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Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by Omolomo4eva(m): 6:53pm On Oct 06, 2023
Yes,in that situation,he's a customer
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by Chetas81(m): 6:55pm On Oct 06, 2023
tunjijones:


So if the husband is a taxi driver, the wife wld have to pay anytime he takes her out with the car.

Make Una dey reason na.
Which reason are you talking about, this are the mentality that killed business in Nigeria
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by wirinet(m): 6:57pm On Oct 06, 2023
vikstandon:



Yes or make he wash plate if em default.

Business is Business... Unless she is making provision for the food she didn't cook in the house.

If you want your business to outlive you, take away sentiment.

I am trying to understand your point. Are you saying that since "business is business", a husband should not in anyway be involved in his wife's business? If any problems or challenges happens in the business, the husband should either ignore or bill the wife to help out. For example, if the shop is damaged one way or the other, the husband should bill the business to fix it. If agberos disturbs the wife's business, he should just look and not show concern, because the wife's business is not his own business. Please let me understand.
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by DCONE1(m): 6:58pm On Oct 06, 2023
Jennyclay:
I won’t be bothered if he pays or not.

But I will always have my way of collecting back x10 of every single amount he ate in my restaurant without him even knowing.
God save us from women like this
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by wirinet(m): 7:00pm On Oct 06, 2023
juman:


You wrote as if its only husband that provide for the family.
No.
Many families, the mother is the main breadwinner.
As I stated before if the husband is good man that usually do his best on family finance, surely he would eat free of charge.
So if they woman is the breadwinner, she should not cook or feed her husband again? Eating at the restaurant or eating at home, what's the difference in terms of cost?

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Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by saintbillion(m): 7:01pm On Oct 06, 2023
Ahmed0336:
A wise man would pay after eating to encourage his wife and also to avoid future stories like "it's because of the free food you've been eating that's why my business crumbled"
The bolded caught my attention. Lol. I know of an incident where the husband use to pound fufu for the wife. The wife was doing mama put. So u expect the husband to pay after pounding big morter of future? grin grin
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by tunjijones(m): 7:01pm On Oct 06, 2023
Chetas81:
Which reason are you talking about, this are the mentality that killed obusiness in Nigeria

What about the children? Will they have to pay when they eat in their mother's restaurant?
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by tunize(m): 7:06pm On Oct 06, 2023
A responsible husband should pay after eating how else will the business grow?
In business there’s something called “ENTITY CONCEPT”
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by Styluss: 7:07pm On Oct 06, 2023
NO, I wont pay!
I'm sure I would have supported in that business
englishmart:
If a wife owns a restaurant, is her husband supposed to pay after eating?

This is a straightforward question.
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by juman(m): 7:10pm On Oct 06, 2023
wirinet:

So if they woman is the breadwinner, she should not cook or feed her husband again? Eating at the restaurant or eating at home, what's the difference in terms of cost?

I laugh.
There are some irresponsible husband that would eat recklessly in the wife´s restaurant if he is not checked.
If he desire to eat without caution, he should pay.
Some husband might eat several meats, take drinks etc.
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by egoldman(m): 7:20pm On Oct 06, 2023
Yes, business is business.
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by wirinet(m): 7:24pm On Oct 06, 2023
tunize:
A responsible husband should pay after eating how else will the business grow?
In business there’s something called “ENTITY CONCEPT”
Sorry to say you guys have no idea of business - practical business that is. What you are expert at is book business. Business read in text books.

A restaurant that cannot grow because a husband eat free food is not a business. I am sure she eats without paying also. As I said, the quantity of food the husband eats is the same quantity he will eat at home. This means the family is not eating well to begin with.

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Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by benzion72(m): 7:26pm On Oct 06, 2023
Africa mentality. How will the wife account for the family consumption from the business. Every shishi must be accounted for through proper payment by anybody
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by mooretes: 7:27pm On Oct 06, 2023
Imagine owning a company and everytime you need something you which you normally sell to customers, you take without paying - on the simple terms that afterall you own the company ... please how long do you think it will take before you go bust?
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by Adasun(m): 7:30pm On Oct 06, 2023
Jennyclay:
I won’t be bothered if he pays or not.

But I will always have my way of collecting back x10 of every single amount he ate in my restaurant without him even knowing.
my babe dey do me that thing eh, although I do noticed...
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by muelzik(m): 7:43pm On Oct 06, 2023
Tiny thinking


Yes, but no.
How can my wife feel comfortable with me paying for the food in a restaurant I support her financially to build.

So, yes, but NO, I won't pay for a plate of food except if the restaurant has a management team that prohibits such romantic treat.
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by Nobody: 7:53pm On Oct 06, 2023
The horseband should pay after Bleep
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by kdpikin(m): 7:58pm On Oct 06, 2023
Who funded the business in the first place? what am i eating that will bring down the business?

Zee0007:
If you want your wife's business to grow, you have to pay when you go to her shop. However, if your wife doesn't cook at home or can't package your food at home. Then there is a problem. Both of you need to sit down like mature adults and discuss your feeding plan.
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by mywells: 8:03pm On Oct 06, 2023
Sure he must pay,the food would just weigh more than a regular customer.
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by Bluffly: 8:04pm On Oct 06, 2023
Stupid question. Does the wife herself pays for food when she eats.

Does the husband spends his income alone?

A lot of idiots are getting g married recently
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by englishmart(m): 8:05pm On Oct 06, 2023
Geovanni412:


You may not like my answer

The husband must pay after eating at the restaurant and I'll explain why...

The idea is to follow due course of business

If she gives him exception, will she give exception to the husband's relations as well...where do you draw the line?

From personal experience, my father has constructed houses for his brother and for my grandfather

Both of them were billed accordingly. The only thing is when dealing with family, you may decide to give leeway as to means of collecting money or give a discount...it should never be free

When they reach home, she can prepare food for him separately.

Him paying does not mean he does not have stake in the restaurant. It is just to keep the flow of business going. He will still collect the money later.

Imagine he goes there with his cousin and they don't pay , next thing you know, his lazy cousin might try to exploit that opportunity.


You get my drift...
Very well.

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Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by Pepperoyinbo: 8:11pm On Oct 06, 2023
englishmart:
If a wife owns a restaurant, is her husband supposed to pay after eating?

This is a straightforward question.

There is no reason for him to pay. There is no way their children will not be eating out of the food prepared at the Restaurant. Who pays for your children in your own Restaurant? Who pays for your siblings' food whenever they come to eat in your Restaurant? Small things that should be overlooked are killing relationships/marriages. Any little argument over payment in that restaurant will definitely graduate to something big that could scatter the relationship/marriage.
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by yad2eidi: 8:13pm On Oct 06, 2023
No, bring your friends and eat there free
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by Kevineleven(m): 8:13pm On Oct 06, 2023
zedegit:


That's nonsense ideology. Your kind would beat their wife to stupor because you paid for her.
It breeds lazy men.
Wahala lol, Logana food we dey talk o, no be domestic violence.
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by Angelfrost(m): 8:16pm On Oct 06, 2023
Arizoner:
the best thing is to tell her to give me from the one she eat in her restaurant. For example, if she eats two wraps of eba per day. I will take one wrap, leave the other for her. If she takes two meats, i will divide the soup. One meat for you, one meat for her. Period. Nobody will complain later that i owe her money. Angelfrost how u see am?

Makes a lot of sense, Boss! grin
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by Boldideas: 8:18pm On Oct 06, 2023
englishmart:
If a wife owns a restaurant, is her husband supposed to pay after eating?

This is a straightforward question.

A real man ain't paying a dime. But a simple man dares not. I mean to say, am not paying a dime.
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by wirinet(m): 8:37pm On Oct 06, 2023
Pepperoyinbo:


There is no reason for him to pay. There is no way their children will not be eating out of the food prepared at the Restaurant. Who pays for your children in your own Restaurant? Who pays for your siblings' food whenever they come to eat in your Restaurant? Small things that should be overlooked are killing relationships/marriages. Any little argument over payment in that restaurant will definitely graduate to something big that could scatter the relationship/marriage.


Don't mind them? The wife too should pay anytime the husband use his car to take her anywhere, especially if he use his car to help her carry foodstuffs for the restaurant.
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by englishmart(m): 8:39pm On Oct 06, 2023
FODA:
if the husband drives a cab,will the wife pays when she enters for a trip .
Another beautiful angle.

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Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by englishmart(m): 8:40pm On Oct 06, 2023
Chochovini:
. Or even the mother or children.
They're online strong men

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Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by iamjavadem(m): 8:40pm On Oct 06, 2023
The food will always be delivered to me at home whether I pay or not., my wife will make sure of that
englishmart:
If a wife owns a restaurant, is her husband supposed to pay after eating?

This is a straightforward question.
Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by englishmart(m): 8:41pm On Oct 06, 2023
OceanEye:
Do you know a popular restaurant in Lagos called The Place? I know the owner, and one day I saw him queueing inside one of his restaurants to order for food after which he paid for it. That is the owner, paying for the food he bought.

It depends on kind of restaurant.

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Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by temitope23(m): 9:19pm On Oct 06, 2023
englishmart:
If a wife owns a restaurant, is her husband supposed to pay after eating?

This is a straightforward question.

Business succeeds when friends and families pay for services rendered to them.

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