₦airaland Forum

Jennyclay:
It’s a general thing for both men and women. Nobody wants to settle for less. You must be extremely rich before you can even be my friend not to talk of being in a relationship with me.

I’m so allergic to broke, poverty stricken, good for nothing church rats wretched men.

If you’re doing dirty work like Keke driver, bus conductor, shoe maker, road side mechanic, carpenter, barber e.t.c and you approach me, I will give you the insult of your life. You’ll regret the day you were born.

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear. I didn’t come to this life to suffer.

Jennyclay:
It’s a general thing for both men and women. Nobody wants to settle for less. You must be extremely rich before you can even be my friend not to talk of being in a relationship with me.

I’m so allergic to broke, poverty stricken, good for nothing church rats wretched men.

If you’re doing dirty work like Keke driver, bus conductor, shoe maker, road side mechanic, carpenter, barber e.t.c and you approach me, I will give you the insult of your life. You’ll regret the day you were born.

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear. I didn’t come to this life to suffer.

cococandy:
Always putting yourselves into cages, boxes and prisons of your own making

So your relationship will fail because she’s older than you? Or you care more about what other people will think than your own happiness?

Jennyclay:
It’s a general thing for both men and women. Nobody wants to settle for less. You must be extremely rich before you can even be my friend not to talk of being in a relationship with me.

I’m so allergic to broke, poverty stricken, good for nothing church rats wretched men.

If you’re doing dirty work like Keke driver, bus conductor, shoe maker, road side mechanic, carpenter, barber e.t.c and you approach me, I will give you the insult of your life. You’ll regret the day you were born.

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear. I didn’t come to this life to suffer.

Offpointng:
You really can't understand

Vinnie2000:
Struggling Guys when they Finally Make it should TARGET
FRESH, CHASTE Girls between 21,22Years for Marriage! 🤨🙂

Dat's what HE Peter Obi did when he started making money @30,31Years!. ☺️☺️

It's FOOLISH for any Guy to use his HARD EARNED MONEY
to Marry a Girl who has been FUCCKED by BigMen, Ex-Boyfriends, Politicians and Yahoo Boys! 😒😕

Rapmoney:
Na as e be me for mind I talk am. I know say this post fit vex some people.

talented321:
Whether hard earned or easy earn, it's not advisable to have anything to do with any woman who is not business orientated and a woman who believe it is your duty to do everything for her...

Daniel7543:
E be like say dis thread pain u well well

Jennyclay:
It’s a general thing for both men and women. Nobody wants to settle for less. You must be extremely rich before you can even be my friend not to talk of being in a relationship with me.

I’m so allergic to broke, poverty stricken, good for nothing church rats wretched men.

If you’re doing dirty work like Keke driver, bus conductor, shoe maker, road side mechanic, carpenter, barber e.t.c and you approach me, I will give you the insult of your life. You’ll regret the day you were born.

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear. I didn’t come to this life to suffer.

Rapmoney:
This is just a piece of my opinion which is based on the realities on ground. Nigerian men should not lower their guard when it comes to dating and marriage. We compromise too much when it involves romance, especially among our Eastern brothers.

Arinze, you dey hustle since you graduate in 2010. You don toil sotay the skin for your palms don hard like Okpella granite. Now, Baba God don show you love small, come bless you with comfortable life. The first thing you did was to pick a girl from a financially weak background for dating or marriage because of big yansh and breasts. You polished her and has also done a lot for her family. Let me tell you, that same girl and her family would not accept you if you weren't comfortable.

In Nigeria, it's only bad for a man to be broke and not a lady. Broke men are useless while broke women are angels.

If you are a man who has struggled very hard to achieve comfort for yourself, you need a class of woman who will complement your status and not just anybody because that same anybody no go send you if you no get bread.

The only women that should be deserving of your financial generosity should be your mum and sisters. Except she is a girl who has supported you of which I know it is very scarce to see in Nigeria. Getting a Nigeria girl who can support you, even if it is shikini these days is like betting on Enugu Rangers to beat Manchester City and still expecting to win.

Na as e be me for mind I talk am. I know say this post fit vex some people.

Jennyclay:
It’s a general thing for both men and women. Nobody wants to settle for less. You must be extremely rich before you can even be my friend not to talk of being in a relationship with me.

I’m so allergic to broke, poverty stricken, good for nothing church rats wretched men.

If you’re doing dirty work like Keke driver, bus conductor, shoe maker, road side mechanic, carpenter, barber e.t.c and you approach me, I will give you the insult of your life. You’ll regret the day you were born.

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear. I didn’t come to this life to suffer.

temptnow:
You're obviously still young, life nova touch you.

Vinnie2000:
Struggling Guys when they Finally Make it should TARGET
FRESH, CHASTE Girls between 21,22Years for Marriage! 🤨🙂

Dat's what HE Peter Obi did when he started making money @30,31Years!. ☺️☺️

It's FOOLISH for any Guy to use his HARD EARNED MONEY
to Marry a Girl who has been FUCCKED by BigMen, Ex-Boyfriends, Politicians and Yahoo Boys! 😒😕

CaveAdullam:
I agree.

1. Men shouldn't settle for less. Which is an appropriate method to apply since women aren't settling for less.

2. Relationship in our contemporary day is more of economics than love and romance. In such cases, men must be pragmatic and extend this romantic economics to cover and protect their interests.

That's, as a (rich) man, date like the people in charge of empires and dynasties. They don't marry commoners and peasants. Follow the same route.

3. It's fine if women want to play the same game. It's an open field. However, each side - male and female have a lot of compromises to make and a lot of quid pro quo to enhance their game and optimize their wins.

4. However, men date low. While women date high.

So, a rich man would rather have a harem of broken beautiful women (which most women prefer to be in a relationship with instead of a broke poor man) than be in a relationship with the daughter of the richest man in the world. Both strategies have their pros and cons.

5. Being married to a harem of broke (beautiful) women grants him the ability to live as freely as he desires. No woman can limit his urge except he chooses to.

But some rich men who are blinded by romance allow their "idol woman" to restrict them. She becomes his god and he, her follower.

Being married to a rich woman limits his authority in the home. And even proves difficult when said woman is from a wealthy home.

Considering both sides, his compromise is predicated on his short and long-term interests.

6. In the real sense, it's women who see romance as business. Men see romance as romance accompanied by plethoras of sacrifices.

But we're in a bastardized world. It's foolish to reward those who weren't loyal to you due to your low performance, penury, and shame.

7. A rich woman will always play higher. She's winning already.

Poor women have lower chances of winning even though they can also play the game.

The best is to hustle for men with a relentless pursuit of their desires. Ambitious men who dare the devil at his gate. Men who would rather die than settle for less. They must bear with these men in love and hate; joy and sorrow; pain and pleasures.

These are the men who wouldn't treat them as trash when they become part of the high table. Yes, they must compromise their fertility + youth for such men. The risk is lower compared to being classified as a leech. During the process of struggling together, she can establish her stakes.

8. But women are too emotional + stúpid.

They rather trade long-term goals for short-term goals, wanting men who treat them as trash and in the end, come up with a series of woes, lamentations, and regrets, full of resentment and developed witchy attitudes.

Like I said earlier, the relationship these days is all about economics. Fake people. Fake love.

Elxandre:
In all you do don't go and marry a richer woman willingly sha in the name of not settling for less.
In verydarkman's voice, "you'll learn" 😂

Doesn't mean you should marry a complete liability though.
But the best thing is to have a woman you met while still poorer. Any woman you meet after getting quite comfortable automatically shows you love which might be fake if you can't discern.

Rapmoney:
I no send you, baba. Maybe to you, learning life is all about littering every thread on Nairaland with meaningless comments.

cococandy:
. Mmhmm

Offpointng:
Truly speaking I've also got fears of dating/marrying a 30+ ladies not even this one that'd be like 33years by the time I want to settle. That's not a risk I'm willing to take

CaveAdullam:
I agree.

1. Men shouldn't settle for less. Which is an appropriate method to apply since women aren't settling for less.

2. Relationship in our contemporary day is more of economics than love and romance. In such cases, men must be pragmatic and extend this romantic economics to cover and protect their interests.

That's, as a (rich) man, date like the people in charge of empires and dynasties. They don't marry commoners and peasants. Follow the same route.

3. It's fine if women want to play the same game. It's an open field. However, each side - male and female have a lot of compromises to make and a lot of quid pro quo to enhance their game and optimize their wins.

4. However, men date low. While women date high.

So, a rich man would rather have a harem of broken beautiful women (which most women prefer to be in a relationship with instead of a broke poor man) than be in a relationship with the daughter of the richest man in the world. Both strategies have their pros and cons.

5. Being married to a harem of broke (beautiful) women grants him the ability to live as freely as he desires. No woman can limit his urge except he chooses to.

But some rich men who are blinded by romance allow their "idol woman" to restrict them. She becomes his god and he, her follower.

Being married to a rich woman limits his authority in the home. And even proves difficult when said woman is from a wealthy home.

Considering both sides, his compromise is predicated on his short and long-term interests.

6. In the real sense, it's women who see romance as business. Men see romance as romance accompanied by plethoras of sacrifices.

But we're in a bastardized world. It's foolish to reward those who weren't loyal to you due to your low performance, penury, and shame.

7. A rich woman will always play higher. She's winning already.

Poor women have lower chances of winning even though they can also play the game.

The best is to hustle for men with a relentless pursuit of their desires. Ambitious men who dare the devil at his gate. Men who would rather die than settle for less. They must bear with these men in love and hate; joy and sorrow; pain and pleasures.

These are the men who wouldn't treat them as trash when they become part of the high table. Yes, they must compromise their fertility + youth for such men. The risk is lower compared to being classified as a leech. During the process of struggling together, she can establish her stakes.

8. But women are too emotional + stúpid.

They rather trade long-term goals for short-term goals, wanting men who treat them as trash and in the end, come up with a series of woes, lamentations, and regrets, full of resentment and developed witchy attitudes.

Like I said earlier, the relationship these days is all about economics. Fake people. Fake love.

cococandy:
You should have stopped wasting her time from the beginning. Excuse yourself please

Thanks.

Offpointng:
Never told you I still have her with me

cococandy:
■ But you’re still thinking about her and you will end up marrying someone else knowing very well that your heart and preference is somewhere else. Good luck sha

TemplarLandry:
Childish epistle. Learn life.

cococandy:
But you’re still thinking about her and you will end up marrying someone else knowing very well that your heart and preference is somewhere else. Good luck sha

Offpointng:
I actually don't got plans ever marrying again. imma just look for a way to get one or two children and continue with my life with my mum helping out (Thank God she's still in her 50's)

cuz just like Ednut1 said "There's no true love for a man who is financially stable" everyone want to pretend they love you until life happens.

Offpointng:
I actually don't got plans ever marrying again. imma just look for a way to get one or two children and continue with my life with my mum helping out (Thank God she's still in her 50's)