Romanoff:


He didn't send her abroad. According to the woman's story, her parents and friends funded her move abroad. The man has not held a job since 2016. Her parents even opened a business for him with an office, he squandered the money and kept beating her. He beat her whilst she was 8 months pregnant and beat her till she miscarried a 6 weeks pregnancy.

It's funny how Nairaland refused to post the woman's response with evidences.

crystalmoon:
Stop parroting the constitution of Israel with regards to the modern world

Magnoliaa:


The other party has spoken.

Infact, he spoke first. It is on this thread. The man's family friend came to share the story first. They literally had the advantage and the upper hand of being the first narrators.

But as the saying goes, no be who fess call police dey win case.


The man came to share his story first, and he has refused to speak again so don't hold your breath waiting for him to say anything.

1Sharon:
Some men are anti-japa so they can have the freedom to beat their wives.

To add insult to injury, I'm certain he was beating his wife in front of the kids.

Kukutente23:

And you're sure he treated her badly because you were there abi
You conveniently forgot the part of he sold all he had for her to travel.
If she hated him that much, why didn't she divorce him before leaving Nigeria so she can go with her kids?

viodemus:



I will implicate her, she was aiding and abetting me. She wants to kidnap our kids. Just dey messy with the system with her.

I don't support such actions, but am saying the guy can be petty, and with a kind fair lawyer, they can mess her reputation like she want to do to him.

I must admit, I don't know their specific issue history, but I kinda have a fair knowledge of UK laws, not like I know America or Brazil tho.

Jeon:
Men are very stupid. They think the bad seeds which they planted can never be harvested.

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But why are they so quick to cry and playing the victim if the Woman is no longer interested ?. And all the other fools will be blaming /insulting the woman without knowing the past events in the Marriage.

Kobojunkie:
Those supporting the man should help him with accommodation so he can begin properly fighting his case there in the UK. The woman does not want him living with her and also filed for divorce — this is, of course, assuming their marriage is registered in the courts. So long as the marriage is registered in the courts — not traditional marriage — all he can work for is to be allowed to stay in the UK and maybe fight for custody of his kids. If their union was a traditional one, then he should probably find ways to get money from his supporters to return to Nigeria.

crystalmoon:
Stop parroting the constitution of Israel with regards to the modern world

Kukutente23:

Read again the WhatsApp chat and see who is sounding aggressive between the two.
Three pic could be from anywhere. It is not confirmed.
Though i realise going to the UK must be an agreement between the two as a survival strategy and she feels since he's in the UK, she has fulfilled her part.
But to claim he mistreated her as the reason for her behaviour is an obvious lie.

1Sharon:


Lol you're so pathetic I swear, why are you now changing mouth again?

Lord as in oga, okay o.

If you said all of this to a white woman, she'd chew you alive for this kind of mentality, but you'd still go for her.

Magnoliaa:


No, no, no, no. Calm down and don't flip your point on me.

You stance was how the picture evidence is a k-leg because of the seeming impossibility of he beating her from Nigeria, right?

You asked, "did he beat her through the phone?"

If you want to argue where the bruise is from is a different matter. I only show your logic false that he couldn't have beaten her if they were together.


But you'll agree that if they were together and he used to beat her, she could have taken the picture as an evidence to use later, hence why she can post it now.


A police report from an institution that tells you that "we nor dey meddle for husband and wife matter. Na civil matter. Go resolve am for your family?" Abi nor be watin dem dey talk be that? So what's this delusion? Are you not in Nigeria?

Does it sound reasonable? Does it sound reasonable to you too that a woman will collect her children from her husband and have him deported without reason? If the man had the money for travelling, why didn't he sponsor his own self?

I dont understand. Are you saying that some men aren't stupid or irrationally terrible? A man that cheats on his wife still come home and expect her to respect and cook for him.

Are humans not also crassly opportunistic? You're acting as it you don't know dumb men or that men are incapable of being dumb and brazen. They are people that abuse you and still feel entitled to you. Everything about you and in you. Your time, your energy, your resources, your sweat, your devotion, they want it all even while stomping on you. Yes, it's a foolish thought. But he thought it all the way. It's an abuser's playbook and their idea of control. It is exactly the same way a cheating man expects his wife not to cheat on him in turn, that is exactly the reasoning behind this man wanting to eat from whom he's shat on.

ahnie:
I said it on the other thread...women don't just dump their husbands like that,she must have endured his toxicity for years.

We masked our feelings n hatred alot and always wait for the right time to strike, underestimate a woman at your own peril.


Immediately I read the topic,I already knew our bobo was a toxic
Person who must have dealt massively with his wife...some naija men and toxicity.

When you start hitting on your wife she channels all atom of love she has for you to the kids and that ends it all,she may be giving you her body,and patiently waiting for you to slip then she strikes.

If it were me....I would do same to him no hard feelings.

1Sharon:


Illiterate.

Luckysbab:


ATTRACTED is the word.

Magnoliaa:


No, no, no, no. Calm down and don't flip your point on me.

You stance was how the picture evidence is a k-leg because of the seeming impossibility of he beating her from Nigeria, right?

You asked, "did he beat her through the phone?"

If you want to argue where the bruise is from is a different matter. I only show your logic false that he couldn't have beaten her if they were together.


But you'll agree that if they were together and he used to beat her, she could have taken the picture as an evidence to use later, hence why she can post it now.


A police report from an institution that tells you that "we nor dey meddle for husband and wife matter. Na civil matter. Go resolve am for your family?" Abi nor be watin dem dey talk be that? So what's this delusion? Are you not in Nigeria?

Does it sound reasonable? Does it sound reasonable to you too that a woman will collect her children from her husband and have him deported without reason? If the man had the money for travelling, why didn't he sponsor his own self?

I dont understand. Are you saying that some men aren't stupid or irrationally terrible? A man that cheats on his wife still come home and expect her to respect and cook for him.

Are humans not also crassly opportunistic? You're acting as it you don't know dumb men or that men are incapable of being dumb and brazen. They are people that abuse you and still feel entitled to you. Everything about you and in you. Your time, your energy, your resources, your sweat, your devotion, they want it all even while stomping on you. Yes, it's a foolish thought. But he thought it all the way. It's an abuser's playbook and their idea of control. It is exactly the same way a cheating man expects his wife not to cheat on him in turn, that is exactly the reasoning behind this man wanting to eat from whom he's shat on.

1stGenAmerican:


The UK already sent his deportation letter, he has until January 1st. They won’t deport her or the kids, she’s already told the authorities about his abusive history with her and her kids in Nigeria which she’s sure to face again if deported.
This isn’t a dumb woman that he’s dealing with—she’s already outsmarted him in the ultimate way.

wittywriter:
Domestic Violence is a No No.

If you are in such relationship or marriage kindly leave by either separation or divorce.
Don't die before your time.

It's whatsapp and she must have shared/sent it with a friend/family when it happened hence made it available for a defence case for abandoning the man in UK...no brainer.


Wittyness.

Fiscus105:




This wife is deadler than husband, infact she is a serpent, the level of blame I gave the husband reduced wen I read the extent the wife dealt with her man, who is also father of her children. In future, how will she stand and face him if occasions call for it.

Did she even think, if she can still need his assistant in future?


Woman will take decisions without thinking twice.


A wise person would have given him last chance in UK to try nonsense before doing that, at least, she would be able to justify her actions .

Orinechi:
Marriage is for better; for worse. If u die in marriage, u didn't die for nothing. At least u died for what u believe in. Bible is clear in that regard

Fountainofyouth:



You are stu.pid, a mentally deranged human is better than you believe me, where did the bible say such nonsense quote the book, chapter and verse you ignorant entity, imagine using the word of God as an excuse for suffering you below par human that threw his IQ away

Imagine saying this nonsense because a woman is at the receiving end, will you as a man stay and die in such kind of marriage? You think on the last day you will be judged based for being married or suffering in marriage? You think being married automatically guarantee heaven for you? Very ignorant nomenclature reading his bible upside-down.

godofuck231:
Revoke your sponsorship, and watch her return to her village , all those old prostitutte when de do sec chats inside husband house, wait make Nigerians hear the other side , una gutter go full