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Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by ValarDoharis: 2:51pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Stick wey person see nor dey blind am. He should get her pregnant before marriage or bounce Lorazepam: |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by sonofthunder: 2:52pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind: What did the doctor counsel you guys? I thought they had treatments she could start up immediately. No go marry woman without PCOS wey done damage her womb oh. Some women even arrange with doctors to share fake results. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Tynaclem1: 2:52pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Don't go and marry her now and start having regrets...you are even almost 40... frustration at this age hits differently. Your relationship is still young, find a way to talk to her and move on. I feel for the girl especially being a virgin at 27 and having this kind of medical issue it's painful but such is life. It's better to let her go now because if you both think you are frustrated now wait till u get married and children don't come. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by maasoap(m): 2:52pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind: Walk away. Let another man who won't care about going for tests before marriage carry the burden. And your brother, how long has it been and how long much more is he going to wait? |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by BigIyanga: 2:53pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
CoronaVirusPro:Story… marriage is not a selfless endeavor propelled by love. Kids are super-important to OP and it cannot be satisfied with love Love aint enough 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kobojunkie: 2:53pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Babangidapikin:Lol.... Naija know anything about love?. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by IamHonourable1: 2:55pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Please what's the name of the particular test if I intend going for fertility test? |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by dkidd: 2:56pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind:It means someone has already mortgaged ur family continued existence to the dark lord. So no hope. Ur lineage dies with u since ur only other sibling is faced with similar problem. But u be goat ooh u dey see redemption way u dey claim say e go hard u to help urself. I pity u.. in fact no pity. Live ya life Disvirgin her and get her pregnant or run far away. People born u e reach ur turn u dey mumu urself. If those before u were as weak as u are u would not be here to start with |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by FireUpNow(m): 2:57pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
The irregular periods is a big issue and age too. Older women of 35 -40 are at risk of giving birth through Virgina instead it's CS. Do you know how much CS cost now? Well live your your life the way that suits you. Your other siblings example is enough for you also women tell lies a lot about their actual age. Are you sure she is the age she claim to be? 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by correctguy101(m): 2:57pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
TheBillyonaire: |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by dkidd: 2:59pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind:Chai... Who dey bring up all these weak mofos ffs 🤦♂️🙆🏽♂️ |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by linearity: 2:59pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind: You are having a double mindset and it is not advisable you go into marriage with it. Trust me, since that test result and meeting with the gynecologist, she is also having the same thoughts like you, it is very important that both of you seat down and discuss this common issue. Explain where you are coming from to her and also listen to where she is coming from, if you love her and she love you, both of you would have to compromise some. PCOS is not a death nail, she can still get kids but the longer both of you delay, the more difficult it becomes. Ask her to drop her insistence on no-sex before marriage, let both of you try for a kid, I will even advise that, though it is very expensive, you guys should go for IVF where selected ovaries would be harvested and fertilizer and then implanted into her. I think that would be a reasonable compromise from her if she truly loves you moreso you guys have gone far with the marriage plans. In fact you can even do IVF without having sexual intercourse with her, your sperm would be extracted just like her ovaries and fertilization will be done outside. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by macphilip: 3:01pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
how are you very CERTAIN she is a virgin? |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by AbuTwins: 3:02pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Since you are fertile just go and do traditional marriage only! No court wedding! Then she starts medications and therapy! And if it doesn't work you marry a second wife after like some years! 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Saintinoo(m): 3:11pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind: |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by abbasajao(m): 3:12pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Do not married out of pity 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by IamHonourable1: 3:15pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Oga run for your life, because she would definitely do the same if the tables were turned 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Zooposki(f): 3:15pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Adanambra1:
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Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by IamHonourable1: 3:17pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
[quote author=Lovemeharder post=127201274]There's nothing God cannot do, you both should believe that God will do his miracle. You should stop deceiving people, how many have been cured in your worship center? |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by jaxxy(m): 3:19pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind: has ur older brother gone for proper medical checks and advice? Knowledge is profitable to direct. u also get sound medical advice there are many cheap remedies to fertility issues. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by RALPHOW(m): 3:19pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
God gives children and nothing else. Two of you may be absolutely fine and still not have children. Pray and God will direct you. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Jeyun: 3:20pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind:ooh I can see your own reasons for marriage is manufacturing babies not for love companionship. Africa must really be your mother earth!!! Africa ladies are really trying for their men. They have been reduce to nothing but baby making machine. Marriage is not for the faint hearted but for the strong, u must not test her before u marry her go and ask those selling sealed food and those who received gift and present that were sealed, whatever they see inside when it is open they take. My friend go and marry your wife. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by GboyegaD(m): 3:20pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
PCOS can be resolved. It is a case of hormonal imbalance. You could support her to see a good gynecologist. You could also advice her to read the "trying to conceive" thread on nairaland. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Banhammy717: 3:22pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
There's nothing wrong with her. So far she's a virgin, forget about that irregular periods. Everything will normalize. Don't worry yourself. Count yourself lucky to have a virgin as wife, in this corrupt stinking society. Congratulations Bro. Happy Married life in advance |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Ligxy(f): 3:23pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Very heartless advice. People can dish out what they can't take sha. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by cocolacec(m): 3:24pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind:Start fertility treatment as soon you get married.PCOS doesnt mean she cqn get pregnant make your research online. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Ligxy(f): 3:25pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
humilitypays: You're really heartless. Op should leave the innocent girl alone. Whether virginity is a big deal or not, it's for individuals to decide. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Chris2863(m): 3:25pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
FromZeroToHero:copied from google |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by jubrilELsudan: 3:25pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
SHE IS A VIRGIN I NO FIT LAFF BACK IN DA DAY NA ALUM NA HIM 9JA GIRLS AND WOMEN DEY USE TIGHTEN DIA KUKUNASE 1 Like
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Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Nweike1: 3:26pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind:I’m a gynaecologist, so I can give some advice. If you are sure she’s the one for u, go ahead. PCOS isn’t too hard to manage, let her watch her weight. Little weight loss if she is overweight or obese, can ensure regular ovulation and therefore regular menstrual cycles. Also healthier pregnancies and reverses the hormonal issues. Use of metformin and Pregnacare conception for months before trying to conceive can help with egg quality. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Jamie1000: 3:26pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
A 27 year old lady is still within the fertile range. Even 30s, 31 still give birth to healthy children. But, the aspect of being a virgin untill u marry her, omo. Them dey run guys street now. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kobojunkie: 3:26pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
FireUpNow:So all the young women, even 18-year-olds wey dey give birth via CS you no see. Na only older women you dey see use CS give birth? Ignorance na choice for this life, no suppose be birthright. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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