Wawelexy:
Nowadays one can't even differentiate between reality and a comedy skit. But anyone it is, this is hilarious...

Marriage no be beans, I respect those who are married and taking good care of their family, even as a single guy, the heat is being felt from afar...


I don't clear my babe, there's nothing like wedding until my aza reads the late 7 figures. No pressure at all

Expenses in marriage is all about u and your wife to determine, People earning less than u are happily married .no amout is to small or to big for marriage

Ehen

In the olden days, during the times of our fore fathers, precolonial eras,

I mean the times of our great, great, great grand fathers, when there was nothing like cerelac, all these modern baby foods, feeding Bottle, e.t.c,

How exactly were infants fed? What were babies fed?

Please someone should research and furnish us with answers

Very true, OP.

Some Peeps still believe in that 'Marriage brings Blessings' talks
and end up REGRETTING, after getting hitched.

Jewessgratitud3:


Where him for go? The place wey dem go package industrial powder milk inside komkom give am say na baby food?
Everywhere na the same

Babe that drank it are still alive

Jewessgratitud3:


Where him for go? The place wey dem go package industrial powder milk inside komkom give am say na baby food?
Everywhere na the same

I still dey wonder wetin happen to his wife brezz.. Olden days parents nor know anything about cow milk but na so dem take breed this generation wey dey so. I am not say dont buy milk, but if things too cost for market why should you buy canned milk? I thinking that video is a skit.

I already made up my mind to go UBA on Monday go break my savings and withdraw for the sake of my baby as my wife has been singing baby food to my ears since yesterday.
I think say pressure no go dey till Month end as my woman don buy new pack of Daiper last week, But to God be the Glory Atletico Madrid over 0.5goal don bless me with 178k tonight🙌👌 everywhere wan stew

Jewessgratitud3:
A man has planned to run away from his wife and baby after he was seen pricing baby food and diaper and started sweating inside AC after he discovered the prices.

He called his family members right away blaming them for forcing him to marry, that now he's the one facing the heat and none of them is here to help him out.

Now check out the phone the man is using, not up to 4k. Check out his shirt and trousers.. is that the person you think can afford that kind of food? I'm not trying to degrade him. I'm just trying to say, make sure you can comfortably cater for yourself and one more person before going into marriage. This is exactly what the so many men who abandoned their family passed through before deciding to take to their heels.

Marriage is a beautiful thing. let's stop making it look scary and undesirable with our myopic approach. Do it when the time is right not for public commendation or validation cos when you start facing the heat, non of those people cheering you on will come and help you like the man rightly said.

This is one way of looking at it
Another way is a biological perspective

Your genes make an effort to survive. BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY

If your ancestors did not sacrifice you won't be here today
Some of them had nine children of which only one survived so that you are here today.
They did not live in comfort. no hospitals,no medicines,slavery,and a lot worse. Nothing like the comfort you have today. They kept going and that is why we are here .
Try and spend one hour to imagine how your ancestors lived 400 years ago

That is another perspective
Your existence is not about you or your comfort. A lot of pain has been experienced so that you exist today.
You exist to produce children that will produce children and so on. BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY

When you observe what is happening in Ukraine you understand the cheapness of human life and individual existence.
The more babies you make the stronger your community.
Bitter truth
7 million Germans died in WW 2.
If people didn't make babies Germany won't be where they are today.
The idea that you are making babies for yourself or that your genes will survive is an illusion of Nature

Na him Wan do big man, Nan2 is N5000 some places N5500, do exclusive buy Nan2, Nutribon N1300, Tombrown and so on and thank me later

Lol,the guy looks funny,what an oversize shirt !

Wawelexy:



Do you know if he was the one who exhausted the wife's savings? Forget the internet picture about women, some are very supportive when you show them love, they don't mind giving you their last dime provided you do not pose as a threat to them either by cheating or maltreating them.

You are right. I know a lady that took care of her husband for al most 2years after their wedding . Her savings drained.

Wawelexy:
Nowadays one can't even differentiate between reality and a comedy skit. But anyone it is, this is hilarious...

Marriage no be beans, I respect those who are married and taking good care of their family, even as a single guy, the heat is being felt from afar...


I don't clear my babe, there's nothing like wedding until my aza reads the late 7 figures. No pressure at all

nah bad mindset be that.is it until when you are having 7figures in your bank,you will consider marriage? Fate can never be predict.don't let me go far

Na lie the fatherly love wouldn't let you run away...
Except mama wey born u self no be good woman..

slimjohn2k5:
Na him go supermarket na

things are supposed to be more cheaper at SM na

lexy2014:


can you kindly define being able to "comfortably cater for yourself and one more person before going into marriage" in monetary nd material terms

Let me HELP her.

A Guy should be Able to foot all his Bills comfortably as a Bachelor before going into Marriage.
Rents, PHCN, Security, Personal luxuries, etc

Not earning 35K per month, Hustling here and there or Still depending on Parents or Relatives
and then thinking of Marriage.

The OP is RIGHT! When I see Young Financially Struggling Guys , already having a Wife and even Kid,
I usually SMH.

slimjohn2k5:


So if everywhere na the same y go to supermarket that will be morebexpensive

you are getting it wrong . Things are actually more cheaper at the supermarkets

Mtchhhheeeeeeww


Evening newspaper forming special adviser!

People married from scratch and achieved financial breakthrough afterwards! Most of the married men around me had nothing before marriage but boomed afterwards because they had goals backed with actions.

Your mind will either make or mar you in life!

Wawelexy:
Nowadays one can't even differentiate between reality and a comedy skit.

Ayam telling ju. Hard to differentiate.
That's the reason why I hardly watch all those short videos.

Jewessgratitud3:


Na akamu come cheap? You know how much a painter of corn is now Plus all the orisirisi you'll add? Nothing comes cheap these days

Diapers nkor?



You think akamu for babies is those plane non nutritious ones they sell around? Their pap is specially prepared. Tom brown quality, very expensive.

There is washable pampers he can get ot

He is in for it especially if the baby is a ferocious eater like my handsome Nephew- who is now 24 years old. The boy, then , was emptying a can of NAN baby milk in a day.

creolehunt:


So, a woman contributing to her home is conditional?

Hehehe.😏

A big YES to this your question.😏🙂🙂

Women are NOT to contribute, in Nigeria and Africa. By carrying Belle for 9months and giving birth, they have done more than enough.🤨😕

Stop looking for Marriage where ur lady will have to contribute Financially, CHANGE YOUR MINDSET.

The mammary gland is enough for a baby, anyother baby food na luxury. Poor man wan do pass himself. Let the baby suck her mama's breasts for nothing less than 6months pls. After which you can start feeding her beans, pap and other soft foods.¹

Poor man no suppose dey stress himself. Even Tinubu no chop any baby food aside breast and pap wey e take grow. No let anybody put you under pressure still.

Wawelexy:

Marriage no be beans, I respect those who are married and taking good care of their family, even as a single guy, the heat is being felt from afar...


I don't clear my babe, there's nothing like wedding until my aza reads the late 7 figures. No pressure at all

They are now wiser. Wait till she cooks an irresistible meal for you. That is when after eating and trying to sleep small you just find yourself dreaming of knacking and ravishing her missionary style. It is when you wake up and you find yourself on top of her you know it's not a dream. Na after 9 months you realise you don become Baba Ibeji. That pressure you try to avoid will now begin to happen.

slimjohn2k5:
Na him go supermarket na

..abi..do not mind him...ogi (pap) dey to give pikinnto chop 🙄

You no fit give the pikin ogi (pap) to chop 🙄

ufotunang:
Our no fit give the pikin ogi (pap) to chop 🙄

So na only pap(carbohydrate like eba) na him go sustain a baby?.

If you yourself drink pap alone for 1 month, you think say you go dey fine afterward?

Vinnie2000:


Let me HELP her.

A Guy should be Able to foot all his Bills comfortably as a Bachelor before going into Marriage.
Rents, PHCN, Security, Personal luxuries, etc

Not earning 35K per month, Hustling here and there or Still depending on Parents or Relatives
and then thinking of Marriage.

The OP is RIGHT! When I see Young Financially Struggling Guys , already having a Wife and even Kid,
I usually SMH.

you shouldn't have helped her. not sure she asked u to. since she has the brains to write the topic, does she not have the brains to answer the questios?

what are those "personal luxuries" u are referring to?

when u say "security" what do you mean?

you really didnt answer my question because I dont see any mention of what it will take financially to be able to achieve all of the above that u mentioned. can you pls shed light on that?

Jewessgratitud3:


Where him for go? The place wey dem go package industrial powder milk inside komkom give am say na baby food?
Everywhere na the same

..ogi/ pap dey to give pikin to chop 🙄

Paramount01:



Expenses in marriage is all about u and your wife to determine, People earning less than u are happily married .no amout is to small or to big for marriage

. Dey Play ..

psucc:
Na by force to use baby food? Why not use the Akamu (yellow or regular), grind crayfish to blend. Then the mother will breastfeed the child well to supplement for the rest needed vitamins.

..abi..do not mind him ...akamu where cheap dey everywhere 🙄

Jewessgratitud3:


Where him for go? The place wey dem go package industrial powder milk inside komkom give am say na baby food?
Everywhere na the same

Too bad!