1Sharon:


Na una favourite verse be that. That's why atheists call you guys cherry pickers.

Don't forget the same bible also says husbands submit to your wife and any man that can't care for his family is an infidel.

You see now ... you brought Christianity in now you said bible said husbands should submit to a woman... see your life ... it's said love your wife... a man is superior... respect that then the man must love a submissive wife ... simple ... you see that equal right is no problem to me ... just share bills too and other responsibilities too ... why should a man love an abusive wife ...

crystalmoon:
you don start again

Start what exactly Sir... did you even see where she started from... and this will be the first time I posted a Bible verse on NL

luminouz:

You have a point but I thought the man sponsored the wife to the UK with his money?

He probably did still believing the marriage was intact and within his firm control.

She probably played along to get what she wanted.

Will you just shut up that your stinky smelling cavity....na man wey respect himself them dey submit to.

Fearyourcreator:

You see now ... you brought Christianity in now you said bible said husbands should submit to a woman... see your life ... it's said love your wife... a man is superior... respect that then the man must love a submissive wife ... simple ... you see that equal right is no problem to me ... just share bills too and other responsibilities too ... why should a man love an abusive wife ...

I pity the woman in your life.

Kobojunkie:
Her story is that the man lied about that.

Wow... I didn't even see this one sef. Thank you for showing this.


Patriarchy won't allow most Nigerian men be Emotionally Intelligent.

harjay1986:


In as much as we disagree to agree, have made up my mind that anything that make me slap a woman am dating hmmmmm thats the end of the relationship... beating woman is a no for me and right now I don dey inject the same to my children.. you must defend them just that women a stupid but anyway just let go of that stupidity and move on

Just dey pray make you no see real women wahala

maasoap:


Still typical example of "use and dump". "Previous unresolved domestic violence" my ass when she gladly accepted him sponsoring her abroad. Unresolved indeed, as if husbands were always the wicked and guilty partners in relationships. Like men don't overlook bad behaviour of their wives.

Asin ehn... like they were saints ... very crazy

43Ronin:
while the woman maybe right the decision was laced with emotions & not properly thought out. how is she going to combine schooling, working and taking care of 3 children? in London for that matter. worse still she divorced the man so there's no hope of financial assistance from him since he would be supposedly in naija. men.. she will regret this decision. knowing fully well that UK law favors her, she would have used the man to balance hustle and bring funds for upkeep.
she will definitely suffer for a long time. chaiiii....

Can the possibility she already find herself a boyfriend be ruled out, maybe she even lives together with a man hence why she had to ensure the husband no follow her reach house.

The whole action seems premeditated, thats my red flag

Fearyourcreator:

You see now ... you brought Christianity in now you said bible said husbands should submit to a woman... see your life ... it's said love your wife... a man is superior... respect that then the man must love a submissive wife ... simple ... you see that equal right is no problem to me ... just share bills too and other responsibilities too ... why should a man love an abusive wife ...

Ephesians 5:21- submit to one another.

Don't even try it. You made it about christianity when you equated a husband to God. Where did that thinking come from?

1Sharon:
■ Ephesians 5:21- submit to one another.
Don't even try it. You made it about christianity when you equated a husband to God. Where did that thinking come from?

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maasoap:

I see used and dumped, simple as ABC. Used him to travel abroad, used him to bring the kids over. No marriage is perfect, anyone who wants out of marriage for any reason will still have to find a way to put the fault on the other partner

He was unemployed since 2016 abi 17 so how did she use him?

reddingtonblack:




Women will never accept they did wrong, they will find every means to bring in domestic violence to save face at all cost.
A woman will bring bastard home and still claim she did it to save the man reputation

If the husband was a beast indeed why can't the wife go through the proper process to divorce the man and seek custody of the kids @least she stands favorable hearing abroad, all that evidence her friends were bragging they have why not put it to good use in court.

A woman just defrauded a man of his children and she knows so well "Domestic violence" in one sure umbrella to hide under, just shout he slap me and the whole society will hang the man

when Mercy aigbe was sleeping around all she did to justify her infidelity was post picture of swollen lips and that was it, Gentry was hanged. Nedu ex wife till date never accepted she did wrong despite proof those kids are bastards.

IF the man is evil and there are evidences then why use deceit to take the kids why not go for a fair hearing in court abroad

That gender Sabi lie die... man wey never collect that blackmail go dey claim strong man... I dey always look them laugh... very funny lots ... her actions shows she wasn't a good woman in the first place ... I will never support beating a woman ... just send am away before she turns one into a monster... they Sabi abuse like crazy

1Sharon:

Ephesians 5:21- submit to one another.

Don't even try it. You made it about christianity when you equated a husband to God. Where did that thinking come from?

Wahala ... I emphasized on it as oga ... men is superior or you wan argue that again ni... Lord asin your oga ... your boss ... your husband is your boss... if you no gree this no marry else you go collect ooo... all these agidi you dey do ... you go collect big time

And they will still not learn.

Pity the next woman he go jam.
He will release all his venom on her

A man who beats his wife besides in self defense does not deserve her. Neither is he a man.

Kobojunkie:
You are being dishonest here. The man had no problem seeing her, his wife, in severe pain while he was punching and dragging her by the hair. The sake of the children was not on his mind all that while. But you feel she should not want to see him go through pain?

He calls to demand money for beer and peppersoup from her, how does that even sound, take note if he ever called to demand money for beer and peppersoup then they were in good terms. I believe he may have done something that provoke her, but not to the extent which she wants people to believe. Just a little kindness is what i was expecting from her.

Fearyourcreator:

Wahala ... I emphasized on it as oga ... men is superior or you wan argue that again ni... Lord asin your oga ... your boss ... your husband is your boss... if you no gree this no marry else you go collect ooo... all these agidi you dey do ... you go collect big time

Lol you're so pathetic I swear, why are you now changing mouth again?

Lord as in oga, okay o.

If you said all of this to a white woman, she'd chew you alive for this kind of mentality, but you'd still go for her.

Salowise:
When we give opinion in an issue we're not 100% sure of we should try not to act as if we were present when the whole thing started.

Great, then keep quiet if you don't know the whole story. Or why are you suggesting that she shouldn't have left him with nothing to fall back on?

When they were together, did he have anything? If she had died in that marriage, who will you be preaching to to be wise?

You don't know the whole story but you're judging her action.

Always balance your statement, don't be one sided until you here from both sides, also everything might be true but can also be exaggerated to paint him more evil.

This is literally the other side of the issue! We've heard from both sides.

Man: My wife has filed to have me deported back to Nigeria. She collected my kids from me. She left me stranded at the airport. I need a job. Help me, please.

People: Women are w.ic.ked. Women are evil. That's how they become demons in obodo oyinbo. Because they want to be free, they'll treat a good man bad! Fear them!

Woman comes out to clarify: That's not what happened. I was abused. He couldn't hold a job. He beat my kids and kept them away from me. He didn't send me to the UK. He wants to blackmail me.

People again: Ummmmm, I'll wait to hear from the other side of the story. They just want to demonise the man sfkofedcjuiknffdfsvdjjgddh.


The man literally came to share his story first! He had the chance and the attention of the public! Everyone was on his side.

When he came to demonise the woman, and people piled on her----were they present?! Did anybody give her the benefit of doubt? If she had formed a "mature silent woman" that is how the public opinion against her would have remained damaged, and everyone will be using it as an argument point. Same with the Hakimi case till this day.

And mind you, the man and his relatives have kept quiet. The friend of the man who came to share the story posted another screenshot from him, he said he wasn't going to say anything anymore after seeing the push back of evidence from the wife and her friends. You think an innocent person would not have come out to defend themself since?

For me i don't really care if they divorce or not, but at least he should start up life from there, just that grace from his wife.

He should start up life from there so he can continue to pummel and leech off her 👍.

Salowise:
■ He calls to demand money for beer and peppersoup from her, how does that even sound, take note if he ever called to demand money for beer and peppersoup then they were in good terms. I believe he may have done something that provoke her, but not to the extent which she wants people to believe. Just a little kindness is what i was expecting from her.

You didn't even bother to read through the story at all yet you are set strongly against the way she responded to him? Go dey argue with yourself for one corner there abeg!

Luckysbab:


If the reverse was the case, I'm sure you will talk down on the man. There's a name for that "women can do no wrong" syndrome.

He "enslaved and brutalized" her but somehow still allowed her to japa to a brighter future abi?

It's a good Nollywood script, I admit.

I also feel there's still more to this story , while I do not support the man beating his wife , I'm usually not quick to jump to any conclusions when a woman is involved. This could just be the surface of everything that has happened

Magnoliaa:


Great, then keep quiet if you don't know the whole story. Or why are you suggesting that she shouldn't have left him with nothing to fall back on?

When they were together, did he have anything? If she had died in that marriage, who will you be preaching to to be wise?

You don't know the whole story but you're judging her action.



This is literally the other side of the issue! We've heard from both sides.

Man: My wife has filed to have me deported back to Nigeria. She collected my kids from me. She left me stranded at the airport. I need a job. Help me, please.

People: Women are w.ic.ked. Women are evil. That's how they become demons in obodo oyinbo. Because they want to be free, they'll treat a good man bad! Fear them!

Woman comes out to clarify: That's not what happened. I was abused. He couldn't hold a job. He beat my kids and kept them away from me. He didn't send me to the UK. He wants to blackmail me.

People again: Ummmmm, I'll wait to hear from the other side of the story. They just want to demonise the man sfkofedcjuiknffdfsvdjjgddh.


The man literally came to share his story first! He had the chance and the attention of the public! Everyone was on his side.

When he came to demonise the woman, and people piled on her----were they present?! Did anybody give her the benefit of doubt? If she had formed a "mature silent woman" that is how the public opinion against her would have remained damaged, and everyone will be using it as an argument point. Same with the Hakimi case till this day.

And mind you, the man and his relatives have kept quiet. The friend of the man who came to share the story posted another screenshot from him, he said he wasn't going to say anything anymore after seeing the push back of evidence from the wife and her friends. You think an innocent person would not have come out to defend themself since?



He should start up life from there so he can continue to pummel and leech off her 👍.

I'm 100% entitled to my opinion, there's nothing bad if you make your point without adding insult.

Kobojunkie:
You didn't even bother to read through the story at all yet you are set strongly against the way she responded to him? Go dey argue with yourself for one corner there abeg!

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wittywriter:
Domestic Violence is a No No.

If you are in such relationship or marriage kindly leave by either separation or divorce.
Don't die before your time.

It's whatsapp and she must have shared/sent it with a friend/family when it happened hence made it available for a defence case for abandoning the man in UK...no brainer.


Wittyness.

I repeat, story get k leg. There are lots of missing pieces.

With time the full story will emerge.

Then I give an opinion, if I have one

Salowise:
I'm 100% entitled to my opinion, there's nothing bad if you make your point without adding insult.

And I am 101% entitled to call it out.

Fokoff, and keep foking right off, please.

Nazgul:
The man is very foolish. How can you be brutalizing your wife and not expect any kind of reaction from her? Like you beat her every now and then, and you're planning to relocate to a country where the rights of women are seriously protected by the law, and your relocation doesn't give you goosebumps?

Even Joseph in the Bible whom his brother's sold into slavery, when they discovered that he was now a powerful ruler and invited them to Egypt, they still met him secretly and pleaded with him that their father's dying wish was for him to forgive them. They knew what they did to him, and quickly apologized so that if he nursed any plans to deal with them, he'll abort immediately.

This is what this man should have done man if he was wise, he should have called his wife privately and beg her for forgiveness before she travelled, if possible kneel down sef. Let her use her mouth and tell him that she has forgiven him. Cos when you treat people badly, and the tables change, don't expect them to overlook what you did to them.

Besides, I don't even know how some men feel beating up a woman who can't fight back. Like you'd just keep punching and punching her, until you're tired or she collapses? That's horrible.

Anyways he has until January to find something doing, if he has skills, he might get something. Once he's back on his feet, he and his wife can iron things out.

But you know that is what Nigerian men expect. I have seen posters here saying any woman who can't tolerate cheating shouldn't marry. When you disagree with them, you are automatically a feminist. I saw that thread and scrolled past it.

Naija women wey like marriage pass their lives would just up and leave? Believe that and you will believe anything.

ahnie:
I said it on the other thread...women don't just dump their husbands like that,she must have endured his toxicity for years.

We masked our feelings n hatred alot and always wait for the right time to strike, underestimate a woman at your own peril.


Immediately I read the topic,I already knew our bobo was a toxic
Person who must have dealt massively with his wife...some naija men and toxicity.

When you start hitting on your wife she channels all atom of love she has for you to the kids and that ends it all,she may be giving you her body,and patiently waiting for you to slip then she strikes.

If it were me....I would do same to him no hard feelings.

Women do worse. They even claim to have been beaten by their husband with evidence when such never happened. I'm speaking from experience. Only God would reward everyone and not a media trial which women do to get sympathy.

sonyad:
Which Kain k leg story be dis. She dey UK, he dey naija and she dey show us bruise as evidence.
Was the beating via phone??

Sooner or later, the truth/ true story will emerge. No be all this Twitter narrations

LMAOOO. This is the k-leg? 😭😭😭😭😭😭


So if you took a childhood picture while you were in Nigeria and you travel go America later, is that your childhood picture a lie?



Like it didn't occur to you that the picture was taken a long time ago, back when they were still living together in Nigeria and he beat her? Does a picture proves that something just recently happened? Abi you nor know watin evidence mean? If thief break enter your house today and scatter everything, and you snap am go show police TOMORROW, shey dem go dey ask you where the thief dey? 😂

It's a picture evidence! Taken in the past.

Jeon:
Men are very stupid. They think the bad seeds which they planted can never be harvested.

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But why are they so quick to cry and playing the victim if the Woman is no longer interested ?. And all the other fools will be blaming /insulting the woman without knowing the past events in the Marriage.

If you don't fear the bleeding gender,

You are on your own,

Nazgul:
The man is very foolish. How can you be brutalizing your wife and not expect any kind of reaction from her? Like you beat her every now and then, and you're planning to relocate to a country where the rights of women are seriously protected by the law, and your relocation doesn't give you goosebumps?

Even Joseph in the Bible whom his brother's sold into slavery, when they discovered that he was now a powerful ruler and invited them to Egypt, they still met him secretly and pleaded with him that their father's dying wish was for him to forgive them. They knew what they did to him, and quickly apologized so that if he nursed any plans to deal with them, he'll abort immediately.

This is what this man should have done man if he was wise, he should have called his wife privately and beg her for forgiveness before she travelled, if possible kneel down sef. Let her use her mouth and tell him that she has forgiven him. Cos when you treat people badly, and the tables change, don't expect them to overlook what you did to them.

Besides, I don't even know how some men feel beating up a woman who can't fight back. Like you'd just keep punching and punching her, until you're tired or she collapses? That's horrible.

Anyways he has until January to find something doing, if he has skills, he might get something. Once he's back on his feet, he and his wife can iron things out.

Don't ever judge issues or take sides based on what you read online or what you heard. Leave the judgment to God. You maybe surprised that the man is innocent of the accusations.

Jeon:
Men are very stupid. They think the bad seeds which they planted can never be harvested.

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But why are they so quick to cry and playing the victim if the Woman is no longer interested ?. And all the other fools will be blaming /insulting the woman without knowing the past events in the Marriage.

They man is foolish. He should not had sent his wife to the UK the first place. That's y I love igbo men

ahnie:
I said it on the other thread...women don't just dump their husbands like that,she must have endured his toxicity for years.

We masked our feelings n hatred alot and always wait for the right time to strike, underestimate a woman at your own peril.


Immediately I read the topic,I already knew our bobo was a toxic
Person who must have dealt massively with his wife...some naija men and toxicity.

When you start hitting on your wife she channels all atom of love she has for you to the kids and that ends it all,she may be giving you her body,and patiently waiting for you to slip then she strikes.

If it were me....I would do same to him no hard feelings.

So u think a man who was violent to his wife over here in Nigeria will be that stupid to send her to UK hoping to join her over there later, abi? A place where he knows very well that women are very much power over men? U ladies should at least be thinking right for once na

Geenosko:
Will reserve my comment until we hear from the other party.

The other party has spoken.

Infact, he spoke first. It is on this thread. The man's family friend came to share the story first. They literally had the advantage and the upper hand of being the first narrators.

But as the saying goes, no be who fess call police dey win case.


The man came to share his story first, and he has refused to speak again so don't hold your breath waiting for him to say anything.