslighting and ad hominem so much that logic fails you, must she be the one to reply her mentions before the smelling hypocrisy that resides in all of you is called out? Most of you ignored the nonsense you spew including the Op because it's coming from a your fellows, but are quick to attack a female when she confirms your exact mindset, very disgusting attitude, it is not her headache, it is calling out the stupidity most of you like to display here.

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by TheSuperX(m): 2:15pm On Oct 02, 2023
OP God bless you abundantly for saying the truth, now it's left for those guys to listen or not listen.

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Nobody: 2:15pm On Oct 02, 2023
Chasito:
who be this Ekuke? undecided

Na your mother now, she dey bark dey follow you for back kiss

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Nobody: 2:17pm On Oct 02, 2023
Gboom:

You are pained for telling you the truth.

Note that I used the word "If" which means probability of you of being that or not

But your "if" stopped you from quoting guys here that said same thing as her right? Do you have selective blindness that stops you from seeing their comment?

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by pixey(m): 2:17pm On Oct 02, 2023
Jovialjune1:



Where exactly did she insult poor people? Are you blind to other guys here that insulted ladies on this thread, even Op insulted poor women, why didn't you quote them all?
You are really depressed and broken. I can see the signs .You need healing.Don't allow misandry ruin your life and you need to calm down.My comments is not about your perceived gender wahala.

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by jawalis(m): 2:17pm On Oct 02, 2023
Jovialjune1:



Something is wrong with your head, imagine quoting to confirm exactly what I've been saying

You nairaland guys are fond of gaslighting and ad hominem so much that logic fails you, must she be the one to reply her mentions before the smelling hypocrisy that resides in all of you is called out? Most of you ignored the nonsense you spew including the Op because it's coming from a your fellows, but are quick to attack a female when she confirms your exact mindset, very disgusting attitude, it is not her headache, it is calling out the stupidity most of you like to display here.
I’m not here to call you names or use derogatory languages on you. You are free to say whatever you anytime any day. But pls let her reply her mentions by herself. Don’t be quick to take it up. It’s immature

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Chasito(m): 2:20pm On Oct 02, 2023
Jovialjune1:



Same way women will never marry broke ass men

Oya cry.
you are very useless , hopleless, worthless and stupid at the same time, your shameless ashawo mother no train u well.

Wretched animal.
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Nobody: 2:23pm On Oct 02, 2023
Chasito:
My mother is very useless , hopleless, worthless and stupid and the same time, her shameless ashawo mother no train am well.

Wretched animal is my mother
.


Fixed 🥴

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Godmind2022(m): 2:23pm On Oct 02, 2023
Rapmoney:
This is just a piece of my opinion which is based on the realities on ground. Nigerian men should not lower their guard when it comes to dating and marriage. We compromise too much when it involves romance, especially among our Eastern brothers.

Arinze, you dey hustle since you graduate in 2010. You don toil sotay the skin for your palms don hard like Okpella granite. Now, Baba God don show you love small, come bless you with comfortable life. The first thing you did was to pick a girl from a financially weak background for dating or marriage because of big yansh and breasts. You polished her and has also done a lot for her family. Let me tell you, that same girl and her family would not accept you if you weren't comfortable.

In Nigeria, it's only bad for a man to be broke and not a lady. Broke men are useless while broke women are angels.

If you are a man who has struggled very hard to achieve comfort for yourself, you need a class of woman who will complement your status and not just anybody because that same anybody no go send you if you no get bread.

The only women that should be deserving of your financial generosity should be your mum and sisters. Except she is a girl who has supported you of which I know it is very scarce to see in Nigeria. Getting a Nigeria girl who can support you, even if it is shikini these days is like betting on Enugu Rangers to beat Manchester City and still expecting to win.

Na as e be me for mind I talk am. I know say this post fit vex some people.



All that glitters is not gold. Beware of rich ladies! To see wife material among them may be a little bit hard.
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Nobody: 2:24pm On Oct 02, 2023
jawalis:

I’m not here to call you names or use derogatory languages on you. You are free to say whatever you anytime any day. But pls let her reply her mentions by herself. Don’t be quick to take it up. It’s immature

I will take it up, off yourself if it pains you.

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Chasito(m): 2:24pm On Oct 02, 2023
Jovialjune1:



Fixed 🥴
don't ever quote me in your life again, I don't deal with mad people whose brain size is like that of a peanut.

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Nobody: 2:26pm On Oct 02, 2023
pixey:

You are really depressed and broken. I can see the signs .You need healing.Don't allow misandry ruin your life and you need to calm down.My comments is not about your perceived gender wahala.


You are the broken and depressed one so much that you were only able to quote a female that said same thing as other guys here, but of course your selective blindness has made you a useful ignorant soul that refuse to attack guys same way you attacked her.

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Nobody: 2:28pm On Oct 02, 2023
Chasito:
don't ever quote me in your life again, I deal with mad people like my mother whose brain size is like that of a peanut.

Okay 🥴

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by correctguy101(m): 2:28pm On Oct 02, 2023
TheBillyonaire:
A man's role in the world is to suffer and fend for his family - his wife, his children, his relatives, himself and the society as best as he can.

If a woman has the desire to help out, by all means she can, otherwise she can chill, watch Netflix and have sex with her husband. A woman's role is bring happiness to her home, nurture the children and her husband and remain the queen of the empire and feminine energy of the universe.

Any man who insists that his wife must assist him, lowers himself and should be banished from gentlemen's club.

You can't really blame most men. Times are difficult and many are not confident in meeting up to the current demands of running a family.

A friend of mine lost a good woman because he was insisting she hustle too. This is a girl whom he caught young, who was raised soft and never hustled in her life. Back then, we warned him before and after their break-up. He was aware of how she was, but her softness blinded my guy. And he sent her packing after two kids and six years in marriage...

Funny thing is, the guy was earning more than a million as salary back then as he's a senior man in one of these aviation coys.

The hilarity of the whole matter was. It was another of his colleague that later wifed the girl and made her a comfortable house wife. The guy took our advice, got a supermarket and laundry businesses running but placed the girl as supervisor and manager, and they're living well.

My other guy is wallowing in regrets and stewing in self-pity as of today.

What I'm saying is: Your point is valid.

The value of a man mostly rests on his ability to provide for those who are his responsibility. And the value of a woman is in the nurturing of the home and assets built by the man. That's why men admire women who hustle and make money but the very day they find out you can't even boil egg without wounding the whole egg,... All attractiveness fades. They take the woman's money to go find someone who can nurture and even breastfeed them and their wards properly.. wink

I'm not even planning to ever get married, yet the mother of my daughter still calls me and I still spend on her.

Humans and wahala...

If you have enough, you won't be bothered too much about all these yéyé ideas.

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Chasito(m): 2:28pm On Oct 02, 2023
Jovialjune1:



Fix my brain I dey mad 🥴
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by blackgold2018(m): 2:29pm On Oct 02, 2023
Jennyclay:
It’s a general thing for both men and women. Nobody wants to settle for less. You must be extremely rich before you can even be my friend not to talk of being in a relationship with me.

I’m so allergic to broke, poverty stricken, good for nothing church rats wretched men.

If you’re doing dirty work like Keke driver, bus conductor, shoe maker, road side mechanic, carpenter, barber e.t.c and you approach me, I will give you the insult of your life. You’ll regret the day you were born.

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear. I didn’t come to this life to suffer.
that’s why they keep using your type until your brain resets. But by then you have already turned 35.

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by RapistOnBail: 2:32pm On Oct 02, 2023
Chasito:
you are very useless , hopleless, worthless and stupid at the same time, your shameless ashawo mother no train u well.

Wretched animal.
You fall my hand...
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Chasito(m): 2:34pm On Oct 02, 2023
RapistOnBail:

You fall my hand...
so when person insult ur mama, u go tell am thank you,
abi?? undecided

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by victooman: 2:35pm On Oct 02, 2023
Vinnie2000:


Struggling Guys when they Finally Make it should TARGET
FRESH, CHASTE Girls between 21,22Years for Marriage! 🤨🙂

Dat's what HE Peter Obi did when he started making money @30,31Years!. ☺️☺️

It's FOOLISH for any Guy to use his HARD EARNED MONEY
to Marry a Girl who has been FUCCKED by BigMen, Ex-Boyfriends, Politicians and Yahoo Boys! 😒😕
who told u 21- 22yrs are fresh and have not been fvcked?

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by franchasofficia: 2:37pm On Oct 02, 2023
Gbam! shocked cheesy cheesy
Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by djon78(m): 2:38pm On Oct 02, 2023
Vinnie2000:


Struggling Guys when they Finally Make it should TARGET
FRESH, CHASTE Girls between 21,22Years for Marriage! 🤨🙂

Dat's what HE Peter Obi did when he started making money @30,31Years!. ☺️☺️

It's FOOLISH for any Guy to use his HARD EARNED MONEY
to Marry a Girl who has been FUCCKED by BigMen, Ex-Boyfriends, Politicians and Yahoo Boys! 😒😕


Went with my younger sister to a celebration in the East recently

Saw one cute beautiful young woman with a little baby like 6 months


Later asked her who that her cute young mother friend was?


She told me that girl I am seeing has 4 children

I couldn't believe it

She Should be around 28

She looked like a young mother of just one

My sister told me a trader in Onitsha main market is her husband

That the guy married her in her second year in the university

Now she don born 4 already

Still looking young
Means the trader business man married her as Young and innocent young woman


Honestly traders no dey smile at all
They know how to get fresh young women

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by RapistOnBail: 2:38pm On Oct 02, 2023
Chasito:
so when person insult ur mama, u go tell am thank you,
abi?? undecided
She no abuse u.. She only talk facts...

Same way Rich men and poor men should only go for Successful and Rich Lady, na same way Ladies only Target the Rich and Successful men.

As you take like Pineaple, naso another person take like Apple and Banana.. All of them sweet for mouth..

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by GoodRocks: 2:38pm On Oct 02, 2023
Jovialjune1:



I wish it for your daughters Amen.

Imagine the trashy talk because a female supported what Op said, you men do not want to settle for less no female batted an eyelid here, a female also said same thing yet you're wishing evil on her, just can't hide your hypocrisy and bias.

You must be a 🤡

The girl they quoted didn't bothered replying, but you took it upon yourself to keep attacking everyone here without making any reasonable comment. U must be really jobless! 🤡

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Chasito(m): 2:41pm On Oct 02, 2023
[quote author=RapistOnBail post=126151117]
She no abuse u.. She only talk facts...

Same way Rich men and poor men should only go for Successful and Rich Lady, na same way Ladies only Target the Rich and Successful men.

As you take like Pineaple, naso another person take like Apple and Banana.. All of them sweet for mouth..[quote]Oga, that girl abi lady is fond of abusing someone's parents, view her comments and see for yourself, no come my mention dey form peace maker, she deserves what she got, I no send anybody papa

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by Nobody: 2:43pm On Oct 02, 2023
GO0DHardDick:


You must be a 🤡

The girl they quoted didn't bothered replying, but you took it upon yourself to keep attacking everyone here without making any reasonable comment. U must be really jobless! 🤡

You are the jobless oaf 🥴

So because she didn't defend herself means they are all justified? You hate when females call out your stupidity, that's how brainless most of you are, hypocritical brainless 🤡

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Re: Men Who Hustled Hard To Become Successful Should Not Settle For Less by MOGPman(m): 2:43pm On Oct 02, 2023
Rapmoney:
This is just a piece of my opinion which is based on the realities on ground. Nigerian men should not lower their guard when it comes to dating and marriage. We compromise too much when it involves romance, especially among our Eastern brothers.

Arinze, you dey hustle since you graduate in 2010. You don toil sotay the skin for your palms don hard like Okpella granite. Now, Baba God don show you love small, come bless you with comfortable life. The first thing you did was to pick a girl from a financially weak background for dating or marriage because of big yansh and breasts. You polished her and has also done a lot for her family. Let me tell you, that same girl and her family would not accept you if you weren't comfortable.

In Nigeria, it's only bad for a man to be broke and not a lady. Broke men are useless while broke women are angels.

If you are a man who has struggled very hard to achieve comfort for yourself, you need a class of woman who will complement your status and not just anybody because that same anybody no go send you if you no get bread.

The only women that should be deserving of your financial generosity should be your mum and sisters. Except she is a girl who has supported you of which I know it is very scarce to see in Nigeria. Getting a Nigeria girl who can support you, even if it is shikini these days is like betting on Enugu Rangers to beat Manchester City and still expecting to win.

Na as e be me for mind I talk am. I know say this post fit vex some people.
True talk!

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