Rapmoney:
This is just a piece of my opinion which is based on the realities on ground. Nigerian men should not lower their guard when it comes to dating and marriage. We compromise too much when it involves romance, especially among our Eastern brothers.

Arinze, you dey hustle since you graduate in 2010. You don toil sotay the skin for your palms don hard like Okpella granite. Now, Baba God don show you love small, come bless you with comfortable life. The first thing you did was to pick a girl from a financially weak background for dating or marriage because of big yansh and breasts. You polished her and has also done a lot for her family. Let me tell you, that same girl and her family would not accept you if you weren't comfortable.

In Nigeria, it's only bad for a man to be broke and not a lady. Broke men are useless while broke women are angels.

If you are a man who has struggled very hard to achieve comfort for yourself, you need a class of woman who will complement your status and not just anybody because that same anybody no go send you if you no get bread.

The only women that should be deserving of your financial generosity should be your mum and sisters. Except she is a girl who has supported you of which I know it is very scarce to see in Nigeria. Getting a Nigeria girl who can support you, even if it is shikini these days is like betting on Enugu Rangers to beat Manchester City and still expecting to win.

Na as e be me for mind I talk am. I know say this post fit vex some people.

You talk am

Jovialjune1:



You are the broken and depressed one so much that you were only able to quote a female that said same thing as other guys here, but of course your selective blindness has made you a useful ignorant soul that refuse to attack guys same way you attacked her.

I quote who I want to quote whether male or female gender.To everyone here,If a broke guy/girl based on your perceived thought comes asking for a relationship. A simple way is to just politely decline and don't mock unnecessarily (Satisfied now! little child !).
Please improve your comprehension skills.I don't give a f**k about your gender wahala.

[quote author=Jennyclay post=126146147]It’s a general thing for both men and women. Nobody wants to settle for less. You must be extremely rich before you can even be my friend not to talk of being in a relationship with me.

I’m so allergic to broke, poverty stricken, good for nothing church rats wretched men.

If you’re doing dirty work like Keke driver, bus conductor, shoe maker, road side mechanic, carpenter, barber e.t.c and you approach me, I will give you the insult of your life. You’ll regret the day you were born.

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear. I didn’t come to this life to suffer.[/quote Do you know that most of those jobs you listed earn more money than some low level bankers, charge n bail lawyer, Nigeria doctors etc

IconicR:
Men are leeches

Modern generation men are becoming very weak

My rule is conquer me into submission and I'll totally submit else I slip away.

Topics like this irritate the hell out of me

See this one oh. E dey find conqueror lol

Some men mumu sha

pixey:

I quote who I want to quote whether male or female gender.To everyone here,If a broke guy/girl based on your perceived thought comes asking for a relationship. A simple way is to just politely decline and don't mock unnecessarily (Satisfied now! little child !).
Please improve your comprehension skills.I don't give a f**k about your gender wahala.

Nonsense misogynistic sexist, go and modify your first comment if you are to be taken seriously.

RonuThings:
Still Feeling curious

Overused kpekus from finding a man with house, money and car lol

Jovialjune1:



Nonsense misogynistic sexist, go and modify your first comment if you are to be taken seriously.

You just proved my point little sissy.

Jennyclay:
It’s a general thing for both men and women. Nobody wants to settle for less. You must be extremely rich before you can even be my friend not to talk of being in a relationship with me.

I’m so allergic to broke, poverty stricken, good for nothing church rats wretched men.

If you’re doing dirty work like Keke driver, bus conductor, shoe maker, road side mechanic, carpenter, barber e.t.c and you approach me, I will give you the insult of your life. You’ll regret the day you were born.

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear. I didn’t come to this life to suffer.

jennyclay what a beautiful girl. But ur definition of rich has a big comma!!.

Don't mind the mumu simps.

The same selfish ladies will so mock them when they don't have money but once you make it, they'll start forming angels and wife materials.

Very yeye gender!

Rapmoney:
This is just a piece of my opinion which is based on the realities on ground. Nigerian men should not lower their guard when it comes to dating and marriage. We compromise too much when it involves romance, especially among our Eastern brothers.

Arinze, you dey hustle since you graduate in 2010. You don toil sotay the skin for your palms don hard like Okpella granite. Now, Baba God don show you love small, come bless you with comfortable life. The first thing you did was to pick a girl from a financially weak background for dating or marriage because of big yansh and breasts. You polished her and has also done a lot for her family. Let me tell you, that same girl and her family would not accept you if you weren't comfortable.

In Nigeria, it's only bad for a man to be broke and not a lady. Broke men are useless while broke women are angels.

If you are a man who has struggled very hard to achieve comfort for yourself, you need a class of woman who will complement your status and not just anybody because that same anybody no go send you if you no get bread.

The only women that should be deserving of your financial generosity should be your mum and sisters. Except she is a girl who has supported you of which I know it is very scarce to see in Nigeria. Getting a Nigeria girl who can support you, even if it is shikini these days is like betting on Enugu Rangers to beat Manchester City and still expecting to win.

Na as e be me for mind I talk am. I know say this post fit vex some people.

FACTS!

Jennyclay:
It’s a general thing for both men and women. Nobody wants to settle for less. You must be extremely rich before you can even be my friend not to talk of being in a relationship with me.

I’m so allergic to broke, poverty stricken, good for nothing church rats wretched men.

If you’re doing dirty work like Keke driver, bus conductor, shoe maker, road side mechanic, carpenter, barber e.t.c and you approach me, I will give you the insult of your life. You’ll regret the day you were born.

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear. I didn’t come to this life to suffer.

u will really be a dirty person if u are still using public transport look at ur ignorance rotten mouth like dirty work

proxillin:


conquer you like landed property? or gold mine? can he use you for collecting bank loan?

you turn yourself to object now, if men address you like object, you will be foaming in the mouth...sex_object

True la . Some banny useless i swear. She thinks the world revolves around her. Such a bimbo! I no go hustle na to conquer you. Tueh!

deavicky:
jennyclay what a beautiful girl. But ur definition of rich has a big comma!!.

I swear this person don grow leave brain is a pity buhari is no longer the president

TemplarLandry:
Childish epistle.
Learn life.

just look at how the op silenced you with that epic reply
You’re truly a very foolish creature without an iota of brain

No wahala e go soon reach ur turn fine girl way no get sense na her puna go suffer am

NEUDUDE:


See this one oh. E dey find conqueror lol

Some men mumu sha

Rapmoney:


I no send you, baba. Maybe to you, learning life is all about littering every thread on Nairaland with meaningless comments.

Ignore that mental enslaved pig, how do you expect a tinubu supporter to have common sense.

These idiots thought they were wise, now look at the shege banza these fools dey chop.

Who is now the one labouring in vain .

Offpointng:
There's just one Lady like that I've met during NYSC who I swore then I would have married if I made it. well I did made it but Bro she's way older than I am. she's 6years older than I am

But Mehnn this girl cared for me when I had nothing, respected me in that stage despite being older and would always do anything I asked if she really can do it. but that was the only coma , she's way older than I am. I'm thinking of opening a shop one of this days just to appreciate her. May God bless her.

I just wish I can marry her tbh.

Do not forget that lady.

IconicR:
Men are leeches

Modern generation men are becoming very weak

My rule is conquer me into submission and I'll totally submit else I slip away.

Topics like this irritate the hell out of me

conquer with bruises you mean, toxic LovePeddler.

Obakoolex:

Na like this some feminist go dey view this thread.

Lol.

HYDEEE:
Teach us about life knowledgeable one.

Please we are begging Socrate abi Plato teach us I no blame u na person way borrow u data I blame

Ballzproblem2:
like it's crazy, seeing financially successful men going for village uneducated women , disgusting.

Everyone is moved by interest, men cherish respect a lot, I do too.

it's easier to get those you called uneducated village girls listen and cooperate with their man in marriage than those you think are exposed, enlightened or wealthy to meet up with the man's financial status. Men want their peace of mind and the security of their homes.
To me, if you already have the money to make yourself and home comfortable, you don't need to marry someone who will trouble your peace of mind just because she too is coming from wealthy family

DrAkpamudehe:


No wonder you never see husband .
How much was ya papa's worth when he marry ya mummy ? Nonsense

Abeg take am easy no be everybody still carry sense for head this jenny fit be like that no too blame am just dey pray for her

Jennyclay:
It’s a general thing for both men and women. Nobody wants to settle for less. You must be extremely rich before you can even be my friend not to talk of being in a relationship with me.

I’m so allergic to broke, poverty stricken, good for nothing church rats wretched men.

If you’re doing dirty work like Keke driver, bus
conductor, shoe maker, road side mechanic
, carpenter, barber e.t.c and you approach me, I will give you the insult of your life. You’ll regret the day you were born.

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear. I didn’t come to this life to suffer.

Girl, don't let life do you shegee, otherwise you will regret every statement you made.The position you occupy now is not because just you merited it.Don't forget that no matter how beautiful and adorable you look now, one day you will desire help.My point is, do not be selfish

You guys can’t keep believing in strict gender roles and responsibilities while making posts like these. You have to be choose one side. Plain and simple

Always putting yourselves into cages, boxes and prisons of your own making

So your relationship will fail because she’s older than you? Or you care more about what other people will think than your own happiness?

Offpointng:
There's just one Lady like that I've met during NYSC who I swore then I would have married if I made it. well I did made it but Bro she's way older than I am. she's 6years older than I am

But Mehnn this girl cared for me when I had nothing, respected me in that stage despite being older and would always do anything I asked if she really can do it. but that was the only coma , she's way older than I am. I'm thinking of opening a shop one of this days just to appreciate her. May God bless her.

I just wish I can marry her tbh.

Ballzproblem2:
like it's crazy, seeing financially successful men going for village uneducated women , disgusting.

There's nothing disgusting there!, nothing beats peace of mind, you're the unwise one here

TheBillyonaire:
A man's role in the world is to suffer and fend for his family - his wife, his children, his relatives, himself and the society as best as he can.

If a woman has the desire to help out, by all means she can, otherwise she can chill, watch Netflix and have sex with her husband. A woman's role is bring happiness to her home, nurture the children and her husband and remain the queen of the empire and feminine energy of the universe.

Any man who insists that his wife must assist him, lowers himself and should be banished from gentlemen's club.

Nonsense rule made by men of yesteryears during the stone age!

Rapmoney:
This is just a piece of my opinion which is based on the realities on ground. Nigerian men should not lower their guard when it comes to dating and marriage. We compromise too much when it involves romance, especially among our Eastern brothers.

Arinze, you dey hustle since you graduate in 2010. You don toil sotay the skin for your palms don hard like Okpella granite. Now, Baba God don show you love small, come bless you with comfortable life. The first thing you did was to pick a girl from a financially weak background for dating or marriage because of big yansh and breasts. You polished her and has also done a lot for her family. Let me tell you, that same girl and her family would not accept you if you weren't comfortable.

In Nigeria, it's only bad for a man to be broke and not a lady. Broke men are useless while broke women are angels.

If you are a man who has struggled very hard to achieve comfort for yourself, you need a class of woman who will complement your status and not just anybody because that same anybody no go send you if you no get bread.

The only women that should be deserving of your financial generosity should be your mum and sisters. Except she is a girl who has supported you of which I know it is very scarce to see in Nigeria. Getting a Nigeria girl who can support you, even if it is shikini these days is like[b][/b][/b] betting on Enugu Rangers to beat Manchester City and still expecting to win[b][b][/b].

Na as e be me for mind I talk am. I know say this post fit vex some people.

Timely message but the wrong audience.

The average Nigerian man is too sex-starved and money tied to their self esteem to do such.

Don’t settle for less

Jennyclay:
It’s a general thing for both men and women. Nobody wants to settle for less. You must be extremely rich before you can even be my friend not to talk of being in a relationship with me.

I’m so allergic to broke, poverty stricken, good for nothing church rats wretched men.

If you’re doing dirty work like Keke driver, bus conductor, shoe maker, road side mechanic, carpenter, barber e.t.c and you approach me, I will give you the insult of your life. You’ll regret the day you were born.

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear. I didn’t come to this life to suffer.

What is your present job. Do you earn millions,if so then i agree with you!

Vinnie2000:


Struggling Guys when they Finally Make it should TARGET
FRESH, CHASTE Girls between 21,22Years for Marriage! 🤨🙂

Dat's what HE Peter Obi did when he started making money @30,31Years!. ☺️☺️

It's FOOLISH for any Guy to use his HARD EARNED MONEY
to Marry a Girl who has been FUCCKED by BigMen, Ex-Boyfriends, Politicians and Yahoo Boys! 😒😕

On the contrary, Peter Obi married a young 18 years old who already had two kids for two different men! To me, PO wasn't smart enough. It's reckless to be just 18 with 2 kids for diff men. I can't deal!