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Jman06:
I don't blame women for how badly they treat men in marriage. I rather blame f00lish men who would work their butt off only to lavish the money on one ungrateful lady who would not hesitate to dump his assz if the money stops coming.

Men should desist from carrying women as responsibilities in this modern time! Not even in marriage! There's equal opportunities for both genders in all spheres of life, so why should you make a woman your responsibility Someone who'll not look back in treating you like trash when the chips are down. Stop being brainwashed by religious tales, after all modern women have discarded all the marital duties given to them by same bible!


These f00lish men would still call themselves logical beings but show no iota of logic when dealing with women.

Kukutente23:
The problem with you is your inability to stay in one place. Which are you fighting for? My grandmother in 1900s or the lady in 2023?
Getting a divorce is as easy as ABC in today's Nigeria even in the Conservative North!!
Don't argue what you don't know pls

Luckysbab:
You no reach. I know say your fish brain no go comprehend my initial message.

Na the man wey carry you put for house you fit use your crude attitude frustrate.

Jeon:
Men are very stupid. They think the bad seeds which they planted can never be harvested.

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But why are they so quick to cry and playing the victim if the Woman is no longer interested ?. And all the other fools will be blaming /insulting the woman without knowing the past events in the Marriage.

Jman06:
I don't blame women for how badly they treat men in marriage. I rather blame f00lish men who would work their butt off only to lavish the money on one ungrateful lady who would not hesitate to dump his assz if the money stops coming.
Men should desist from carrying women as responsibilities in this modern time! Not even in marriage! There's equal opportunities for both genders in all spheres of life, so why should you make a woman your responsibility Someone who'll not look back in treating you like trash when the chips are down. Stop being brainwashed by religious tales, after all modern women have discarded all the marital duties given to them by same bible!
These f00lish men would still call themselves logical beings but show no iota of logic when dealing with women.

1Sharon:
If you truly believed that, why una dey change when you travel abroad. Keep beating your wives now. I'll be waiting for your mugshot on front page.

Nazgul:
The man is very foolish. How can you be brutalizing your wife and not expect any kind of reaction from her? Like you beat her every now and then, and you're planning to relocate to a country where the rights of women are seriously protected by the law, and your relocation doesn't give you goosebumps?

Kobojunkie:
Her story is that the man lied about that.

maasoap:
■ Has any of them shown the evidences they claimed to have to the public? Or, we just have to agree that they're saying the truth? Common sense is not common these days sha

Jeon:
Men are very stupid. They think the bad seeds which they planted can never be harvested.

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But why are they so quick to cry and playing the victim if the Woman is no longer interested ?. And all the other fools will be blaming /insulting the woman without knowing the past events in the Marriage.

1stGenAmerican:
Then they move West and the men deserve the knife, gun, or courtroom the wife carries for them.

Discountsempai:
I had a feeling that there was more to the story.

It is like one story I heard about a man who was crying online about how his wife had left him and won't let him see their children. I was siding with the man, believing the man was suffering for nothing...until I heard the full story. Plus how the wife 1) had promises made to her broken 2) how she had to watch as her husband brought another woman into their house , with the child he had with the woman. Madam left as soon as she could....

The woman planned well for him.

Make he come back to Nigeria, make he come learn humility.

oliverwrites:
I try not to argue with anyone when they say a man beats a woman. Especially Nigerian women. The world is hypocritical towards men and it is disgusting.

ahnie:
I think she perfectly went Tyla on this man...she serve the breakfast Wella.

The man feelam... hopefully he gets deported back to Nigeria make he learn his lessons.

Tokotaya:
Microsecondnews Reporter 5 mins read

Friends defend Nigerian lady who ‘divorced’ her husband at Airport in London upon arrival

The dramatic case of a Nigerian man, Henry Osah, who arrived in the United Kingdom with his kids to reunite with his wife but was dumped at the airport by the wife who only took the kids with her is continuing to generate reactions.

Even as the lady in question has spoken up to defend her actions, a number of her friends are also speaking up in her defence.

At least one of the friends, Peace Obule, felt so strongly about the case that he prayed that the man would be deported back to Nigeria, adding that even then it would not be enough for what he did to his wife when she was with him in Nigeria.

The story was broken on an online community for Nigerians in the UK by a lady with the Twitter handle @jayydubby.

She wrote:

“Hello everyone,

A family friend of mine is in urgent need of a job with sponsorship. Last month, he arrived in the UK with his children as dependents and his wife went to pick them up at the airport and asked to see their children’s passports, which he handed over without any suspicion. She then told him that their marriage was over and wanted nothing to do with him. She took their children and abandoned him at the airport. He just come to the UK for the first time to join his wife, who came last year to study. He helped pay her fees and sold off everything he had to join her.

Today, the Home Office sent him a letter saying that he has until 1st of January, to return to Nigeria. He has nothing to go back to and may never see his children again.

I am pleading with anyone who can help him with a job referral so that he can stay and fight for his children. If you know of any job openings or can put him in touch with someone who might be able to help, please reach out to me. I would be incredibly grateful. 🙏🏼😥.”

Letter from the Home Office to the estranged husband. He must leave by January next year unless he finds a job.
Many netizens reacted to the post with cynicism, insisting that the marriage must have broken down before now for a woman to take that action.

JayDubby responded:

“For those saying it’s unbelievable, these are some of their chats before he travelled. They never quarrelled. She feigned happiness and was even asking which soup he would like to eat.
A Twitter user with the handle @tiffanyibeh responded with some venom, accusing JayDubby of not telling the whole truth.

She wrote: “A family friend of yours ?? And you want to say you Donno how he beats up his wife back in Nigeria?? He’s been beating her up for years!! And coming to the UK was her chance of getting freedom! She did what she did just to be with her kids again!”

When JayyDubby tried to rubbish her version of events, @tiffanyibeh responded:

“Do u want to see evidence of bruises? Do you want to listen to some recordings?? Long before he came those evidences got to the police already! Are you also aware he tried to hurt her at the airport again too My dear you are no family friend if u donno this story.”

@Jayydubby again wrote: “Lol. So that idea of her going to the airport in clutches was because of this?”

@tiffanyibeh: “She broke her leg! Evidence dey!!! No dey cap!!!”

@tiffanyibeh: “If you say you are a family friend and you don’t know this story then you are a liar! If you are not married yet may you marry a man like him.

Everyone is very much aware of how he hits his wife, down to his siblings and parents and they keep saying he’d change for years now! My dear you’d do exactly what she did if you were in her shoes.

Another friend @peaceobule also spoke up. He wrote:

“This Family friend named Henry Osah is a serial wife-beater and a manipulative husband. I’m deliberately not getting involved with this but if I’m pushed I will share receipts of his wickedness. Your family friend deserves everything that came to him. I hope he is deported to Nigeria.

How can Henry Osah use the kids as a bargaining chip with his wife. She struggled to go to the UK and since then you have held her to ransom. You deprived her access to the kids because you said if she doesn’t also help you to the UK, she wouldn’t see her kids.

The matter long.
https://microsecondnews.com/index.php/2023/11/04/friends-defend-nigerian-lady-who-divorced-her-husband-at-airport-in-london-upon-arrival/

Kukutente23:
What predicament is that? You're just everywhere and can't stay in one place. My grandmother inherited my grandfather's properties.

How the society views divorce is not the topic. Like i said, you're just jumping everywhere. She could have divorced him when she was in Nigeria if that was the sole reason on her mind. Her decision to do that when she had the upper hand shows more of a class struggle than quest for survival.
I won't be surprised if she already has a lover over there.

Chi133:
He should be deported. Men are scums

Fiscus105:
This wife is deadler than husband, infact she is a serpent, the level of blame I gave the husband reduced wen I read the extent the wife dealt with her man, who is also father of her children, in future, how will she stand and face him, if occasions call for it.

Did she even think, if she can still need his assistant in future?


Woman will take decisions without thinking twice.


A wise person would have given him last chance in UK to try nonsense before doing that, at least, she would be able to justify her actions .

Fearyourcreator:
Me beat woman for Wetin ... I go send you away claiming equal right inside my house ... I dey tell my daughter if you claim equal right for your husband house na she go suffer am... I hate nonsense

Nazgul:
I don't know what is it you're defending. But the pictures of her bruised skin is there on the front page for you to see.

My point for the post I made which you choose not to see isn't the sacrifice the man made, but that he failed to settle things with her.

If you beat your wife, and after a while you begin to feel bad, hold her hands and apologize to her, it won't cost you anything.

Don't go out there and buy her an expensive material item; and expect that your gift should serve as an apology. It doesn't work that way. In most cases, she would still be holding that grudge against you because you never officially told her you were sorry for what you did to her.

That's exactly what the man did. He sold all he had to send her to the UK without apologizing for what he did. Unfortunately, she was still holding it against him and acted when the opportunity presented itself.

Kobojunkie:
Those supporting the man should help him with accommodation so he can begin properly fighting his case there in the UK.

NwaNimo1:
Two wrongs = Right?

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Magnoliaa:
Lmaooo. Abi they have help him ni. I was on a Twitter space where they were discussing the matter yesterday. The host said that every single person that was defending the man pulled back and refused to come forward. Even the man himself, when he was shown his wife's account of the story, what he said was; "I have nothing more to say or the matter" or something like that. Nobody accepted to come forward for him.

Kobojunkie:
1. Sue her how?

2. The UK already gave the man until January 2024 to find his roots or be deported. You don't seem to know how the UK works at all but you publicly beat your chest in ignorance, why?

Hezmatosky:
This is exactly why the man was beating his wife. Probably the man don see whin. For the woman to act like that, she's very mean. A man won't have such mind against his children mother. If i be the man, very easy for me, give God all the glory, atleast children won't suffer. I will pick up a job quickly as possible, put myself together, turn a new leaf, be a church person, triple my hustle, because she will like to get information about me from friends. Then let's see what happens within 5yrs. I know she will come begging. But then, i will still forgive her

blackslayer:
Serves the buffoon wife beater right! I hate men that have zero self control and beat on their wife! No real man will raise their hands on any woman. Good on the woman, she served him a nice dish of payback is a bitch**! Deport him! Wife beater ain't no man!

43Ronin:
■ he can write to the home office and claim the wife defrauded him into the marriage so that she can use his resources to run the UK. he can also claim that there are no legal documents backing the divorce and she lied to the home office.. he can evidence his account as POF. she did not think it through properly.
■ I know someone that did same to her husband he just did the above and she was repatriated back to naija.

Kobojunkie:
Una too dey like make yeye noise! Where is this your evidence of fraud? You think say if the man tell that kain lie to the government dem no go deport am, and add am for visa ban list for life put?